Who /extremly shy/ here?
I'm a really sociable person, but for some reason i can't talk to girls that I like or girls I even think I could like. To elaborate, whenever I see a qt3.14 grill I blush at the speed of light, my whole face goes red in no time. Also, there is absolutely no way I can initiate a conversation with any girl I like. Even if they make the first move and start talking to me I'll blush immediately like a fucking retard and probably be boring as fuck.
What do, /r9k/?
I feel you brah, I've been there. The only way it will go away is if you force yourself to talk more to girls. Try to stay out of your comfort zone.
Personally I used to be very shy and never talked to girls at parties, eventually I became more and more comfortable with it.
After a while, you'll realize cute girls are just human beings, the problem is thatyou place them in a pedestal and you shouldntdo that. Just look at the differences between how you interact with ugly girls and pretty girls. Do you get nervous around ugly girls? I doubt it. Try to think why you don't.
I fully understand what I should do, but I just can't make myself talk to cute/girls I kinda like. Talking to anyone else is not a problem at all. My friends told me a bunch of times they will buy me drinks the whole night if I talk to any girl for 5 minutes, I never did it.
I have literally zero confidence and I can't help it.
I can confirm this.
This is literally me when ever i talk to a girl my face just turns red and i cant make eye contact for too long its so fucking retarded
I had two proper dates with girls and both ended terribly because I got an awful feeling in my stomach of all the anxiety of talking to a girl for hours, even if she might have liked me. Fuck emotions, I don't want that shit
I feel you man, I have the same problem, I need to get real drunk to be able to talk to girls without anxiety but I won't do that with girls I really like because it has to be that point of drunk when I barely have control over my actions.
What's even worse is if you like a girl who's also really shy and awkward. I might make a move and she might, but neither of us do or will
No one man deserves so great a get, share the (you)s!
I also need to get nearly blackout drunk to approach or talk to girls. Last time I went out with a group of new friends (friend and his gf and her single friend) I needed to be carried out of the bar. Yeah lets just say they don't talk to me anymore.
>fuck emotions, I don't want that shit
OP here, so much this.
That's why I'm mostly posting this, I have started to feel the exact same way recently since I realized if I don't overcome this shy-iness, I will end up alone for my whole life. I jave told myself so many times that I will stop being sucha fucking faggot, but I never succeeded. I have just started to give up.
Fucking check'd, wonderful get.
I can't even talk to girls while I'm drunk, it doesn't help shit.
I hope one day I will see a thread you guys make on how you overcame your fear and anxiety and finally got a grill you really liked.
>Chad personality around men
>beta faggot around women
FUCK YEAH SWANS AND QUINTS THIS IS A GOOD POST SENPAI NO LIE DESU
Yeah it was like a double date thing they brought another single girl that was pretty cute and I completely sperged out the entire night. I messed up so bad I wish I could move to a different state and change my name I am so embarrassed.
>I hope one day I will see a thread you guys make on how you overcame your fear and anxiety and finally got a grill you really liked
I don't want to ruin your hopes but I was in a relationship for 1 1/2 years and I'm still this shy and anxious around girls