>Think girl might be into me
>Turns out she's just extremely friendly to everyone
>Think girl is into me because she's so touchy
>Turns out she's touchy with everyone else
>Think girl might be into me
>Turns out she was using me just as jealousy bait for other guy.
I think when growing up many girls are brought up with an inherent fear of rape. They develop a defense mechanism which is being nice to everyone. Now, i think some girls just overplay it and it evolves into their second nature or they realize that it makes life so much easier, then it also becomes second nature.
>girl flirts with you
>she was just teasing
I'LL FUCKING RAPE YOU
Fucking shit. This happened to me while in college. She was fucking leading me on (getting in my personal space, being touchy), then I make the mistake of giving her attention and she tapers off.
Finals time I ask "Do you want to study for the final?"
She texts back, "Sure you can study with me and my boyfriend."
>girl is really friendly towards me
>turns out she was only friendly because she thought I was too beta to consider myself in the same league as her.
Nah, she mentioned having one in class later on. I don't know if she just starting talking to another guy while talking to me or just always had one. Either way, I've given up and am on the path to wizardry.
>Think girl might be into me
>Turns out she's just extremely friendly to everyone
>Turns out she actually was into me
accept the fact no girl will ever want you, life becomes easier that way and you won't get caught up in these feel traps.
most of the time girls are only nice to you because they want something, and 9. 999/10 it isn't your penis
>tfw girls keep several guys like this around at any time and get validation from the attention and eventual rejection
just tell her that studying wasn't really what you had in mind, that you was just going to use it as an excuse to fuck her. Say it as if you mean it, she is gonna talk shit to you then just say "ok then", shrug it off and don't ever give her another grit of attention
>be a lying manipulative asshole
>be a lvl 90 white knight fedora spellcaster
"I just don't like you that way"
Just had my 2nd kid
>They share personal things with you
>You think it means they like you
>It's actually because they consider you an emotional towel
>anyone can be chad bro lol just b yourself btw have you seen my instagram? i just take regular photos and make them black and white #artist. just go to parties and SAY HI to her man it's that easy. just walk up and say hi. girls are really nice people they wouldn't reject you if you're a nice person
>actually get the balls to ask her out
>that look on her face
>tfw didn't even ask her out to her face
>tfw did it over text like a gigantic faggot
>Haha no he doesn't like me, we're just friends
>No really, he likes you
>Look of horror
nah, because it gives her all the time in the world to think of a way to reject you lightly
I waited almost 3 hours for the rejection text despite texting back and forth prior
If you're face to face you put her on the spot
I did ask a girl out face to face a few years ago and although I got rejected again, I felt better (not good, but better) than the text because it was immediately over with
kill yourself retarded normie and then leave this site forever
>walking to class
>saw girl I used to talk and decide to catch up and say hi
>she is visibly annoyed and reluctantly takes out her earphone
>try to make small talk
>she is giving one word answers
>she says at the end that she would rather listen to her music then talk to me, she then slams the door as she enters her next class
>try not to cry
I'm not going to go out of my way to talk to her again, but it still hurts just thinking about how she was one of the first friends i've had when i transfered to my new college
This. Also text gives them too much time to engage their logical mind and rationlize away giving you a chane. Sometimes a bit of flirting and just seizing the moment can get your further than you would if you confessed. You should never ever ever ever ask a girl out over text or tell them you like them.
Oh god this was me last year. I was In love with a popular girl a grade below me who I thought was interested in me. I saw the signs, how she knew everyone, even the autistic gamer kids who didint shower, and yet I still couldn't believe she wasnt into me. Well I asked her out and she blocked me on all social media, and avoided talking to me for the rest of the year.
>fuckton of anxiety all the time in public
>finally get the courage to talk to qt
>talk to her a few times
>shows signs of being into me
>don't take advantage of that opportunity cuz muh anxiety
>too scared of women
>over a month later i see her kissing chad
It hurt a bit, but not really that much desu.
BUT IN THE END
IT DOESN'T EVEN MATTER.
Well, this hurt a lot more than it should have
>girl starts at work
>hyper social, high energy, cute
>spends a disproportionate amount of time talking to me
>she's fun to talk to, we really connect
>she keeps making these plans, like videogame nights, taco nights, movienight etc and she really wants me to be there (she has a lot of other friends as well)
>she's implied twice that I "like" her like a shitty 5th grader would "Yoooouuu liiiike meeee"-style with a shitty grin on her face. I give nothing in response
>keeps inviting me in when we pass her apartment when our shift ends at the same time. I decline everytime.
>been wearing some questional things around me
>occasionally attack-hugs me
>wants to travel abroad with me
The worst thing is that when I try to look at her behaviour objectively, it seems like she's into me, but I just KNOW that as soon as I even give her the slightest inclination I actually do she'll turn it against me and the curtains will raise and all my friends, family and coworkers will stand in a half circle, pointing and laughing at me. It's just bullshit, and it's so frustrating having something great dangling in front of you just out of reach.
When a girl has earphones in, that means she wants to be left alone. Pretty much every time, as a rule, any girl with earphones in wants to be alone.
>but I just KNOW that as soon as I even give her the slightest inclination I actually do she'll turn it against me and the curtains will raise and all my friends, family and coworkers will stand in a half circle, pointing and laughing at me.
But you don't know that, and all signs point to her genuinely liking you and wanting your dick. Why not take a chance instead of adding one more thing to the list of shit you hate yourself for? Come on man you have an opportunity right there before you and they become increasingly rare as you get older. SEIZE IT.
My former coworker would flirt with me hard, call me cute, have excuses to talk to me and shit. She was single, too. Asked her out once and she said that she "didn't really go out." Why the fuck do I try any more?
I'm exactly the same with how jaded the past experiences have become.
I find because I don't give them the attention they fucking craaaave it peaks their interests slightly and try to see if they can bait me.
The worst is that we would probably be great for one another. We laugh constantly, we sometimes talk about more meaningful things and agree about a lot of stuff, she loves to cook and bake and basically take care of people. And it seems she really enjoys being with me, she's been able to resurrect her old roleplaying hobby from her childhood, It's just a fucking knife in the heart that we'll never have something together. Sometimes I get a lump in my throat just seeing her, I need to distance myself or I won't be able to take it.
She has a cute face with the body of a cardiac bunny. She has a good (great? I'm not good at judging these things but another friend implied this) butt, the only thing that isn't perfect(for me) is that she's basically flatchested, but I am in no position to judge her, she is miles above me.
Because I'm a fucking robot, don't you understand? There is no way this is going to end up well for me. Either it's me that's misunderstanding everything, or she has a secret boyfriend, or it turns out she is actually a man, or anything. Most likely i'm going to fuck it all up and then I won't be able to face her OR my coworkers. Robots aren't meant to be happy, there isn't a light in the end of the tunnel, the tunnel has collapsed and you're not even allowed to go in it anyways.
>meet a few girls with my friends years ago
>one is super friendly coming up to me and giving me a hug even though this is the first time we've met
>discussing this later with my friends
>they comment to me that she was raped the week before
>i say something along the lines of "oh what that's fucked"
>they say "yeah this was the 4th time"
>4th time being raped
>know girl's into me
>no idea what to do with that
>she tries to talk to me and I keep it up but get awkward
>noticeably more into conversations with her brother than with her, due to awkwardness
>no driver's license so can't ask her out
>feel her interest in me decreasing
>she probably feels like I'm not interested in her at all
>just want to do something with her, don't even know what I could say to strike up a facebook conversation
>can't get driver's license because I'm a shit driver, and live with a harpy single mom who's absolutely unbearable to drive with
Not him but I believe the concept of "robots" and "normies" is false. It's a disgusting hope-draining dogma but nothing I or anyone else say to you is going to convince you. You have deep pain (and possibly mental issues) that you need to work through (possibly with the help of a professional) before you even think about dating another person, but if one thing is clear it's that this girl likes you and you like this girl but your past has become a demon that has convinced you that you don't have the right to be happy or to love.
Maybe try acting a little flirty around her and see how she reacts. Sort of ease into it and slowly get more flirty. If she doesn't like it, then stop. But if she does, maybe she'll go out with you.
all that bullshit about asking her out
as soon as she is playful enough you can kiss her without any fear of screwing up
she may not like it, but definitively not going to retaliate
>gril makes plans to do things with me
>constantly too busy to do them
>always friendly and flirty to everyone
>constantly asks for help with classwork
> doesn't react negatively to being in close proximity to me
I really hate nice girls
>turns out shes into me
>i have to move to texas 2 months later for my job
I don't mind nice girls after having been surrounded by them for a lot of my life. One of the only friends I had during college classes was a girl that talked to me since we shared two classes together. I don't know if she was into me since she was pretty good looking if not a little gothic, which isn't really my style, but she was easy to get along with. It was a new experience for a girl to talk to even approach me even if it was just for purely platonic reasons for all I know, but it definitely has helped me reconsider being completely undateable. Maybe I should start working out.
>try to show interest into girl
>she dismisses it saying that I'm just being friendly,like I'm to everyone else
This has happened way too many times.Why is being a polite person a disadvantage?
Tried this,she didn't put out around third date,I was in the "boyfriendmaterialzone" so she was holding sex hostage.
Not into that.
>tfw have had a girl be so into me I get invited to her birthday party by her friends insisting I come
>she still pursues me
>tfw not attracted to her
Go to hell normie
>get dinner some time
In what car? At what place? How am I supposed to know or do this shit.
I have an eating disorder where I can't physically eat most normal food and gag if I somehow get the willpower to put it on my tongue
What the fuck do I do?
I have knowledge of those sentiments my sibling
>fat weeaboo highschoolers keep hitting on me on normiebook
>give one word answer and act stand off
>they keep going
>they aren't being straight and asking me on a date so I can't give a clear answer and get out of the situation
It's not even empathy or anything.I just think it will be too awkward afterward
I'm the same way but they still pursue me
I could literally be listening to headphones , giving them one word replies with a bemused face, they obviously feel awkward, but they'll still try again
>tfw she sat down with me on a couch and started asking about music
>just want to be alone
>over several days she pursues me or gets her friends to ask me questions
>I stop showing up at this area she frequents
>eventually come back out of boredom
>she has problem glasses, cut her hair short and bleached it
>still interested in me
I'm not even attractive, I'm not funny or charismatic. I'm a hermit who can barely talk and has an some speed impediment from not talking for so long
I have theory that these girls are the kind that grew up hearing all about:"girls like when the guy doesn't show interest,or the lone wolf type".They are probably projecting that image of a stoic badass into loners like you.
Daddy issues really.If only half the world wouldn't be so neck deep into divorce and the constant search for attention and validation,the dating scene would be MUCH better
>think girl is into me
>only girl to ever go out drinking with me
>went to brunch together once, she initiated and paid for it, i just got the tip
>hugs lots of people
>never hugged me ever
Anon even if we became him we wouldn't even get the chance he had to be randomly pitted with pretty girls. The only reason they were able to fall in love with him was because since they were thrown together, they each had the opportunity to know each other better. If not for that chance to know each other better than most would be disgusted by first impressions alone, never wanting to talk to each other again.
>gets a choice as to whether or not he gets with a girl
Literally what are you doing here, anon? I thought this place was for people who've never known the feeling of having a girl attracted to you. Get the fuck off our board