What level must your relationship be for you to send her flowers on Valentine's day without coming off like a beta or desperate?
Okay, check. We essentially go on dates (dinner, dinner/movie, assorted night activities) but we don't call them dates. And she's referred to me as "friend". I know there's no one else in her life for this valentine's day and honestly, I just want her to get the flowers. Will I come off as weird?
Let me break it dow Barney style
If you're not a couple you have no business sending her shit on Valentine's Day. If you take her on "dates" but aren't dating you are not in a relationship, you are being used.
IF YOU ARE NOT AN ITEM YOU HAVE NO REASON TO SEND SHIT ON V DAY
Yes god damn Valentine's Day is for COUPLES which you are not. You might not expect anything, but that's not what flowers on Valentine's Day says.
You will come off as creepy and desperate, and will maybe get a pat on the head like a good boy for your efforts.
Don't listen to these robots. Valentines day can be easily used to START a relationship. Don't give her flowers without inviting her somewhere on that day tho. Jewelry is even better if you have the money for a small bracelet.