there is a fucked up scar going down to my anus tbqh but it sort of blends in since there is already naturally a seam there, haven't heard any complaints from my husband since once you're looking after a newborn baby what a vagina looks like on the outside is in "well beyond giving a shit" territory
>>26246622 We get paid postnatal reeducation here so it's fine. Walked around a bunch during labour and that one was pretty long, which let the tissue stretch out slowly, nothing tore. I can tell the difference but if you hadn't seen the before/after most people wouldn't be able to guess.
The rest of my skin and boobs did worse (stretch marks)
>>26247300 It took a while getting used to it again, mostly because it's a bit strange in your brain. I wouldn't say I feel any different physically but it took a while to get back in the saddle and let go as before. Most of the time you don't want to wake the baby and you are dead tired.
>>26248248 Orgasm for women has a lot to do with how you are mentally, it's not as easy as for men where it is more mechanic, if you stimulate enough it will happen. Took a while before I could cum again.
I found myself absurdly ugly after the pregnancy, with the stretch marks , despite having applied cream and oils all the damn time. So it took a while to get back to the gym, loose some weight, feel like I was desirable again.
My husband didn't mind in the slightest, he was so excited when I was pregnant, he has an impreg/pregnancy fetish and the whole lactating thing turned him on massively as well.
>>26248302 Yeah, it's not the same at all because the baby hurts you like nothing else. The reason it's not as fun right after aside from your own issues is also because your body recoils at the pain this means 9 months down the line.
>>26248763 I didn't mean it like that. Imagine that you got a dog and at first it's nice and you do nothing but pet and enjoy it and it's fantastic. Then one days it just mauls you up completely. Your body is going to give you physical reactions of "nope" for a while when you see dogs after that.
Let your girlfriend set the pace at which she'd like to have sex again after the baby, it'll come back but just dont pressure her if she isn't ready. Get her to a relationship therapist if after six months she still won't touch it or do oral. Some friends have needed a while do get used to a penis again but most tried to keep their husband happy in some way.
>>26249092 I am too tired to care half of the time where I would have done it before. but recently she hit the one year mark, we left her with my parents, booked a hotel and banged away all night. You need to plan this shit a lot more but when it happens it's still great.
>>26249166 Alright anon. I never came from having a dick in my vagina, but from my husband playing with my clit. I still don't come from having a dick in my vagina and it took me 4 months to try to have one in there again, then 7 months post-baby to have him cum inside of me and iirc I came again around the 10 month mark because something in my head wasn't cooperating. The dick doesn't feel different in my vagina than before.
As for him, he swears it doesn't feel any different but that's just his word.
>>26249248 is he an honest guy, and do you get mad at him for no reason enough for him to just let you think it feels the same?
Most men will lie to you to keep you from getting bitchy. i need an honest mans opinion. does post-baby pussy feel the same as pre-baby pussy? if any of you have been with a woman before and after having a child...
>>26249311 My wife was actually really tight (like painfully tight)directly afterwards. It mostly had to do with her fully relaxing. After the first couple of times it was back to normal. There are horror stories out there, but not in my experience so far.
Just for the record, pregnant pussy is generally the best pussy a girl will ever have. This ain't even a fetishist talking. It stays wet forever, a bit warmer, and with hormones and all of she's in the mood, she is really in the mood. Also depending on how far along she is, you're really limited to positions that most guys really enjoy anyway.
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