>>26305194 >told my best friend I'm gay tonight >no longer afraid of dating guys From now on I'm going to diet and exercise and became really cute like I always wanted to be and never had the balls I'm 100% serious, I never had this much confidence I feel likenow I can have what I always wanted and I don't only mean men I mean my whole life
>lose weight from 229lb to 174lb in couple of months through exercising >tfw absolutely no reward after doing that >tfw you realize you need to continue working out to keep your weight low >tfw you just give up
>get tricked by the self-improvement jew >start working out >find a routine and learn all the ropes of lifting and exercising >fix my diet and go full autismo with my calorie count and macro/micro nutrients >start reading and study philosophy in my spare time >this goes on for a year and a half >got pretty big in that time because of sheer dedication and not skipping a day >woke up one day and realized that I'm still ugly as fuck >never enjoyed a second of working out, actually hated it because it was boring as fuck >still an unintelligent virgin loser with zero friends >still a high school drop out with no qualifications >just kept going because I thought that I'd eventually start getting lucky and receive some renown for my efforts >get angry at myself for wasting so much time >notice that people are actually looking at me when I'm at the gym, probably laughing at me in the locker rooms >realize that I fell flat on my face for the self-improvement meme
It's a waste of time, these threads are a blight on /r9k/.
>>26305703 I've been through the exact same shit, but I must disagree with it being a waste of time, because really what else would you have done in that time you "wasted" I don't regret falling for the self-improvement meme, as it allowed me to realize i'm irredeemable and helped me accept myself for the true degenerate I am.
By the end of my freshman year of college I was a wreck.
Since then I've
>lost 30 lbs (was 190 when I started) >learned to walk with my head up (aka not stare at ground in front of me) >learned to maintain eye contact >lost virginity >gotten multiple girlfriends >made more friends in the previous 5 years combined >etc.
So yeah, I set out to turn my life around and did. Just planned our spring break trip with my gf and friends last night
>>26305579 If you did an extreme diet your body is more likely to metabolize muscle before fat and meant the fat cells responded very quickly when you then ate normally again... also same thing as what some other guy said... if you ate a huge calorie deficit your body thought you were starving and just adjusted its metabolism to be really low and then when you ate food again... straight to fat.
>>26305256 Expecting change to happen straight away... Don't tell me you hit the gym put some muscle on and then gave up when you didn't immediately start getting laid? Look at the bigger picture.... it's the smaller things if you take up a new activity and all that shit you get a great feeling of self-efficacy and self esteem as a result you do it for yourself almost, the sense of being healthy and looking after yourself etc the immediate benefits may not be very tangible but the psychological benefits are setting you up for good things to come :)
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