god dammit /r9k/, when will you start taking rape seriously??
>tfw i made a rape joke in front of a rape victim who had a crush on me
A woman wants to feel desired. That is mostly her only self-confirmation mechanism in life. If nobody desires her, she starts to swirl into this denial-situation in which she hates on males, but disguises it in a common consensus which is accepted by society under a 'good cause'. This is where this 'fight against rape culture' stems from.
For example, nobody would want to fuck the cows depicted in OP's pic, so they unite under 'rape culture' umbrella and start flaming until they emasculated all men on earth.
>when will you start taking rape seriously??
I'm working on it. I just need to perfect my tranquilliser dart aiming and get a boss looking ski mask.
>wanting used goods
I though the term for rape victims was damaged goods
Not great at greentext, be gentle
>know this qt girl in college
>one day she confides in me that she was raped by her stepfather
>give her the customary pat on the back
>its not your fault blah blah
>r9k has gotten to me though, dont want damaged goods
>ignore her feelings for me
>few months go by
>chillin with friends
>somehow a chick with blue hair comes up into the convo
>joke on how it's because her dad either didnt love her enough, or he loved her too much
>forgot rape grill was there
>she goes pale and leaves the room
>feel like an ass
that was two days ago, havent seen her since
The thing that annoys me most with women who complain about all this "rape culture" bullshit are the ones who say stop victim blaming when you ask them to responsible common sense shit, like not getting blackout drunk or not going out alone at night.
I mean the world can be dangerous for anyone, but it's especially dangerous for women. I'd like to know what preemptive steps they'd like police officers to take to stop rapists from raping them. "Tell rapists not to rape!" works just as well as telling murders not to murder and thieves not to steal. Why does no one combat them on this?
They want everyone else to be responsible for their safety. I don't complain if someone steals my shit when I leave my doors unlocked.
Why isn't there as much rape on the internet as there is beheadings and torture? I've only seen one rape video and that was 6 male inmates doing force oral and anal on another inmate in some seedy Venezuelan jail. I want more rape.
She is pretty qt
Would have probably done something about it if it weren't for the whole mental problems that i assume she has
I really hope an apology is all it takes, problem is i havent seen her in person in two days, and doing it over the phone seems kind of weird
We never had much of this 'rape culture' bullshit in Yuro, but (as with all trends from the US) it is slowly swapping over here too. What can we expect and how to counter it?
I feel like this is some stupid shit. They act like every woman is endangered every single day of their lives to being raped, while in reality the percentage of women being raped is perhaps something like 0,0001% or so.
>I mean the world can be dangerous for anyone, but it's especially dangerous for women.
>but it's especially dangerous for women.
Men are far more likely to be victims of every single category of violent crime other than rape.
Something like 70-75% of homicide victims are men.
An upper middle class suburban white girl in America is the absolute safest existence any category of humans have ever had in our 100,000+ year history.
True. What I should've said is that men are more naturally equipped to defend themselves physically than women.
They just got a shit deal in that regard, biologically speaking. They're physically more vulnerable and they want the rest of the world to protect them.
I know you may not be the best at talking to people, but you should apologize to her.
Here is a funny one:
>Me when I was 11.
>There is this girl in my school who was a whore and a dyke.
>Let's call her Dyke.
>She doesn't shows up for three days.
>School calls her home, and we are told that she was kidnapped.
>Don't care too much, she was a bitch anyways.
>Fast foward two days.
>She comes back to school.
>I, being a curious son of a bitch I want to know all the details.
>We were told she was indeed kidnapped, but I wanted to know the whos and the whats.
>I know our mutual friends know but they won't say a thing about it.
>I make my final offer, if they don't tell me right now, I will go and call that girl a whore.
>They don't buy it, tell me I am bluffing.
>I was, but they didn't really knew that, so I start walking towards her real fast while saying, "Oh, Dyyyyyke there is something I want to tell youu"
>My best female friend grabs me before I can finish and tells me she was kidnapped and raped by her stepfather.
>I start laughing at the thought of what I was about to do without a shred of remorse, while she tells me how much of a son of a bitch I was.
She avoids seeing me in person, so I think this is the best option, wish me luck
she is trying to make it a non-issue you autistic faggot
stop being a fucking retard
you need to corner her about it and find out everything in detail. do not let her weasel out of it, open communication is critical and she has to reveal everything if she respects your relationship in any way.
also, show her the dick, just get it over with, ask her for her honest opinion.
You mean ask her about the rape?
How do I respond to this
Only real advice please
Unless it's trips
A. ask her if she enjoyed the rape
B. ask her if she wants to fuck you
Just destroy their arguments as fast as possible, the problem is always, that those idiot movements get too much momentum and you cant say shit again.
little story of me
>have gf from latvia, beautiful white and undamaged girl
>one day one of her friends posts the "dear daddy" video on facebook, one of those girls with piercing
>leave nasty comment about how stupid this video is and that she should stop promoting hate and lie on the internet
>continue to delete her from friendlist and gf confronts me as to why I deleted her friend
>told gf about how those videos create false ideas and dogmas, inserted facts about real rape statistics, and the disadvantage of males being accused of false rape
>gf was angry with me, and her female emotion didnt like it
>either way she had to decide if she wanted to keep leeching on my positive male energy or not, so she had to agree in the long term
>make visit to latvia for holiday, seeing her parents
>at a party she meets her friend, she isnt happy to see me, and neither am I
>ignore her the whole night, my gf and I go around the party to talk to her other friends, while slowly the feminist friend is getting zero attention anymore
>see her sad silent face walk out of the bar
If women are alone with their stupid ass "logic" there is no problem because they have no one who is backing up their shit.
But if there is a group of idiots, they slowly believe they are right, because "hey the others also think its like that, so it must be right"
She is okay, she may have it hard in the moment of hearing the joke though, but she seems to be okay now.
Also, do you like her? You know she likes you, but do you like her back?
If yes, ignore your r9k self and ask her out.
I guess I could give the idea of a relationship a shot
Where the hell do I go from here though?
I performed an experiment where I walked through a dangerous, urban community at one in the morning; waving drugs and money in the air. For some reason I got the shit kicked out of me, and robbed. Someone needs to tell these people to stop.
Tell her that you love her
Trips don't lie
Don't listen to this guy
Too sudden of a transition
tell her you love her instead
also check these trips
Fine last try
If i get trips or doublr dubs, you gotta tell her that you love her
Jesus fucking Christ, this is why happens when you meme in real life.
I am legitimately sick to my stomach right now
Did you unironically tell a girl no human no diamond? Do you just gobble up all the shit /r9k/ feeds you? If this is real you are so fucking retarded. Placing bets now, you are a virgin, and for a good reason lol
You realize that /r9k/ is satire right?
I woke people up laughing
OH GOD YOU RETARD YOU FUCKED IT ALL TO HELL AND BACK
Why are you still alive?
What the fuck?
>No Hyman no Dimond
Why would you say that to a girl you like? Was it a joke?
This has to be fake, good work retard I laughed.
Even if it's confirmed, it isn't a matter of being a virgin or not, it's having common fucking sense.
Dunno man, never fixed something of this proportions before, you are something special.
Tell her it was a joke or something.
I feel like complete shit
There is no return from this
Now he's gonna make a thread on about a week about missed opportunities and regret lol
YOU'RE SEEING IT HERE LIVE FOLKS
To think you actually could have banged this girl
Why do you hate yourself? WHy are you doing this?
"I could make exceptions but in general I wanted someone with my level of experience."
But honestly you should've stopped typing long ago and this is obviously bait or you're a masochist, just stop anytime bro.
>maybe I can still salvage the situation
Are you literally(literally) retarded?
go with this, anon
Well, anon, you have no one to blame but yourself.
You should consider being an hero.
You're a fucking retard.
"HURR I'm drunk I cant take responsibility for any of my actions the alcohol was talking not me, it definitely didn't just make me say things I was already thinking!"
All my advice, write it in your own words, IF YOU'RE REAL DO NOT TYPE SOMETHING YOU'VE COME UP WITH ON YOUR OWN AGAIN.
She's not going to be your gf but she doesn't have to hate you retard.
The more nervous I get the more I drink, it's a vicious cycle
>are you only saying these things because you feel bad for me?
Holy shit. If you play your cards right you are IN THERE.
STOP apologizing for that other shit.
Wait a minute, now that you're successful I'm less inclined to believe this is real. Entertaining, nonetheless.
I'm in for the whole ride, where are you taking us next OP?
Tell her the reason that you wanted a virgin gf is that you are too inexperienced, and want a girl at your level
this t b h, no answer to that question is satisfying she just has to stop thinking about it.
Nothing and I suggested something similar in my spiderman post, but it's changing the subject at this point might as well wait for a new response.
s h o w . h e r . t h e . d i c k
she will change her tune instantly.
it's what you both are waiting for, honestly.
you know this in your heart.
just get it over with.
I really hope that you guys are right
>not sending her a picture of your penis
negro what are you doing?
the only way this will succeed is if she wants your boner. there is no other way. you cannot talk your way out of this, you have to appeal to her lust and biological programming.
tbqhwy mi familia
>i have seen the face of god and it was weeping
Show her this thread, go for broke.
It can't be real man, it's like I'm in the twilight zone.
How about you guys give me some usable advice instead of making fun of me
>give me some usable advice
you can stop literally(literally) any time
The engravings should mention "For memeing IRL and being a dense autistic retard".
See, I knew she would answer that, you are an autistic idiot who shouldn't have said that. It's your fault.
You unironically repeated an ironic [r9k] meme to an IRL girl and repeatedly translate our advice into aspie. I don't know how to help you. I can't think of anything to say to that. She's obviously mad about her own hymen but you SHOULD NOT BRING THAT UP I AM MAKING IT VERY CLEAR NOT TO ADDRESS THAT.
"I was just masking my insecurities, it's shitty I know I'm an asshole, "
Go back in time and never make this thread.
Can you tell us why you thought it was a good idea to ASK HER OUT after she referenced her RAPE BY FATHER FIGURE? Why did you do it anon? You were already golden.
This is the only acceptable option aside from acting even more retarded for shits and giggles. You dun burned the bridge. The best way this thing ends is with you crying yourself to sleep tobehonest
>It would have been okay
I doubt it.
> if the retard hadn't said "no hymen no diamond" to her
Did he know she was a rape victim before he said that? If so I might cease to exist as my laughter consumes me.
"It's one of those things for me, that, makes me feel better if the whole world knows it even if they dont care. I'm sure I thought I was trying to impress somebody, but now that I think about it i'm not sure who has been a real enough friend for me to waste my time impressing them"
what do I do, nobody is giving me any advice worth while
>She implied it here (>>26337298)
toppest of keks
Give up. She has all the power in this conversation. If you ever do anything wrong, she will hold this over your head. You royally fucked up. Move on. Hot sluts are a dime a dozen.
It's over she's already disengaged and talking down to you like a child.
Here's some cheesy garbage
"I just started caring about you more than I cared about that"
Like just stop? I don't even know why you took it this far.
Come on man, why'd you ask her out now of all times?
>I doubt it
She didn't seem shaken up or anything she was fine, but she cares enough about our anon that she remembered his autistic meme.
Anon, she is implying that she is traumatized about sex, not all women are like your mother.
>She didn't seem shaken up or anything she was fine
Nonsense, women are never fine fine is codeword for furious.
>but she cares enough about our anon that she remembered his autistic meme
No, if that were true she would've stopped hanging out with him after the hymen joke INSTEAD of the rape joke.
She's using ammo she's held against him in this conversation because SHE'S NOT fine with the rape joke.
He would've never heard the hymen shit if he never told the rape joke.
Hey, you didn't handle that last one terribly.
>obvious that sex is important to you
Sex isn't important to her
She wants you to KNOW that she's speaking strictly theoretically.
This is your best chance to STOP REPLYING. PUT THE PHONE DOWN.
>She has all the power in this conversation
Hahaha why did you have to fucking ask her out? now of all times.
>Hey sorry about that time you got raped by your dad
>btw wanna go out
Shoulda dropped the sorry. Kept the thank you for a rainy day and just let her go man fuck.
>This is your best chance to STOP REPLYING. PUT THE PHONE DOWN
That was a long time ago, he obviously doesn't have the willpower for it and leaving her hanging won't solve shit. She already knows he's serious about the gf shit, it's bait for her to twist the rejection knife in deeper because he hurt her.
"I just started caring about you more than I cared about that"
Or just ask to talk in person, or just stop. this is twelve kinds of fucked up.
I've been in your place (not exactly of course) but my texts were ignored so I apologized in person.
This also isn't bad advice.
I was still holding out hope it's a troll thread... but we're in too deep now there's no keks to be had from a 'troll' like this.
>"I just started caring about you more than I cared about that"
You got to be fucking kidding me.
That reinforces that he cares about his women being pure and unsullied flowers. which she takes great offense to. >>26337298 >>26336839
Just don't respond and she'll- ah fuck, its already too late at this point isnt it...
WHY DIDN'T YOU STOP
DAMN YOU STRAIGHT TO HELL ROBOT
ITS ALL OVER
IM DONE WITH THIS FUCKING THREAD
YOU JUST NEED TO KEEP REPLYING TO HER, HUH
>are you still there
YOU WERE WINNING
YOU HAD IT IN THE BAG
YOU WERE SET
SHE WAS DESPERATE FOR (YOU)S AND YOU GAVE THEM
You butchered it, I thought it was cheesy before but you made it worse.
Why didn't you just talk to her in person? The phone sucks.
Don't drink in text anon, let this be a lesson to you.
Nigga needs to learn there's a line for a reason
SHE WASNT TALKING ABOUT SEX AND YOU KNOW IT
YOU DAMN-WELL KNEW IT
fuck anon. You made this anons night.
Don't ask for advice here next time pal.
Also you're implying sex would be shit with her, why did you word it like that man? Just take a nap and you'll feel better in the morning.
>i care about you more than sex
She's probably going to think you're full of shit and playing her, you're going to get your ass chewed out.
>get diagnosed with aspergers
>show her your tard papers
>she'll be your tard friend
Okay then, just go to bed man.
I told you she would think you were playing her.
Just let it be over man, maybe say "sorry about all that" once when you meet her in person but otherwise let it be over.
It was never an option.
Here's my similar story
>talk shit about a girl who was my friend
>she finds out and cuts me off
>won't sit next to me in class, won't talk to me
>walks away from me all the time and ignores me when I say shit to her
>her friends won't tell me why she's mad
>meet her in person after class and she keeps walking away
>I keep pace with her and ask her what happened and that I missed hanging out
>she tells me she heard my shit talking
>apologize for being an asshole
>hug and it's over
Don't text people over emotional shit, and don't ask girls out after pissing them off.
I HAVE A WAY OUT
Seriously what do I say to this
If you had followed this advice literally one post ago you'd have been in her pants, I'm not even joking.
Play the drunk card for all it is worth familia, it is literally(literally) your only option
OP you said you would do whatever trips said, you had better delivar
The gods have seen fit to grant me this small boon, should I tell you guys what happens tomorrow?
That's he only reason I would make a tripcode
I would be interested but what could happen? The story is over. You are never getting in her pants and best case scenario is the friendship is strained for a few months until it's eventual collapse. That or you'll just do more retarded shit because you're a retard
Somebody please make a screenshot of this story
God damn it Charels, I could have fucking saved you had I discovered this post earlier. Fuck, you're such an idiot. Oh well, no hope now. Can someone save these and compile a masterpost?
Charles, don't do that, I mean it would be funnier but come on man.
I will always wonder if this kind of advice is said seriously by literally retarded people or ironically by people trying to troll unsuspecting anons. As much as I'd like to know, there's no way to find out.
>implying he will be able to look her in the face after this
Not only he fucked up the conversation at that point, but he'll also fuck it up in person cause he wont be able to act so aggressively and it will just ruin their relationship or get him friendzoned. If he kept going he might have got somewhere.
>If he kept going he might have got somewhere.
What should he have said next?
> he'll also fuck it up in person cause he wont be able to act so aggressively
And what their whole relationship would have to exist online? If he can't cop it in the real world they can't be a thing. They're not anyways, I've never seen a trainwreck like this.
Post some work you've done in this field.
>their whole relationship would have to exist online?
No, you dense fuck, it only has to end on a good note last text.
Something like denying the drunkness or pinning the problem on her would've worked. Like, "I'm not the one who has a problem" kind of thing.
I understand guilt tripping her, I don't understand how denying the drunkenness without guilt tripping her would've done anything.
>Like, "I'm not the one who has a problem" kind of thing
And what's her problem? What do you do if she blows up on you for that one?
>pinning the problem on her
>girl gets raped
>anon makes rape joke
>she gets reasonably upset
>it was your fault
im starting to think that you are the autistic one
"I'm not the one who was raped, that's your problem, bitch"
Sounds good, they would surely have started a relatuonship after that, and made love for the sole reason of procreation.
>but it wasn't just about the rape joke it was about memeing IRL about something more hurtful to her that the rape joke.
Like I said before, she cut contact after the rape joke.
If the meme was the problem she would've cut contact after the meme.
If she's vulnerable she might've fallen in line, I've seen more fucked up relationships.
You come up with a problem or shift the direction of the conversation.
I'm not that great at this, though, I'm just good at pointing mistakes and bad advice. I don't know the right thing to do.
>she gets reasonably upset
That's good, though. If she's upset with you, she's thinking about you. When she realizes you're just a helpless shit after you say you're sorry and she's right she goes back to thinking about Chad like she usually does.
>No, he said she was avoiding seeing him in person
I see, I see.
>He probably texted her a couple of times to see her and she had things to do.
Maybe, only OP could tell us with certainty.
I take it more serious than those special snowflake SJWs who keep crying "eyerape", "fartrape","breatherape", and whatnot.
Those are the people you should ask that question of when they'll start taking rape seriously.
Those are the people who marginalize rape and in effect make people care less about rape; they are the the biggest enemies of actual rape victims - bar actual rapists.
Bruh, I just woke up my whole house
It's too early for this
Women are garbage. All they do is fuck chads and niggers. We need to take away their right to vote and force them to be mothers and house wives again so they stop having sex with niggers simply because they have big cocks. We need to stop treating women as out equals and just rape them. All women shiuld beome sex slaves that suck our dicks on command. Thsts why we need isis thry know whats up.
RAPE ALL WOMEN
why did you stop?
she replied 3 times, she made an excuse for you, and she started a new conversation topic (about you)
shes invested. stopping now will only set you back to square 1 tomorrow