>Just do it anon stop being such a loser
>Anon whats wrong with you? why cant you ever be nice to me..
>comeon anon take me out to dinner
reasons why not to have a girlfriend
she nags because she doesn't want you to get complacent and stop self improving, why can't you be nice to her? that's a very valid reason to complain, what's wrong with wanting to go out for a meal?
>how dare you to look another girls anon
>hi anon, this are my male friends, hope you get along with them.
He just stating facts. In an ideal world, women wouldn't have the upper hand, but this is reality and they do, so you're going to have to either deal with it or drop out of the race.
>Just do it anon stop bei-
>SHUT THE FUCK UP. I'M THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, I'LL THROW YOU OUT. UNDERSTAND.
See. Why was that so hard?
Oh wait, I forgot that /r9k/ is filled with effeminate nu-males who can't stand up for themselves and let all the women in their lives walk all over them.
Maybe it's better that you limp-wristed faggots are alone
thank you. these fucking autists need to learn how to man up if they ever want to get some pussy. its really NOT THAT HARD, leave your house once in a while and stop being SUCH A PUSSY, you deserve to have your asses beat just so you can man the fuck up.
>she doesn't want you to get complacent and stop self improving
Getting dragged off to some shitty club to hang out with normies isn't self-improvement.
Clubs in general are hives of degeneracy. If she goes clubbing dump the whore.
Incels are failed normies.
>did everything for my ex
>treated her like a queen
>bought her presents periodically around the year just because I love her
>told her I loved her every day and told her she was so beautiful
>she goes through bad depression and I'm always by her side to cheer her up and to be her support no matter if it means laying in bed with her all day
>with her for 3 years
>she decides to leave me because she found a better guy at her job
>says she can't be with me because I still have a shitty job and have no motivation
>she basically said "sorry, I know you were always there for me when I needed you and I won't be there for you. I still love you , but I need to experience someone else"
>spiral in complete despair
>find out that the other guy was just using her for sex and dumped my ex after a week and uses her for booty calls
What!?!? You mean you're not a memelord? You must be one of those high test alpha males that goes to r9k frequently I hear so much about
Do prenups not exist in your world?
Or have you just seen too many sensational tabloid headlines and think it's the norm?
A man always has control over his life.
>you're an idiot. this is not the 50s bro you can't rely on gender roles to get your way anymore
I don't care what year it is. I'm not going to just "give up" and become a feminized girlyman like the rest of the failures on this site.
Gender roles built this civilisation and I refuse to let go of them. You're the idiot for believing the "gender roles are obsolete" meme.
That's how you get a hole to fuck, not a girlfriend.
It's easy enough to get laid though it is easier for women. What these lonely souls want is a girlfriend because they think it'll solve all their problems. A shoulder to cry on, a supporting partner, etc.
It doesn't work that way, robots. A functional relationship takes dedication and mutual support, something you won't be providing because you're too fucked by with other things.
A dysfunctional one will just do more harm. If she doesn't just leave she'll probably screw you over somehow before dropping you.
The cost. the financial burden imposed from seeking and courting a girl is punitive.
The onus is still on the man to provide for the relationship. Buying food and drink on dates, purchasing a larger portion of gifts, and having the benefit and bearing the burden of independence. That means having your own place, your own stuff, and the income to support yourself AND the gift giving of courtship.
Considering how essential it is for an individual to build up their own financial security, especially coming out of a recession, these additional burdens are not in the interest of a man for achieving personal stability.
yea but women have to give birth, men don't. You can always make more money, you can't get your figure back as easily or fully recover from the trauma that is, child baring/rearing
>Do prenups not exist in your world?
A guy getting married isn't going to be thinking "what if this broad tries to screw me" unless he's got assets already. And even then he might be a gullible dumbass.
I know whores too. I've slept with plenty.
You don't eat where you shit. You fuck sluts but you don't date them.
>what about going to work every day having to worry about your slut wife possibly cheating on you?
That's your own stupid insecurity. Not your wife's fault, who has to be home with a crying baby all day then have to entertain your stupid notions of possibly cheating when you get home. Its a miracle women put up with that at all.
The possibility exists, anon.
It boils down to whether or not you can trust your wife. What reason do you have to mistrust her, etc. Why marry her in the first place?
If it gives you peace of mind have the whole place rigged up with cameras without her knowledge. Don't ask me how you'd do it or the costs you're the one worrying about a cheating whore.
This so fucking hard I was living with this one chick and every day we'd hangout I got sick of it and tried to have some personal time and she'd never give me it without some sort of fucking attitude.
I'm just tossing out ideas here, anon. You sure seem upset.
You'd be a moron for sticking around after it happened the first time.
I've been straight in my 22 years of living but:
>went to go play a game of 40k with a friend and some of his buddies
>we arrive at his apartment he's about to introduce me to his buddies
>suddenly, I see this guy
>brown, messy hair, innocent blue eyes, frail body, manlet (but so am I) and the cutest fucking face I've ever seen on a man
>my heart actually skipped a beat, what the fuck
>we start playing, he's really soft-spoken and shy, but has nice sense of humor
>he also looks at me often and smiles a pretty, innocent smile
>never had a girl smile at me like that
>enjoying the game when suddenly the guy gets really dizzy
>everyone stops playing, and they walk him to the couch where they give him something to eat and drink, along with some pills
>what the fuck is happening
>it turns out, he has really low blood pressure along with some other condition that I forgot the name of that makes him tired to the point of passing out, on occasion
>he doesn't seem okay, but he continues anyway after eating a sandwich
>having the time of my life with this guy, and we can't stop staring at each other
>eventually, game ends and we have to go
>I exchange numbers with the guy and leave
>my friend tells me he's gay
>he hasn't made any advances towards me. We've just been talking and bantering
This is the first time I've ever felt something like this. After years of being used and mistreated by roasties, including my own sister, I gave up on trying to play the dating game. I never imagined it would end up like this.
I still can't get hard to guys. I tried jacking it to gay porn and it didn't work. My dick only seems to stand for roasties, still. That guy is the only one that I get semi-aroused by. I think this is it. I'm so much of a KHV that I became gay. Eat shit, you disgusting whores.
Anyway, what should I do?
Traditional gender roles don't mean that the man is above the woman. Male-female partnerships in which the man brings in resources and the woman tends the hearth are just that - partnerships. Both roles are vital to making a healthy family. If you think that your own wife is beneath you, you'll either NEVER attract a good woman to be your wife, or you'll attract some sad, suicidal slave of a woman and raise a very pathetic family.
there's really no reason. if you get the right type of girlfriend, you will never be lonely, she will clarify all your thoughts, advance all your ambitions, you will have more fun, and you will be generally improved in all things 10x.
if you pick a bad girlfriend your life will be hell.
If you find a partner who has income, you'll be living in a dual income household. I wouldn't be able to survive in my expensive appartment on my own unless I had my girlfriend pulling in money. Together we make just over $90k.
lol So you're insecure. Why is that I wonder? Could it be because you think you're unloveable, and ergo can't keep a woman's love? Wonder if that might have something to do with your personality, anon?
That's a good way to lose your SO. I'd be creeped the fuck out if someone was watching me scratch my ass and eat spaghetti without my knowledge because they're THAT insecure. Bye bye.
People who are in a relationship are almost always fully cucked and they don't even realize it
>OH sorry my friends since I was 5 years old, I can't hang out because my girlfriend wants me to ...
Well he'd best find a way to do so without her knowing or he's doubly fucked, though if >>26335999 isn't hypothetical he's fucked (and cucked) regardless and probably can't afford a hidden camera room with a Batcave-style entrance.
that's the potential good outcome. The issue as I see it is that it requires a potentially independently stable personal baseline to achieve the stable relationship, and still usually, though not always, obliges that the man put time and money in as an investment on the uncertainty of that potential ideal stable relationship.
I do hope you're able to keep what you've got going. That's the best outcome, and I want it for myself too.