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>Hits on her
>Confess my feelings
>Ask her on a date
>She says she's focused on work so no time for dating
>THIS FUCKING HAPPENS
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What's the problem? She's not interested but thinks that you're a great friend.

You can't get angry with her for that.
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>>26320014
"Friend"

>Your a great friend
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lmao you got friendzoned. But at least she did it nicely.
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>>26320014
Yes he can. If she truly cared about him she would suck his dick. Are you retarded?
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>>26320014
>She's not interested but thinks that you're a great friend.

If she had a tiny bit of empathy, she wouldn't say anything and just tell OP she's not interested.
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>>26320032
Yes? The rest is up to OP, he can keep orbiting or move on. What would you have done in her situation?
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>>26319973

Just tell her you can't be friends. Seriously, it's not possible. I've never ever seen it work. You fucked up by not starting off indicating you were interested in dating her.

IT'S NOT THAT HARD YOU BETA KEKS. You can't wait around forever and be friendly and THEN ask her out without ever indicating your interested in her that way. Fucking retarded betas lolz.
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Anon. Did I ever tell you about OP? He was the best orbiter in the galaxy. He was a cowardly beta, and a good firend
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>>26319973
She seems sweet, but you need to be more assertive or just dump her. Reply back "I don't need any friends. We can't be friends because I find you attractive. Just don't text me again" or something along those lines. Your best bet right now is just to move on and cut all contact from her.
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>>26319973
She seems nice. Sometimes I wish I had a nice female friend to talk to.

I have a few female Facebook 'friends' but they always ignore me once they get a bf and some of them will even unfriend or block me if I try to talk to them.

Just a simple "hi how are you?" and I'm lucky if I get the "sorry, I have a boyfriend" response.

It's not like I'm not making any advances. I just want someone to talk to, someone to make the loneliness go away for just a little bit.
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>>26320479
Why would you want a female friend? They are the literaly worse friends on the planet. Just get bro friends, literally does everything better.
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That's fine, now you have a close friend you can count on to be there for you.

I got turned down by the person is now one of my best friends.
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>>26320789
This

anyone who says anything else is autistic
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>>26320789
How can somebody be your friend if they wont even put your dick in their mouth. What a shit friend.
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>>26320037
This is so fucking stupid... Why must men ALWAYS think with their penises? Jesu Christ, I care about my brother and I love him with all my heart doesn't mean I'm going to suck his dick... Ugh
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>>26320906
>doesn't mean I'm going to suck his dick... Ugh

Or does it? :3
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>>26320789
>>26320824
men and women can't be friend you giant faggot.
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>tfw go from dating to friendzone

Its literally worse
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>>26320906
asdasdasdasdoriginallpost
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>>26320929
?!?!?!?!?!!!!!
UGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHSGSHSBSHEHDHSHSHSHGPISGWHWJEHSVSV
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>>26320947
that's not true
I have a female friend
I have a few actually
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>>26320906
>doesn't mean I'm going to suck his dick
Guess you don't love him with all your heart then. Fucking hypocrite.
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Do the classic "I've got enough friends already, goodbye" thing.
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>>26320951
>>26321032
Ohhhh my god I'm the one who's baiting??? how the fuck do you even want girls to talk to you if every girl that's nice to you automatically want you to fuck her?!?!
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>being a bitch that confesses via text.
woman hate this man. its like your trying to hide behind the safety of a screen because you're insecure and so afraid of rejection.
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>>26320906

UGHHHH
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ughhughhhguuuuuuuu
uuuuuuuhhhhg


uuuhhuuuggghhhh
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>>26321128
>le nice guy meme
they dont deserve for us to be nice
we should get it because we want it
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>>26320906
It's difference between girls as friends and girls as family member. Like a female family member would work super hard trying to help you hook up with a girl at a club or bar , while a female friend are petty and don't want to see you succeed. Female "friends" never help hook you up/
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>>26320064
I fail to see how a frank and cold rejection is better than an assurance that she is comfortable with being a friend. Not having a girlfriend sucks, but having friends isn't the worst thing in the world.
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>>26321128
What? Men want to fuck women, just like you want to fuck men, of course we want to fuck the girl. And if she was nice she would do it. You are being stupid.
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>>26320947
I have some female friends I was never even attracted to. So that's that.
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>>26320906
>Ugh

This sort of shit makes me want to physically hurt people.
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>>26320906
UGH. Why must women wear low cut tops that... ugh. show their cleavage?

Then they have the nerve to shout at the man for looking... ugh.
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>>26320064
Thats the opposite of empathy though.
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solution, stop being a beta fuck
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>>26321336
It's better than potentially leading somebody on
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>>26319973
And he was a good friend.
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>>26321246
Have you ever thought about mmm maybe not everything in the world is about sex????? Maybe some people just like to be friendly WITH NO INTENTION AT ALL to have sex with the person they're being nice too perhaps?
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>>26319973
you're not a sexual being to here.

In her mind you're not allowed to have sexual thoughts.
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>>26320906
>Ugh
Fuck off.
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>>26321451
OP would've complained anyway so what's the point really.
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>>26319973
I'd be pissed off briefly, but there isn't any need to be nasty about it. Be friendly, but don't go out of your way to talk to her; "hi" if you run into her, respond if she texts, etc. Some people will actually try to hook you up with their friends/family if you seem like an alright guy.

At least you have the balls to go for it.
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When will you KEKs realize that frienzone doesnt exist? Its just a form of rejection you idiots stop using it as excuse for being rejected.
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>>26320014
Daily reminder that men and women cannot be friends. One person will always want to have sex or be in a relationship with the other.
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>>26319973
Why do you faggots keep expressing your fucking feelings to women like this? What makes you think this is a good idea? What the actual fuck?
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>>26319973
>Doing it over a text
Bro. No. God dammit what's wrong with you?
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>>26319973
le friendzone *tips hat*
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>>26321232
Yes it is the worst thing in the world, What's worse:

a) being really hungry with no food around
b) being really hungry with lots of food around that you can't eat.

Flat out rejection is much better than this shit.
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>>26323115
If literally the only thing you value in terms of human interaction is the possibility for sex than you really need to fucking reevaluate yourself.
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>>26319973
Expressing feelings in words is the worse way possible
You sound entitled, you sound inexperient
fuck that
seriously you stupid fucks
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>>26323115

Nobody is so amazing that just their company is enough to make up for the pain, heart ache, and humiliation of them rejecting you.
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>>26319973
Be her 'friend' and don't talk to her anymore.
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either think less with your dick or move on
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>>26320951
>soul purpose


oc do not steal
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>"Just know I'll always be there as a friend"
Looks like she used the "I don't want to date you right now, but I will keep you around when I'm done with Chad" card on you.
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>>26319973

Cut all contact. She is a lost cause that will bring you nothing but pain.
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reply with "rofl now that's what I want to hear"
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>>26319973
THIS. IS. NOT. OKAY. SCREW YOUR BODY-POLICING OF POLYSENSUAL-IDENTIFYING WOCS!!!!!! i literally hope you bleed to death, you binary-overprivileged TERF!!!!! I HOPE YOUR FUCKING ASSHOLE PROLAPSES, YOU WHITE-PRIVILEGED SINGLETIST!!!!!!!! YOU CAN BE A DEMISENSUAL LITTLE PERSON & STILL HAVE ABLE-BODY FUCKING PRIVILEGE!!!! ALL FUCKING TROLLS CAN FUCKING GO TO IN HELL!!! WHAT THE HELL DO YOU HAVE AGAINST VEGETARIANISM & EGALITARIANISM, YOU GENDER-NORMATIVE HITLER???????? TL;DR: MAKE LOVE TO YOURSELF IN A FURNACE!!!!!!!!
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>>26319973
>Talk to grill
>We go to different Unis, quite far away, but used to college together
>She starts messaging me, cutesy stuff, how we can meet up over Christmas breaks
>Christmas break comes, ask her if she wants to do something
>"Sorry i'm at my sisters, will be at home next week though"
>See her location is where she said it was
>Next week comes, too autistic to ask anything
>NYE comes, she actually messages me saying "Hope you're having a good night"
>Message her asking to meet up
>"Sure"
>"Just let me know when your free and we can meet up"
>She never responds
>Gets to last day of holiday, she asks me how being back at Uni was as went back earlier
>Ask her how her last week in hometown was
>"Boring, just watched netflix alone all day ahha"

She's told me she likes me, her friends have told me she likes me, why did she do this robots, why.
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>>26324246
>Message her asking to meet up
>"Sure"
>"Just let me know when your free and we can meet up"
>She never responds

Girls are absolutely fucking rubbish at that. They're basically not interested in meeting up. Did that with a girl I used to work with. Soon as I left, we hardly kept in contact but thought it'd be nice to catch up. Told her those exact words of "let me know when you're free". She never bothered.
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>>26322724
You're assuming everybody is heterosexual. check your privelege shitlord
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>>26321020
>>26321254
>ITT: Orbiters in denial
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>>26324291
They're like children man, just annoys me as she's told me she wants to date me, I have a strict don't message anyone first policy, so the fact she commenced messages on all the occasions gave me some hope. Wish she'd never talked to me tbqh.
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>>26319973
"I have no interest in you as a life mate but it doesn't mean I don't care about you, you're like a little sister to me."

There ya go.
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>>26319973
Think you can be her friend and it wont eat at you when she falls in love with others?
Stay her friend
Think you will always crave for her as a mate?
Get out now. You can even just apologies to her making it clear that you will always want something more and it's not good to try and force a friendship from that.
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What's with all the cucks and roasties in this thread?
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>>26324350
I got along with the girl I used to work with. Was funny cause we both had the same last name so we always joked around.

Alas, she's just one of those same old skanks that say "YEAH LET'S MEET UP" but then never bother.

>>26324374
Don't forget to say "you're like a little sister to me. A little sister I want to fuck"
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>>26324291
I usually just message "hey hows this day and time?" and go from there
If they try to work it out that we meet they are interested
If they postpone it with no clear resolution
they are not interested
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>Men and women can be friends
Uh yea, no. Let this Redditor explain you why
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>Got Phoenix Wright game for my 3ds to play with friend
>Go round to their place to play it
>We only play for like an hour in between doing other shit
>2 days later I ask if she wants to play again sometime soon
>Her reply is "my parents don't get it they're like 'anon came the other day tho' looool"
>I had been round the week before
>wow
>Literally all she has to say about playing the game again
>She starts talking about something else
>Messages me a few times since, just random shit
>I haven't replied as I'm flabbergasted at her reply

What the fuck, she's literally the only friend I have that's happy to just sit indoors and play vidya and eat junk food. We're both in our mid 20's as well, this is fucking bullshit.
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>>26324772
You got demoted to orbiter, im sorry
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>>26324420
You must be new here. Welcome to /r9k/.
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>>26324813
That's the thing though, she's a complete neet. I've seen her facebook and she barely speaks to anyone, I'm her top contact. She showed me her texts the other day and she hadn't had any in months.

Crazy thing is she isn't fat or ugly. Just a dedicated neet. She messages me more than I message her. Always sending me screenshots from phoenix wright games she's playing on her DS. So fuck it, if she doesn't want to hang out in person I can't be fucked with talking over facebook every day, I work abroad so I don't get to see her often as it is.
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>>26324772
>someone to play vidya with
>doesn't mind you going to her place
>her parents are not hostile to you
>actually messages you and recognizes your existence
>you and her are both happy

Why would that be "fucking bullshit"?
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>>26325256
It's just a mindfuck, that's why. She's like the best friend I have in this country and when I ask to hang out she makes a weird comment like that. What the fuck is it even implying? She's the one who always insists I go round to hers. I used to go round more often a couple years ago so I don't see why her parents would have a problem. They even give me birthday/xmas cards and shit, I'm pretty sure they like me.

Guess this is what happens when your only friend is a girl, sometimes wish she was a guy.
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>>26319973
serves you right you fucking loser and stop bother other people with your annoying shit.
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>>26319973
I don't get your problem. She had already told you she saw you as a friend before that, didnt she?

>>26321451
If she had just told him she wasnt interested you people would be crying about ho roasties have no empathy. You are impossible to please
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>>26319973

>>She says she's focused on work so no time for dating

Does this mean theres a chance? Someone please explain this to me. I had the same thing happen to me
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>>26325405
As you said previously >>26325220 ,she doesn't have much people to spend time with. She probably wants someone to give her a bit of attention.
There is no problem with her awkwardness. Remember that she doesn't have much people to socialize, so the only way for her to approach someone is the vidya gems.

Be glad she even invites you. I have this crush on this girl who seems to be exactly like your description. The only difference is that she is very very very hard to be with. Always quitting in the last minute our date.

I bet her parents are glad some boy is showing interest in their antisocial daughter. You better hold on to that meat.
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>>26319973
listen OP, the only reason a girl friend zones you is to use you for free love and affection, and if you agree to remain friends with her she'll just take advantage of your feels while she fucks chad. The best part about that is she'll tell you all the stories of how great chads cock is while she uses you as an emotion tampon. Never talk to this cunt again.
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>>26325786
The "too focused on work so no time for dating" line is most often BS. Maybe if it is followed by a "maybe on next monday then?" there could be a change.
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>>26325879
But the girl Im talking to is pretty insistent on being "good friends" (her words)

Do I have a chance? Please. I dont want to be a robutt :(
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>>26324246
she's using you for free attention, she has no desire for your dick. stop loving these cunts for free! fuck sakes!!!

if you really want to fuck bitches be like chad. chad loves only his guitar. chad never loves the bitches, never love them. NEVER!
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>>26325923
If you're looking for something other than being a good friend, you're cucked anon. She wants to friendzone the shit out of you.
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>>26325792
Her mother's sick of her being a neet and not looking for work (we went to Uni together, she's not dumb),

I could be leaving the country in 1/2/3 months - which I told her. I just want to see her while I'm here. It's just frustrating, for her to reply to me in such a way.

She's really pretty as well, not too different from pic related. She has essentially ruined my view of women since I didn't think girls like her existed, at least not attractive ones. Now that I do, I fear I'll never find another girl like her.

I don't want this feel.
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>>26319973
>flirt with girl on and off, we might have something going
>ask to hang out in an hour
>she says sure
>cancels like 20 minutes later
>"how about tomorrow at 4 love?"
>agree
>text her "we still meeting up today?" about 15 minutes before 4
>no response

Literally why.
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>>26326305
Sounds like you got cucked anon, im srry
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>>26326339
Nah, she was a secondary girl. I already knew shit like this would probably happen.

Still, why does she feel the need to lie and then so obviously pretend to not get my text or something. She never even sent a response.

Fucking retarded. Worst part is, im better looking and better off then her. She doesnt even have a car. I guess she wants her 6'5 demi god chad that makes 250k a year.
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>>26326029
Where is that girl in pic related from? Pls respond.
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>>26326029
I wish I could give to total certainty that reply was just her way of being awkward. Truth is, if I did that I was not only lying to you but also to me. I have gotten the same kind of answer coming from the same type of girl, and now things don't look so good right between us two.

I would still advise you to go after her and spend the most quality time you possibly can with her. Deep down I would like to think that someone out there in the same situation as me was successful in their romantic interests. That could only mean that my torment it's only my fault.
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>>26326447
South East England, it's from a protest in Dover the other week.
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>>26320906
ugh baka uwu
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>>26326483
This year she's started playing with her hair when we hang out. This is something she has never done in the 6 years I've known her. When she makes eye contact with me, she always looks down at my lips. So for her to reply to me like this feels so bizarre, we've never been closer. I thought getting this game so we could hang out more often was a good idea, she seemed more excited than me. Clearly not, I guess now I have to wait for her to ask me to come.

Holy fuck man, I just hate being in this situation. In all the years I've known her I haven't even attempted speaking to another girl since she's the only one I'm interested in. I wish she was ugly so maybe I'd have a chance.
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>>26326485
Not that guy but fuck I'm in the south-east. If I'd known this protest was happening I would've loved to have come down to Dover to talk to qt right-wing grills and btfo some cucked antifas
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>She says she's focused on work so no time for dating

LMAO! A girl once said this to me but said she's always busy with school. Like a naive idiot I believed her and even asked her a few times if I could help her study, I was rejected. Then the next week she was dating Chad. Bitches don't have the passion or drive to be obsessed with anything outside of themselves.
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>>26326630
That recent change of gestures and attitudes proves I drastic change in her opinion of you. Reading through you reply I notice something that happened to me, a negative one I mean.

>Her reply is "my parents don't get it they're like 'anon came the other day tho' looool"
>I guess now I have to wait for her to ask me to come.

Doesn't that reply seem to come from someone who is either tired or at least wants you to take her somewhere else. Didn't you fell for the "oh she is just a lazy neet who doesn't want to leave the house and meet new people" meme?
Reading that again and again it kind sounds like another way of saying "well I don't know I guess you could come over AGAIN!?".
Maybe she is tired of being home all day, take her out no?
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>>26321157
Fucking brilliant, anonpai!
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>>26326630

Wew lad, are you really that stubborn. She likes you, she wants to be with you, she wants you to get her out of her room and do stuff.

You totally have a chance with her. Just stop acting like a fag and be with her.
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>>26327023
Maybe. We've been to the cinema a few times and used to always go out to eat when we went to uni. Been out to eat a few times this year as well. We even came up with a list of places to go out to eat when I came back.

I would ask her to do something else but she always gives a lukewarm reaction whenever I propose anything other than playing vidya and ordering pizza. If we ever do something else I wait for her to ask me rather than get shot down like I did today.

She's way out my league and we've been friends for so long that it just feels like I have no chance with her, even though she seems to have changed her body language. We'll sit shoulder to shoulder right nexto eachother to play DS games and she doesn't seem at all bothered about me being that close to her.

I'll ask her if she wants to go out to eat again but if she says no I really don't know what I'm going to do.
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>>26327224
Mate I'm on /r9k/ for a reason, just cos I spend time with a girl doesn't mean I'm a normie who can cope with this bullshit.

I'll ask her if she wants to go somewhere, but like I said >>26327272 it's usually down to her.
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>>26327272
Why don't you start being assertive? Instead of waiting for her to answer your invitation, you should say things like "Let's go to x" or "Let's grab dinner tonight". Maybe she's shy or embarrassed to proactively ask you out or respond quickly. Leading her on might be the way, unless she isn't interested in you.
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In these situations they most likely make horrible friends and if you do manage to date her she will be an even worse gf.
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>>26327272

"Hey, I am free this day at this time, let's go out to the local McDicks and to the park afterwards."

Here you go, m80.

A female classmate, who used to be my crush, said this year that we should go on a little trip together. Twice. I was abroad so I told her to text me once I am home and/or she has time.

Well, that never happened. Grills do this all the time.
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>>26327354
She hates short notice stuff. Whenever I propose something short notice she says no as she needs to know in advance so she can get ready/wash her hair and other bullshit.

I had proposed going round the next day once (being assertive as you say) and not tomorrow but later on in the week for sure.

She's never been too shy ask me to go places.

>>26327487
Fine. Pic related, suggested going to a new grill that opened up late last year. No reply.
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>>26327272
All those things you say you did seemed to have happened before she changed her body language. Maybe the time and affection you have been showing her recently have showed her that she can be comfortable to leave her safe space and spend some time with you. Perhaps it's time to ask her out again.

Also just like the others fags have said: >>26327354 , >>26327487
You definitely should be more assertive. This is more of life lesson since it can apply to everyone not just that one girl you like.
"Let's go to X? Is this ok with you?" it's far better than "Wanna go out someday?".
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>>26327626
*She replied saying not tomorrow but later on in the week for sure
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I have no idea why guys continue to willingly put themselves through this bullshit instead of strictly using hookers and focusing their free time on other pursuits.
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>>26320037
oh you...
bloxbloxblox
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>>26319973
>>26319973
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p37_Ux1G_BI

:^(
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>>26327626

BITCHES

ORIG SHIT
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>>26327626
>She hates short notice stuff
Not liking short notice stuff is OK. I hate it myself too. Being "assertive" doesn't mean asking to go out today but inserting the location and time in the reply. "Would you like to go to X at Y time next Monday?" should work just as fine.
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>>26327626
Dude just dont. These girls make horrible gfs and horrible friends. Wait for someone who really loves you. I speak from experience. She'll be dating a guy really soon, just wait.
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>>26319973
Then ask her for sex. If she has no time for dating go straight to the fucking.
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>>26327725

Please read before replying.
>>26324772
>>26325405
>>26326029
>>26326630
>>26327272
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>>26327641
Her body language has changed but it's still not enough for me to know how she feels.

>>26327725
That's the thing, I've spent the last 6 years waiting for her to get a bf which would essentially ruin our friendship. Yet she's been single the whole time I've known her (since we were 18) and she's never mentioned having previous boyfriends.

She's literally my best friend and the only person who hasn't completely forgotten me since I've started working in another country. She's the only one who kept messaging me even though I was on the other side of Europe. She was the only one who'd hop on steam to play a few rounds of TF2 with me.

I've never made a move since I'm so uncertain, and I don't want to lose the only real friend I have left here. Just fuck my shit up.
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>>26327913
>but it's still not enough for me to know how she feels.
I guess you only know when she replies.
Got any response from her yet? Keep us update anon.
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>>26327724
Yeah that's what I though, I can deal with her not liking short notice stuff, I'm quite similar anyway. It's different for her since she has to wash her hair and put on make up/straighten her hair all all that shit. If she has no plans for the day she doesn't bother with any of it.

We'll see. if she replies to my message I'll ask her if she wants to go next week.
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>>26319973
>I'll never suck your dick but please feel free to become my orbiter in case I need help moving furniture, getting a job, borrowing money I won't repay, oh and of course don't forget my expensive birthday and holiday presents, you know, like normal friends do all the time.
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>>26327986
She hasn't replied even though we were in conversation about the place. We already planned to go there ages ago.

We got chinese food the other day, and for the last 2 months I've had some form of heartburn issues (been on medication that stops stomach acid production for 3 weeks now) which explains the convo.

I'm not going to know how she feels based on her saying yes to going out to a meal. In fact, I have no idea how I'll ever find out how she feels without ruining our friendship.
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>>26327626
I hate to break it to you bro, but you deserve to know the truth:

You are her practice boyfriend.
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>>26328118
>She hasn't replied even though we were in conversation about the place.
Thats a good sign. You're talking about details now if she didn't wanted to go she would already tell you about it. If she goes "nah forget about going out" on you it means you really fucked up really time. No way that could happen.
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>>26325792
Since when is it fine to manipulate people for attention? When did this become normal?
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>>26328149
I doubt it. I'm just her friend.What does that even mean?

>>26328209
In all honesty us going out to eat is just normal as fuck, honestly. I already know we'll go sometime soon.

My main issue is her conflicting signals and the whole 'my parents are confused why you're always here' comment, as if that's such a bad thing. Almost like they think I'm her boyfriend and she's implying them thinking that is a bad thing. Maybe I'm grasping at straws though.
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>>26328292
What are you even talking about, anon? Nobody is manipulating anyone here.
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Orbiting the thread
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>>26325220
>>26325405

Sounds like a classic case of where you haven't been clear about what you want. I gurantee that if you made it clear you went more than friends she would be on board.
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>>26328336
>Almost like they think I'm her boyfriend and she's implying them thinking that is a bad thing.
If such date happens, why don't you ask her that? "Why did you mean by X, anonette?" Don't lie to yourself and say "hun I shouldn't say this, it could hurt our relationship". No way that could possibly have a negative impact.
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>>26328414
I dunno man. She's way out of my league. As in, I was surprised when she talked to me so much when I first met her. She's an actual neet though, she's been browsing 4chan longer than me. I just think she sees me as a really good friend since I'm the only person she knows who isn't what she calls a normie.

>>26328470
I'll try, might be too awkward though.

If anything it might just be the fact she doesn't socialise with anyone so they've made a remark since I'm round often. idk.

Also it won't be a date. it'll just be us going out to eat as we always do. At least she's never asked or expected me to pay for her meal.
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>>26321492
>>>/tv/
Take your cancer back to that containment board
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>>26324496
What are the responses to this? Anyone have them?
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