I was there too. I first blamed the friend zone but then I realized it was me not her. I needed to learn to improve myself. I started lifting, dressing better and talking to other girls despite begin a sperg. I fake confidence to get over her. I hate seeing her pretty face in public because I die on the inside. I want to hold her hand and hug her. I have not moved on and our friendship ended with her saying she hated me and I never even had the balls to ask her out. I miss her. The best you can do is find something to forget the pain. Never pray for a better life OP, pray for the strength to endure a hard life. We are here for a reason. We might never full fill a personal legend but we can aid others. This will end. You will leave stronger and be able to endure more painful paths.
No, it isn't. Time is the best medicine. Look at it like this. You put these amazing images of this girl in your head for months. Then you date her and she doesn't meet expectations. A oneitis will end badly even if she goes out with you. Sometimes you gotta just keep on trucking and find something that makes you happy. I gained 20 pounds after that happened. I wanted to die. I tried to drown myself but I realized I am worth it. I started running, talking to more people and going out of my comfort zone. I haven't even touched a bottle in months. You can make.
Talk to her sometimes in work We get along fairly okay
Text later that night
She's opening up about family issues Calls herself worthless
>"You're not worthless (lets call her Emily) You have a lot going for you." >"Like what" >"What? You're Smart, Beautiful, Amazing, Funny and you're just great. You lighten my day whenever we're on the same shift you know." >Realized that text may have been a bit overboard >"Aw wow anon thanks :) are you serious?" >Decide to go balls out >"Well yeah you're great, I mean you mean a lot to me, Like a lot" >cringe >"O-oh, you mean a lot to me too anon. You're a really great friend!" >"Just friends?"
Hasn't replied to me for over 4 hours now after previous instant replies
Basically ended there, I'm probably being to quick to judge what she thinks but I know it's not good.
I know i'm an autistic mess and can't communicate properly, but whatever.
>>26353142 Or she could be going through shit and doesn't feel like texting back. Or she could have fell asleep.
Christ how do you guys end up this way? You do realize how dumb 99% of women are, like all you have to do is talk to her and make her feel good about herself for like a week str8 and you can have any single woman, no matter what.
That's what happens when you obsess over one girl for along period of time. You get your hopes up, when you could be talking to multiple girls with low expectation and a higher probability of actually getting a gf.
>>26352419 Today, a qt told me she liked me. You know what I did? Nothing. Literally nothing. I stopped caring about any outcome whatsoever and didn't put all my eggs in her basket. It takes a lot of time, but after you take this step, you'll be relaxed as fuck, and for some reason, me not giving a shit made her like me.
I'm not bragging or anything, because I still don't care if this works out or not (it probably won't). I'm just saying that after swallowing the red pill and realizing bending over backwards for a qt is not worth it, everything's a bit clearer.
>inb4 angry neckbeard angsty-wangsty red piller
The saddest part for me is that when you start caring for a girl, your beta side shows. Start training yourself to not let any girl that shows minimal affection for you turn into a oneitis because that will drive her away.
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