I feel non-existent everywhere I go, in that when there's more than just 1 or 2 people in a social situation I just tend to fade out into the background and can basically just leave and nobody would even notice.
How do you gain social presence?
Be funny and be nice to everyone. Also DO NOT insert yourself in any social interaction at first. It will make you seem obnoxious. If people are too stupid/boring etc. for you, dont bother theyre not worth your time.
I followed these rules and it worked for me
this is me too OP. trying to lift and get /fit/ as well as be more confident, nice, smile, etc. i always get the creeping feeling that its not making a difference but i have to try i guess
charisma is a natural innate talent born into individuals and cannot be learned.
the best way to maximize the charisma you have in you is
talk to a person
listen to their response
talk about what they talked about, and drop what you talked about
Who is it that? Ive been diamonds since seeing this pic.
>Be funny and be nice to everyone
Don't tell people this. I fucking hate when I'm talking to someone and a third person just tries to join the conversation.
You want to be good at socializing? Be more fucking observant. When I'm intentionally pulling a face that says "shut up and go away", don't fucking smile and continue talking.
I must have a natural charisma because I don't want to speak to anyone but I still get approached.