I was once obsessed with a girl back in middle school. I still think about her sometimes, look at her facebook, and fap to her. She is 1200% Stacy, a cheerleader in highschool, goes to the college with the reputation for being a huge party school, speaks in pop-culture memes and in-jokes with her friends.
I don't even consider her the most attractive girl I've ever met now, but I can't help but wonder what it'd be like to meet her again.
I wouldn't even try to impress her, I'd just be a total douche to her out of projecting my own bitterness at liking her in the first place, and likely never having a chance to ever be with a girl like her.
>>26366692 Fuck me, i was so obsessed that i somehow stab myself with pencil and ended up in hospital. I don't know why i did this, that was just massive cringe memory about me and my crush. I totally lost her and got mad for a second
>>26366692 Not someone but something. You see, I've given up on the outside world. No women had ever shown me empathy so why would I obsess over any of them? I'm infatuated by a pill. It makes me feel so good. I swear to god I think about it all the time, have a tattoo of it, it's almost a religious experience for me when I take it. so yea, I'm obsessed with that.
Him. Him. Him. It came out of nowhere when i started to dream about him. Ive done everything but nothing works. He looks nice but a complete robot. I stopped giving him attention but still think about him. I don't know why.
>>26366692 My qt masochistic gf. She's such an incredible person, and I love her so fucking much, it's impossible to get her off of my mind. Not that I want to. I dream about her, I'm always thinking of her. She saved my life, and she keeps me from going off the deep end. I support her, she supports me... you could argue that everything I do is for her. It's a wonderful feeling.
I know being so dependent on someone for my stability is extremely unhealthy but it's worked better than anything else ever has, and I know she'll never leave me, so I don't exactly see it being a problem.
My exbf, I don't know why, because he's so sex obsessed and even when we dated it was an open relationship. Guess I just fell too hard and I'm too much of a submissive sissy to actually want to change. Just fucking kill me.
Yes. I try to talk to her, but I don't think she cares. I'm trying to get over her because I know it's never going to happen. But I can't.
>tfw sit on skype hoping she'll message me someday >it's been 2 years now and she still never has A horrible feeling. She never messaged me first after all this time. I always have to message her first to start a conversation.
>>26368327 Seconding this. It'll never leave your side. Nothing but comfort and empathy and heavenly feels. You don't have to worry about it cheating on you or getting bored of you. It'll always be there to make you happy so long as you let it.
The problem with you robots is that you /still/ continue to seek out stacies and whores. You've been so brainwashed it's very hard to look for anything else, I know.
I used to be like this in uni. There was this girl that I simply unconsciously friendzoned and was basically invisible to me, even though she was a great friend. Then one day I woke up and realized how actually perfect she was, even if she's not stacey-tier pretty or stacy-like at all. She's the definition of a "nice girl"
She's now my gf and I've never been happier in my life.
Robots, you must learn to look beyond staceys and normalfag grills. They are absolute shit. And yes, there IS such a thing as nice girls.
>>26368377 Oh Yea I forgot to mention. I get blues for 10 a piece so it's literally just as cheap as dope for me and I mix it with fentanyl regularly so I'm getting fucked up just as good as any junk head.
I guess. I've had oneitis for the same girl for 5 years. She got married 1,5 years ago.
I was too pussy to do shit when we first met - I even remember telling myself that doing nothing and avoid failing would feel better, but little did I know she would haunt me for 5 fucking years.
All those years could have been spent with her, had I succeeded, or with someone else, if I had failed, felt like shit for a while, then found someone else. Instead I've been clinging to "what if". Holy fuck I'm pathetic.
I'm 31 and a KHV, which makes it even worse. Time is running out for anything - dating, marriage... She's spent 3 years with a man building a life together, I've told myself I don't need no woman to feel happy, but she has a family and I come home to an empty apartment every night.
Not anymore, thank god. There was this literal 10/10 who haunted my college years. I hated her for being perfect, beautiful, intelligent and genuinely nice. Then she showed up at the graduation ceremony being a skeleton, the worst anorexia I've ever seen. I always thought I would be happy to see her miserable, but I felt sad for her. Even since high school I've always been obsessed with someone, but since my last "gf" (hell, never went beyond kissing) who was barely a 4/10 tried to friendzone me I just can't give a shit about women, don't even look at the pretty ones at the street. It's not a bad feel actually.
>>26369194 Lol then why the fuck are you obsessed over him? That guy has well above average looks, being a weeaboo isn't going to change that. You have repeatedly said you hate his personality, so what is it?
>me, two years ago in internet >met him in a dating site >i was 15 for the moment and was there just for spontaneous fun, and he was 25 >since we start to talk, we didnt have any fucking day without talking >we'r now 18 and 28 >i cant think nothing but him >im living with this obsession all time >i feel bad about mayself and my onlyone goal in life is became his trophywife >sometimes i just cant stop crying or hurting all ppl around me because he live far away from me >i stalk him in internet >feel worse bc i know trophywifes mustn do these things >do you know what a yangire is?
>>26366692 I kind of get a little attached to people I like, not obsessed. After a a few fails I've just come to the conclusion it's more trouble than it's worth to invest so much time and energy into someone who's just going to get bored of me anyway.
>>26366692 >be me >meet qt guy a year ago >he moved to some other state >shieeeeeeeet >find his facebook >stalk him >send random messages from random account >literally think of him everynight >I want him to fuck me
I'm trying to ration my contact with her to ween the effects. But the other day she ignored me and I felt like I was going to die. I drove home and just cried like a baby for 45 minutes. I'm really ashamed. The next day she talked pleasantly to me and I was high as a kite with happiness. No use pretending anymore. I'm her fucking slave.
When I had just turned 18 I had a 15 year old gf for a few months She ended up flying to my city and stayed with me for a few weeks After a few days she got really abusive and manipulative, threatening to tell people about us if she didn't get to fuck me
Yes, my oneitis. I'm in my last year of high school (so 18) and she's 14 in middle school. (we share the same school buildings) I just admire her from afar. Sometimes I take creeppics. I have a folder dedicated to her. She's pretty, nice, has a cute voice and best of all she watches anime. She has no idea who I am though. Sometimes I think that she knows I stalk her. >I know where she lives and when she leaves for school, so I pass her slowly on my bike every morning >I take detours so I can pass her house every day >I take a lot of pictures of her >I accidentily called her on Skype once, and after that she changed her Skype name >I say goodnight to her before I go to sleep
I put keyloggers on some school computers, so I know her timetable. This one time I went into the girls changing room and masturbated with her shoes.
I can't stop thinking about her, what other 14-year old girl likes anime? She's so perfect and doesn't have shit taste.
My time at school is ending and I haven't talked to her once since I started stalking her last year. One of these days I might approach her.
I have been developing a mild obsession with a cartoon character. She makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. I have nearly 2000 pictures saved of her. I draw her obsessively and nothing else, in various situations, with various aesthetics and clothes.
Currently I'm trying to quit passing my time on her and as that's what I think she would want. This waifufaggotry isn't terminal yet - I can lead a productive and happy life!
But I have stopped saving more. I used to come home and spend at least 2 hours a day crawling 4chan and tumblr, saving pictures of her.
This is a step forward for me.
>>26372975 It's embarrassing - I'm a mediocre drawer. Also I haven't any scanned, because it's just on whatever note paper I'm using to work. To others it looks like just a doodle - only when you collect all the paper over months it's clear I have a problem.
yes, some aspie guy I met when I was pretty young. "dated" him for years and it was pretty crazy. Wanted to be with him all the time, wanted to just talk and tell him how much I love him. But then if he was away for a long time or he upset me I got pretty crazy. It (i) was pretty unhealthy and even though we broke up I still think about him all the time and hope that he'll come back. But I know he probably doesn't even think about me any more.
I used to be obsessed with a close friend of mine. I always found her perfect and we used to talk all the time until she moved to washington with her family. We kept in touch with snapchat but she was busy so I didn't hear from her as often.
She found out that I was saving her pics and videos from her stories using an third party app for snapchat about two weeks ago. Her friend found out and told her. I've been dreading talking to her because she probably thinks I'm a creep now, but she possibly doesn't mind. Should I try to talk to her? Admit that it's true or deny it? Or is there no way to save our friendship?
I forgot to include the very important detail that she has a boyfriend. If she didn't I would have told her a long time ago but I respect the fact that they're happy together. Even if nothing happened between me and her, it's great to have her as a friend.
I know we live so far apart from each other, but we'll see each other again eventually and that's why this is eating me inside every day. Thanks for the advice guys, I'll talk to her today and tell her it's true. I was expecting at least one person to call me a fucking creep.
Yes, I'm utterly obsessed with this edgy mentally ill guy.
when i see you i can't find the words to speak, my cheeks go as red as two big cherries, i try to look beautiful for you (...) it's obvious and i get so embarrassed, i'm so smitten with you and everyone knows it, when you're not around i clutch my chest and say i'll look you in the eyes and not be so god damn shy but i am, i can't find the words to speak.
This song describes perfectly how I feel about him ;_; I just want to take care of him and be his Misaki and love him forever
>>26366692 Somewhat. At least this time I know I'm obsessed and I'm trying to keep myself from having feelings for her, at least until I gf her. I've learned from past mistakes. Fuck you Wendi and fuck you Evelyn.
>tfw no one obsessed with me I'm a good candidate for it. I would obsess u back. And I'd accept them and all their flaws and everything. It'd be like, I'm taking care of them and they're taking care of me and we're all happy as can be. See? But nop, no one obsesses over poor ol' me. Gosh I'm SO bitter!!!! I hate women!!! Agghhh!! just kidding guys we all know that I hate men lmao what are we talking about in this thread? Obsession? Rite, well, it's not healthy u know and most of you people probably don't want someone doing that to you it gets all sorts of tricky and you guys aren't good with tricky stuff sometimes idk
>tfw people more obsessed with the person I'm obsessed with but I also happen to not be insane like the aforementioned obsessed individuals, know much more about her, and actually have a basis for which to be obsessed over
>>26366692 it was a typical celebrity obsession but it was really cringe and still affects me to this day.
every guy ive had a crush on looks like him in a way. and i love mixed boys with pale complexions.
i remember watching degrassi and then hearing about him trying to rap then i made a tumblr and discovered drake blogs and then it begin.
80% of my normal day dreams and fantasies involve him in someway.
at least i don't embarrassingly keep track of all the strippers and whores he fucks now but mostly because it's hard since he's so famous now he knows how to keep things on the low unlike in 2008-2010 when you could find things out if you looked hard enough.
there was a guy I liked whom I met online. I have a suspicion that he felt the same way as he always tried to start conversations with me and asked me to play vidya with him, but I have really bad social anxiety so I always avoid talking to him so I won't embarrass myself ;-;
Yeah. She has a boyfriend, though. She sends me messages about how she misses me, even though we saw that same day or a day before. I don't understand her at all, but my obsession is getting more intense. Help.
a girl who rejected me in HS and we stopped talking to each other
we ended up at the same college and she asks about me, when she visits (I live with some people she knows) she laughs at my jokes, and she stalks my social media. a couple friends are telling me to make a move for some reason, but I'm scared of being rejected again
Yes. She's a smart, beautiful young woman with WIDE hips a thin figure and these beautiful slender arms and body. She had this inadvertent hippie look, round glasses and a beautiful dress. She happened to be Brazilian (actual white Brazilian not shit skin Hue) and we watched the stars that night and tried getting high but it was too windy.
Chance happened and I met her again when my dorm mates played a game of cards of humanity. I managed to get her number despite being an autist. And she replied to all my texts and ramblings despite the PERSISTING autism. She still texts me back.
I dream of holding her and making her mine but I don't know or better yet, can't socialize normally. I know how but application is different. I miss her. She's my motivation to get better at being a normies in life I rolled for a gf on a thread saying I'd get one in 66 days but I reject this prophecy if it isn't her. I just feel the need to be with her I feel good around her. She's funny and as sarcastic as me, not a fucking Stacy in anyway.
I'm going back to Uni after dropping Uni because of a psychotic break (diagnosed bipolar) and getting /fit/ because of her. I got my first decent job robots at 19 years old in a call center minimum wage but I get 12 after 90 days. I'm buying health supplements and taking care of my chronic conditions now. I don't just want this woman. I need this woman. Maybe my personality is indeed a disease, bipolar disorder, but she talked to me thoroughly when I was at my worst. My absolute worse. Seems like a keeper to me.
I've never obsessed this hard. Because no one has talked to me so Genuinely this long. If I can shape my body to become Chad maybe I have a shot? Deep down I know better but I have to try. The thought of her with another guy doesn't just make me angry. It makes me so depressed I want to go study my mathematics and physics.
I'm obsessed with a girl who started ignoring me two months ago after we had some wonderful, deep conversations. She's incredibly nice, cute and we have many hobbies in common. She also has a few cool hobbies I don't have, which is even better. She also offered to cook for me if I ever visited. I sent a few too many worried messages after she talked about wanting to kill herself and then vanished for a couple days, though, and I guess that's when she decided to ignore me. She gave a pity reply after that which pretty much killed the conversation and I decided to shut up after awkwardly responding. Now I just stalk her social media, biding my time and improving myself bit by bit so that I can return with a better impression and hopefully she'll have forgotten that I'm an obsessive piece of shit. I think about her pretty much 24/7 and the thought of not being together makes me want to die. I especially like to daydream about potential dates and daily life together as either bf/gf or a married couple. I've bought a few relatively rare fashion items she posted about (nail polish, lipstick, etc. that was discontinued a few years ago). I think I have most of the stock left of the ones I got, so she'd be pretty surprised I managed to get them. She'll probably move back to her home country before I accomplish anything, though. I'd like to follow her, no matter where she goes.
>>26380464 Let's do our best then I try to take it easy, as much as my anxiety lets me It's a nice feeling when i pull off a smooth, comfy talk with him, gives me hope that eventually we can become good friends that can trust eachother and stuff Good luck anon!
>>26366692 Yes, never said anything of substance to her though. I figure after 5 years it's probably not just a crush. Maybe one day I'll man up and say something but that'll be once I fix my appearance and therefore actually have a chance.... or so I tell myself.
>>26380637 I hope he hasn't Did you do something wrong? It's just an online acquaintance, people rarely have something against it, it can only get better (unless he's some busy-with-living normie or something, i don't know)
Let's just say that I lost quite a bit of the things I valued in my life recently, most of the activities that used to make me happy and motivate me can no longer be readily enjoyed. But more so than all of the things I lost, all of the people I can no longer talk to, I am bothered mostly by the fact that I cannot see her face anymore. I can no longer hear her adorable thoughts expressed through her almost unfittingly innocent tone of voice. Every other aspect, no matter how prevalent they used to be, takes the back seat. I never anticipated this, I certainly never wanted this, but I absolutely can't help it. She was my goal, my objective for every single day, and I hadn't even realized it.
I'm secretly in love with my best friend. She left for like a day and I started freaking out because I thought she hated me. I'm a paranoid motherfucker. She even asked me if I liked her today and I freaked out but calmly said no. Shit's torture.
I'm obsessed with a girl I met in world of warcraft. World of fucking warcraft. And not just that. Wow rp. I don't even know why but I constantly check skype/wow for her despite not having spoken to her directly in months. She's not at all bad looking but I think she might be underage despite saying she's 19. I l can't even think about anything else when I get online, or at least it makes it difficult to. She also thinks I'm a girl because I'm actually just a trap so I don't think she has any interest in me.
this girl whose basically a fembot but doesn't browse /r9k/
shes an ex-neet, hates feminists, has daddy issues, seeks attention subtly and fishes for sympathy
i slept with her once already and i thought she'd be hooked, but shes not used to hooking up so she's been distant. i don't really like her too much, definitely not obsessed. but the fact that shes acting all weird despite having such a great time with me is confusing and irritating me.
maybe its just the idea of wanting what i dont have.
Yes, a girlfriend who broke up with me almost 2 years ago now. I cannot get over her. I check her blog daily. I think about what it would be like if we could have one last talk. Sometimes I cry over it. I feel like I'm taking this pain to my grave.
>>26381013 >so i've just accepted that. well, You posted ITT so it doesn't look like you accepted that completely I don't know you or the situation you're in, but don't give up for no reason, unless your guts tell you otherwise or don't listen to my advice, i'm terrible wit giving advice good luck with whatever option You choose friend
>>26381037 welcome to the club buddy wanna talk about it or something?
I'm in love with this girl from a country away, and I've never been happier in my life. As it stands right now I haven't been able to skype with her properly for a while, but we make due with what we have. We're both really straight headed and logical about situations we face, and I like to think I'm helping her open up to me a lot. I love her more than anything and she's my sky, my stars, and my sun, and I really and geniunely love this girl and want a future with her, just like she's told me she wants a future with me. I've been in shitty fucked up situations with people before, and she has too, we've both have our hearts broken before, and I'm absolutely certain that both her and I don't ever want to break any hearts. Either way, with the way that our personalities click, it's not like we have much to worry about, we haven't had any big fights and we're both generally really sweet, loving and caring with each other. I hate fighting, and I'm pretty sure she does too, so I get her to talk to me about what's bugging her, and I tell her what's bugging me, and that usually settles arguments really fast. She's not too vocal, and has some anxiety issues, but I'm really patient, and always will be with her. I try to respect her boundaries, but I need her to push them sometimes with me, because I want to connect with her, and understand her really well, I try my hardest to, always.I am very happy I found her and I am also very happy that we click so well, have similar tastes, are level headed about everything, and love each other so much. I wish all of you can feel this way some day. The world feels like it's a nice place to live in because of her.
>>26370420 This is the absolute worst part. Your whole mood is dependent how much interaction and the kind of interaction you have with her. And gradually over time you require more and more attention from her to get the same happy effect until you start creeping her out and drive her away. Then you feel like killing yourself for a month until you get over her, and find your next obsession and the circle repeats itself.
>>26381848 I'm gonna marry you did you know now i feel kinda bad because my post was really short and not very expressive don't feel silly about showing me these things, it makes me happy that you feel this way about me and and idk you've brought a lot of nice warm light into my life desu thank you for that. you're literally perfect, and made just right for me
>>26366692 Of course I fucking am. Right now it's qt manager I work with who is 6 years older than me. Think a relationship is about impossible, and even if it did happen, wonder if it would work out. Fucking sucks. Want it to end, but know another qt would just replace her.
>>26382123 >tfw I have no cute pictures to reply to you with It's okay, I know you're not too good with words and probably didn't even expect me to post here. I love you a lot and I want you with me forever. Thanks for coming into my life.
There's this girl that I've liked for a while now and I'm pretty sure she likes me but she has a boyfriend. When we talk we just riff so easily and our minds are creatively cohesive. I'm usually very good socially and dominant but when I talk to her I can't help but get all giddy and twist and squirm around and just get excited everytime I see her.
My very first friend back in elementary school and my only friend back then.
It was fun she pretended to be a witch, and I was her helper, we would play doctor and do magic. The last spell she placed on me was before I moved, was that we would get married and live happy ever after, like a fairy tale.
Fast forward now, I am contemplating suicide everyday, my brother told me about her and that her mother is still around. I found out that her mother has one facebook and uses it for the entire family, uploads all the photos. Her mother works in city hall and using the photos she posts I was able to find where she lives. One night I went through the garbage cans of the street the photos where in, till i found the mail that had her name on it, I finally found where my old friend lives. She lives next to a park and every other night I climb up a tree and watch her and her family through the windows, she pretty now and I am now getting the courage to talk to her to see if she remembers me.
As it turns out, I'm obsessed with a long list of girls I met in high school and university, mostly older than me by a few years. Whenever I fap I look at the list and think "who am I in the mood to imagine myself fucking today?"
Was really obsessed with a girl at work ,I say girl but she's 12 years older than me. She's cute, fun, friendly, the first girl to ever show interest in me, etc.
We don't talk that often though since she doesn't work where I work that much anymore and we're hardly working together.
I also have a hard time initiating anything and when I see her at work for the first time in awhile I don't even say hi and she doesn't say hi and it feels weird to me. I'm trying to find something else to obsess over now so I wont think about her
In hs I used to obsess over this girl I never hardly talked to. She was hot af to me, and I crushed on her all 4 years of hs. She was with the popukar crowd, and I was a sperg. I asked her to prom senior year because my heart said yes but my mind said hell no what the fuck you stupid nigger but I still asked her and practically drowned in my own sperghertti.
Last halloween I drunk messaged her on fb and asked if she ever had a crush on me. She didn't respond and unfriended me so that's that. I still think of her sometimes and what may have happened if I wasn't a retarded fuckwit.
Now I just dream about every other attractive girl I see at uni, and imagine myself with one of them. I'm going to the gym in an effort to get a god bod, and I'm attempting to grow out my beard and hair (man bun beard combo).
If all goes well, I'll look how I want to look in about a year's time. And maybe at that point I'll have figured out a solution to my problems.
I'm sure im asking the wrong crowd for advice but i have been talking to this really cute girl that i have been obssessed with for the past year. The only way i can strike a conversation with her is through texts by posting some dank memes or asking how her class went. How can i move forward without making an ass of myself and ruining everything? pic related she looks like miss universe.
No but I sort of wish I was. I've had people confess to me but I've never been able to feel anything back for them and it kills me because I honestly wish I would. I always think to myself about how I want a partner, but whenever a chance comes around, I just don't feel anything. It feels like such a waste. I tried dating this girl once because she confessed to me and was sort of cute, but I never romantically liked her and I ended up feeling choked up in the relationship and looking like a dick. To be fair, that's exactly what I was. I wanted to make her happy by pretending I loved her back and thought that maybe after a while I would genuinely fall in love with her but I didn't and as a result I became really unfair and distant to her before breaking up with her. I still feel bad about it even if she's over it now.
It wasn't like this 5 years ago and before. I just want to feel happy and in love again, even if it's unrequited.
>>26366692 Yes. I met him here. The fact nothing will ever happen is killing me, and I know the best I could do is just cut contact, for both of us, but I can't. Meanwhile I fap to the idea of us having sex and fall asleep crying for being such a pathetic cunt.
Yep. She's married, I actually knew it from the start and didn't look at her "that" way at first, but as I got to know her better, I developed a huge crush on her. She just fits in my crush bingo too well. To give you an idea of how obsessed I am - I'm getting dreams about her pretty often and sometimes when I draw (drawing is my hobby) I unconsciously draw her face (and considering I got no pictures of her and she has none on fb which I of course looked up, I'm pretty good at drawing her from memory).
Two people, neither of which I'm happy to constantly think about. One is more recent, but probably only because of negative reasons, or just the bitterness of being inferior to someone who supposedly hit the guy but is still more trustworthy while I'm easily replaced and forgotten. Words are just words. The other is more like missing someone I cut contact with after something trivial. It's more like constantly thinking "I hope he's okay" than anything else.
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