>in college >professor splits us into groups >some girl

>>26231944
>approach normies
>get called creepy or too desperate
>ignore normies
>get called a jerk or mean or unapproachable.

I want off this planet.

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>>26231944
Rather ask why are you so retarded.
Nobody feels like speaking to somebody "distant" even if they want to. She was relieved because she knew you were forced to talk.

>>26232039
see >>26231992

They ignored me when I tried to ask them something so why bother?

>lol anon its the first time we ever talk! you so distant and quite
>yeah ur right! how are you then? i wish to know you better
>dont talk to me loser

Every. Facking. Time.

>>26232099
>>"lol anon its the first time we ever talk"
>we've actually talked multiple times before

feels bad man

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>>26232081
...that's a different story

Guess not all of us can become normies, eh?

>>26231944
>be in school for mechanical engineering
>3 year
>beginning of the year
>teacher checks if everyone is here
>few new faces
>get called
>girl says who the hell are all these new people
>sit neighbour tells her its me
>everyone laughs expect me

>>26232743

I dont understand what happened at the end there. can you rewrite the 2nd to last part.

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>>26232819
half of the class probably never new my name
i dont even know why she said it like that but the girl who sits next to her showed her that its me and that we are going in the same class for 3 years
after that everyone thought i was weird because of her

>>26231944
>you always look mad and never say hi to her
>call her a bitch for not talking to you

yeah, she's a terrible person

>>26231992
If you care what they call you, you're not really ignoring

>>26231992
it's because you always seem nervous
if a nervous person tries to engage or avoid others it's gonna be off putting either way

you have to be in a good mood for it to work
how to be in a good mood. I have no idea how to help you there. I'm taking benzos and antipsychotics to help me

>>26231944
That's because YOU are supposed to talk to her.

>>26233284
He's calling her a bitch for mentioning it

>>26231944
They can tell that you're socially anxious or uncomfortable but because these subjects are taboo and have a stigma they aren't going to call you out on them. It's like rather than saying to someone "you're fat" you say something like "that looks like a hearty meal!" to be less abrasive. This is the roundabout conversational tone people have when they don't want to be mean, but have a grievance with another person. It's passive-aggression. Something about your reticence probably reminded her of something in herself that she dislikes; maybe her superficial way of socializing? Who knows.

The other possibility is that she is a narcissist, who sees this as an opportunity to "save" you from your reclusive life, and be the hero in her own personal narrative for a meek little anon that couldn't get himself to be a participant in life. Hence this strange "you are always so distant" remark.

>>26233483
Yeah, no. You're reading too much into it

OP is probably autistic

>>26233473
>something completely casual, poking fun because its just class mates.
>OMFG WHAT A BITCH.

Like pottery.

>>26233569
>muh anti-intellectualism

>>26233611
>Muh Aspergers
>>26233569
This tbf (to be frank), family.

Its rarely passive aggressiveness. You guys can just only handle bantz when its presented to you VIA text on a Filipino Knitting board.

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>>26231944
>in college
>professor splits us into groups
Is this how it works in 'merica?

>>26233569
>>26233658
I wonder what it must be like to be so idiotic and small-brained that a post with basic concepts written in simple english is considered "intellectual" enough to be put down with buzzwords and reductive, repressive bullshit ideology.

>>26233766
>do air conditioning class
>get split in group for rest of semester based on our majors
>get group with 2 ESL mexicans who don't take the work seriously at all and a 50 year old fat white lady who smells like cig smoke

it was pretty terrible

>>26233766
Not OP but as a Burgerlander I can say that it depends. Some times they do some times they don't.

>>26231944
Pfft, stop being such a faggot.
What she means is that you never talk to anyone. Ever.

This is your own doing, Anon.

>>26231944
>>26231992

I understand you robot. For example, nobody cared who I was until I put on a mask.

>>26233877
Here we go... Great....

>>26233877
Neither do they talk to him.

>>26233766
Many professors here have no brains so they make students talk to each other to kill time that they would rather not be spending regurgitating bullshit and forcing themselves to orate.

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>>26231944
>you talk
>jeez anon, why are so talkative out of the blue?
>you dont talk
>anon you look arrogant

>>26233375
Nice loaded assumptions faggot.

Kill yourself.

>caring about the opinions of normies
sad desu

>>26234203
>look so arrogant

What kind of retard actually says something like this? Bitch says that you smack her so hard her face liquefies,

>>26233483
Speaking of people with savior complexes, the other day I was trying to read up on it. The normalfag consensus is that you shouldn't try to help people who don't want to be saved, sometimes you need to do things for yourself, etc.

Not once do they associate their savior complex with their own narcissism. It's kind of funny. Some of them even shit talk people who "don't want help" and call them narcissists.

>>26231992
Story of my life anon, I'm currently 24 and it seems to be not a big deal anymore I go to Uni and work part time and no one questions my quietness anymore and as far as trying to talk to people I gave that up long ago in highschool so its pretty chill now familia.

>>26232976
Well i cant imagine she meant to be mean, i feel like she had good intentions.

>>26234292
Well, my resting face is quite arrogant-ish and naturally intense gaze fucks me over.

>>26231944
classic deflection

Just shit people do. Everyone acts in a way to preserve ego.

I think once you realize this, it can make you more empathetic. But if you can't muster the empathy, you just get bitter as shit.

>>26234427
Yeah so is mine, the point is no rational person should say that shit to you if they don't want to get knocked the fuck out.

>"Hey that guy looks like he might be a violent asshole"

>"Let's call him out on it! That won't go horribly wrong!"

>>26233877
what kind of mask?

>>26234672
One that's extremely painful

>>26234910
I guess you're a small guy.

>>26234115
They're not trying to kill time, they're trying to reinforce social skills among the class. As an introvert, I actually like that they do that. Gives me a chance to talk to/meet people in the class that I otherwise wouldn't have.

>>26233784
youre on r9k, no one here wants to understand, they just want to bitch and have a pat on the back by everyone else here because its easier then faceing the truth of it all.