I'm 19 and i my last year of Swedish high school. I just realized I'm not gonna be a teenager or a high school student for long and I feel like I completely wasted these years.
Holy fuck this is the worst I've ever felt.
What do I do? Any robots can relate?
im 18 (19 in two months) but i never did anything all teenagers shouldve done so i feel like a fucking failure and hate myself, no friends no gf ever, not good at anything never done anything exciting future isnt looking bright end my life.
That's funny, I was just thinking today that if I was European I would've probably had a gf in high school and been more of a normie because of a strong shared culture. Guess that's not true because being a loser is apparently universal
Start working out and sign up for college. If you don't go to college, don't become a NEET.
Turned 18 this year, last year of high school and I am increasingly just not going. No friends throughout, did bare minimum, started college application process but just gave up because there's so much fucking red fucking tape for christ's fucking sake and I just didn't care enough to cut all that fucking bullshit. I never did the stuff you see in movies, and there was a time when I kind of wanted to, but I don't care now. I accept my identity as a robot, and I'm proud to be a fucking loser. Don't dwell on it, OP.
I'm in the same position as you OP and I'm making a bucket list of things I wanna do before I graduate. I hope that will make it easier to accept that I'll have to become an adult.
Coming to this board helped me feel better about social inexperience. I am genuinely proud to parade my status as a robot. If I work my way towards normie status, I'll live with that, too, but I have no intention of becoming one overnight or making a concerted effort. I have, the latter. It was shit. Just know that you're not getting any younger, and that's just the truth. You just won't have 16 year-old innocent romances or crazy nights at high school house parties or first times with drugs and sex and juvenile adventure.
Maybe that's depressing, and I can see why. But you're still young. If this is what you want out of life, at least for the time being, I don't condemn you. You won't get some experiences ever, but there is plenty of time for a fuckton of them. Go out and become a chad, bro. Go to a college and make sure you get a solid social circle going right off the bat. Get to some parties and live it up.
I'm 29 and I've wasted both my teens and my twenties. No work AND no play. The pain I feel over wasting my teens is nothing compared to the pain of wasting my twenties. You can still avert that. Don't be me.
The only thing I miss from being underage is the possibility to fuck someone's shit up and only ever do very little time, no dirty records.
Oh, and no one giving you shit for being jobless.
from norway, never been to a party, spent all my time besides school isolated, made no friends, no gf, nothing. And because of depression I fucked up and have to spend time fixing some grades which means I can't go to university before I'm 20. Jeg relaterer til deg min svenske broder!
Not studying and working my ass off in order to start fixing the shit hand I've been dealt.
But perhaps this is not your problem and all you've got to do is put yourself out there more.
I'm 18 and going away to college soon. I'm hoping that being away from the comfort of my own home and around people of my own age will turn me into a well-adjusted person instead of the mess I currently am. Will it get better robots if I try really hard to make friends or is college more cruel than high school?
lol, even worse that you're from norway
all those 10/10 blondes with tight bodies and innies that you never fucked
this coming from someone in a country with lots of hotties, but still khv
Well, you won't have it, so get over it. I feel you, man. Just move on.
Nah it isn't, and it's not like I'm some autistic edgy fuck who would rather be a robot and thinks it's cool because it's abnormal and counter-cultural. I wouldn't; it's fucked me completely. I've wanted to kill myself more times than I can count; I still do. But I've owned it, mostly owing to the knowledge that there are so many others in almost identical circumstances. I'm comforted by how relatively common my condition is.
If you really want to change, do it, don't want to sound like a normie, because I'm not (18, khv, meme illnesses), but I'm the laziest and most entitled cunt walking on earth
But if you don't want to be a robot, you don't need to, it will take a lot of effort, but you can do it
Just be aggressive and never suck it up
Well, dont waste your twenties too.
At least you're not a stubborn autist and realize you've wasted your teen years. I didnt want to admit how much I messed up until I was 27.
I have less than 2 years left and feel terrible about the lack of progress.
I do want to change, and you probably do as well, but I'm also a lazy fuck. Who doesn't want to get a taste of the normie life? The grass is always greener on the other side, and even those on the other side don't want to be robots, lmfao. It's just too difficult, and I'm too unmotivated, partially because I'm comfortable with my robot-hood. I also want to be a millionaire but I'm not making any steps towards that; I just don't want it enough, and that's alright by me.
I'm much worse than you
Even worse, my country is pratically robot free
I'm starting to think I may be the only KV around
Every friend I thought to be a robot ended up getting laid/kissed/gf, and it destroyed me
How do you know you're worse than me? Lol. We're probably on par, but this isn't a pissing contest, man. Also, if you're OP, Sweden has a fuckton of robots, what are you on? I'm sure every country has robots, but Sweden is easily above average.
the guys that usually "do stuff" have kids and a record so just say fuck it. You're a nerdy faggot but who cares? you probably will get an apartment with a volvo and be happy. and then trip about not having kids at 30, divorces at 50, health bullshit at 80, shambly oldness at 90, Death. if they haven't invented some crazy procedure to enhance life by then
Have crippling social anxiety and tried before, bought a treadmill 2 years ago I barely use because school kills me
I've had a fucked up life which turned me into fucked up person with a broken psyche who weights 360 lbs. and nah senpai that ain't easymode here because it's ''standard'' how a man is supposed to look like in northern europe
Bro I wish I had all those hot Scandi bitches around me, that should be a huge motivator.
>Go to college, get excellent grades
>Hit the gym, get fit
That's ALL you need to do. Go to r/fitness and read the wiki. Stay FOCUSED and MOTIVATED. Get some fucking discipline, Sven. So many people would give anything to be in your position: Young, tall, white, bilingual and in and 1st world country.
Don't squander your youth any longer, make and commitment to better yourself. I'm 23 and I'm doing everything I just recommended but I'd like to be in your position even more with my current mindset. Don't give up bro, you've got it. Don't let your past define your future.
19 yr old Bong here. At the end of the day our continent is going under and all the normalfags we envied are gunna get raped to death by the Mudslimes they love so much, so its all good.
Niggers, I dropped out of highschool and am 5'6. All those teenagers with tight bodies literally winced when they saw me.
just do it, yes you can
I think that stems from your desire to compare youre life to other's. Usually when you say it's wasted years you mean: i didn't fuck stacey / gone to a hundred parties, so it's wasted. Lurking this shithole could be considered wasted time but even then I think it's alright. As long as you have the drive to keep going and get somewhere in life.
That's my normie advice
Not sure this counts as I'm 22. But I've literally fucked up my uni life. Im graduating this year but its likely I won't keep in touch with many people if none at all from uni, unless its work related. Don't really know how it happened as I'm usually quite sociable if not a little awkward at times. I visit friends at their uni's now and then and have great fun at their parties but my own are just terrible. I feel like I want to start Uni all over again.
Also wished I got with more girls in my teens. Didn't lose my V till I was 19
>Holy fuck this is the worst I've ever felt.
It honestly gets better when you realize we're all gonna die and getting high or sticking your weenie awkwardly in some cunts vagoo isn't the pinnacle of human existence.
But I do relate, I felt this way for a long time too. What I miss more is not having the friendships, not so much the lack of partying or pussy.
>It honestly gets better when you realize we're all gonna die and getting high or sticking your weenie awkwardly in some cunts vagoo isn't the pinnacle of human existence.
No, it doesn't dude
Haven't you learn anything with AZ?
"Life's a bitch and then you die that's why we get high"
Envision what you want to obtain. Work towards it everyday and you will become mentally strong and resilient. Work and effort are what differentiate a dream from a goal. You can't think something into existence, you have to put your body to work to achieve what you want.
For you it would be getting over your insecurities, feelings of missing out and becoming more physically appealing to your peers. Start making efforts to eat healthier and exercise, that's going to quickly improve your mental state. You'll see yourself getting fitter and the tangible results will give you huge encouragement.
And don't bother to force yourself to think positively, that's a bunch of horseshit. If you deal with depression like have for the last 10 years you'll know that, like I said, you can't think yourself out of it. You need to start putting in the time and work physically and your mind will quiet itself. Staying active and exerting yourself makes your mind more focused and I believe wearing yourself out a bit physically does a lot to still your thoughts.
>Vision, effort and physical strain
I'm 28 and I feel that way about my teens and most of my 20s. If I keep up the same defeated, self-rejecting lifestyle, I'll look back at 35 and feel the same way, and 45, and 55, etc. My point is, don't waste time lamenting the time you wasted in the past. It's in the past and there's nothing you can do about it. Figure out what you want in life now and in the near future, and start working toward it day by day because these are the days you'll look back on at a not-too-far point in the future. The years go by fast but you still have much youth ahead of you.