What are the reasons you can't get laid? Can they be changed?

>>26391739

what is wrong with that guy's abs?
stop posting this.

can't change my race or my face, so no

>>26391739

1. not in shape/skinnyfat
2. not groomed/dressed well
3. poor
4. low self esteem

>can they be fixed

yes, but the process is very long.

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Lack of trying mainly. I want to improve myself sufficiently so I can get a girl I consider pretty.

This year is my year of self improvement. Next year (age 23), I will start trying to date and pick up.Hopefully I will learn what it's like to smell the hair of a beautiful princess.

>>26391781
What's your race? How would you rate your face?

>>26391739
I cannot talk to a woman without my face becoming really red and because it's hard for me to maintain eye contact with anybody. I hope I can change.

i need sauce on pic, op

>>26391781
You can date women of your race, can't you?

Fuck's sake cunt. Don't complain because you can't get our women. They are for US.

>>26391739
>PreparingForTheBust.jpg

>>26391739
No social skills
Emotionally stunted
Average looks/height
Coward
Lazy
Overly sensitive

>>26391781
Does race really matter? I mean I'm white and still a kissless friendless virgin while I see plenty of non-whites in relationships. Honest question, not putting you down.

I never leave the house. People seem to be attracted to me though.
Too quiet

I don't know how to approach people. It's great because I am in college :D

>>26391739
I have a gf. I can change thay easily, but I love her.

>>26391846
ask yourself seriously would you want to be non white? lol there you go

>>26391883
I'd kill myself if I was.

Smoke
Old
Over concerned about BO
Kinda fat.
Apperently boney shoulders
Peircings
Bald
Shit poster extrodinare
No "romantic" confidence with women.
Unappealing hobbies
Unconventional

>doughy
>creepy facial hair I'm too lazy to shave
>fucked social skills

No idea how my face is.

>>26391781
Retard robot with lack of motivation as always, Michael Jackson changed both of them.

the ugliest fucker 4chan will never see. it CAN be changed, but I don't have hundreds of thousands of dollars to basically fix everything above the shoulders.

>>26391739

I could get laid but I'm schizoid and cant be arsed

I can get laid and do so often

Just moved to a new city. Tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel.

>>26391739
My 4/10 in good days face.

>Can that be changed ?
Yes, I only need to get rich and find a slut who likes me for my money, easy as pie.
Yes, I only need to make a shit ton of money and get multiple facial surgeries and hope the medics don't fuck my face up.

As you can see I have two easy options yet I'm still a virgin somehow, probably because I'm just not being myself enough.

Seriously, anyone that has a 6+/10 face and no body deformities (being a turbomanlet counts) is responsible for his own failure and should try taking action instead of being a lazy faggot and then complaining about it.

>>26392065
Is 5'6 a turbomanlet?

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>>26391739
too disenfranchised.

i can't stand the idea that life is just chasing pussy and money, but then i cant think of anything better to put my time towards either, so i do nothing. and i cant stop thinking about it. there has to be more, right?

I'm really boring. That's really it. If I could become even slightly interesting, I think I would have a shot at getting laid. But I can't. Nothing really interests me.

>>26391790

Make it so anon.

>>26392049
If you're a Chad.

>>26392085
Back when I was 13 I was 5'7 and I wasn't particularly tall either.
Being 5'6 is literally having the height of a 12 year old boy or a 14-15 year old girl.
If you go to a middle school you see kids looking down at you.
That should answer your question.

Lack of experience.
I've been trying a lot but I'm really far behind. I can get a girl's number but I fuck up at texting. It took me a lot of effort to get to this point. I guess once I get good at texting I'll fuck up a bunch of dates and after that I'll get good at dates and probably get laid. I can see it happening in a couple of years.

Terrified of physical and emotional intamcy. Therapy has been ineffective. I don't even like to be hugged by members of my own family.

>>26392107
I know how you feel, exploring nature helps me kind of find purpose to keep living and it's what I find the most joy in life doing.

>>26391739
I'm terrified of women
I have ADHD, AVPD and Tourette
And I am ugly

I'm a sperg that can't talk to people

I've learned that it cannot be fixed

I am good looking, well dressed, but my school years were shit and I now study computer science so the male to female ratio works heavily against me, and the only girls here are either whales or already taken.

>>26392193
it'd be cool if i could find something like that too

>>26392146
Just gotta let go anon

You are probably as sad and pathetic as I used to be when talking to a woman and I used to be much more "chad" then than now

Now I am an out of shape alcoholic with a receding hairline working a blue collar job. Still pull in girls all the time, I won't turn away a 5 because I am a slut but I have nailed some legitimately hot women since I moved here.

Back when I was young and good looking and had money and was in great shape and in school I never got laid because I was a head case like most on this board.

>>26391903
There are literally only 5 people on earth who honestly would not rather be white than some black/shitskin 3rd world dweller

>>26391928
it's over for you my man

>>26392313
I'm black but if I could choose I'd prefer to be black than to be white, I'd much rather have additional height or money than white skin and features.

>>26392343
I'm glad you take pride in your race. We need more non-whites to do that, so they leave us alone.

>>26391739
i'm pretty boring after the first hour or two. i somehow managed to get a gf but she wants to be pure until marriage
i kind of want to cheat on her desu senpai

>>26392343
I would certainly prefer it too if I could have a BBC
and I'm not even small (7)

>>26392085
that's a fuckin hypermanlet

>>26392343
Dude white people are taller on average than black people

>>26392365
I like white girls but I don't prefer them, taking pride in your race doesn't mean exclusively dating them or not being around white people.
>>26392374
Yeah I have ten inches of black dick but I've only been using it on the same girl for the last two years

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>>26392419
>taking pride in your race doesn't mean exclusively dating them

Actually it does. As a proud white man, I would never touch a non-white girl.

I believe race mixers should be hanged.

>>26392408
By like an inch? I don't want to be some 5'10 average white dude, I want to be 6'9 like Lebron and just dunk on fools all day

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMEU8Lj-TZE

>>26392446
most racemixers are white men tho

>>26392446
Ah, well I believe you should date whoever your compatible with regardless of color. If a girl is cute and likes me the last thing going through my head is if we match

>>26392449
Whatever height you would theoretically be I would be a theoretical inch taller on average

so yeh bruh

>>26392474
That's because you're a stupid, retarded nigger. Perhaps you would see sense as you were being walked to the gallows.

>>26391739
I am not a chicken

>>26391739
Im 5 6 short, skinny with strong glasses so yeah. I wont be able to get laid but I dont want to, I wanted relationship, I had one for 2 years,had passionate sex, then lost her as its usual.

Already had what I wanted to experience so even if it would be great to experience it again the physical obstacles I have are not possible to overcome to get laid.

>>26392474
>possibility of not being white
>being cute

pick one familia

>>26392264
How? I struggle to make anything more than basic conversation so the chances of me ever having sex without paying for it is pretty fucking low.

>>26392419
>Yeah I have ten inches of black dick but I've only been using it on the same girl for the last two years
I don't believe it

>>26392518
>had passionate sex
I see where it went wrong

>>26392485
But how many white guys at that height have the athleticism to contend in the NBA? Almost all of the small portion of white players in the sport are role players who don't have memorable or highlight dunks, I don't want height just for the hell of it.
>>26392490
But there's no penalty for race mixing? Worse case scenario some angry white guy just calls me a nigger on the internet, but he'll do that even if I don't fuck white girls.

>>26392524
Some of the best looking girls are black and hispanic

>>26392562
just go back to Africa and you won't have to put up wit da whyte mang. You can live amongst your own, plus Africa is WAAAYY more developed and civilized than those filthy Europeans and Americans.

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>>26392562
You will always be an ugly nigger and no mentally stable white girl will ever go near you.

Nigger.

I am genetically inferior. Women can pick up on that somehow and are repulsed.

>>26392558
You never had sex with someone you loved? Must be shitty existence anon.

Social anxiety and lack of job therefore poor and the main reasons for me I think.

>Can they be changed?
Yes. I'm already trying ;_;

>>26392582
Hispanic girls are cute but niggresses? Really faggot? If you like hippo porn then sure.

>>26391739
I look and act like a creep around people. not sure if there is cure for that.

>>26392592
I've never so much as visited Africa, how do I go back to a place I've never been? I'm not complaining about whites, a lot of my good friends and exes are white.
>>26392594
I've dated a lot of very pretty regular white girls, but they're not my preference. Even if no white woman would date me I love black girls most of all and I also really like hispanic girls.

>>26392635
I never even kissed someone I loved
I never even kissed

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>>26392642
Well if you're racist of course you're going to be biased against black women, and no fat woman of any race is attractive, but black women are goddesses.

>>26392642
top tier black women are attractive don't matter what you say

>>26392684
of course if you look on the internet you can find some attractive niggresses, but on average black women are loud, ugly and extremely rude. Even most black men don't want anything to do with black women,

>>26392528
Girls and guys aren't as different as you think

There are girls just like you.

Most of the really hot attractive girls are in the same mindset as me. Troubled minds.

Still I wouldn't fuck a good looking girl with your mindset. Well I probably would but you get my point.

Just stop caring and stop making it a game, just talk to them, they are as horny as you are but they can be scared away don't talk about your autistic bullshit, so you should probably have some non autistic hobbies. I wouldn't talk about my love of math or video games or magic the gathering or cribbage or whatever the hell would be weird

It is the equivalent of a woman spouting off the topics of all the anti women threads on this board. Just try to be comfortable and normal even if you aren't. I never was and still never am, but I can put up a good act these days.

People aren't hard man. For guys like you and guys like who I used to be the biggest obstacle is yourself that is the difficult person 90% of the time

>>26392684
what really pisses me off is that the really attractive black women (8.5+/10) are always with a white dude
And all the black men with white women are mostly settling with a 4-/10 fat chick

>>26392562
lol bro when did I ever talk about the NBA? Are you that good at basketball at all bro?

I already thought this was a troll but it is pretty much confirmed now. Some fat white guy that probably posts black dick white chick threads on /b/ most likely

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>>26392736
I live on campus at my university and practically all the black girls I see in a given day are very pretty as well as thin, light skin, multiracial, dark skin it doesn't matter they're just for the most part gorgeous.

>loud
Not here for whatever reason
>ugly
Nah
>extremely rude
Most of them are really nice, imagine being that nice and people of all races (even your own) are just vile towards you just for existing. My girlfriend tells me she overheard this light sin swag fag say he wouldnt date any girl darker to himself to two dark skinned black girls. Black women are very strong to put up with all that but still support black men

>>26392784
You responded to my post stating that whites are taller and that even if I was 6'9 I'd be shorter than a theoretical white guy with an equivalent height boost, I stated it would not matter because I don't want to be tall for the sake of being tall I want to be tall to play basketball.

I'm already tall enough as far as I'm concerned but not tall enough to play my favorite position in the NBA
>black dick white chick
Why are you projecting your fetish onto other people?
>>26392756
All the black girls I know date black men, many of the black men I know though date outside of their race, it's just coonery.

>>26392805
when I was in high school most of the negresses were whorish and disgusting, loud, rude and constantly interrupted class. Of course there were a few who were alright but the vast majority of them (the one's that I have been around anyway) aren't anything like you're describing.

>>26392849
Are you retarded?

You talked about being black for supposedly being taller, then realized and admitted white men are taller on average and started rambling about basketball.

Yeah no shit black guys are better on average at basketball, look at any basketball game ever for proof.

Why weren't you saying that in the first place and instead not doing your own research and making it about height?

>>26392754
But it's not the same for women due to the expectations society places on men to be extroverted, cocky and lead the conversation. Women will pretty much always find someone even if they're troubled but men? No, it doesn't work like that, women find men like me pathetic. Even women with mental and physical problems find partners, but I've never seen or heard of the reverse. My standards are hardly high either, I don't care about getting a 9/10 tall blonde or whatever, so it's hardly like I'm aiming too high in the first place.

I have plenty of normie hobbies, just terrible at connecting with people. I've tried putting on a mask to the world but it makes my stomach churn. I feel trapped.

I am seeing a counsellor soon to talk about some of this stuff but I doubt it'll solve anything.

>>26392896
I went to an entirely black southern high school, the same one as reigning NFL MVP Cam Newton, and your generalization is pretty inaccurate.

Black women are the single most educated group in the United States, most of the ratchetness came from black men who weren't concerned with their academics but even then that wasn't all or even most.

>>26392754
>just don't be an autist XD
This is why you don't ask for advice, any stupid motherfucker that asks gets this kind of answer

>>26392928
>You talked about being black for supposedly being taller,
Are you illiterate?
>>26392343
>I'm black but if I could choose I'd prefer to be black than to be white, I'd much rather have additional height or money than white skin and features.
Do you also believe I was asserting that black people have more money than white people on average as well? Your insecurity knows no bounds, I stated given the choice I would much rather have more money and height than be white.

>>26392933
You are mistaken that it is in your lifestyle and interests and personality that turn aaaalll women off and that society it is to blame and the impetus resting with the man to strike up a conversation and blah blah

The problem is the way you convey yourself. Or at least it was for me. Even the fact that you believe this weird shit is part of the problem. It is a completely unattractive mindset.

>>26392933
>I have plenty of normie hobbies
Like what?

>>26392969
I used to be very socially awkward, saw a therapist even. Had almost no friends, neet suicidal.

You don't need to read the advice if you don't want to but don't criticize it like it isn't true

>>26392107
"In the helix of time, human life is too long to devote to reproduction yet too short to devote to learning. Perhaps that is why humans succumb to desire and thus seek release. Despite the fact that life is complete with the sun, the land, and poetry."

>>26393041
Maybe. But every day I see the same shit and it's hard to see how anything will change.

>>26393056
Running, golf, reading, cooking, learning languages, foreign films, to name just a few. Basically anything I can do by myself.

>>26393303
You gotta have some hobbies you can do with others to meet girls my man. It's a meme but take up a dance class and some martial arts, start hanging out with the Chads in the latter class

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>>26391739
i cant even make eye contact longer than 3 secs with a girl, let alone speaking. also im obese

>>26391739
Lack of the patience to deal with plebs. That and I just want a nonsexual gf. So I'd have to find an asexual.