>>26253532 most groups of friends have that one guy who we just keep around to laugh at and make fun of behind his back, don't take it personally just go with it, nothing wrong with being the jester of the group.
>>26253532 OP, don't hang out with them. Make up excuses that you're busy or something or just don't feel like spending time with them. You could simply just say you don't like being treated like that. Friends don't do that to each other. They do that in your face and not behind your back.
>>26253532 Are you underage? This shit happens all the time within a group of friends. Just wait until you're alone with the group and one of them leaves. Shits funny. Doesn't mean its coming from a place of malice.
>>26253532 >'friend' never initiates conversation with me, even though i've outright told them many times that i enjoy their company but am generally too shy to start conversation etc online, so every time we talk it's me starting the conversation making it awkward as ffuck >would understand if they were a friendless loser too, but they have multiple friends of their own >they've said they like me, but there's little evidence to back it up. WHY CAN'T YOU FUCKERS JUST SAY NO WHY MUST YOU LEAVE ME WONDERING WHETHER YOU'VE FORGOTTEN ABOUT ME, OR WHETHER YOU HATE ME BUT ARE TOO POLITE TO SAY IT. HOW THE FUCK DO YOU FORGET ABOUT SOMEONE ANYWAY, DO YOU REALLY HAVE SO MANY FUCKING SYCOPHANTIC COCKSUCKERS MESSAGING YOU AND MAKING MEANINGLESS SMALL TALK THAT THERE'S NEVER A MOMENT WHERE YOU'VE GOT NOTHING AND THINK 'HEY, WHY DON'T I TALK TO THAT LOSER FAGGOT ANON?'
the only thing worse than explicit rejection is the grey area, at least if they'd laugh at me i'd know they didn't like me and could give up.
its one thing to rip somebody in person, its another to just let your mouth run behind someone's back. Thats snake shit. I dont know if my friends talk behind my back but Im sure they do. They just smile in your face.
>>26254129 >dress how people on here say autists dress >agree with r9k, decide to get better looking shit >go out and get new clothes, shoes, haircut, etc >now all my friends think I'm gay on the dl How do I fix this? Women treat me better now but my friends think I look ridiculous.
>say something in the group chat >someone replies "okay." like I was being annoying >another person posts pretty much the same thing >they all have an extended conversation with each other about it, having lots of laughs and fun
>>26255258 Unless you are 15 no one gives a shir how you dress, and if they do? Who cares man christ dont let this bug you, I spent 14 years in the military wearing a uniform I now wear sport shorts and tshirts dont give a fuck take advice from an old fag it doesnt matter and if you are young get by it after highschool is life not in it
>>26256246 This. We have a code that anything that we say behind each other's backs we must say to their face the next time we see them. Either that or it must be something that was said to their face before already. Cuts alot of the drama out.
>>26253532 actually this is nothing to feel bad about because they do this no matter what hell people dislike superman and he's pretty much perfect (disclaim I don't like superman DC comics really have no other super heroes to brag about)
>be me >me and friends go out to eat at fancy restaurant >come back to car and find a note with a girls number on it >we call >she says it's for me now my friends are teasing me nonstop I just want to end it all already
Drop them and don't look back. This is a really good moment for you. They just saved you so many hours of life that you would have spent with them. They would have asked you favors that you now don't have to waste time on.
>>26256775 >No-ones like a whiny faggot who wont make an effort but expects attention. SO FUCKING SAY IT. ALL YOU HAVE TO SAY IS THAT IT'S TOO MUCH EFFORT FOR YOU, I'M OBVIOUSLY IN A POSITION TO UNDERSTAND THAT IF I'M STATING IT MYSELF, JUST FUCKING SAY IT - I MANAGED TO.
>>26255258 >show up at friends place >"bro, wtf are you wearing? Is that a cardigan?" >"You know how I know you're gay?" >"... why?" >"Because you give a shit about my clothes and know the word cardigan from sweater." >"haha funny but really why wear th-" >"Why are you still talking about clothes?"
To not give a shit would be like
>"bro.. wtf are you wearing lOLOLoLO?" >"What ever the fuck I feel like lol what else would I wear?"
It's okay to tell another man to his face that you don't care what his opinion is on a subject when he offers it without your request. I think it would help you grow as a man to take experimental stances with your actions and then practice not giving a shit.
>ask the questions you want to in class. make one of them simple/dumb. >find a group or club of nerds that like something you like and join them >drop any "friend" that gives you friction like this
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