I just spilt my guts out to a girl over text and she hasn't responded yet.
I'm done for aren't I?
Someone hold me.
>believing text messages are an appropriate way of having a meaningful interpersonal communication
son please just kill yourself
This was a mistake. I would reccomend just saying "Im sorry that was weird and I shouldnt have done it over text" Then don't talk to her any more unless she shows obvious interest. Its k man we all fuck up
Like pic related OP?
That Anon probably has killed himself by now.
Been there when I was 13/14...Cringe, angst and sweat all ran down me as I texted her saying I loved her and was a nice guy... ;_; regret looms over me to this day. But... You survive my friend
It ain't a poem but I still fucked up
>Girl: "Hey, sorry for saying all that shit at lunch. I won't bore you like that ever again."
>Me: "???, What exactly do you mean? Our conversations don't bore me at all. Why would you think that?"
Here comes the fucked part as I followed that up with a double text.
>Me: "Look, if I was bored of you I wouldn't take the time to listen to you or better yet even come to lunch because to be honest I don't know why I come to lunch besides getting to talk to you and getting to know you as a person. Truth is I feel like shit most of the time and you're an absolutely beautiful and interesting person to speak to and I'm honestly baffled as to why you still have an interest in talking to me. The reason I don't like showing off my emotions is because I feel like its a sign of weakness on my part. I don't know why but I just do but it hurts me when ever you say or think of yourself as less of a person because you really are a genuinely nice and caring human being. But somehow I get the feeling that no matter how many times I tell you that you will always find a reason not to believe me."
Why do you faggots talk to women? Women are either your girlfriend, or not. If they're not, why bother talking to them? Especially when you're coming across as a quasi-homosexual. Jesus Christ. Don't do it again, anon.
Not that bad to be honest.
You were being honest and telling her how you feel.
Sooner or later, you gonna have to tell her anyway, right?
You didn't fuck up.
But imagine ifyou had the guts to tell her in person...
it looks like a lost cause but you can follow the text up with an apology and note how dumb yu are something like
"sorry, im being retarded, ignore the last text"
wont help but the humour in calling yourself retared might make it a little les awkward.
Best potential outcome : friendzone
actually its not that bad when i read it again
another option is that you can just ignore it completely see her tomorrow and act like you never said it and never talk about it again,
few weeks later things might return to normal.
Best potential outcome : GF
>I just spilt my guts out to a girl over text and she hasn't responded yet.
That's the verbal equivalent of premature ejaculation, if it's out of the blue. If you didn't build up to it, you just jizzed in your pants because she said the word Saturday.
That will just make it worse. He needs to wait for a week and then disappear from her life.
>Look, if I was bored of you I wouldn't take the time to listen to you or better yet even come to lunch because to be honest I don't know why I come to lunch besides getting to talk to you and getting to know you as a person.
You should have ended the text there. It honestly wasn't that bad, but then...
>Truth is I feel like shit most of the time and you're an absolutely beautiful and interesting person to speak to and I'm honestly baffled as to why you still have an interest in talking to me. The reason I don't like showing off my emotions is because I feel like its a sign of weakness on my part. I don't know why but I just do but it hurts me when ever you say or think of yourself as less of a person because you really are a genuinely nice and caring human being. But somehow I get the feeling that no matter how many times I tell you that you will always find a reason not to believe me.
Holy fuck, you messed up big time. You went from giving her a big compliment to POOR ME I'M SO NEEDY LOVE ME FOREVER in the span of a sentence and a half.
your fucking toast bro, she called the cops and they are on their way to assassinate you for being a robot
>I just spilt my guts out to a girl
you virgin aspies never learn... hahaha
bad choice of words in both parties, or it could it be you guys aren't being genuine with each other? whoooo knows it all sounds so systematic
Just keep it cool... keep it cool... remember to keep it cool!
Just keep hanging out with her regulary like you do. She knows how you feel about her now, so it's kinda up her from this point. I told you a couple of posts above here, "You didn't fuck up".
And if she doesn't like you back... move on.
Good luck dude.
She doesn't like him back or she would have told him that she likes him back.
She realizes that she has an orbiter and she will either manipulate him or try to not piss him off for fear that he will go psycho.
You did fuck it up dumbass, she just wants to keep you as an orbiter.
REPEAT AFTER ME.
SHE DOES NOT SEE YOU AS A SEXUAL BEING.
you're basically like a female friend, expect you won't slut shame her like her other female friends will.
Truth. And how do I know all these things OP?
Because I did something even worse when I was in high school.
My advice is first to stop posting on 4chan you little underage faggot.
Then don't give up with women in general, but give up on her.
When I pulled my stunt, I had a nerdy buddy who laughed at me. Fast forward four years later, and I was pulling in pussy and I had to help set him up so he could lose his virginity. I learned how to deal with women because I wasn't afraid to fail, and he remained a failure with women.
Jebus. I cringed so hard my vomit went the wrong way. I think my stomach imploded.
HOW CAN ANYONE BE THIS MUCH OF A FUCKING KEK
HOLY SHIT PLEASE BE FUCKING FAKE
This guy and the other guys saying the same things are right. She would have admitted her feelings for you if she had any. She didn't. You're friendzoned now, and you always were. Women will make their interest obvious or reciprocate yours. She did neither. Cut your losses and move on. She will only cuck you from this point forward.
I gave the girl that I liked in high school a whole bunch of poems and also an thing of Apple pastries since I knew apple was her favorite. I also sort of killed her off in this terrible book I was writing at the time. That was pre-planned, but the announcement and rejection of my feelings and the release of the end of the (terrible) book made things seem much weirder.
Fortunately the poems are all gone and so is the book. I'm glad I don't live in the texting age.
I'm literally swooning here because that's really REALLY similar to what I'd done with a girl and I can't handle remembering that right now. I fucking hate both of us right now.
I don't hate me. I learned from my mistakes. I made a similar (although much more low key) mistake with a girl I met my freshman year at college. My heart was broken and I became stronger. I look back on it and laugh. Current me can talk a good girl into a dirty girl revving to get her panties off in the right situation.
well just grease my shunt up, OP
Better pack your bags and skip town, OP
Thank you for pointing out what we already know.