>tired, didn't go out and party last night
>tfw Chad ended up fucking gf
Convince me not to take her back robots. It hurts.
only people who are pathetic take their partner back after they betray their trust.
if you take her back, everyone will view you as pathetic. she fucked up, drunk or not, she shouldnt have done what she did.
dont be a fag.
tell her you are sorry and then eat her pussy.
then hang yourself you fucken cuck.
its not worth it
if you take her back she now knows that she can do it again and you will forgive her
m8 getting a gf is hard yes but getting a gold digging whore is easy and you my friend have a gold digging whore
Chad rammed her right in her asshole
>"Its just a girls night out anon :)"
I say, give up on women completely. these hoes know no loyalty
Not much more to say but I'll give it a shot
>gf of 3 years
>finish classes at 6 last night
>big house party gf has been looking forward to for like 2 weeks
>tired as shit from wagecucking/school
>tell her this and its fine if she goes I trust her
>she leaves at like 8pm to go pre game
>get a text from friend at 11 saying gf has been talking to chad for the whole night
>try to call her and she doesn't answer, friend ends up leaving
>still haven't heard from her by 4am, go to sleep
>calls me the next day, tells me she made a big mistake
>"I'm so sorry anon please forgive me I was just caught up in the moment and he was so pushy I really love you" etc
>Saturday morning now, considering taking her back
DO NOT TAKE HER BACK
you will regret it. And fuck man, think of the relationship itself, You will always be thinking of what they did, and how you can't trust her. It's really not worth it.
tell her to take a hike and trade her in for something tight
>What's with all the GF shit
Its fun to watch my beliefs manifest into reality
She will just cheat on you a again. You'll go though all this again.
Lift weight and meditate OP.
She's lost all respect for you OP, she really doesn't care about you at all. At the drop of a hat she'll break up with you because she's "feeling trapped" or some toher bull shit, you might as well end it now
>Take her back OP
Either saboteur or roast beast
That was a mistake you cuck.
She's on her own now, cut her out of your life.
Besides, she had not enough attraction to you, that's why she wanted another guys dick in her mouth. If you're friendly to her now, you're literally just an addicted orbiter.
She confessed she did wrong, you should definitely give her another chance. Its not like she kept it behind your back, if that was the case then MAYBE I could understand leaving her.
>tfw mom cheated on dad
>tfw dad didn't kick her out
>tfw she's continued to cheat on him ever since
Please don't take her back, op. You wil only regret it later I swear. Just break it off now
she probably only told you because she knew your friend saw her with the guy.
>big house party gf has been looking forward to for like 2 weeks
Do not take her back, you will only hurt yourself even more.
C U C K L O R D. King Cuck the 3rd, last in a short line of cucks
why don't you fags ever listen? we have warn you people over and over again that women do not have the capacity to be loyal or to have honor. you are trying to apply male values on to women which they don't have. Women always need constant validation from others and are always looking to trade up for a better deal. you think she is not bond to cheating if she is always posting selfies on Instagram to get as much likes as possible or her talking to other chads on social media?
Women are more than capable of cheating and getting away with it, because guys involved with her will literally stay silent knowing they're getting someone to fuck with no strings attached.
If she really did want to continue cheating, then she's a fucking idiot for showing her cards that easy, otherwise she genuinely means she didn't mean to.
Even if a friend was there to say "she was talking to this guy!" but saw nothing, that's just insecurity at its finest. She would be stupid as fuck to do anything like kissing in front of a lot of witnesses, instead of taking it somewhere more private where she could easily act like it never happened. If the guy who she cheated on was to admit to it, he would get the force for being the other half of this and it would be his fault for ruining the relationship.
Tell me who you are or at least who your girlfriend is so I can gather some fellow robot and gangbang your girlfriend since you have a cuck fetish apparently you weak spineless coward.
RECLAIM YOUR THRONE
Personally OP if you know for a fact you can't find another gf I would kill Chad and her followed by yourself. If you really believe there is nobody else out there for you let that cunt and Chad be together in the afterlife. She cheated, and she knew the consequences.
>letting your gf go to parties
THE ENTIRE POINT OF PARTIES IS FOR NORMIES TO HOOKUP
>why don't you have a gf anon?! Not all women are bad. She's your mother always remember that.
This is why I shoot pain killers and want to die. Also op, The fact that you are considering taking her back it pathetic, she's a cheating slut and should be treated as such.
You actually need convincing to take her back?!
You know what, take her back, marry her and let her do it again to you under the knifepoint called "alimony". That'll be so much better! :^)
OP that's pretty shitty, If you did that with Stacy you can be she and her harpies would be throwing a shit fit with you as a rightful cheater would be.
Tell her its over but don't make a big deal of it. It's obvious she can't respect an excusive relationship as you would.
Just to ask how close are you OP, How long have you been dating?
Not all guys, I don't blame chad or any guy for that matter making moves on a girl because 99% of the time when a girl cheats she will always lie about her relationship status to said guy.
I had a one night stand with a girl and later found out she had a BF. I told him his GF was a cheating with me and never told me she was in a relationship. He rightfully dumped that whore and I'm glad there is some "bro-code" for these sorts of things.
Also if you cheat it always seems somehow the other party will always know eventually so just be upfront/breakup if you want to fuck other guys/girls.
The bro-code is a rule stated by most guys, but a chunk are hypocritical. I've seen it happen before
>best friend was in a relationship for 2 years
>his gf was actually pretty alright I thought, pretty well behaved
>it was his birthday and he decided to throw a party at his college dorm
>small dorm are so small party
>had some of his dudebro friends over but he was pretty popular so it was expected
>got him a bottle of rum because he loved the stuff
>went to kitchen to find him and saw one of dudebros talking to his gf
>didn't think much of it but obviously didn't completely ignore it just in case
>later me and two of the other guys decide to get his cake because standard birthday shit
>found his gf sitting on the counter with guy I saw her talking to as they're heavily making out
>two guys both back the fuck out but don't say shit
>speak up and say what the fuck
>they quickly stop making up excuses
>she's begging me not to say shit and he's threatening me
>people begin to walk in including my friend wondering whats going on
>call them out on that shit, of course both denying it
>"why the fuck would I cheat on my friends gf?"
>two dudebros from before come in to back him up
>"who the fuck are you going to believe, us or this dick nobody wanted?"
>friends clearly frozen in feelings
>he knows I wouldn't bullshit him after 15 years of knowing him compared to 2 years of knowing them
>tells everyone to get out in one of the angriest i've seen him, including his gf
>they all leave until its just me and him left
>"I didn't need this, especially on my birthday"
>try apologize for everything because it obviously ruined his 20th
>"no anon, you gave me the gift of realizing I can't trust these people"
>he went into heavy drinking and broke up with her that night
>they were waiting around for me that night and decided to jump and beat the shit out of me for it
I felt like a cunt for ruining everything like that but I couldn't let this go by unnoticed.
GFs don't grow on trees for you BECAUSE you're having these thoughts you dipshit.
There are people who would KILL her for what she did. You're actually considering TAKING HER BACK? Are you nuts?!
Tell her that she is a complete whore and a fucking bitch, that you want to stab her to death and play with her blood. Then sever all contact and pound some whiskey you'll get over it.
>they were waiting around for me that night and decided to jump and beat the shit out of me for it
If you killed them with a pocket knife, absolutely no way you would get convicted. You'd be morally clear as well.
Aaaaaaaaahhh you can't do that.... Come on.... If you have a girlfriend means that you can have another.. Don be like that please.
Tell her to fuck off 4rral..
you can't have that lack of self respect......
Go on alpha mode and tell that whore to fuck off.
Even if you forgive her, your mind and the whole relationship is gonna be fucked up...
>Tell her that she is a complete whore and a fucking bitch, that you want to stab her to death and play with her blood.
Why don't you just put in the opening post 'I am looking for Anons to tell me to stay with my cheating gf, all other Anons giving advice will be ignored' next time you fucking cuck.
Considering you made this thread, you're going to take her back.
You're obviously not any kind of man, only a cuckold.
If she's cheated on you once there's a very high chance of it happening again. I know you're conflicted but if she truly valued your three years spent together she wouldn't have slept with that guy. Being drunk at a party is no excuse for cheating on your partner. Tell her that you need some time to yourself and ignore her while you sort out your feelings about this. It's difficult, but you really should consider leaving her after this.
>Convince me not to take her back robots.
Wow whatever I am at least I can be happy I'm not this much of a cuck. Jesus Christ OP, get it together.
There are a lot of meme ideas on here, but dropping girls that cheat on you is not one of them.
Just get the fuck out, normie faggot.
Good on you anon. I wish I had a bro like you.
>tfw I took my gf back
two times, and everybody knows about it
I moved so I could get a new start but everything has just gotten fucking worse, and everyone I left behind is living 10/10 lives.
Kill the man that brought dishonor to you, then forcefully take what is rightfully yours.
No seriously, don't go back to her, it is not worth it. Even if you think you can't get another gf.
Loving a cheating whore is waste of time.
OP here was out for a few hours.
I told her I need some space to think about things. Haven't decided what to do. Hard to leave a girl you love that you have been with for 3 years. Worse yet she was hiding her phone from me this morning so she may still be texting Chad.
Well op if you aren't going to listen to the sound advice if everyone here and ditch the bitch then at least post her nudes so we can fap over her and you can get used to her being a sexual object for other men
OP you break up with her now. Do it faggot.
Even if you're going to get back together, break up. Say you need time if you really want to think about it.
Bottom line: Deprive that bitch of her Valentine's Day.
Imagine her and you are walking through a mall or other public place. He walks past in the opposite direction. He winks at her, she gives him a sly smile.
Imagine you meet up with the guys for a beer or something. You arrive late. You walk in overhearing them saying how sorry they feel for you, willingly becoming a cuckold, not even knowing that she took that as a cue to continue fucking around.
Imagine walking in on her and her friends making fun of how pathetic and easily manipulated you are and congratulating her on finding such a malleable slave.
Imagine finding Facebook logs on an open computer. She's sending Chad nudes and planning to leave you for him because you're a loser.
This is the future you chose.
He got to raw dog her too? Jesus, man, that's the big one. It sounds like you want her though, or you would have dumped her on the spot. Flip a coin and you'll know what you want to do before it hits the ground
she is regretful not sorry, she most likely feels nothing towards you
her rating doesn't matter, anyone you will fall in love with always becomes atleas an 8...
they don't grow on trees for anyone faggot
If you really can't let go of her right now, one option might be to keep her around at arm's length and basically live like you're single but make her believe that you forgave her/took her back/whatever. Basically just keep her around until you find somebody else and tell her to fuck off as soon as soon as you start a new relationship. Use her like an expendable crutch and toss that bitch as soon as you no longer need her.
probably a troll thread but i'm bored so:
throw all her stuff that you have at your place in the dumpster. don't even give her a chance to take it.
change all your info that she knows.
tell her she can go ride the cock carousel and be a stupid whore all she wants.
send her nudes to all her male friends/family/coworkers/etc.
Bottom line: she would never have done this if she respected you. Consider this and all the implications it has for your relationship and future. If you want to keep her just make sure you don't stick around for long or
>tfw betamax to the extreme
>tfw even then, if a gf was to cheat on me it'd be over instantly
>no excuse could be good enough to make me reconsider that statement
>mfw there are people out there who actually are even more beta than I am
I am not trolling. I literally just talked to her and she's going out drinking with her friends again tonight. Honestly probably going to end up giving her another chance.
About to start drinking
>I literally just talked to her and she's going out drinking with her friends again tonight
>Being a bigger cuck than Louis C.K.
Is this your girlfriend Op?
>He thinks we're not fucking anymore Chad xD
and you do have another option kick her ass out remind her that it was SHE that fucked up SHE was in the wrong not you if she cant accept that then remove her from your life get your balls back op
>tfw plenty of girls would actually act like that
Probably trolling but let's play the hypothetical game because why not.
Let's assume all of this is true. Just how unapologetic would a girl have to be betray your trust on such a massive level and then go party and drink and have "fun" the next day without missing a beat? Same place where she cheated?
If you couldn't even make her stay home out of sheer pity if nothing else, it'd be a no brainer that the relationship was already over and she was just riding Chad's cock and taking advantage of you. At that point it's not even a matter of taking her back, but you being a beta provider until she gets with Chad formally.
Odds are they aren't living 10/10 lives anon, people lie on social media or even to others in their lives about how great everything is.
People act like they're going out every day and having so much fun with friends, but generally they're working dead end jobs most of the time, sitting at home watching TV or on the internet for a good chunk of the rest of it, and go out with people that most of which they don't really even like, but they put up with it because they get along with a couple of them, or it's better than being alone.
Don't stress about how other peoples lives seem to be, focus on how yours is currently, and where you want it to be, and fuck anyone that doesn't respect that.
Sure OP, take her back ! She's the only one you'll ever get right ? No no no, don't even think about the fact that there's a shitload of women out there, this one is speciaaaaal !
You can't leave her for something like that, it's just a mistake right ? Right ? I mean when you drink, you just lose all your common sense and just become a slave to anyone that's pushy enough right ? Right ?
Never mind the fact that the trust is broken and you will NEVER see her as before, that you will NEVER trust her again, never mind the fact she'll think you have no backbone and she'll do it again, without any thought.
Just take her back, right ?
Of course not OP. Drop her, don't ever talk to her again. If anybody ask about her, just say she's a cheating bitch, and move on.
World would be a better place with guys like you annon
Doesn't matter man, the fact is that people who're legitimately torn up because they think they made a huge mistake, and ruined something important to them don't fucking go out partying and having fun the day after it happens.
It's not like she was at a friends house even, that could make sense,she needed to talk or some shit, she's going out to a place where people get drunk and meet strangers.
She doesn't care as much about you as you think, she just doesn't want to be seen as a slut who cheats on someone and shows no remorse, because that would be bad for her image.
>convince me not to leave her
That's why she cheated on you. Dude, drop the slut and attempt to fuck anything that walks in your sadness.
Or stay with her and do whatever
>acting really broken up over it
If you can't make her stay home for just one night, what hope would you have of stopping her from riding the cock carousel? She's going to a place where people drink, have fun, and fuck strangers with absolutely no remorse for what she has done. She sees this relationship as already over and she's hunting for a new victim to sink her teeth into.
Honestly though, dating party girls is a huge fucking red flag and one should never ever do it unless she stops partying when you're together or you do it together and go home together every time.
Also anon, if she had to choose between you or partying, which would she choose? Do you think you two have any sort of future together? I'm guessing you don't because she's a whore would pick partying and fucking Chads over you. If you think I'm wrong, be a man and lay down the ultimatum and see what happens. test the strength of her supposed love.
OP still here. She is drinking with her friends because she is upset she isn't "going out" in that sense. I will be monitoring this thread as long as I'm up I'm 5 shots deep and a couple beers.
Ease up on the cuck comments I'm already feeling like shit
She's drinking with her friends at a bar, it's not like a get together with her closest friends at someones house. She's out partying anon, don't buy into the lies, there's absolutely no reason she'd want to be upset out in public when it's cheaper and just as easy to buy alcohol and take it home.
thats what she told you if she comes home you 2 should have a long ass talk and don't welch out either don't back down she needs to respect you and if she doesn't then remove her from your life mang
Even if you gave her a break this night, what do you think she would do if you tried to put a leash on her by going after suspicious behavior like partying and such? If you plan to stay with her, you have to man up and use your leverage (that she was a cheating whore to you) to shit test her hardcore. You need to really rip into her and see how far she is willing to go with things and if you even ever had a chance to have a future together or if it was all futile from the start.
Odds are she probably doesn't care about you anymore considering what happened. If she actually wants to stay together with you, then she should be willing to accept whatever you throw at her. If she doesn't, it was already fucked and you saved yourself some time. You can't lose so start wearing the pants in the relationship and take control of her.
loudest i've laughed in a long time
honestly OP if she's the shitty depressed sort of person it's possible she just let chad do whatever he wanted, in that case she's a human doormat and not just an asshole.
Sorry man, it's best for you to just go. Even if you tried to work through it you'd probably always resent her. Also she's so upset she has to go be drunk with her friends after cheating on you? Nah m8 that's shit
I was exactly in your situation one year ago.
I knoe exactly how you feel, you are just looking fot excuses to stay with her and ignore everything else
I have to go to sleep now, but leave some info at [email protected] if you want to talk.
Best of luck, I dont envy you one bit.
Fight Chad OP.
Not right now though.
Wait till another day, when you're sober.
Liver and body shots, fuck him right up m8.
Doesn't matter if you lose.
What matters if that you went down swinging, balls out.
Gain back your honor baka.
I want the chad who came in your girl to pass by you in the street and look at you in the eye and smile menacingly, knowing that he fucked her like you've never before, and that he fertilized her egg to the point of pregnancy. I also want him and your gf to meet eyes for the first time since that fateful day, and for him to eat her up with her eyes and her blushing profusely because she's recalling that day during that moment. I want her to then text him behind your back to arrange another all night fuckfest
Even then, it's fucking stupid, if she's out having fun.
I get you're emotional at this point, but if you choose to take this girl back, you deserve absolutely every bit of pain she brings you. No-one can blame you for her cheating when you had no idea, but if you give her the ability to cheat on you again, knowing she's likely to, it's your fault when it does happen.
Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. It's a simple saying, but it's incredibly useful for these situations.
DROP HER as well.
This isn't even about her anymore.
She's a lost cause m8.
You have to at least call him out on it.
If you don't then you're basically accepting that Chad made you his bitch.
Are you Chad's bitch OP?
Unleash your primal beast.
I know how you feel, I went through the exact same shit. If you really can't go of her channel your frustration into dominance and really test her and get to the root of her personality. You need to find out who she really is and bring any of those questions that are lingering in the back of your head to light. You're blinded by love but you need to look at her in an objective light and see what she really stands for.
If you find out that she really was rotten at the core all along, then you will feel much less loss when you kick her to the curb. I suspect that is indeed what you will find, but you should put her love to the test and see it for yourself.
if i have online bestfriends on skype who say they care about me and i just up and left one day what are the odds of them calling my house you think? dont want that to happen. ive left for a few weeks one time and 2 months once and nothing happened they had just messaged me a lot
Wait till he's drunk or at least buzzed. He'll be more belligerent that way when you call him out and more likely to swing first so you can claim self-defense.
Stay sober yourself though. That's the only advantage you'l have and, if you play your cards right, the only advantage you need.
Yea I don't feel like getting all the bones in my body broken.
Update: she has been telling me she wants to come over
>cuck posts have been getting to me all day
>berated by normie since this morning calling me a cuck
What do? Leaning towards bad idea
Fighting chad when your girl cheats and then taking her back is pretty much a shitty pro-cuck pre-internet meme.
The only time it really applies is if you don't give any more fucks and you just want to rampage and kill/assault everyone involved. Leaving her alone and going after only chad is fucking retarded though.
>projecting this hard
Listen here, KEK.
I told OP to Drop gf. >>26307530
AND Fight Chad to regain his honor >>26307380
There is literally nothing wrong with what I said.
Don't do it, she's gonna manipulate you via makeup sex. Just break up, it's time to break up. But you don't have to be a hateful psycho about it. You'll change and grow from this difficult experience if you're courageous.
C U C K
F U C K the JapMoot Wordfilter Baka
MODS STOLE MY QUADS
>tell her wanna talk
>make up sex
> immediately after you climax tell her she's through
> have all her bags packed and kick her to the curb
Just break up with her OP
I have fucked up trust issues and all my ex did was watch a movie with a guy in a theater
The next thing you know you are going to need to know her location at all times and shit
Its not worth it
Stand up to her and put her in her place if you're actually going to try and stay with her. Take control and tell her how you really feel. Just give no fucks and lay down the law and see how she reacts. Fuck her if you feel like it but never forget what she did to you.
You need to take control of this shit now. Use her however you please and don't be afraid to threaten to kick her to the curb at the slightest thing and definitely don't be afraid to actually fucking do it. She's a worthless whore so treat her like one. The moment a better girl comes along, don't be afraid to go after her and start your exit plan.
inb4 Happening Thread will be posted tomorrow in the AM.
hi fbi.i'm big pepe and this is jackass redacted4chinz!
Why should anyone respect you OP if you dont respect yourself?
Have some respect for your dignity and your worth. You have way more opportunities in life to get someone worthy of you but you have none if you settle for some cheap easy gratification with a dumb slut who doesnt even respect you enough to get off for an evening. If you dont want to be called a cuck or given shit tier advice then take some of the advice given here. If your worried about not getting a girlfriend after this then make yourself into someone who deserves to get a girlfriend and can attract people that arent fucking losers. Go make brain gains go start lifting go read about masculinity start reading Men Without Women by Hemmingway and learn how to be independent.
Its your choice to pursue mediocrity and yours alone which makes you a cuck. Everyone on here is just calling it as they see it.
Post some fucking nudes of this slut as well.
This, just start giving no fucks. Use her as a fucktoy or a crutch and stop caring about her.
If she wants your actual love again make her fucking earn it. Honestly I'd look for somebody else in the meantime though, but if you want to cling to the idea of actually staying together then you have to mentally protect yourself and make her understand that she really fucked up what was there.
If you're not trolling, then you deserve everything that you're going through right now for your lack of foresight. You trusted implicitly someone who clearly wasn't worth your trust, and to make matters worse, you're such a helpless fucking Omega C.uck that you're bending over backwards and letting her fuck you like Chad fucked her.
You are letting yourself be manipulated. You are a complete embarrassment. I am sitting over here feeling irrational anger, because the more I try and fail to understand your stupidity, the more it feeds my boundless rage. I'm experiencing your retardation secondhand and I already hate your guts without even having met you. You probably look as stupid as you are. I cannot believe I am actually taking this bait.
>If she wants your actual love again make her fucking earn it.
You're every bit the cuck he is for even acknowledging this possibility. I'm sure you'd take every inch of the shaft he is if you were in his position.
Ignore what this dumbass said about her earning your love again, but he has a point about looking for something else. Monkeybranching is a tried and tested tactic used by women, you should utilize it yourself. Remember that it's much easier finding a gf if you already have one. If she really is a 8/10, you should easily get a 7/10 just by casually showing a picture of your old gf.
Do what you want, you pathetic motherfucker. Kissless virgin and I wouldn't ever take that type of shit from any grill, even if she fucked me.
But I doubt she even had sex with you.
Your gf didn't care enough about you to say no to a stranger at a party, she would have done it with anybody because she's a whore and you're only hurting thanks to yourself at this point.
She's probably crying less than what chad made her orgasm.
Get rid of her or suffer.
But you probably deserve each other for being so fucking retarded.
If you got one gf you can get another, or stay with the one who literally gave no fucks about your relationship when she saw a hot guy. Your fucking choice but don't be so fucking stupid as to think it will stop hurting if you take her back. It's just going to get worse.
But you're fucking 12 years old so go fuck yourself while your gf cucks you with strangers she doesn't know but thinks are hotter than you.
If you take her back I swear to god I hope you suffer miserably. I hope you marry her and she has someone else's kid while you're with her.
Don't worry, that won't hurt at all. You'll be used to it since when you take her back you tell her it's okay to make what would be relationship ending mistakes for normal people.
When my mom cheated on my dad we literally dropped everything and left her.
My dad, sister and I got our shit and left.
My dad paid her rent and food, but she FUCKED UP and got fucked back. Haven't seen her in a year and we all feel great.
Broken? How can you get any more broken than "retarded?" Seriously. The fact that you're turning into a total pussy instead of a righteous rage machine is so embarrassing to me that I can't handle it.
Why are you even anything? I just can't.
YOU WILL BECOME EXTREMELY PARANOID, YOU WILL NEVER TRUST HER AS MUCH AS YOU TRY, YOU WILL BECOME AN EMOTIONLESS SHELL, YOU WILL HATE THIS RELATIONSHIP, YOURSELF, AND EVERYTHING IN LIFE BECAUSE YOU MADE THIS DECISON TO STICK WITH THIS WHORE. How do I know? I was a stupid fucking cuckold like you, but I tried to look past it and shit went downhill from there. It's not fucking worth it you pathetic shit, and if you think so you should kill yourself you pathetic faggot. Grow some fucking balls, drop the bitch, lift, study, whatever, make your life better for yourself instead of worrying about these crazy ass girls. OP I swear to God if you take her back you're just a pathetic piece of shit, and everyone will see you as that, and no one will want to be with you. Man the fuck up.
That's one of the interesting things about 4chan. A successful troll needs to put slit of effort into it unlike on other sites were all you need to do is call someone a nigger or a Fag and everyone freaks out
any of you have online friends?
if i have online bestfriends on skype who say they care about me and i just up and left one day what are the odds of them calling my house you think? dont want that to happen. ive left for a few weeks one time and 2 months once and nothing happened they had just messaged me a lot asking me to come back and asking where i was. the time i left for 3 weeks one of the online friends made a couple short little random youtube videos that in the description said "RIP (my name) PLEASE COME BACK" and when i got back on was just like "WHERE did you go dude!" and was like "dont do that you have friends HERE"
This isn't real. This isn't real. This faggot is trolling me and it's working. This isn't real. It's not real. I'm not mad.
ive been talking to a couple guys online for the past couple years and now i just want to leave. they consider me close and ive left for a couple months before and one guy made a little youtube video not about me but the description said my name and said please come back. i had a bunch of messages when i logged back in. i havent done anything illegal so im not worried about trouble i just dont want anyone to call my house, i havent ever given out my number but you can find that stuff easily
Don't take her back you dumbass motherfucker. She doesn't care about you, she cares about the idea of having an emotional tampon while fucking other men when she isn't bleeding for attention.
The girl you "loved" and help, and kissed, and caressed, went to a party and did all that and more with a guy she barely knew just because he was "pushy".
Worst part is that she didn't even blame it on the alchohol. All she did was talk to a man sober and she fucked him. How stupid do you have to be to have sex with a guy because he asked when you have a man who loves you waiting for you at home? You have to be a whore to do that.
Plus other women love men who got cheated on and ditched the bitch. You'll get sympathy bitches left and right.
Ok OP as an anon who has also had a gf for 3 years, I'm gonna try to give you some advice for what I would do in that situation, assuming the 5% this isn't bait.
She is dead to you. The instant she told you you should have ceased all connection and purged her from memory.
Don't worry about Chad he was just being Chad, you don't need to be friendly to him if you see him again but don't go keying his car or burning his house down.
>gfs don't grow on trees for a guy like me
It's only a matter of time before this one leaves, she will not respect you anymore. Gfs may not grow on trees but you can take the chance of finding someone else, someone great, or staying with someone awful.
She's the one who hurt you. She didn't hurt herself, she pleasured herself raw dog and barrel. She let another man ravage her pussy like it was breakfast at IHOP and then gave the trash to you. He didn't care, she didn't care but she knew that someone probably saw her and told you about it (in this case your friend did see her) so she took the best approach to making her seem "redeemable" by telling the truth. If she didn't have to tell the truth she wouldn't, but lying and cheating, while being equally as bad, in a woman's eyes, it's not. In a woman's eyes it's an opportunity to portray herself in a better light and drag people to defend her. So lets say you do the right thing and break up with her, you might get her friends calling you a shitlord so she can feel better about her mistake. She feels entitled to forgiveness and no consequence. But she isn't just like everyone else on this planet.
Trust me OP. I know that you really loved her, but for the sake of the relationship and yourself, you must leave her. It's not right to let someone walk away with a get out of jail free card. She needs to learn and you need someone who truly loves you.
I've been posting for OP to dump her, but I wanted to respect the fact that robots hate it when women post that they are women. So fuck you, stupid fucking hypocrite, making me respond to this stupid fucking bait. Why is it even relevant any of our genders? Cheating is fucking cheating, I don't need to say I'm a fucking fembot, or female for him to listen to me. Cunt.
Literally ENOUGH. I'll be monitoring from now on but will not be responding to cuck posters. Truly a hateful display to your fellow robots.
>people here thinking they have any sort of ability or say to just dump a girl
Lmao, just lmao
You cucks would actually be lucky if a girl wanted to date you, let alone cheat but come back to you since she got a taste of the better life. You really think you can just drop a girl in an instant? Barely a handful of you could do it, you go back to jack shit and being a miserable manchild and she's better off with her freedom to fuck chad again, nothing will be taught. Even more retarded are these "revenges" of throwing her stuff out, like that would happen with a bunch of failures who can't even maintain eye contact.
OP, just take her back and accept you're better off keeping her than letting her run free and being a lonely mess again. Unless you're a chad and can get another girl easy, its either throw your one chance away or keep a hold of it
i found a picture of you my man. lookin good.
>mfw this is the response you should do
>gf cheated on me
>cries and cries about how it was a mistake
>take her back
>it happens again with some other faggot
Why do you even need convincing, OP? I'd rather be single than be in a relationship with a bitch that decided to hop on the cock carousel one day and have to be worried about whether or not she'd do it again.
>She actually told me she came "a few times" as she was admitting to it
dam man i was swaying back and forth that this was fake or you were just a cuck. but god dam man the effort behind all of this you made yourself look like a perfect cuck like another anon said a lot effort went behind the whole pussywhipped (or lack of- less 3-4 times in 3 years lol) you were going for.
Here's my two cents if you aren't a troll. r9k is mostly right about this one, but don't analyze it so emotionally from either side.
If you want to stay with this woman, there will always be trust issues that get in the way of a monogamous relationship, especially if she is attractive. The very act of her cheating and having unsafe sex betrays the fact that there are issues of attraction. In fact, the very act of looking forward to a large social gathering is already evidence of this.
As for where she is tonight, I will not make any guesses as to whether she is partying or cheating. However, the very fact that it seems uncouth to go out in any function without you right after this incident shows that she isn't really thinking about what this could look like to an outside observer, and this is possibly due to apathy.
Go to sleep before sending any plastered messages to her that you will regret. Think this over for at least a week. And please consider strongly not continuing this relationship.
ok, so to sum it up
-op has slept with gf 3-4 times in 3 years
-gf banged chad after 1 hour
-gf confessed and apologized to op because she knew she had been ratted out
-gf let chad bust off right inside her no condom
anything i missed?
^This is a creative comment
I know m8 its kind of funny to see the extent he was willing to go throughout this.
> OP is KEK FAGGOT
> OP is KEK FAGGOT
> OP is KEK FAGGOT
op is cuck faggot
>.....i didnt write...kek wtf
i spent a grand total of 5-10 mins cuckposting ITT over the course of 12+ hrs to keep the thread alive while i was getting drunk all day
i write my OPs in less than 2 mins
You should feel pretty dumb since this same style of bait is posted regularly. Everytime, "girl cheated, but I love her, should I forgive?" Then a thread full of acting supremely beta and ending with going back. I don't know why people still get riled up with these threads
either fucking kill yourself, beat up chad, or dump your fucking girlfriend. Or all of the above you fucking cuck. You don't deserve respect until you do something to earn it, same goes to her.
>she just gets on the pill
>has to leave town for work
>stays with old friend
"Don't worry anon, he's like a bother to me."
>imposible to get ahold of her
>ignores my messages
"Anon, we were just going for a walk"
honestly hang yourself with a inflatable dildo
OP, u are literally the worst of the worst, ur a total fucking cuck and u seem comfrotable knowing and living with that.
u remind me of a friend of mine actually, this faggot actually took his girl back the first time after she fucked around on him and i told him not to. but guess what, much like he was all like BUT I LUUUUV HER and all that shit. he takes her back, w/e, and then she cheats on him a second time. and guess what, nigga takes her back that time too. when he told me taht shit i slapped him across the face as hard as i could and chewed him teh fuck out. he was destroying himself and had no shred of self respect left, and he told me i didnt understand what they had and some other pussy shit i cant remember. anyway, i stopped beiing friends with him for a year after that.
after a year, he calls me up randomly crying and shit, turns out his bitch cheated on him a third time. surprise, surprise. i had that cuck come over and jsut stared at him, and told him he knew what he had to do. i made taht nigga pick up his phone and call her and break up with her, all the while i was staring at him. i didnt want him to listen to her excuses, and i didnt want him to go off into any tangents; keep it short and sweet. then i went over to his computer and deleted her off of his social medias and deleted her number, etc. and we got drunk and reconnected.
it hurt to see my nigga get fucked like that, nobody OP, not even u deserve to be done dirty like that. now he is with a new girl who is p much all i want in a girl, and i couldnt be prouder of him.
u know what hurts me the most tho? its that ur not gonna read this, and worse, u wont even care. ur gonna take her back and ur gonna tell urself ur happy until u believe it. i deserve all the shit coming to ur way. this isnt love u fucking asshat, this is manipulation and some sorry ass attachment. but what the fuck do u care anyway
Is op still here? Is this not a ruse? Hope so.
Listen, I'm engaged and she's been with me since 2005 in high school. First few years were puppy love but we've matured and it's legit love. Strong, built up over time. I couldn't stop loving her if I tried.
And if she did this, I would not live with her or see her ever again, because it's a breach of trust. It hurts, I get it, but it's not just about being "not alone " and I think a lot of robots don't get that. You just want her around so you have someone around, so that you can keep the crushing creeping loneliness out, but don't do it that way. Occupy your mind with something, not someone. That's how a relationship succeeds. You're just being selfish by keeping her bud, sorry. If you love her, let her go. I'd do the same thing and then bury myself in video games for a while.
>You're just being selfish by keeping her bud, sorry. If you love her, let her go
Who cares about the feelings of a cheater? If she betrays you like that, fuck her. If keeping her around and using her in the short term will help you cope, who cares if it's "selfish"? Your sin would pale in comparison to her own.
Because appealing to ops sense that being a cuck is wrong is not working. Maybe he'll understand that keeping her around is wrong but for more reasons then just he ones obvious to everyone else.
It's enabling her not to feel sorry for it if they stay. Letting her get away with it. And if he would still rather keep her then he needs to know why else that makes him a bad person.
I kinda rambled so it might not have got across everything I wanted it to.
Oy fucking vey