I got rejected by my oneitis today. I just want to end it all now

>>26352419
I was there with you, she said no. And it was over.

It's not ok, and you're not ok, and I'm not even sure if you'll be ok. But we're here.

We're all here.

Do you wanna share you're story?

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>>26352419
My oneitis essentially did the same.

Except it's almost entirely my fault. Haven't said much more than hello in 10 months.

Past year has been pretty bad for me desu senpai.

>>26352419

I was there too. I first blamed the friend zone but then I realized it was me not her. I needed to learn to improve myself. I started lifting, dressing better and talking to other girls despite begin a sperg. I fake confidence to get over her. I hate seeing her pretty face in public because I die on the inside. I want to hold her hand and hug her. I have not moved on and our friendship ended with her saying she hated me and I never even had the balls to ask her out. I miss her. The best you can do is find something to forget the pain. Never pray for a better life OP, pray for the strength to endure a hard life. We are here for a reason. We might never full fill a personal legend but we can aid others. This will end. You will leave stronger and be able to endure more painful paths.

>>26352419
How did it happen exactly? Did you just text / message her?

>>26352639
Suicide or drinking viable options?

>>26352633
wow nice blog faggot tell me more :^)

>>26352662

No, it isn't. Time is the best medicine. Look at it like this. You put these amazing images of this girl in your head for months. Then you date her and she doesn't meet expectations. A oneitis will end badly even if she goes out with you. Sometimes you gotta just keep on trucking and find something that makes you happy. I gained 20 pounds after that happened. I wanted to die. I tried to drown myself but I realized I am worth it. I started running, talking to more people and going out of my comfort zone. I haven't even touched a bottle in months. You can make.

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>>26352718
Go back to /vg/.

>>26352633
It really does suck

>>26352639
I'll try

>>26352517
Thanks man see
>>26352653

Talk to her sometimes in work
We get along fairly okay

Text later that night

She's opening up about family issues
Calls herself worthless

>"You're not worthless (lets call her Emily) You have a lot going for you."
>"Like what"
>"What? You're Smart, Beautiful, Amazing, Funny and you're just great. You lighten my day whenever we're on the same shift you know."
>Realized that text may have been a bit overboard
>"Aw wow anon thanks :) are you serious?"
>Decide to go balls out
>"Well yeah you're great, I mean you mean a lot to me, Like a lot"
>cringe
>"O-oh, you mean a lot to me too anon. You're a really great friend!"
>"Just friends?"

Hasn't replied to me for over 4 hours now after previous instant replies

Basically ended there, I'm probably being to quick to judge what she thinks but I know it's not good.

I know i'm an autistic mess and can't communicate properly, but whatever.

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>mfw any time anyone uses the term "oneitis" good god you sound so damn gay no wonder you were rejected

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>>26353031
Okay mr big shot :^)

>>26352832
This is pathetic man, drink some liquir

>>26353103
Cheers to that

>>26352832
Right now that chick is txting everyone but you and hate to say it they are prob in tears laughing

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>>26353081
ahahahahahahahahaha

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>>26353142
I know this, I'm a fucking joke

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>>26352832
Sorry man. I've been there too. It might help to fap to some porn. It's better not to think about women in our actual life for reasons like this.

God I know this feel OP. I don't know why I always get my hopes up that maybe by some cosmic alignment someone feels the same way I do. Might as well become a hermit now and get it over with.

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>>26353233
Thanks man, this is a circlejerk.

But I don't fucking care

>>26353246
That sucks, just do what makes you happy man

>>26353142
Or she could be going through shit and doesn't feel like texting back. Or she could have fell asleep.

Christ how do you guys end up this way? You do realize how dumb 99% of women are, like all you have to do is talk to her and make her feel good about herself for like a week str8 and you can have any single woman, no matter what.

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>>26353288
All I want is to be loved back. I feel like I see the inner beauty of so many people because I'm so ugly inside. I'm just gonna lie in bed and listen to pic related I guess.

Hey man at least you tried. I tried about a year ago too and got shot down, it stung but hey I'm still alive.

>>26352419

That's what happens when you obsess over one girl for along period of time. You get your hopes up, when you could be talking to multiple girls with low expectation and a higher probability of actually getting a gf.

>>26353554

So true, it is never good to have a oneitis. You build her up in your mind into something she is not, and chances are she doesn't even know or care who you are. Its a letdown waiting to happen.

Get a new oneitis

or become one yourself

For you guys that got rejected, what would you roughly rate yourself and what would you rate her looks wise?

>>26352419
Today, a qt told me she liked me. You know what I did? Nothing. Literally nothing. I stopped caring about any outcome whatsoever and didn't put all my eggs in her basket. It takes a lot of time, but after you take this step, you'll be relaxed as fuck, and for some reason, me not giving a shit made her like me.

I'm not bragging or anything, because I still don't care if this works out or not (it probably won't). I'm just saying that after swallowing the red pill and realizing bending over backwards for a qt is not worth it, everything's a bit clearer.

>inb4 angry neckbeard angsty-wangsty red piller

The saddest part for me is that when you start caring for a girl, your beta side shows. Start training yourself to not let any girl that shows minimal affection for you turn into a oneitis because that will drive her away.

>>26353762
I honestly don't get how the ratings work(like for example, is 5/10 bad or...?), but I think I'm a 6/10.

Oneitis #1 : 8/10
Oneitis #2: 6/10