>finally get a GF
>after getting comfortable and settled in she starts creating drama out of boredom
>now constantly stressed
Trust me robots, you do NOT want a gf. Unless you are an ultra chad willing to treat her like shit and ignore her, there is pretty much no point in having one.
>wanting to be sachie
>not wanting to be WITH sachie
trans freaks get out.
Girlfriends literally just bitch and whine. About EVERYTHING.
Spend literally all my free time outside of work with her sitting pretty much right next to her.
Find new game I want to play. I sit down to play on my laptop. "LOOK AT YOU, AN ADDICT. WHY DO YOU IGNORE ME LIKE THIS? SPEND TIME WITH ME"
I say ok after only laying 3 hours and I sit down with her. She just watches law and order by herself.
It's not the girlfriend idea that's wrong, it's YOUR specific bitch that's ruining everything.
Also daily reminder that if you're beta most girls will start to do what Op's bitch is doing.
This is literally why Ive broken up with all of my gf's
It seems like most girls just want a bf to cuddle with while they watch shitty TV and to listen to all of their assinine stories about every aspect of their day.
Im pretty introverted and it's exhausting to continuously interact with someone, and no girl Ive ever dated can understand that. They just think im ignoring/cheating/selfish.
OP here. I am beta in that I'm a 'nice' guy but women will use ramato try and take advantage of that.
I could put on a front and be an asshole but that's not who I really am.
So if you want to play games and be fake then by all means play the dating game.
mate, I am this anon >>26355372
My girlfriend is also asian, Chinese from Guangzhou.
There might be something here.
Is yours extremely needy and pretty much will whine and bitch if you don't spend every god dam second with her?
Just get a fuckbuddy or a friend with benefits or whatever the fuck they're called. Women's only use is sex anyway.
If you don't want sex just ignore them altogether, not like they can do anything for you.
> I'm pretty much not even allowed to have friends over anymore because all my time is devoted to her
Holy shit man. This is exactly like me.
When we first met I would say
>I'm hanging out with X tomorrow
>"I don't want to see him lets not go"
Fucking started assuming she goes everywhere I am going and does this mental fuckery to make me feel bad even if i didn't do anything
Now it is like this
>Don't even see my friends once a month when I used to see them daily
>mention I want to see X
>"I DONT WANT TO SEE HIM WE ARE NOT GOING"
Yesterday my friend gifted me a game on steam to play with him. I fucking played on steam for 2 hours over skype and she went fucking mental.
Who wants a realationship when it takes time away from your hobbies?
>find a woman who isn't cis
this kinda shit just pisses me off. stop pretending your doublethink is normal and like the person your advising would be interested in some sort of transthing
we didn't establish dominance in the beginning of the relationship.
We rewarded our GFs temper tantrums. It was a test, and we failed. Now they take advantage of our weakness. All women do this
We fuked up, mate.
It's not about being nice or being an asshole, it's about having a little self-respect and assertiveness. You said yourself that you are stressed. How is that being nice to yourself? Her opinion of you isn't getting any higher when you let her bitch at you. Just tell her off and things will be much better.
I just love being told by a normalfaggot retard that I shouldn't feel lonely and depressed about having no one in my life and that actually having someone is LITERALLY hell on earth haha thanks for making me feel better Chad. :)
>capable of anything even RESEMBLING love
>>mention I want to see X
Instead try: I am going to see X. You aren't asking her. It's not up for discussion.
>>"I DONT WANT TO SEE HIM WE ARE NOT GOING"
"Then stay here." and leave without responding to her tantrum except by laughing at her.
Holy hell, you people need to date better women. Being in a relationship shouldn't be fucking stressful. Find someone who isn't selfish or weird/needy.
>inb4 all women are like that
They're not. Trust me.
she was here on a visa, it's the only way she could stay. It was before I discovered this board too. Anyways, she only recently started being this way to the point that it's killing me. Maybe cause she working full time now.
>she was here on a visa, it's the only way she could stay
Oh, it's one of those. How did you not realize JUST how much they could fuck your shit up?
This ignorance is bliss shit is really getting on my nerves.
>she was here on a visa
HOLY SHIT MATE!! I am still this anon >>26355903
Mine's visa is literally about to expire in 6 months and she wants us to get married. WHAT DO I DO FUCK FUCK FUCK
Stop being king cuck and dump her you fucking retard. If you continue with this you'll be sucking Chad's cum out of her vagina in no time.
Why the fuck are you dumbasses even on this board if you can't learn a single goddamn thing?
She won't be. it's the opposite. She is that obsessed with me.
I have been to China 4 times at her families expense and they bought her a 2 mill apartment here.
She sees being here is her doing me a favor rather then going back to China
Sex once every 2-3 weeks
Nigga, are you 60 or something? Ever 2-3 weeks? Just dump her and have nothing to do with bitches. She'll drive you beyond the fucking wall when she gets older.
Don't look back at this thread with regret.
Tell me more about yours please. Is yoursfat? mine is a fattie and thinks I am lucky to be with someone as hot as she is.
When infact I am a 6-7 and shes a 4-5. I am 6'2, I lift 3 days a week and relatively decent looking.
Her family is filthy rich but they dont expect members of their family and those that marry into it to be lazy and sit on their ass.
So i would be expected to work 24/7