anyone else have this happen to them?
Had a weird semi sexual dream about some girl I sort of know last night. We were like kind of dating in the dream and we were gonna hook up and like half way through I woke up. Today I was thinking about it/her and it kind of turned me on even though I was never really into her before.
Anyone have this happen to them?
I have the occasional sex dream, sometimes with people I've always found attractive and sometimes with people I don't, though I didn't wake up and was magically attracted to them.
My dreams about girls mostly go something like this (Will greentext an actual dream):
>Hanging out with girl I know and like
>She's getting progressively not happy
>I go to hold her hand
>She snatches her hand away
>She looks disgusted and screams at me:
>"Who would ever want to hold your hand?!"
And then I woke up and had a terrible day
Every other night I'll have some sort of dream about a girl I used to know. Doesn't matter if I was attracted to them or not. The dreams don't even involve sex, it's normally just physical contact, and I'm happy until I wake up. I just feel empty afterwards.
People say that loneliness is just boredom for people who depend on others for happiness, but humans are hard-wired for connection...
I took a 3 hour nap today and had a dream about this girl I liked in high school. I still talk to her from time to time but not on a regular basis. Basically I had known her in middle school so by the time we were in high school it would have been weird to ask her out. The dream made me pretty sad desu. Like it was a separate timeline that could have happened had I not been so naive.
>be in hallway in high schikl
>talk to her, get flirty
>then ask her out
>she tells me she's been waiting forever for me to do that
>says she wants us to be a thing
>drive her home from school (I never had a car in high school so idk)
>we makeout in the car
>that night we go to the movies
>she cuddles me
>I put my hand around her shoulder and keep her close
>we kiss, her lips taste like strawberries
>I'm so happy
>wake up, realize it was a dream
>feel sad and pissed off
Oh well. I'm 19 now in uni and I've decided to dedicate my life to science since I'm too autistic to get a girl. Affection is overrated anyway, back to doing physics projects.
I have those every once in a while. Usually the gril is someone from my past, and the theme is intimacy and contentment. Nothing sexual. Encouraging words, supporting smiles, holding foreheads together with eyes closed, stuff like that. I always shrug them off as my subconscious projecting that which I don't have into dreams, perhaps to entice me into trying more.
Those minutes after waking up are pure bliss.
I've had continuous dreams of a qt girl, and we were together dating, going out, hanging out, basically being a couple, and every time I'd wake up I would end up depressed. She never spoke to me and I never knew her name, we never fucked in the dreams either because that's how I am in real life, just interested with being in a relationship, sex comes second when it comes to wanting a date.
I stopped having dreams about her ever since I got a better job. and I was depressed about that for a while but because I knew it wasn't real I got over it.
it was very heartbreaking waking up from those dreams and I cant say that I miss them either because it's an ultimate tease but I'm still depressed with no gf. When i park my car I often sit in my car for an hour and smoke while working up the gut to walking into my empty home where nobody is there waiting for me, just thinking about how nice it would be to come home with that girl in my dream or a nice girl in general waiting for me.
Some say having the same dreams is impossible, but I'm telling you, she was in it a lot.
It is the worst kind of a tease, that's true. Sure, it'd be nice to come home to somebody, but let's not romanticize relationships. They come with obligations and commitments, spending your spare time doing boring-ass shit just because, and carrying some of her life's troubles with you. And that is after the fights and the compromises.
...........I don't even get laid in my dreams. That's how shit my life is. They won't even give me that...
I've thought of that, I understand that there are no such thing as perfect relationships. For once in my life I would like to just experience that, I want to experience the good times of those kinds of relationships, you know?
I was at a total chad party near a university taking photos of the event for my friend who was hosting the event. I snapped this photo, they were making out so very intensely, and I never felt that before. Even if it's just for a moment, you know? I don't really think a lot of people just really don't understand that want for such a connection.
It's really bringing me down, and I feel confident about dating, I just really don't know where to start, dating websites just seem like such a fucking pain.
That's just drunken lust you captured on your sd card. Bit yeah, I'm in the same boat as you, so I know the feels. If you're normal-looking, shower, shave, buy some new threads and get a hobby you can take a class in.
If you're not normal, start with 2-4 months of decent diet and then see above. Regardless of social anxiety, weight, skin conditions, whatever, a decent diet and a healthy regimen of sleep will help a lot. Sounds bullshit, but it is not.
I had a dream last night about a girl I'd talked to on a dating site. It ended with us hugging, and I could feel her warmth and the fabric of her clothes. Then I woke up and remembered that she stopped talking to me two months ago and I will probably never even see her in real life. It is a truly horrible way to start your day to be so forcefully reminded of a happy life you will never, ever have.
I have romantic dreams a lot more often than sex dreams. Dating, kissing, cuddling, etc.
Sometimes it's girls I know, but every once in a while it'll be a girl I don't recognize.
It's always awful when I wake up
>You can only form people from people you have seen
This is a myth
>Some say having the same dreams is impossible
That's definitely untrue, recurring dreams are common.
>it was unrealistic because i didn't have any social anxiety in the dream
the other day I was having a really weird nightmare and I thought I woke up but I was actually still dreaming.
Everything was normal except I was talking to this girl from one of my classes. I put my arms around her and started holding her tight. It felt very real. Then scary nightmare shit started happening again and I woke up for real
It was a pretty big mind fuck.