almost all femanons have posted their skypes or been part of skype groups
even the ones you think are ultrashy little hikki waifus have had many, many internet "friends"
from there they just take the pick of the litter since, literally all of them will keep trying and trying and trying to get closer to her. it's not like a femanon can actually drive any of these guys away by being boring. if she even basically responds to conversation, let alone positively, the guy will do ALL the rest of the work indefinitely. then just wait for a rapport to build or loneliness to peak, and bam, e-bf.
>>26263058 they do this too though - they convince themselves and tell others that they didn't do anything, because it "didn't count"
a femanon will post her skype on /soc/ but "it was only twice (actually five times but it becomes twice) and then only half-jokingly out of curiosity (rationalized post hoc) and then they only ended up meeting that one guy because everyone else was awful (rationalized post hoc: they winnowed the men down to the best one, but remember it as being a rapid fluke decision)
therefore it never happened! tee hee! i'm a woman!
>>26262945 I hate how true this is. I've met a qt virgin introverted shy fembot here. She was so shy she didn't hold the first voice call for over 5 seconds, after I got to know her I discovered that she was in multiple chat groups just typing and that other robots have admitted to feeling something for her, but she didn't respond because she had a crush on me. She literally had her pick, she chose to destroy me.
>>26263256 they're literally all the same person so it's hard to say. i'm tempted to say "the hottest one with the mental problems that were relatively the most benign."
they're seriously all just the same person. i'd say the most variability they have is that there's a spectrum of awfulness, and there are comparatively less awful ones. those ones are just the ones who are less opinionated and firebrand-y about shit like policing your language with tumblr memes when you're trying to hang out with them, or starting SKYPEFIGHTS over the fact that you "misgendered" someone.
i'm really racking my brain here to think of a single one i met who wasn't a braindead whore. i know one or two that i'd say were unusually sweet and thoughtful, but they both became #YOLO whores some time after dating me. maybe the genuinely autistic chinese girl who wanted to murder people?
>>26263353 I know they are all exactly the same in some ways, I was just thinking maybe you had met someone who left a bit of an impression or something. I have, she was different from all the rest but still the same in the end, too.
>>26263391 >I have, she was different from all the rest but still the same in the end, too.
same experience here
the biggest tragedy of average joe men is that they don't have enough experience with multiple women too abstract them and realize how similar they all are
they think "she's so SPECIAL, she does all these little things, she has a unique soul and she's not like other girls," but if they knew other girls they'd realize she was Stock Shelf Model #4 from the Basic Bitch aisle.
>>26262881 A couple years ago some camwhore on /b/ posted her skype. I added her and kept contact with her for a few weeks later. We eventually made a habit of caming and talking on the phone before bed. We dated for over 6 months before she moved on. True story bro.
I've had one irl gf (the relationship started online though) and I really miss the whole thing.
I lived with her for six months, but we were "together" for 2.5 years. I miss talking on skype all day, falling asleep on the phone together, watching movies together, etc.
Then I remember all the females I've spent time with or talked to, including the one gf I had and I know that this guy >>26263417 is right. They're all the same, it ultimately gets boring or ends up making me feel like shit. This is why I do drugs.
>>26262945 >almost all femanons have posted their skypes or been part of skype groups Just because they aren't as giga autistic as yourself and aren't too much of a fucking pussy when it comes to CHATTING THROUGH TEXT WITH RANDOM PEOPLE ONLINE, doesn't mean they're bad people. Fuck you, retard
>>26263536 That isn't his point you damn mongoloid. He's saying how they have teh same mannerisms, have their choice of robots and filter through, and how time after time these women end up having the same negative qualities. Them hanging around in a chat group is largely irrelevant, it's just a consistency.
God fucking damn it you are fucking stupid. If you're going to disagree with him then at least argue with his actual fucking points. FUCK
>>26263585 Okay shitmouth I'll spell it out for you. You're saying that in order to be shy you are NOT allowed to talk to people through skype. Somehow, you're saying that if you're actually shy, you have to be SO FUCKING AUTISTIC that you actually have an issue with posting your skype on 4chan for someone to add you
You're a fucking brainless retard maggot. Kill yourself and better the world fucking bottom feeder
I only meet em on video games desu. League of Legends is easy mode once people find out ur a girl they won't leave u the fuck alone. League is also the worst place though because they're all over 9000 meme spouting u mad bro idiots. U could probably find some on mmos if ur into that shit.
>>26262881 There are no fembots on here that are not a.) single mothers b.) fat c.) illegal anyway
And I bet ALL of them when they were perky/nonfat (if they weren't always fucking tubbalards making fun of guys who went to the gym for over a decade straight, college and graduate level educated, etc for you know, being rejected for anything but walmart/mcdonalds/autistic/disabled) were only perky when illegal.
Prove me wrong with photos. I dare you.
I didn't ask for uggo facial construction or body type but I'd spend every last dime on a zwivel consultation and cosmetic medicine to fix the exterior.
No way to fix all the self loathing. But that's just it - women these days don't fit the feminine gender role, they aren't submissive but instead humiliate any guy who isn't sexually experienced and dominant.....
>>26262945 again guarantee they're all tumblr fatties and single moms.
Prove me wrong.
Show me non-normie women who don't fit the hi8deous stereotype.
I've looked everywhere.
And don't think I won't apply for every applicable damn job in a city where the women are single......
but I'm too socially and sexually awkward to function. I'm not fat but without abs/a giant pocketbook male dominance and a big cock? You might as well be.
It's all either 1-3 or 10 with 10. if you're like a 4..... you can't hope top pity/luck into the panties of a 6.5-7......
and worse yet I have a normie fetish.
I watch SEC gymnastics, or sporting events and cheerleading meets.... *sigh*
the southern belle, the chick that actually is pale, soft and smooth skinned, WHITE, WESTERN EURO/US (non russian/german) ....... my big fetish.
at this point I mean if I had a ton of money I know what I'd blow it all on, but not how to not be sad about it.... I'd still be thinking about the guys who are normie enough, or don't have to spend shitfucktons of money on a fake love/fuck.... *sigh* gfe/sugar baby style....
>>26263290 this woman/OP photo ONLY posts here as a fake (it's a catfish) OR they are here SOLELY because they are a 7 or 7.5/10 irl and know surrounding themselves with legions of 1-3.5/10 males will give them an endless pool of attention and compliments.....
>>26263520 tfw not even that pretty just too pretty for us (I don't hate anything about her - but I don't really LIKE it either)
>>26263666 You should get checked for "I worship at the holy temple of bullshit psychiatry diagnoses"
I don't have schizo anything.
I'm just a homely bastard that has no desire to pop pills to be fake happy with low salaries/inner beauty and a fucking therapy group full of fucking tumblr/r9k level irl failures/neverhasbeens while the next generation of football players and frat boys are spoiled, kay? Kay.
I'm not the one who decided GFEs - should cost upwards of 1000$ an HOUR (and still require vouching, condoms, and not be anything like an actual oh, IDK, girlfriend? sweet nothings, living together, monogamy.... actually being able to emotionally attach to a sexual attraction?.....)
>>26263666 PS Plenty of offense taken. I don't halluycinate hear voices etc.
That whole "negative symptom" "positive symptom" bs? IS BS - why? Because some moron shoves you full of dope to treat one set of "symptoms" CAUSING another set then says oh well those symptoms exist because blah blah blah.
No you idiot - they're dope side effects from tryintg to control a behavioral response to a shitty environment because you can't give everyone a pleasant environment and you're an overpaid chingchong/dothead motherfucker/nerdspaz who majored in STEM and were actually stem smart instead of smart in the wrong subjects (humanities/social sciences and the like) and thus didn't have to spend their whole lives drugged and living as shit tier humans with less rights than fucking chimps and shit tier women they'd only be happy with if they finally got one because they were drugged :)
>add robots >literally only 2 types of robots, ones who listen to neutral milk hotel and ones who listen to EDM >try to ask interesting questions about literature, art, philosophy, science, video games, politics, feels, the history of their geographical location, etc >they either don't respond after 5 minutes or their responses are very short-winded
Find me a fucking robot who puts in even a modest amount of effort and I'll reciprocate it.
>>26263785 girls won't be robots unless they're hideous/single mothers/fat/all of the above - so the robot must give unfailing monogamy and a great personality and never want for looks or still firm breasts or bodily traits not ruined by obesity/childbirth - despite avoiding settling/desperation sex for the fears of disease/pregnancy entrapment etc.
>>26263908 I wenty to the gym for over 10 years before the fatigue/dysautonomia finally got to me.
I really want to go back but when your heart/brain say sorry I'm gonna be perfectly healthy yet beat and give you a blood pressure that are inappropriate..... (my bp stays too low, my pulse stays too high, but sometimes pulse stays normal and bp would be considered healthy/ideal - but its still slightly too low for me)...
and well - beta blockers - you get to sleep all the time, be impotent for life.....
ritalin? forget it you're not putting me on anything ever that requires psychiatry
ephedrine - may or may not cause hypertension and may or may not cause elevated heart rate and/or normalize it all
midiodrine - well if i'm retaining all this water but NOT my sodium - why the fuck are my adrenals reading as normal - that means my mineralcorticoids are abnormal and uhm *I would really like that taken care of....)
Alternatively my pituitary could be at fault - I always did have to fight to lose fat OR gain weight..... my body will just stay at the upper 160s/lower 170s without trying to binge eat daily....
protip - clean bulking - is expensive as hell and dirty bulking is a good way to die (and still not gain the weight)
So I have a college and graduate school education, have went in and out of so many "interests" I lost count (I'm actually well read, though my memorization of it all is entirely random) and well..... I'm around 16.5-17% body fat after I adjust to 60% water content for my scale (which will read me at a little over 63% water and 14-15.something % bf) - we're 60% water right?.....
>>26264527 Actually I'm a guy and always the beta orbiter *sigh* even to the one that made me sigh at first sight - nbot a drop of makeup on her face
i so wonder what it's like to be that well adjusted fat redditor homely fucker sleeping next to her at night and shit....... i mean we would have lost stuff in common with her going far left super leftie but meh.
thjere's not even anyone i can politically identify with......
>>26265330 Don't feel ashamed of being single in an environment like /r9k/. Avoiding these manbabies at all costs is the best decision if you wish to retain your: sanity, prudence, privacy (look at Mystery) and optimism, because the only thing you will hook here are mentally underdeveloped manchildren who will drop you (if lucky) at a moment's notice, not even in favor of another woman, but rather at the realization that a girlfriend does NOT give their life purpose. If you're unlucky, they'll just revert to their true self they so love to show off on /r9k/, which is a cynical, misogynistic /b/ reject who loves to see you suffer through means such as spreading lewds of you around.
>>26262881 I decided to get out of my comfort zone and actually talk to people after not doing so for 11 years, so I made a skype account and joined some people from /v/ that wanted to create a game. For some reason, a qt Norwegian giant wanted to be my boyfriendo.
Robots are assholes a lot of times, but really all you probably have to do is talk to men and one or more of them is going to want to be your bf. I suggest going to any board with a hobby/something you enjoy such as /lit/, /mu/, /co/ or whatever and there is most likely some kind of kik or skype thread where people can meet and talk. You'll find someone with similar tastes and wants the P.
>>26262945 Pretty much I did this to find my internet soon-to-be-real bf. Just wade through the faggots/assholes/trolls. Trust me there's lots of them on r9k so go to okcupid if you want a semi normie bf. Most NEETs have very little to offer on even a basic level. No offense guys. They can be good company and great orbiters if they have some basic empathy.
I basically use guys to keep me company when my bf is at work. I just am upfront about my needs. That's a really key part.
>>26265735 This is the best advice you can get if you actually want a boyfriend (or girlfriend, this applies to everyone).
Stop trying to force a relationship onto yourself and just do things you enjoy doing in a group setting. Even for a singleplayer game like, say, Undertale, you can still participate in Undertale threads, forums, subreddits, steam groups. I've met plenty of good people this way.
It basically just boils down to stop trying to get a girlfriend through /r9k/. Fuck, even /soc/ is better for it.
>>26266091 >Fuck, even /soc/ is better for it. I posted this a few days ago, but it still stands:
>1. men outnumber women 30 to 1 on /soc/, so OP will have to be real fucking special to get attention (looks, money or status) >2. the women on /soc/ are disgusting, most aren't virgins, and they indulge in that sugar daddy shit, which is just another word for prostitution. There are frequent slut threads where girls boast about having fucked over 100 men >3. as usual, even the ugliest, most uneducated, poorest woman there will want someone above her, and not on her own level, so you get some real subhuman women on there looking for someone 3-4 points more attractive than them who earn 30-40k more than they do
>OP might as well visit his local brothel and offer his life savings to a whore in exchange for marriage instead of visiting /soc/
Met him on omegle under the writing tag and became fast friends, then started dating online very hesitantly. We lived together for two years, dated for three.
Meet people online who share your hobbies. Start looking there. My ex and I met because we both loved writing and while we were together we co-wrote a novel. It's not the best, but we had a lot of fun writing it doing what we loved.
>>26266907 I'm sorry that I don't try to define my masculinity by refusing to be satisfied with ANYTHING that isn't a 10/10 pure virgin christian white girl with the exact same interests as you and completely mentally healthy.
>>26267012 Are you just projecting your own scumminess as a child onto your current inability to change this scumminess? There are, in fact, people who can better themselves. Just because you're a weakminded baby who can't, doesn't mean nobody can.
>>26267397 Yeah it's long distance. But I dunno, she's really into me but I'm honestly not into her but it's pretty funny how assblasted her chat friends are that she's e-dating me. Like a few have turned on her because of it and there are many rumors going around that I am just fucking around with her/going to spam her lewd pics/e-fucking other girls.
If you don't tell me you love me and keep the compliments and attention politely flowing; then there's something terribly wrong with me. I must be ugly, stupid, horrible in every imaginable way if even a low value male like you doesn't like me.
If you do love me your very first a liar and then at very best your a pervert who only wants to somehow extract sex from me.
Liking me or hating me, every option is wrong. Always. I plain don't trust men or human beings.
Basically just give out your skype a lot and try to talk to everyone you add on skype and if you get closer to someone who doesn't mind LDRs they'll ask you out eventually if they like you. I met my first internet bf on omegle and my current one on 4chan.
4chan and video games. Actually met up with a person ive known for 7 years and lost our virginities together. He was going to be a wizard soon and i know i was going to get laid anytime soon. He is actually pretty disgusting and rude irl once i came to his country but when he came to mine it was the exact opposite. Didnt have much interest in fucking him after a couple times.
>>26269898 >not spout memes. NORMIES GET THE FUCK OUT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE GET GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT
>>26269969 Its really not hard to lose your virginity. I lost mine at 22 (didnt want to lose it to a random guy) and him 27. He was always all like "i hate woman irl hurr durrr asexual" when we dated he was horny everyday and wanted to fuck almost every night... I don't even.
>>26270054 Also I was super horny a couple days ago and messaged some guy i knew on dota who always tried to flirt with me and we just cybered/fapped for a 2 hours and he tried to erp one of my favorite heros kek. We talk alot more after that but im not looking for something long distance right now.
>>26270085 He isnt ugly or fat. He's just weird/dirty and thinks all woman are sluts and i was his beacon of light. He is retarded as fuck. I stopped looking at him sexually when his dick smelled like piss and his hair always smelled. I also had to remind him to brush his tongue because his breath.
>>26270159 Find someone like you then or atleast some common interests. Im shy, awkward and never had a real job. And desu i like a guy who is hard to get but dont be an autist and put up a wall or ill lose interest. But seriously go and experiment. I want to have sex so bad and effection but im just so scared about it after Ive done it. Atleast try once.
>>26270252 Yes you have a chance snd I believe in you. Just try chatting with someone with the same interests as you. Make a friend in a video game and start slow. If you have a connection you will gradually talk more and sexually tension will arise. Its just natural thing and but you have to be open to it. If you get denied move on
>>26270310 If you want me to be honest, sex was a bit painful at the start and it was hard for him to get in because he was a bit bigger but once we started to go at it, it was good but i ended up hurting after. We foreplayed alot but like i said i started losing interest in him physically when he wasnt keeping up with his hygiene and i had to keep reminding him to do certain stuff. I remember i hated kissing him because his breathe. Him being good looking didnt help
>>26270472 I've only been with one person in real life but I'd probably fuck you if I had some sort of physical and mental attraction. My fembot friend helps bots lose their virginities but i think its a bit slutty because she's opening the door to get aids with going with so many random guys.
I found him on maplestory when I was in middle school. I was the one who approached him, actually. We ended up having a stupid but comfy little kid romance for a year or two until my mom replaced my pc with a mac one day and I couldn't get on ms. I didn't have any other contact info of his, but found him on Facebook a few years later. He's engaged now to another girl and we're still best friends. He's a really good guy and he made me a better person. I feel like I had one of the best and most healthy first relationships ever and I'm really grateful for it, even if it was my only relationship. Thanks for reading my blog
>>26270657 She lives in the UK. I personally wont just fuck random guys because i like ones who are a bit of a challenge (unless im super horny) but she will and likes sex. She's not fat, knows chan culture, and not a stacy.
>>26270348 >>26270229 I don't meet anyone with my interests. I can talk to people online but i'd never approach a girl in real life due to overthinking, crippling fear and low self esteem. People like me don't stand a chance. Just going to kill myself in a few years once i hit rock bottom.
>>26270813 I'll mention you to her but I need you to pretend that you're my friend and you have to go along with it because she may think its weird im doing this. Most of the bots she knew were sort of her "friends" and they just end up having sex if it naturally happens. Also don't straight up ask for sex and make her feel like a slut.
>>26270600 That's adorable. I had a kid romance with a girl from Runescape and MSN when I was about 12 years old. We cammed every day for about 3 months
Unhappy ending spoiler: until one of my classmates "hacked" my MSN (guessed my password being just my first name), called her and everyone else on my friend list as many horrible things as possible and blocked her. She never wanted to speak with me again. And that planted the seed of my misanthropy that blossomed into an edgy, rotten flower over the rest of my teenage years. Thanks for reading my blog.
>>26270831 I suffer from the same fears as you. I found someone like me and it was easy to connect when we had the same feelings. I dont want a fucking chad and you shouldnt go for a stacy too. Fuck them and stay in your comfort zone. I personally wont judge you but just please dont put up a wall and deny yourself from being happy (typical bot). I was surprised when I lost my virginity and the only relationships ill have will probably only sprout online. Its not weird but i just think its easier. You dont have to approach woman irl too. Just start as online friends first and be fucking open.
>>26262881 it's easy to get internet bfs, I just post a few pics and get tons of responses from thirsty boys, then I choose a few and elad them on until they buy some stuff on my amazon list, after they start getting needy I drop them and find some more. I have gotten around $1500 in stuff off amazon so far doing this, you boys are so pathetic.
>>26271006 I just recently broke up with that guy Ive talked to off and online for 7 years and I only want friends (which I barely have) and maybe someone to occasionally release my sexually frustrations on which is easy. But if you seriously want to attempt to lose your virginity and maybe talk to her because it will eventually happen if you swoon her ayy lmao
>>26271100 I only found people I could connect with online but the thing with online friends is that they usually are not close to you. Especially if you don't live in the US. I also don't want a stacy, I'd never go for one. They are so far above me that I prefer to not be visible to them. I know that hiding i my room won't get me anyone. it's just hard to believe in yourself if you never got any attention at all. Even though i'm apparently not ugly. Online dating might be my last chance in the end but that is so skewed in the womens favor that I don't even want to attempt it. Plus what do you put in a profile if you are not good at anything or don't do anything?
>>26271246 Dating sites are meh. That's just my opinion but some people are genuinely looking for friendship and love. Ive noticed most sign up to for confindence boosting, sex/casual dating (which you obviously don't do). I also dont believe you arent good at anything or dont like to do anything. Maybe you're depressed, people may have put you down but you're not a loser. Its just natural to lose all interest in things once you have become depressed. I feel the same way as you and im not going to give up. Find something that you enjoy/enjoyed in the past and maybe write that down in your profile. Be honest. Once you start to be a bit happier you'll start to enjoy things and be more open to trying new stuff. You wont find anyone sitting on your ass and seriously dont find a person just to feel validated as well.
>>26262881 I don't really know if this is true. Where the heck do girls get internet bfs? I've talked to a whole lot of people online after years of online gaming and being active in communities and I've never even had an online friendship last more than a month. I've had many, many guys express a desire to see me naked but none have ever said, "I like you."
Every single "friendship" I've had I've had to be the one pushing every single conversation until it gets to the point that I just get too self-conscious, wait for them to initiate a conversation and then remove them when they don't after a week.
I feel so stupid and whiny complaining about this about this because I've literally had guys attempt to buy me games before or try to initiate sexual stuff so many times before but all I'm really interested in is having someone there who I genuinely just love listening to and hanging out with and it's a mutual feeling and holy shit I just want to fall asleep on skype with them. I just want to want someone so badly that we fall asleep together halfway across the world because we don't want to say goodbye.
I thought this shit was supposed to be easy for girls, why is it so hard for me? I must be like the most insanely boring or just ridiculously obnoxious person ever.
>>26271530 I know they are meh but what other choice do you have when you can't talk to people in real life? At least that way you talk online a bit. You can't really know if I am good at anything or not. All I do is consume media when i'm not going to classes. I know how this sounds but you can't make these assumptions without knowing me. Some people are not good at anything. I haven't been my whole life. Even back when I still was hopeful and thought it would get better at some point. I don't want to give up yet. Not completely but I don't know how to get out of my comfort zone, but I have to try at least once in my life. If that doesn't work I can still go back to pitying myself.
>>26271378 I have a "rebound" and won't slut myself with more than one person. I'm just looking for friends right now on my road to happiness/recovery.
>>26271588 I've found it easier to keep an online boyfriend when you're apart of a small community or game that you actively play and will play for awhile. You have reasons to speak to each other and what not. If that makes sense. Ive done everything to the falling asleep on skype to having calls lasting for 48hrs. This sort of stuff just doesnt happen over night though. It needs to be natural and not forced. Im not very found of internet relationships now that i experienced something real. Like i have this lingering feeling of loneliness realizing someone is so far away from me. Its not impossible to meet with them but i have no money because im so scared to get a job, etc. But im working on getting the help i need.
>>26271783 >'Acting the big man' and 'being the bigger man' are two completely different phrases. It means to act with false bravado and confidence about something when in reality its not true, you stupid autistic faggot tripfag.
>>26271669 Like it said, you need to find someone like you so they understand you, build trust, friendship or maybe a relationship together. The fact that you told me you cant get out your comfort zone ill take the lead and help you open up yourself. Maybe discover new things when you say you dont like anything. I know it sounds dumb but it has worked for me when getting to know people like myself. I cant relate to anyone who soft of isnt like me. We eventually just start casually like any other normal person does. Its a bit draining but worth it.
>>26271695 If I'm completely honest I think I probably would be like talking to a wall sometimes. I get into moods and just don't turn on my pc or communicate with anyone for days and it just has never happened to be an issue because no one else has put much effort in. I don't know if it's something that would change though if I were talking to someone really engaging or who just made me feel like they wanted me to reply in the first place.
>>26271798 I mean I'm not really striving to get an online boyfriend honestly, I'm just feeling inadequate because no one has ever really had a crush on me and because I've never had any kind of relationship or anyone express any interest after seven years being really active online. I don't really think I'd even want an LDR so much as I just miss wanting someone, you know? Like I feel like haven't had a crush or whatever since I was 13.
It's probably also just weird feelings about people thinking I'm good enough to try and have cam sex with but no one liking me as a person.
>>26263908 I had the same experience with the robots I talked to, but I really don't think it's because they lack interest in those things. I feel like they're just scared of disagreeing with me/boring me.
>>26272192 I'm very shy and people most likely thought im just stuck up because i refused to speak to anyone. I also do keep up with my appearance too so its not like people were avoiding me because i smelled or look like a mess. People dont know what to expect when they interact with me. Do you think youre an attractive or atleast average person? Ive been hit on irl but i just act like a wall because its very awkward. Maybe the whole time they have been scared/too awkward to approach you?
>>26272415 I'm pretty unsure about my appearance honestly, I feel like I have a pretty... polarising face, I guess? Like some people have listed me as their ultimate 10/10 most attractive person both online and irl but then I know a majority of people think I'm pretty plain. Especially the last few years because I'm pretty ill most of the times so without makeup I have a tendency to just look kind of sickly and gross and with it I feel like I never look as put together or just clean and professional as other women.
I've been catcalled a lot and hit on irl, but again it was only ever a, "you want to go back to my hotel room?" and never a, "would you like to go on a date with me?"
I kind of clam up in that situations. I'm not really good at talking irl so I can seem quite cold. But I think that's again just me being scared of no one liking me as a person because I feel like every girl in the world has had someone ask them on a date and I've just never, ever had that or anyone say they like me before.
How can I tell if a fembot is shy and anxious or uninterested and annoyed? I've been talking to this total qt on and off, and sometimes she'll act disinterested and reply with one word texts, but then she'll turn around and Snapchat me out of nowhere. I'm already not the best at reading people, but these mixed signals just make it worse.
>>26272636 You do realize a normal guy won't walk up to you on the street and ask you on a date? If so it's very rare and the average girl would tell him to fuck off or just find it super awkward because you don't even know that person. That's why people go online to find someone. Its also not as nerve racking and embarassing like trying it in public. So don't take it personal.
Secondly, you have been catcalled so you MUST be physical appealing. Like I said maybe its "scary" to approach you because your personality seems too intimidating and thats too much work when they can find someone who is easier to talk to. You also said you act like a wall, so then stop being so stubborn/tense. Nobody will want to bother with you. If you dont connect with a someone no matter what you have tried don't linger on it. Some people dont find that one until later on in life but it wont fall ontop your lap.
Lastly, I also have experienced the same shit as you but i know why people didnt like me. I wasnt the best looking girl/never talked to anyone and I was friendzoned too. I thought nobody will ever express their feelings to me. I had so much love to give and i knew i had a good personality and wanted to share myself with someone finally. I opened up myself online and had two serious relationships and met up with one of them. But before i did this i figured i should at least work on my physical appearance. I already improved a bunch from puberty. I learned to do make up and dress up myself. I gained some confindence and eventually told the person i was interested in them and they liked me back.
tl;dr your personality may not be appealing. So fix and stop being stubborn or you havent found the one yet and so dont worry about it.
>>26273426 Shes only doing this to you because shes scared of getting hurt (if shes a true fembot). Shes probably really enjoys talking to you but pretends to be disinterested as a safety net in case something bad happens or she doesnt want to seem annoying/clingy. Never make her feel that way
>>26262945 Personally, I avoid exchanging contact with anyone unless they don't know I'm a grill, but I've seen so many other femanons do that. Why do they even do it? Having so much attention seems so tiring and meaningless. Maybe it just doesn't make sense to me because I'm schizoid.
>>26275480 Because by posting their contact info they have access to multiple potential romantic partners with about 3 seconds of work This is why no one here takes the "women can be lonely to" meme seriously
>>26272002 You are probably not in the thread anymore but whatever. Yeah you are right. I just have to keep trying until I find someone. I'm not a bad person just a fuckup with no social skills. Whenever I wanted to join a club or something I've been to scared to do so but there is no way around exsposing yourself to what you loathe. I just hate opening up to people and then seeing it not going anywhere. It's draining like you said. Wish I could find someone in real life that was like me without leaving my comfort zone but oh well. Can't have everything.
I will be any femanons internet bf! I am kind of boring but very supporting and loving and I am great at understanding people and am very accepting! I am looking for someone who wants lots of love and attention, is genetically female, and who be nice to me. Mental illness is a plus because I'm mentally ill too (but I'm pretty stable and I'm not like angry or violent or anything) Apply at firstname.lastname@example.org Thanks and have a good day everyone!
>>26275700 I very rarely talk to anyone at all. I've contacted one person in the last 5-6 years, and it was because they wanted to learn how to play an instrument I happen to be proficient with. Even that much interaction is enough to make me want to never contact anyone again.
I'm kind of friends with a girl who has had only internet bfs We were neighbors since grade school She grew up extremely awkward. She doesn't have aspergers, but she must have some other kind of autism or something She ended up getting really depressed and tried to commit suicide when she was 15 years old and got admitted and ended up dropping out of high school She never had a real boyfriend and is still a virgin As far as I know, she has had 3-4 internet bfs It's really incredibly sad honestly
>>26276671 >normie pls I have no irl friends, I have a schizo-spectrum disorder. I'm kiss-less, handholdless virgin, I believe in TruLoveForever, I'm scared of sex (like almost phobic-tier). No way am I a normie.
>>26276808 People like me because I look good and I'm polite. I have no friends in real life. Like, absolutely none. Not "Oh none of my friends are great friends". No friends. Also I don't know how to make friends or talk to people. I was a shut-in for like 6 years (as in completely shut-in, never went outside). I'm really not a normie my friend.
>>26276993 >not worthy What. When did I say that? I have no idea how to reciprocate. Anyone is "worthy" of my attention. I just don't know how to communicate or interact in real life. You're just being angry for the sake of being angry at this point anon. Cool down a little. I'd love to be able to talk to someone irl, like, literally anyone. I just don't know how. And my anxiety makes it very hard for me to learn. Everyone has problems, assuming that someone doesn't just because of [insert whatever] is silly. Everyone has problems and those problems are all important. You're so silly anon. >>26276980 This is the part of r9k that I don't belong to though. I guess you can say I'm not a robot if the vitriolic hatred is a defining characteristic. Y'all so silly!
>>26275576 You just have to initiate and I know it seems impossible but I have severe anxiety/crap social skills. Im good hiding it and pretending when i need to take the lead when dealing with someone like myself. It's just annoying how im here waving "im just like you, let's be friends!", and some of them are very stubborn. But if things work out, the bonding will be worth it in the end. I asked a girl who was like me to have a beer and hang out after school on the bus and weve been friends for about 6-7 years now.
>>26277318 I know I do have to do that. That's my biggest weakness, taking risks. I can hide it somewhat but it becomes obvious when I am around women or the rare case I am going anywhere but school. I made some friends or aquaintances in college and high school but they all approached me so I don't really know how that works. If youw ant to keep talking I made a throwaway. email@example.com
>>26278149 Okay it seems something is not working with that throwaway. Maybe because due to the issues cock.li has currently. This one should work though firstname.lastname@example.org at least I can send myself mail from that one.
Heh, this thread. I love this shit, really. All of you fucking pranksters are completely and fucking obsessed with a romantic relationship to the point that you really, and i mean it, you really think or believe that you're either missing out something absolutely required to live your life or just "incomplete" and not happy if you don't have a cutey slut to fuck and cuddle with. I want to ask you all a serious question, and i really beg you all to answer honestly. What makes you think you can actually manage a relationship with someone? Everyday i see robots who never saw a woman\hugged\cuddled someone cry and throw tantrums because they want either a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Is it worth? to suffer and be in pain for something you don't have?
>>26271164 >I'm a guy with a bunch of fake pics and videos I'm a real girl and I can't figure out how to do this.
But I don't really want gifts and presents but I want intense hyper focused attention that's not sexually invasive. This is me: >>26269744
> I've talked to a whole lot of people online after years of online gaming and being active in communities and I've never even had an online friendship last more than a month. I've had many, many guys express a desire to see me naked but none have ever said, "I like you." FUCKING THIS THIS THIS REEEEEEEEE.
We should be lesbo together at this point cos this is the only post that gets it.
>I thought this shit was supposed to be easy for girls, why is it so hard for me? I must be like the most insanely boring or just ridiculously obnoxious person ever.
Fucking EXACTLY. EXACTLY. And the most ironic and bizarre thing is that you see guys on /r9k/ complaining about how women are shallow and only want sex, but where are those guys when I talk one on one to guys??? It's ALWAYS 'so have any more pictures?' With a guy who has absolutely no interested in literally anything else.
It's funny because almost all my favorite artists, authors, scientists, etc are male and that's what always caused me to think that maybe males are more idk intelligent(???) Yet NEVER has a real conversation led me to really think that about a guy. It seems like girls are the only ones capable of actually carrying on a conversations or helping me be creative.
Even when the guy does have so called opinions they are usually really messed up, delusional, or a really poorly reconstructed reproduction of what they think is cool based off shitty middle schooler taste.
I'm not feminist but I know the sjws become increasingly more insane until men are totally suppressed in the world. Just for lulz at this point, I don't care.
>>26263585 >That isn't his point you damn mongoloid. He's saying how they have teh same mannerisms, have their choice of robots and filter through, and how time after time these women end up having the same negative qualities. But that's not specific to fembots, that's just how women work.
>>26279244 >>26279244 GET OUT NORMIE GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT
>>26279249 So you are a >pathetic kissless virgin but you are already promised to someone. NORMIES GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT
>>26279561 >HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE? HOW IS HE NOT A NORMIE?
>>26279561 Thank u yourbiggestfan >>26279622 I-I'm mentally ill, spergy, anxious, depressed, poor social skills, strange hobbies (when I even have hobbies), minimum wage job at 23, not going to school. I mean, cmon anon. I think we need to define normie and robot a lil better
>>26276860 >I was a shut-in for like 6 years (as in completely shut-in, never went outside). >I have a schizo-spectrum disorder. I'm kiss-less, handholdless virgin, >I'm scared of sex (like almost phobic-tier).
>>26279249 >I promised my heart to someone else already
>>26280644 I'm nice I'll be your friend if you want a friend. I don't make mean jokes ever and I don't do whatever he thinks he's doing rite now. I've had breakdowns before too so I know how they feel and stuff.
>>26280675 You do seem fine but you are a normie. I would feel overwhelming amounts of jealousy, rage and especially insecurity talking to you. I say normie because you are >'promised' to someone. I don't agree you are normie in otherways but that doesn't matter in light of the idea that you have someone romantically.
Where's all the guys who always claim they are so thirsty they will put up with anything? Crawling back INTO the wood work now that shit gets serious. You are all literally memeing normies who have girls regularly hitting on them.
Men are memes because men are liars who lack empathy. Hue hue.
>>26280835 I don't have someone romantically. It was really just hyperbole. I'm talking to someone from r9k is all. I'm not in a relationship or anything, I'm just not looking for one. I'll be your friend though and I think I won't make you angry or jealous or anything. I hate men as well, I know that I am one btw before someone points that out. I think we'd have a lot in common if you wanna give friendship a chance. I won't try to force you!!! I just think maybe we'd be good friends and isn't that worth taking a chance on? And if I end up just making you angry you can take it out on me and disappear, that's ok. email@example.com I promise I'm not too much of a normie. I also promise that you can have breakdowns and I won't run away. Some of my other friends go through some pretty bad stuff and I'm always there for them. Friends shouldn't abandon each other afterall.
>>26280972 >Will you put on a trip and let me oribit you on /r9k? No because this is straight up retarded. People don't post with trips because its ANONYMOUS. That's sort of the whole point. I mean you can orbit me privately but I'd rather not parade around that I'm a mentally insane idiot all the time.
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