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I just spilt my guts out to a girl over text and she hasn't

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I just spilt my guts out to a girl over text and she hasn't responded yet.

I'm done for aren't I?
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>>26355672
Your first mistake was professing your love to a girl

your second mistake was doing it over text

Yes - you're done for
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you gotta tell us exactly what you said

but in any case, you're fucked. doing shit like that over a text message doesn't fly
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>>26355695
This.
You never, ever ever fucking ever confess your feels over text. That is the biggest mistake you will make.
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>>26355672

post screenie
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Sorry mate, you're toast. I've made the same mistake too. Ya gotta think with your brain not your dick.
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>>26355815
>>26355759
>>26355724
>>26355695
>>26355815
Jesus Christ.

Someone hold me.
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post pics

original...
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>>26355921
sorry bud.
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>>26355672
>believing text messages are an appropriate way of having a meaningful interpersonal communication

son please just kill yourself
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This was a mistake. I would reccomend just saying "Im sorry that was weird and I shouldnt have done it over text" Then don't talk to her any more unless she shows obvious interest. Its k man we all fuck up
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>>26355921
Sorry m8.
It's all orge. You gotta listen to that Three Days Grace song now and cry for a bit
https://youtube.com/watch?v=uiYwwL5LbBw
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>>26355672
Text?

you dont do that shizz bro,

you effed up

but yeah post screenies anyway though i wanna see what you wrote, who knows it might not be that bad.
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>>26355672
>>26355672
yes it never does anything but harm.

I don't know how many times I have to learn this lesson before it sticks. The more you like someone the less they like you
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>>26355672
Like pic related OP?
That Anon probably has killed himself by now.
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>>26355672
post screenies
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You were probably fucked even if you didn't do that so yeah.
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Just say you were drunk
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Been there when I was 13/14...Cringe, angst and sweat all ran down me as I texted her saying I loved her and was a nice guy... ;_; regret looms over me to this day. But... You survive my friend
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>>26356022
Holy fuck that song.
Brings back my highschool edginess.
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>>26356038
Holy fuck that pic, my sides
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>>26356087
I still listen to that album sometimes. Brings me back to those days too
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>>26356091
Quality thread. That same Anon later sent her another poem and she told him off bad. I'll see if I still have the screencap.
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>>26356038
I don't care if it's fake, that thread hurts deep down.
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>>26356146
Look harder anon, it's included there in the pic
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>>26356038
I can't see any of that shit. I'm old. Please enlarge.
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It ain't a poem but I still fucked up

>Girl: "Hey, sorry for saying all that shit at lunch. I won't bore you like that ever again."

>Me: "???, What exactly do you mean? Our conversations don't bore me at all. Why would you think that?"

Here comes the fucked part as I followed that up with a double text.

>Me: "Look, if I was bored of you I wouldn't take the time to listen to you or better yet even come to lunch because to be honest I don't know why I come to lunch besides getting to talk to you and getting to know you as a person. Truth is I feel like shit most of the time and you're an absolutely beautiful and interesting person to speak to and I'm honestly baffled as to why you still have an interest in talking to me. The reason I don't like showing off my emotions is because I feel like its a sign of weakness on my part. I don't know why but I just do but it hurts me when ever you say or think of yourself as less of a person because you really are a genuinely nice and caring human being. But somehow I get the feeling that no matter how many times I tell you that you will always find a reason not to believe me."
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>>26356038
There's autism, then there's this shit.
Thanks for sharing. My night has been made.
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>>26356366
Holy fucking shit. The amount of spaghetti you spilled is atrocious. Putting her up on a pedestal while revealing your autism level. Man you fucked up
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>>26356366
Why do you faggots talk to women? Women are either your girlfriend, or not. If they're not, why bother talking to them? Especially when you're coming across as a quasi-homosexual. Jesus Christ. Don't do it again, anon.
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>>26356337

>old
>not knowing how to see fullsize images

It's plenty large you baby phoneposting faggot
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>>26356366
Not that bad to be honest.
You were being honest and telling her how you feel.
Sooner or later, you gonna have to tell her anyway, right?
You didn't fuck up.
But imagine ifyou had the guts to tell her in person...
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>>26356366
it looks like a lost cause but you can follow the text up with an apology and note how dumb yu are something like

"sorry, im being retarded, ignore the last text"

wont help but the humour in calling yourself retared might make it a little les awkward.

Best potential outcome : friendzone

sorry
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>>26356506
actually its not that bad when i read it again

another option is that you can just ignore it completely see her tomorrow and act like you never said it and never talk about it again,

few weeks later things might return to normal.

Best potential outcome : GF
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You never say all this shit over a text. EVER.
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>>26355672
She's sending pictures to all of her friends and they're collectively laughing their asses off about it. Litearlly everyone she knows knows now.
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>>26355672
>I just spilt my guts out to a girl over text and she hasn't responded yet.
That's the verbal equivalent of premature ejaculation, if it's out of the blue. If you didn't build up to it, you just jizzed in your pants because she said the word Saturday.
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she was apologizing to you, and you somehow managed to turn that into you being the bitch

good shit
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>>26356009
That will just make it worse. He needs to wait for a week and then disappear from her life.

>>26356366
>Look, if I was bored of you I wouldn't take the time to listen to you or better yet even come to lunch because to be honest I don't know why I come to lunch besides getting to talk to you and getting to know you as a person.

You should have ended the text there. It honestly wasn't that bad, but then...

>Truth is I feel like shit most of the time and you're an absolutely beautiful and interesting person to speak to and I'm honestly baffled as to why you still have an interest in talking to me. The reason I don't like showing off my emotions is because I feel like its a sign of weakness on my part. I don't know why but I just do but it hurts me when ever you say or think of yourself as less of a person because you really are a genuinely nice and caring human being. But somehow I get the feeling that no matter how many times I tell you that you will always find a reason not to believe me.

Holy fuck, you messed up big time. You went from giving her a big compliment to POOR ME I'M SO NEEDY LOVE ME FOREVER in the span of a sentence and a half.
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>>26356038
Based olivia.
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Holy shit.

False alarm guys.
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>>26355672
Go dark on her. If/when she does text back and its negative just say "k" and stop responding to her and hop she come crawling back to you. It's your only chance OP.
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>>26355672

your fucking toast bro, she called the cops and they are on their way to assassinate you for being a robot
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>>26356804
she's probably not interested though
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>>26356804

C U C K E D

[ Original Comment ]
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>I just spilt my guts out to a girl
>over text
>OVER TEXT

you virgin aspies never learn... hahaha
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>>26356804


She is still creeped out by you, but since you're both in high school and she is a genuinely nice person, she isn't going to bite your head off.

You still goofed faggot.
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>>26356804
>person
>person
>person

bad choice of words in both parties, or it could it be you guys aren't being genuine with each other? whoooo knows it all sounds so systematic
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>>26356804

....you're fucked, man. Just move on.
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>>26356804

Put your helmet on son, you're going cave diving
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>>26356804
Just keep it cool... keep it cool... remember to keep it cool!

Just keep hanging out with her regulary like you do. She knows how you feel about her now, so it's kinda up her from this point. I told you a couple of posts above here, "You didn't fuck up".
And if she doesn't like you back... move on.
Good luck dude.
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>>26356804
Hey person. You fucked up person
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>>26356804
Seriously. Be like "k" and she might just come crawling to you in a few days.
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>>26356903


She doesn't like him back or she would have told him that she likes him back.

She realizes that she has an orbiter and she will either manipulate him or try to not piss him off for fear that he will go psycho.
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>>26356804
nah bro you definitely fucked up she's just being real fuckin nice about it
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>>26355921
You knew better you tard but you're way to beta to do it in person.
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>>26356941
Seriously this. Deny her her free orbiter. Cut contact
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>>26356903
no it's this

---> >>26356941
OP cut her loose, find some easy autist on your level and forget you ever talked to her.
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FRIEND ZONED

FRIEND ZONED

FRIENDZZZOOOOOOONED
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>>26356804
You did fuck it up dumbass, she just wants to keep you as an orbiter.

REPEAT AFTER ME.

SHE DOES NOT SEE YOU AS A SEXUAL BEING.

you're basically like a female friend, expect you won't slut shame her like her other female friends will.
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>>26356804
She's more desiccated than the Silica.
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>>26355672
Don't worry, a "thx" is coming.
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>not chad
>confessing over text
you're fucked
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>>26356964
>>26356989


Truth. And how do I know all these things OP?

Because I did something even worse when I was in high school.

My advice is first to stop posting on 4chan you little underage faggot.

Then don't give up with women in general, but give up on her.

When I pulled my stunt, I had a nerdy buddy who laughed at me. Fast forward four years later, and I was pulling in pussy and I had to help set him up so he could lose his virginity. I learned how to deal with women because I wasn't afraid to fail, and he remained a failure with women.
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>>26357035
Jebus. I cringed so hard my vomit went the wrong way. I think my stomach imploded.
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>>26357035

HOW CAN ANYONE BE THIS MUCH OF A FUCKING KEK

HOLY SHIT PLEASE BE FUCKING FAKE
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>>26357002
This guy and the other guys saying the same things are right. She would have admitted her feelings for you if she had any. She didn't. You're friendzoned now, and you always were. Women will make their interest obvious or reciprocate yours. She did neither. Cut your losses and move on. She will only cuck you from this point forward.
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>>26357071


I gave the girl that I liked in high school a whole bunch of poems and also an thing of Apple pastries since I knew apple was her favorite. I also sort of killed her off in this terrible book I was writing at the time. That was pre-planned, but the announcement and rejection of my feelings and the release of the end of the (terrible) book made things seem much weirder.

Fortunately the poems are all gone and so is the book. I'm glad I don't live in the texting age.
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>>26357149
I'm literally swooning here because that's really REALLY similar to what I'd done with a girl and I can't handle remembering that right now. I fucking hate both of us right now.
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>>26357238


I don't hate me. I learned from my mistakes. I made a similar (although much more low key) mistake with a girl I met my freshman year at college. My heart was broken and I became stronger. I look back on it and laugh. Current me can talk a good girl into a dirty girl revving to get her panties off in the right situation.
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>>26357035
>thx
holy fuck my sides
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>>26357035

well just grease my shunt up, OP
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>>26357035

>thx

Better pack your bags and skip town, OP
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>>26357556
>>26357481
>>26357335
>>26357105
>>26357071
That isn't OP
>>26356366
>>26356804
These are
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>>26356038
DAT ENDING M8~!
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>>26357671
Thank you for pointing out what we already know.
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