>work really hard to become chad
>get beautiful girlfriend
>she's not smart enough to mean anything to me
>not really my dream partner
>use her as a sextoy but unhappy with the relationship
is love a meme? is it true that there are no interesting girls like the guys in american psycho said?
I'm starting to hit it off with a qt who's not my dream girl by any means. But it's what I got lucky with and she's pretty nice. I'll take it. Going into life with a oneitis mindset will dissapoint you horribly.
Forget about love it's a fucking meme
Even if there was something called like that IMHO it became boring and it lasts for max 3 years
enjoy it while it exists and if you want fuck random girls
instead tell us exactly what you did to become a chad, describing how you was before and why did you changed, how old are you ecc
>is it true that there are no interesting girls
It's as true as saying there are no interesting guys. What the guy said about compensation probably works with both genders. Our assets and weaknesses direct our interests and inclinations.
Sounds like you succeeding in becoming chad. And no you realise that is a life devoid of actual love.
If you can live in ignorance and just fuck girls and live in the moment, then you can make the chad life work.
just be yourself man
i liked the way she looked and we had great chemistry. i was single for a long time she is my first girlfriend at 21
>watched a lot of pua videos
>got better haircut
>fixed things like acne
a female version of myself now. i want a yin to my yang
>Stop looking for that, it doesn't exist
All i ever wanted was a female version of myself to be 100% sure with and love forever
I don't care about things like money. i want to experience this life with somebody who i can always count on. i want a person to be my family
This sounds like a meme reply but there aren't people like the others, everyone is a shit in his way.
People are not made to understand and love is not made to last forever
Fuck the more hb 9/10 as you can and then do an hero when you'll wake up and say "well, I made it, I realized my dreams, I'm happy and fulfilled"
count only on yourself
Your problem is two fold. One, your stands are too high. You will almost certainly never meet your dream partner. Even if she exists, she's probably in another country or an incompatible age. However, it sounds like you just dated a woman because you felt like you should since that's what Chads do. Of course you don't feel connected to her. You're not dating her because of a connection you feel, you're just dating her because you feel like you 'should'. I would suggest trying to lower your internal standards, but don't lower them so much you date anyone, because you feel like you have to.
I feel bad for you if you honestly try to find love in another human being, especially in a prospective mate.
True Honest Love is found through God
And a bit of suffering through your life
A love of 2D is also nice, but inferior and misplaced in tandem to religion
It is an ideal, an idea, a concept, of which is incomplete and is capable of much more
I understand a belief and love of God is not for everyone, but acknowledge that it brings peace and happiness to many others, which could be something you may be searching for
Not OP, but as someone who is a life long atheist I've always wondered, what does a religious experience feel like? I've tried prayer and meditation before, but I haven't gotten anything out of it.
not >>26374509 but
my first religious experience was pretty strange, but I can absolutely and undeniably can attribute it to Christ. it was a complete and utter joy and peace. i get remnants of this feeling from prayer and from reading the bible sometimes, but the total inexplicable change that was brought on my life that day completely convinces me of the christian God.