>finally get a girlfriend for the first time
>during sex she asks me to choke her
This is just... I want to give up.
>I asked if she ever had anyone else do that and she said no. Dodged a bullet.
every guy she's ever been with has choked the shit out of her. women don't ask for things like this unless it has already been done to them.
>men want loving sensual sex with their partner
>women want to be choked, beaten and humiliated by savage animals during sex
>my gf likes to choke, scratch, slap and bite me during sex
>her chad ex wouldnt let her, so I am better than chad in bed via the power of being a beta
Women are disgusting.
I used to be put off by things like this, until I realized that it's simply a woman's nature to be submissive, and submit to a large, domineering man. She wants to be hurt, she wants him to show that he will not hesitate to destroy her as a woman.
It sucks, mostly because we're taught as boys that women are empathetic, soft, loving and put off by things like choking, but it's truly the exact opposite.
Nah. Girls have been asking guys to choke them, pull their hair, get a little rough with it since forever. Lovey dovey cuddling romance sex is fine and all but you don't want that all the time.
Most girls don't actually want their breathing restricted by clamping down on their wind pipe. The trick to get them really wild is a firm hand on the throat and apply pressure to the sides of the neck restricting blood flow, that has always worked for me.
FUCKING THIS. Most people equate "choke" with "can't breathe" when in reality this is not what you should be doing.
I used to be creeper out by this shit but now I love it. I still express disapproval but in a teasing way and go on to do it when they have weird requests like that. I'll never forget the rush that was the first time I fucked my ex with one hand on her throat and her eyes glassed over and she went unconscious. Just try it, you'll fall in love immediately.
Sometimes with a new girl I'll abruptly stop making out and bluntly ask if she's ever been spanked. I always get some form of yes, either an enthusiastic slutty yes, an embarrassed sheepish yes, from boyfriends, daddy, random fucks whatever. Then I go on and say no I mean like really spanked. What they say after doesn't really matter, you just give it to them, pushing a little bit past the point of comfort where they start getting panicky. Some girls are quick to cry, others try to be stoic or get indignant. I still prefer the fast cryers because they make better gfs, but it's more fun to fuck and try to break the girls who pretend to be big girls who can take it. There is no predefined spanking though. It's an algorithm. First warm up with hand, then next implement warms her up for the next, strap, wooden hairbrush, lexan paddle, and then depending on my mood either rattan or lexan cane. It ends there, though I once saw an interesting set of pictures with a bundle of barbed wire used for a caning. I think much of it was staged and a different fetish, blood play, but still interesting.
If she takes the cane in stride you have to build atmosphere. Find her weakness. Does she respond better to harsh commands and told not to move, or I in scarier with her hands, arms, and or legs bound? Bruising is easy at this point so take a break between barrages, and oiling up her butt makes it look cuter, builds dread, and I like to imagine makes it sting worse.
Spanking is better than sex desu senpai. Good thing it's not one or the other. Spank for foreplay, choke during sex, just try not to erupt early during the tearful bj.
you brought this on yourself by not getting a virgin gf
You realize crushing their windpipe is worse than brain damage right? Literally no girl wants her breathing restricted except for oddball occasions like fucking her prone bone and you put your hand over her mouth and your finger blocks some breathing through nose.
They come back within seconds once they get blood again. If you're worried just lift her legs above head level. I could continue depriving the brain of oxygen for a few seconds after unconsciousness with no problems whatsoever. I can't remember the times because I don't even flirt with the limits. After repeated choking her out she passes faster and longer each time anyway. There's no need to risk it.
It's possible, but not really likely, someone needs to have bloodflow constricted way longer than how long it takes someone to pass out for there to be any chance of brain damage. Just be sure to let go once they either pass out, or start to.
And never use ligaments or something that you can't spread pressure and immediately remove, that's way too risky.
Same as any sort of more extreme fetish stuff, be a responsible adult and don't do anything without planning it out beforehand, likely with knowledge from more experienced people (online guides are fine usually).
Obviously the person needs to know beforehand.
I used to fuck my gf while she slept. Then her doctor started cock blocking me by changing her prescription. She eventually told me she knew and said she masturbate to it. After that it wasn't as good but she would pretend and I'd fuck her. You just can't imitate that limp sleeping tone though. She would always tense up as I entered her ass and it ruined the immersion.
>not wanting to do this to a Stacey
Just let out your inner Elliot
found the beta orbiter Chad wannabe faggots
I might be a loser virgin, but I'm at least not as pathetic as you guys
>tfw gf lightly chokes me when we kiss in bed
I don't know how to feel. When her hand was on my neck I was just thinking 'oh shit what the fuck'
New gf, so don't want to make her upset or anything.
I feel for you,OP.
I don't know what I would do. Some girl I talk to likes when I call her slut and other mean shit like that but it makes me feel bad. I also think choking some cunt would be pretty terrifying man, I'm stronk, don't want to hurt her or accidently take her neck to snap fucking city
it's common among people who watch mainstream porn
there you go anon.
same kind of porn as anyone else
there's not a lot of variety desu most everything is owned by 2 or 3 companies at most
>LOL why do you like virgin girls so much, Anon?
>don't you know virgins are terrible at sex?
>now choke me!
>KEKEKEK U GAY IF YOU DONT LIKE ROUGH SEXX ;))))))
Can you just fuck off? It is okay for a girl to dislike rough sex, but as a man you are imediatly a fucking homo?
I mean there is nothing wrong being a little bit rough and pounding shit hard sometimes, but choking? literally hurting the person?
Damn It feels good to not be a degenerate.