>Think girl might be into me >Turns out she's just

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>>26302072
>Think girl is into me because she's so touchy
>Turns out she's touchy with everyone else

>>26302147

When will we stop suffering?

>>26302072
>>26302147
happened to me so many times, I don't even get sad about it anymore

>>26303263
>When will we stop suffering?
With luck?
When we die.

>>26303263
I think everyone else recognizes if a girl is just touchy and friendly in general and doesn't think she's attracted to them. Only needy losers like us think that way

>>26303379

This. If a girl is nice to me I see how she treats everyone else first.

It's saved me from too many feels.

That in itself is a depressing feel though.

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>>26302072
>Think girl might be into me
>Turns out she was using me just as jealousy bait for other guy.

>>26303594

That's the thing, don't ever expect it to be anything more than that. If she ever makes any advances on you then fair enough, otherwise its a standard ting for her, ya feel me

>>26303649

Yup. Just once though would I like to have a girl be into me.

Oh well, there's a reason I'm here I guess.

>>26302072
I think when growing up many girls are brought up with an inherent fear of rape. They develop a defense mechanism which is being nice to everyone. Now, i think some girls just overplay it and it evolves into their second nature or they realize that it makes life so much easier, then it also becomes second nature.

>>26303815

Huh, that makes sense actually. Kind of like a be nice to the potential school shooter thing.

time to adapt hachiman ideology amirite

>>26303608
plis kill me. it has happened too many times.

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>>26302072
>girl flirts with you
>she was just teasing
I'LL FUCKING RAPE YOU

>>26305120
hachiman is just bitter failed normie.

>>26305188

Will you though?

>>26305188
go for it chad

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>>26302072

Fucking shit. This happened to me while in college. She was fucking leading me on (getting in my personal space, being touchy), then I make the mistake of giving her attention and she tapers off.

Finals time I ask "Do you want to study for the final?"

She texts back, "Sure you can study with me and my boyfriend."

>mfw

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>girl is really friendly towards me
>turns out she was only friendly because she thought I was too beta to consider myself in the same league as her.

>>26305590
maybe she was shit testing you and didnt really have one.

>>26305753

Nah, she mentioned having one in class later on. I don't know if she just starting talking to another guy while talking to me or just always had one. Either way, I've given up and am on the path to wizardry.

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>Think girl might be into me
>Turns out she's just extremely friendly to everyone
>Turns out she actually was into me

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>>26302072
I accidentally do this a lot, it's mostly because nobody is ever into me and I'm extremely desperate for affection

accept the fact no girl will ever want you, life becomes easier that way and you won't get caught up in these feel traps.

most of the time girls are only nice to you because they want something, and 9. 999/10 it isn't your penis

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>tfw girls keep several guys like this around at any time and get validation from the attention and eventual rejection

>>26305590
just tell her that studying wasn't really what you had in mind, that you was just going to use it as an excuse to fuck her. Say it as if you mean it, she is gonna talk shit to you then just say "ok then", shrug it off and don't ever give her another grit of attention

>>26306007
I'm seriously thinking about doing the same stuff

>>26305590

HOW DO THEY KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH IT.RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>26305635
this is my biggest fear
>tfw pale qt was friendly too you because she knows how inoffensive you are
>she knew I was a kv
it all makes sense, shit

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>be a lying manipulative asshole
no GF
>be a lvl 90 white knight fedora spellcaster
friend zone
>be yourself
"I just don't like you that way"
>be chad
Just had my 2nd kid

>>26303263
when you take some personal responsibility, grow some balls and make an effort to improve yourself in many aspects

>>26306723
just beee urslfe dood

>>26306767
Yeah, let's approach those landwhales, while Chad pumps and dumps 10/10 girls

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>They share personal things with you
>You think it means they like you
>It's actually because they consider you an emotional towel

>>26306443

>There are guys that are happy with this position

>>26306808
You can have attractive girls too friend

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>>26306904

>anyone can be chad bro lol just b yourself btw have you seen my instagram? i just take regular photos and make them black and white #artist. just go to parties and SAY HI to her man it's that easy. just walk up and say hi. girls are really nice people they wouldn't reject you if you're a nice person

>>26306979
Its not as simple as that. I wouldn't say everyone can be a 'Chad' that fucks a different girl every week, but anyone can get a girlfriend that is attractive to them

>>26306341
what is this called pls

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>>26302072
>>26302147

>actually get the balls to ask her out
>that look on her face

Kill me

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>>26307411
>tfw didn't even ask her out to her face
>tfw did it over text like a gigantic faggot

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>>26307411

>Haha no he doesn't like me, we're just friends
>No really, he likes you
>Look of horror

>>26307432

I sperged out everywhere too. Sometimes text is better.

>Falling for the friendly girl meme

Wew lad. This happened to me once. Never will again. Now I know when a girl is into me.

>>26307470
nah, because it gives her all the time in the world to think of a way to reject you lightly

I waited almost 3 hours for the rejection text despite texting back and forth prior

If you're face to face you put her on the spot

I did ask a girl out face to face a few years ago and although I got rejected again, I felt better (not good, but better) than the text because it was immediately over with

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>>26307038
kill yourself retarded normie and then leave this site forever

>>26307557
Face to Face is always better. She can't ignore you. And you can react if she gives you some BS.

>>26302072
>walking to class
>saw girl I used to talk and decide to catch up and say hi
>she is visibly annoyed and reluctantly takes out her earphone
>"What?"
>try to make small talk
>she is giving one word answers
>she says at the end that she would rather listen to her music then talk to me, she then slams the door as she enters her next class
>try not to cry

I'm not going to go out of my way to talk to her again, but it still hurts just thinking about how she was one of the first friends i've had when i transfered to my new college

>>26307557
>>26307583
This. Also text gives them too much time to engage their logical mind and rationlize away giving you a chane. Sometimes a bit of flirting and just seizing the moment can get your further than you would if you confessed. You should never ever ever ever ask a girl out over text or tell them you like them.

>>26307583
well she said she had a bf, didn't really believe her but I didn't want to start shit

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>>26307352
geee I wonder

>>26307677
>she is visibly annoyed

Why'd you even bother after this?

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Oh god this was me last year. I was In love with a popular girl a grade below me who I thought was interested in me. I saw the signs, how she knew everyone, even the autistic gamer kids who didint shower, and yet I still couldn't believe she wasnt into me. Well I asked her out and she blocked me on all social media, and avoided talking to me for the rest of the year.

>>26302072
>fuckton of anxiety all the time in public
>finally get the courage to talk to qt
>talk to her a few times
>shows signs of being into me
>don't take advantage of that opportunity cuz muh anxiety
>too scared of women
>over a month later i see her kissing chad

It hurt a bit, but not really that much desu.

BUT IN THE END
IT DOESN'T EVEN MATTER.

>>26307581
Why does what I say scare you? Besides, why would I kill myself if I get sex on the reg?

>>26307913
you're clearly lost
but don't worry, >>>/facebook/ is just beyond the corner

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>>26303383
Well, this hurt a lot more than it should have

>>26308010
Truthes do that.

>girl starts at work
>hyper social, high energy, cute
>spends a disproportionate amount of time talking to me
>she's fun to talk to, we really connect
>she keeps making these plans, like videogame nights, taco nights, movienight etc and she really wants me to be there (she has a lot of other friends as well)
>she's implied twice that I "like" her like a shitty 5th grader would "Yoooouuu liiiike meeee"-style with a shitty grin on her face. I give nothing in response
>keeps inviting me in when we pass her apartment when our shift ends at the same time. I decline everytime.
>been wearing some questional things around me
>occasionally attack-hugs me
>wants to travel abroad with me

The worst thing is that when I try to look at her behaviour objectively, it seems like she's into me, but I just KNOW that as soon as I even give her the slightest inclination I actually do she'll turn it against me and the curtains will raise and all my friends, family and coworkers will stand in a half circle, pointing and laughing at me. It's just bullshit, and it's so frustrating having something great dangling in front of you just out of reach.

>>26308064
>Truthes
it doesn't hurt any more

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>>26307677

When a girl has earphones in, that means she wants to be left alone. Pretty much every time, as a rule, any girl with earphones in wants to be alone.

>>26308072
>but I just KNOW that as soon as I even give her the slightest inclination I actually do she'll turn it against me and the curtains will raise and all my friends, family and coworkers will stand in a half circle, pointing and laughing at me.
But you don't know that, and all signs point to her genuinely liking you and wanting your dick. Why not take a chance instead of adding one more thing to the list of shit you hate yourself for? Come on man you have an opportunity right there before you and they become increasingly rare as you get older. SEIZE IT.

My former coworker would flirt with me hard, call me cute, have excuses to talk to me and shit. She was single, too. Asked her out once and she said that she "didn't really go out." Why the fuck do I try any more?

>>26308072
Get her in one on one situations. Start mildly flirting with her.

>>26308072
Is she a qt?

original comment.

>>26308072
I'm exactly the same with how jaded the past experiences have become.
I find because I don't give them the attention they fucking craaaave it peaks their interests slightly and try to see if they can bait me.

>>26307993
I'm not lost, I know I'm amongst robots.

>>26308151
>>26308169
The worst is that we would probably be great for one another. We laugh constantly, we sometimes talk about more meaningful things and agree about a lot of stuff, she loves to cook and bake and basically take care of people. And it seems she really enjoys being with me, she's been able to resurrect her old roleplaying hobby from her childhood, It's just a fucking knife in the heart that we'll never have something together. Sometimes I get a lump in my throat just seeing her, I need to distance myself or I won't be able to take it.

>>26308244
And you're also an asshole. Go back to somewhere else. No one is one here to hear you brag.

>>26306443
put a jacket and breathing steam on this wojak and it will be my favorite

>>26308284
You're capable of change and happiness anon

>>26307682
I got my first and only gf through text, broke up with her through text too :^)
biggest mistake of my life why the fuck am i still alive

>>26308279

I'm confused. Why haven't you asked her out? Are you fucking retarded?

Why do you think people care if you ask someone out or show interest in the opposite sex?

>>26308217
She has a cute face with the body of a cardiac bunny. She has a good (great? I'm not good at judging these things but another friend implied this) butt, the only thing that isn't perfect(for me) is that she's basically flatchested, but I am in no position to judge her, she is miles above me.

>>26308428
She probably has a tight pink pussy that she fingers every night thinking about you and wondering if you like her back.

>>26308395
Because I'm a fucking robot, don't you understand? There is no way this is going to end up well for me. Either it's me that's misunderstanding everything, or she has a secret boyfriend, or it turns out she is actually a man, or anything. Most likely i'm going to fuck it all up and then I won't be able to face her OR my coworkers. Robots aren't meant to be happy, there isn't a light in the end of the tunnel, the tunnel has collapsed and you're not even allowed to go in it anyways.

>I text girl
she actually responds to me
>She touches me
Pretty reserve around others
>Quite around others
People say she is happier and bubblier around me
Am i finally going to get a gf

>>26308600
Only one way to find out brobot
rape her

>meet a few girls with my friends years ago
>one is super friendly coming up to me and giving me a hug even though this is the first time we've met
>discussing this later with my friends
>they comment to me that she was raped the week before
>i say something along the lines of "oh what that's fucked"
>they say "yeah this was the 4th time"
>4th time being raped

>know girl's into me
>no idea what to do with that
>she tries to talk to me and I keep it up but get awkward
>noticeably more into conversations with her brother than with her, due to awkwardness
>no driver's license so can't ask her out
>feel her interest in me decreasing
>she probably feels like I'm not interested in her at all
>just want to do something with her, don't even know what I could say to strike up a facebook conversation
>can't get driver's license because I'm a shit driver, and live with a harpy single mom who's absolutely unbearable to drive with

FUUUUUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

>girl keeps smiling at me
>turns out shes just having a really good day

>>26305590
>>26302147
>>26305188

man why even try I might as well just be gay

>>26306836
Oh shit, that hurts

>girls who are really nice and cute and friendly to everyone

everyone should be sad like me desu

>>26308553
Not him but I believe the concept of "robots" and "normies" is false. It's a disgusting hope-draining dogma but nothing I or anyone else say to you is going to convince you. You have deep pain (and possibly mental issues) that you need to work through (possibly with the help of a professional) before you even think about dating another person, but if one thing is clear it's that this girl likes you and you like this girl but your past has become a demon that has convinced you that you don't have the right to be happy or to love.

>>26308642
This made me laugh out loud nigga, smashing that like button

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>>26307904
I TRIED SO HARD
AND GOT SO FAR


originalllll

>>26308759
Strong this. Using the term robot seems to be a way to somehow justify living in a way that makes you unhappy. Grab life by the balls and go and live.

this girl added me on fb, ig, pratically every social media
she would be really friendly to me
but she knows that I'm a kv and that's probably the reason why

>ask girl to hang out and chill
>she has on a sun dress that shows off her long legs and clevage.
Feels good, but too good to be true

>>26308072
>>26308279

Maybe try acting a little flirty around her and see how she reacts. Sort of ease into it and slowly get more flirty. If she doesn't like it, then stop. But if she does, maybe she'll go out with you.

>>26307504
how do you know besides them begging for your dick

>>26308808
all that bullshit about asking her out
as soon as she is playful enough you can kiss her without any fear of screwing up
she may not like it, but definitively not going to retaliate

>>26308167
Should have asked her if she likes to come inside, then.

What the fuck is a kv

Saw this in a semi-related thread on another board recently: http://pastebin.com/m353pRmF

After reading, I think I finally know how to start dating a woman by doing NONE OF THIS.

>>26309152
GTFO normie REE E EEE E E E E E
T
F
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>>26309152
a kissless virgin
a person who never kissed

>gril makes plans to do things with me
>constantly too busy to do them
>always friendly and flirty to everyone
>constantly asks for help with classwork
> doesn't react negatively to being in close proximity to me

I really hate nice girls

>>26309192
Good god that is the funniest thing I've seen in a while. The complete lack of self-awareness..

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>turns out shes into me
>i have to move to texas 2 months later for my job

I don't mind nice girls after having been surrounded by them for a lot of my life. One of the only friends I had during college classes was a girl that talked to me since we shared two classes together. I don't know if she was into me since she was pretty good looking if not a little gothic, which isn't really my style, but she was easy to get along with. It was a new experience for a girl to talk to even approach me even if it was just for purely platonic reasons for all I know, but it definitely has helped me reconsider being completely undateable. Maybe I should start working out.

>>26307432
>>26307470

What the fuck? Do people drive to their crush's house with a bouquet of flowers to ask them out?

Text them.

>Hey
>Hi anon!
>Do you want to get dinner sometime?
>Sure/No

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>try to show interest into girl
>she dismisses it saying that I'm just being friendly,like I'm to everyone else
This has happened way too many times.Why is being a polite person a disadvantage?

>>26311022
Tell her that you love her like a truck.

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>>26311048
Tried this,she didn't put out around third date,I was in the "boyfriendmaterialzone" so she was holding sex hostage.
Not into that.

>girl tells me bless you after I sneeze
>imagine life together

>>26307583
but you can't hide and stall

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>>26303808
>tfw have had a girl be so into me I get invited to her birthday party by her friends insisting I come
>didn't come
>she still pursues me
>tfw not attracted to her

>>26310039
Go to hell normie
>get dinner some time
In what car? At what place? How am I supposed to know or do this shit.
I have an eating disorder where I can't physically eat most normal food and gag if I somehow get the willpower to put it on my tongue
What the fuck do I do?

>>26311252
I have knowledge of those sentiments my sibling
>fat weeaboo highschoolers keep hitting on me on normiebook
>give one word answer and act stand off
>they keep going
>they aren't being straight and asking me on a date so I can't give a clear answer and get out of the situation
It's not even empathy or anything.I just think it will be too awkward afterward

>>26303608
that is actually a form of manipulation to get men to compete for her.

>we literally held hands in the hallway "as a joke"
>she literally kissed me on the lips to cheer me up
>turns out she didn't like me

>>26311309
I'm the same way but they still pursue me
I could literally be listening to headphones , giving them one word replies with a bemused face, they obviously feel awkward, but they'll still try again
>tfw she sat down with me on a couch and started asking about music
>just want to be alone
>over several days she pursues me or gets her friends to ask me questions
>I stop showing up at this area she frequents
>eventually come back out of boredom
>she has problem glasses, cut her hair short and bleached it
>still interested in me

I'm not even attractive, I'm not funny or charismatic. I'm a hermit who can barely talk and has an some speed impediment from not talking for so long

>>26303815
"Tend and befriend" is a long established theory.

>>26306341
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>>26306380
>>26306396
what manga is this?
all the beta self-insert MCs are running together in my head

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>>26311433
I have theory that these girls are the kind that grew up hearing all about:"girls like when the guy doesn't show interest,or the lone wolf type".They are probably projecting that image of a stoic badass into loners like you.
Daddy issues really.If only half the world wouldn't be so neck deep into divorce and the constant search for attention and validation,the dating scene would be MUCH better

>>26306767
I did, once. And even at my best in the end nothing was different. I was simply Icarus flying too close to the sun.

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>think girl is into me
>only girl to ever go out drinking with me
>went to brunch together once, she initiated and paid for it, i just got the tip
>hugs lots of people
>never hugged me ever
;_;

>Think girl is into me
>Avoid her

>>26305120
Anon even if we became him we wouldn't even get the chance he had to be randomly pitted with pretty girls. The only reason they were able to fall in love with him was because since they were thrown together, they each had the opportunity to know each other better. If not for that chance to know each other better than most would be disgusted by first impressions alone, never wanting to talk to each other again.

>>26311475
Yahari Ore No Seishun. Good stuff

>>26306302
This.

Related:
>think girl is into me
>find out shes nice to everybody
>turns out she actually is into everybody and yhe first one to make a move wins her heart

>>26308072
Fuck off normie
You got a qt so easily and now you're whining like a little bitch?
Either go for her or surrender her to Chad you weakling.

Jesus christ this thread is like my life. I knew a girl like this in high school, down to a T. Why are there so many girls like this, who are super friendly and flirty with everyone?

>>26302072
this is why people shouldn't feel obligated to make friends with everyone
when everybody is your best friend - no one is

>>26303263
When we finally close our eyes and fall into nothingness.

Doesn't that sound nice? Being able to just sleep, no dreams, and no waking up?

Well, not nice, but peaceful.

>>26308072
Gotta love a bit of Hedgehog's Dilemma

>>26308072
>we really connect
If you did really connect, surely you wouldn't have your guard up around her all the time?

>>26311252
>gets a choice as to whether or not he gets with a girl
Literally what are you doing here, anon? I thought this place was for people who've never known the feeling of having a girl attracted to you. Get the fuck off our board

>>26315929
Go away normie, brawnbun

>>26315860
get back on the roof kusomatsu

>>26311252
normie plz go and stay go

>>26316296
Fuck off, that doesn't make sense. You're more of a normie than me

>ask girl out
>she says yes
>text to meet up, she doesn't want to but avoids just saying no

Just say no in the first place dumb fuck

>>26316605

>ask girl out
>says yes
>last minute asks if some other guy can come too

RRRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE