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ask a psychologist anything.

no not kidding. go ahead
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do you have a theory behind my liking girls with dicks and if so what is it?
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Should I reject my shameful fetish, or accept it? I want to get rid of it but it's tough man.
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>>26219323
If you feel you can't help a patient or that they're hopeless, do you tell them?
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>>26219354

Not him but you can just make the shame go away by changing your perception of the fetish....
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How to get help for things like suicidal and violent thoughts without getting thrown in the mental hospital?
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What is your favorite fruit?
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>>26219323
Two black guys attempted to rape me in high school but they didn't finish. Is that why I'm into interracial gangbangs now?
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>>26219323
What's the best way to get over the one and only girl I've ever been with. It's been five years and every once in a while I still get deams of her having sex with other guys or some shit and I can't help but fap (and feel like shit afterwards).
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how do i become smart rich healthy and not lazy without really trying all that hard?
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>>26219339
this is probably a schizotypical homosexuality.

>>26219354
what is it?

>>26219358
no. that is unprofessional and not helpful to them. i work as hard as i can without doing that.

>>26219371
you wont get thrown in the mental hospital unless you make a specific threat against a person or persons. i cannot talk about you at all to the authorities, legally, unless other people are in danger.

>>26219379
pineapple

>>26219384
who knows dude
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I've got a lot of anger/sadness/resentment and masterbating hasn't made it go away and exercises I can do to release it?
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>>26219323
Why do you practice the worst kind of medicine? Were you not smart enough to go into real medicine?

What makes psychology an actual hard science rather than a pseudo science?

Can you prove the human will doesnt exist? If free will does exist, how can you psychoanalyze anyone?

Do you think drugs are the answer to nullify pain and grief caused by circumstantial issues such as relationship problems?

Are you finding yourself, as a psychologist, developing psychiateic conditions from listening to other people talk about theirs?

If demonic influence were real, it would stand to reason that you would be the most ssusceptible due to prolonged exposure to the demented? I know you dont believe in this (since youre a psychiatrist) But I'm reminding you to remember this paragraph forever whenever you encounter anyone with puppydog eyes, remember the demons and wonder if they are real.

Also how's school going?
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>>26219323
Now that you've got your bachelor's in psychology, which fast food restaurants will you be applying to?
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>>26219411
real answer, become a famous hollywood actor. since that realistically wont happen, i would rethink my priorities.

>>26219431
i cant tell if this is a question or a statement.
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>>26219461
Any* exercise I can do to release it. Like what the fuck doc
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>>26219427
>who knows dude
T-t-thank you for your h-help.
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>>26219451
i dont practice medicine my friend. i think you have psychology and psychiatry mixed up. a psychologist is someone with a Ph.D in psychology while a psychiatrist is a medical doctor (MD) who has chosen to study psychology. psychiatrists are the one who prescribe drugs, psychologists cannot. i more approach mental illness from a behavioral / what was your upbringing like standpoint rather than from a your brain chemicals are inbalanced so take this drug standpoint.
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>>26219461
okay, let me ask another question
how do i become a famous Hollywood actor?
also did you not capitolize Hollywood on purpose?
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>>26219500
any exercise helps but cardio is better at releasing those endorphins and making you feel better.
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>>26219323
What can I do to manage my bpd before I can get dbt?
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>>26219427
>schizotypical homosexuality
what does this mean
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Will doing this really give me an instant orgasm?
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>>26219323
Is depression a meme? Do all women have bpd?
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how can i commit fast painless suicide without any regrets or feeling scared?
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>>26219549
It means you played yourself congratulations
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>>26219323
why am I so afraid .... of people. the thought of them thinking im weird or ugly just scares the living hell out of me. I despise leaving my room but I have to....
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>>26219565
what does this mean, as well?
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Have you noticed a rise in boys who want to be girls, and if so what do you think of it? Also what do you think of "traps" in general?
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>>26219451
There are no demons just your own insecurities
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>>26219323
i have daddy issues and seek out older men. is this something i can overcome, or should i just roll with it?
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>who knows dude

That's some good psychologising right there bud

>>26219384

Fear and danger heighten the libido. Sometimes people try to find a good feeling in order to counteract a bad feeling. Gangbang fantasies are probably a way of turning IR into something positive for yourself, countering out that intense negative memory.
Or hey, maybe you just like black dicks.
I'm no shrink
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>>26219323
what are some causes of hoarding
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>>26219323
>gf is emotionally abusive
>gf can't listen to my pain without trying to defend herself
what do
I told her stop and just repeat what i say when i say "i feel sad" jut say "you feel sad" but she won't

I have a friend who does it perfectly and I'm definitely falling for her, should I just leave gf for new girl?


I'm a trap btw
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>>26219593
You got your brain body and soul. Your soul got hurt so you fucked up your brain where it gets its fill of sexual stimuli through your chick's with dicks alibi. Stop the porno workout and drink a shit ton of water and you might be able to fish some pussy out of your stupidity.
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>>26219549

I just rolled my eyes when I read that guy's reply since calling futa gay and nothing else is the laziest and most common reply he could've made, but I just googled "schizotypical" and google says:

>Schizotypal personality disorder (STPD) or schizotypal disorder is a mental disorder characterized by a need for social isolation, anxiety in social situations,thinking, and often unconventional beliefs.

I stopped reading the above excerpt when it mentioned "social isolation" but imo that guy's reply where he mentioned this word is zero effort and therefore bullshit anyway and should thus be ignored. I'm not even saying I believe that futa's not gay: I'm just saying that calling it gay and nothing else takes no effort so fuck him.
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Is depression something you can escape, or is it always lurking there?
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>>26219668

What is a "soul"? And you appear to be implying that having a futa fetish is brain cancer that must be cured, and that having a futa fetish makes one stupid. Why? Why would any of this be the case? Are you even OP?
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>>26219668
ah, so you're just a troll, then. got it. we might be on 4chan and we might be talking about dick girls, but if you can't uphold a professional/unbiased attitude towards things, you have no business calling yourself a psychologist.
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if a tranny comes to ask you for advice, do you tell him to take hormones or tell him to accept he's male?
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>>26219708
Ya brain cancer and your brain reacting to whatever the fuck futa is is a form of brain cancer if cancer is to what the fuck. You got some faulty wiring and glad stupidity like yours doesn't repopulate.
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can I get a lethal dose of morphine doc?
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Are songs really messages to me?
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>>26219712
Ain't no psyche bitch yall should stop doing shot that makes you so sad if it does make you all so sad though, and lonely.
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>>26219752
>I say X is such, therefore it is
>not even confirming or denying whether or not you're OP even though I asked in the very same post you responded to here

Troll thread. 0/10, you threw everything away far too soon.
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>>26219323
What makes a genuine psychopath?

For example, recently I've been keeping a notebook full of plans and dreams of killing people, mostly by stabbing or running them over with cars. I wouldn't ever consider myself a psychopath because I would never carry through with these actions since I'd get in trouble. Is it the thoughts that make you one or do you actually have to do something?
Is it messed up to be scared to kill someone because you'll get in trouble instead of being scared because it's murder?
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>>26219778
Keep smacking it breh working reel good 4ya
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>>26219323
Is psychology a good major?
I'm thinking about it, but I know that you usually need a doctorate and the average pay for a psychologist is good but not spectacular?

What's your average day like, do you enjoy it?
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Are you even still here? Original question
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>>26219323
I used to suffer from irrational paranoia from ages 4-13, why do you think that is, and how might that affect me in the future? (I don't know if it matters but I always had the fear that someone was out to get me, like if there was someone in my closet or backyard ready to kill me)
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>>26219774
There is always something to guide you towards what's really causing the problem.
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>>26219323
How can I become like a super productive person?
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How do I get rid of my uncontrollable lust?

I have been trying to convert to Christianity, I really have, but my lust is unbearable.

I'm constantly flirting with this one chick and when she's not around I turn into a complete sexual deviant.

I just got off in a stairwell wearing panties and drank my own semen, what the fuck is going on in my life these days?
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I know you said psychologist, But do you find psychoactive drugs tend to affect autistic people , and I mean literal the brain developed differently Autism, differently than the normal person?
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>>26219884
Sorry bro I hope you get things worked out for yourself.
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>>26219323
what are good drugs to cure depression that are sold in brasil?
been thinking of suicide too much this year.
also is pic a good thing?
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I'm scared of sharing any sort of feelings or pain that I may feel, and it has resulted in me crafting a sort of fantasy world that I live in and expand daily. Should I be worried?
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Is there a personality disorder that causes a lack of empathy for people you don't know+ the ability to fuck them over for your benefit (Normies seem to give a shit about random people unless it's just a fucking social front) but still care about/would never fuck over your friends, and also involves a short-ass temper that let's you try to absolutely ruin somebody's life in retaliation for minor transgressions (ironically caused by the short temper)?

Other symptoms may include the ability to live a parasitic NEET lifestyle devoid of in person social contact.
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I have mood swings that go from happy to deep depression in a matter or hours or days. I thought it could be bipolar at first but i'm not realy experiencing many of the mania symptoms. Any ideas?
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>>26219323
what do when >tfw no gf ??
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How can I cure depression without seeing a doctor or taking drugs?
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>>26219506
It's possible that your interest in interracial gang-bangs is an attempt to resolve the psychological issues that the rape caused you.

Read up on the psychological defense mechanism known as reaction formation.
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>>26219960
Write down your real feelings and pretend the page is the person you have the anger for
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>>26219961

This is similar to narcissistic personality disorder or antisocial personality disorder in a lot of ways

It's also similar to narcissistic abuse/manipulation

you at least have strong antisocial tendencies

the friends you wouldn't fuck over - is it because you love them and you want them to succeed or is it because you know that if you hurt them there will be social repercussions that you don't want to face?
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>>26219700
Depression is most likely caused by repressed feelings. If you get in contact with these repressed feelings and resolve them your depression will be resolved.
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>>26219371

Tell a therapist. As long as you describe the feelings ("I sometimes feel angry and want to hurt people") instead of explaining a plan ("next time my mom asks me to clean my room I'm going to murder her") you'll be okay

If you aren't threatening to commit a crime then they can't do anything
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What should I do about OCD without resorting to SSRIs?
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>>26219801
>tfw he doesn't answer your question because he's not a real psychologist
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>>26219790
Premeditating murder is actually a pretty common phenomena. It doesn't make you a psychopath.

According to some scientist, there are three factors that all psychopathic killers have in common. The first factor is that they have one or several genes that are associated with psychopathy, the second factor is that they suffered emotional or physical abuse during childhood and the third is that they lack activity in the frontal lobes.
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>>26219790

You have aspd.

Think about it. You have no empathy. You're not saying "I won't hurt these people because they would feel bad and that makes me feel bad".

You're saying "I won't murder them so I don't have to go to prison".

You're entirely selfishly motivated.
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>>26220061
>the friends you wouldn't fuck over - is it because you love them and you want them to succeed or is it because you know that if you hurt them there will be social repercussions that you don't want to face?
Neither, I think. Now that I try to explain it, it sounds pretty vague and fairly hypocritical, but I just wouldn't want to fuck over my friends because I know them and actually care about them. But at the same time, I was able to completely fuck over a girl that I loved for breaking up with me, but to be fair I was only 16. The only people I know are online if that's of any relevance, has been that way since I was around 14.

I suppose I dehumanize people that I don't know, because now that I think about it, on occasion I've talked to the strangers I've fucked over and felt bad about it, that is unless I found something about them that pissed me off, then I guess that let me keep dehumanizing them like when I entered this online relationship with a girl to try to lose my virginity and I hated her for being a normie.

Maybe I just have a bad case of being an edgelord, what do you think?
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How Do I stop being so self conscious and paranoid that everyone is judging everything I do and say?

How do I build self esteem/confidence?
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>>26219960

Start talking to your therapist a lot.

>>26219973

borderline or any of the selfish disorders (narcissism or aspd) depending on what sorts of things make you unhappy
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>>26220184
Yet I cry on behalf of others, seeing someone else cry makes me teary eyed.
I just want to inflict pain on someone yet I react in this way.
Murder and plotting just seems like a lot of fun
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>>26220196

How did you fuck over the girl when you were 16?

Are you still KV? How old if you don't mind me asking?
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best way to tackle anxiety disorder?

abusive father in the past is probably the cause.

I just started seeing a therapist and crosscheck his actions.
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>>26220203
You have to realized that the opinion others have of you, are not your own.

Just because Chad thinks you are a faggot dosen't mean that you think you are a faggot.
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>>26220248

>Murder and plotting just seems like a lot of fun

A
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>>26220196

Everything you say shows signs of someone manipulative and selfishly driven. Probably NPD.
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>>26220196

>I guess that let me keep dehumanizing them
>like when I entered this online relationship with a girl to try to lose my virginity and I hated her for being a normie.

No offence but how was she a normie if she was online dating a virgin?

How did you dehumanize her?
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>>26220196

Everyone on this board will scoff but it sounds like you're a huge misogynist.

Do you fuck over women but not friends (male ones)?

Give it some thought. Maybe it's that you're angry that you're a virgin.
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>>26220278
But what if I already I think I am a faggot and keep reinforcing it with every bad interaction I have? I more skeptical if someone says I 'm not a faggot then say I am.I always feel like I am being watched when I leave the house and get really paranoid.
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>>26220260
Distributed nudes and basically called, texted and emailed her 24/7 alternating between "I hate you and i'm going to make you suffer" and "I love you please talk to me".

Sadly yes, the one that I went in with sole intent to use I ended up blowing by getting drunk and confessing, I think in order to hurt her, believing I could just blackmail her to the finish line.

I'm 20

>>26220281
I looked up NPD and I guess I fit the bill, I do also have delusions of grandeur and a boatload of entitlement.

>>26220303
She went to parties every weekend and got drunk and my (probably) warped sense of reality and what that entails made me hate her irrationally which I guess dehumanized her to me, but I'm just guessing.

And yeah, it pisses me off now that I went into it with that mindset and goal, aside from minor female mind games/pettiness she was pretty nice. But she had low self esteem and all that shit.

>>26220349
Nah the people I mainly fuck over are just for benefit and extremely male, though I guess I am fairly bitter and hold women in low regard, which is weird since I obsessed over one.

Fuck this post is long, the replies kept coming as I typed it.
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>>26220363
I suggest that you read this
http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/coping-with-toxic-shame.html
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>>26220379

Do you think you should seek treatment for that?

Do you still have contact with the girl?

How/where did you distribute her nudes?
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Are online tests reliable or are they complete bs?
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I complain to people, and when they tell me how to fix my problems I lash out at them because I already know the answer.

Am I just looking for attention? I kind of feel like a piece of shit and never want to talk to anyone because I feel like I know exactly what they will say to me and they really can't do anything for me.
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I'm the loner who's never had a friend. How do I make friends, when I don't have a social backbone? The reason I don't have friends is because I'm very anxious and too self centered to bother overcoming my social anxiety. It seems easier to stay inside and avoid trying to create relationships. I'm 21 years old now and most people have groups of friends they hand out with at this age. Why would they bother with me? I don't bring anything to the table, most people see friendships almost as a trade. In expense of their time you give them entertainment, unfortunately i'm unable to do that because I have nothing to say. I can't help but feel useless and awkward around other people. I feel like most of them have nothing in common with me, and wouldn't like the things I like because they're usually nerdy or boring things. All the actions I do revolve around me improving myself in becoming a person people want to be around with, but everything I try has literally no success because I've been friendless since I was aware of it. I've picked up kickboxing, piano, drawing, and no one seems a bit interested in me. I've taken advice on /fit/ but completely failed at becoming muscular. It actually scent me into a bigger shithole because I was unable to see improvements after a year of "working out" or whatever I was doing that was so simple to others. I have no notable accomplishments, and play world of warcraft most of the time if not doing any other hobbies I picked up throughout the years.
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>>26220379

>the one that I went in with sole intent to use
>getting drunk and confessing

Confessing what?

To clarify your intentions with her were just to use her for sex? How did you meet her?

>delusions of grandeur

what kinds of delusions?
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>>26220422
Even online tests are just there to give you an idea, then tell you to go actually see a doctor to find out.
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>>26220417
I don't see what treatment would be possible honestly, and my massive ego makes it so that even when I hate myself for all the shit I've done, I still think I'm better off with whatever fucked up mind I have.

No, but I do still try. I found out she was dating a guy from a few states over and got back in the saddle trying to attack her, but I couldn't goad her into replying and I just don't have the rage anymore even after I found out they've definitely fucked which is pretty depressing. She hasn't replied to me in about a year and 4 months.

I distributed them to the community of the game we met in and to her family.

>>26220478
Confessing that I absolutely hated her and only wanted to use her. I met her on a game.

I just feel like i'm more important than everyone else and sometimes feel like I'm singled out by some secret organization, NHK-esque.
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>constantly tell people im a terrible human being
>they ask whats so terrible about me
>I dont have any answers except that im lazy

How can I stop thinking I'm a terrible person
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>>26219323
Something is wrong with me. I need help. I want to speak with a counselor or therapist. Also im broke
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>>26220417
http://changingminds.org/explanations/behaviors/coping/help-rejection.htm
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Have you ever dealt with someone who is insecure over their height? I've thought about seeing professional help, but there is nothing anyone can say to change the fact that women aren't attracted to manlets.
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>>26220403
thanks. That sounds a lot like what I am experiencing. but what do I do now?It doesn't say how to do anything about it, just trying to sell shitty books.Should I see a therapist or something and them tell about it?
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>>26220508

Are you previously diagnosed with any mental disorders?
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I need to pee all the goddamn time, but only under the influence of coffee or alcohol. What are the chances it's psychosomatic?

Also, I'm considering prostitution to leave a bad situtaion, and find myself surrounded by tragedy cases worse than myself. Do I just have strange luck, or is everyone bad off in some way? It seems like I'm a terrible person with terrible experiences but who has inflicted terrible things on others, but my experience and actions do not seem unique considering the people I've met. Do I just meet similarly awful people, or are all people awful, including myself??
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>>26220587
When I was a kid they said I had ADHD and had me try pills like new shoes until they realized none of them fit. They later suspected autism but I don't think that was ever confirmed.
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>>26220508

>hasn't replied in a year and 4 months
>still mad she fucked someone else

Have you done this to any other girls?
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>>26220588
Doesn't caffeine act as a fucking water tablet and booze just goes right through you anyway? I guess knowing that could make it worse.

>>26220612
I haven't obsessed over any other girls so no. And what I was getting at was that it didn't make me mad enough to go keep going after her, shit it just makes me sad.
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>>26219323
Why do I keep comparing myself to other people
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>>26220636
Both are dieruretics but for different reasons. Caffeine, being a general stimulant, stimulates digestion and thus production of pee and poop. Alcohol interferes with the uptake of water into the body, so you'll pee more often just because you generate more "waste" water.
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>>26220636

You feel sorry for yourself that you're not getting laid, you don't feel genuine empathy for a girl whose life you maliciously tried to destroy out of spite because you're vindictive
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>>26220561
Well, I've been using an exercise that I call "time machine rescue operation"

basically, I go sit quietly and think about moments that I felt shame and really try to visualize the person that I were in that situation.

sometimes I talk to the person I were and explain why thinks are ok, that "you" did nothing wrong or simply forgive myself for it.

Sometimes I even stand up to past bullies and simply tell them to fuck off, not to talk to me that way and such.
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>>26220451
you sound like such a dumbass. just kill yourself desu
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>>26219323
Why does every girl I fall in love with leave?
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>>26220671
I find myself wondering that too. I wouldn't say it was out of spite, I would just get angry whenever she would ignore me after she broke things off, ironically due to my short temper and tendency to blow up over small things. It just progressed, I used to think it was a line I'd never cross.

I have often wondered if I did generally feel bad after I'd calm down or if it just upset me that I made things worse for myself. I mean, I do feel bad now, I do regret everything I've done but I just can't distinguish if it's for the right reasons or not. Does that make sense?
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>>26220719
Replace generally with genuinely, i'm tired.
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>>26220719
Dude, check my other post out
>>26220403
You are fighting your toxic shame.

Also check out
>>26220674

It might help you.
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>>26220266

I had sort of the same problem. Can you tell me we what the therapist told you?
I cant go to a therapist myself
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>>26220674
Thanks I might try that. The only thing is it might be awhile before I can forgive myself, I still feel at fault in a lot of things.
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>>26219339
Don't listen to >>26219427. Liking dick girls is basically a brain glitch because dick girls don't exist in nature. When a dude sees a girl and a dick they get hard to be able to go in there and pass on their genetics rather than the other guys.
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>>26220906
You need to look at things form a objective perspective. Something you could do is writing down the event that made you feel ashamed, and instead of writing "I did" you write "Anon did" or another name.

simply view the event as an outsider and make a judgement. Ask key question like "who where in the best position to avoid the problem?" and really figure out who was at fault.

Another great way of getting some objectivity on the situations is talking to a therapist.
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>>26220987
Well it isn't so much as individual situations for the most part, as relationships and how I was treated.Its hard to be objective if I already have a certain view on things and am not very good at making judgement but I get what you are saying.I am still debating therapy but I am am considering it more now.Thanks anon
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A guy I work with committed suicide two weeks ago, when they gathered everyone around and told us, everyone started crying, even the men saying how great he was. But not me. I just laughed and laughed then called them faggots and walked away. What the fuck is wrong with me? I also think about a murder spree with suicide by cop at the end. I even have begun detailing schematics for the gun I plan to build and use. Help me
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>>26221187
You carry alot of pain. The reason why you didnt let the guys death get to you is because that pain would "puncture the pain-reservoar" causing you crippeling, earthshattering pain and fear.

You should talk to a therapist, and not be afraid of actually opening up. One step at a time.
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>>26220702
Please answer this
[original comment]
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>>26221274
I don't know doc. I was always bullied, physically, verbally abused, purposely excluded in schooling, I guess I never really got over it. I just don't really know what's wrong with me, once I start thinking about suicide or murder it gets stuck in my head for days at a time, it's like tunnel vision, but with my thoughts you know? I couldn't really care less about anyone I know, except my older sister.
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>>26221325
Cont.

Also, the last therapist I spoke too completely fucked me over. I was having a rough time with my sexuality and accepting who I was (I'm bi) because I was raised in an extremely homophobic house. I told me therapist and within an hour of the session ending she had outed me as a 'faggot' to my parents. She literally called me a faggot. I stopped going after that
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>>26221297
>>26221297
There can be multiply reasons.
One of them might be that you are a "pushover" - you don't challenge them. You see, to keep a girl you have to make her work for your approval. If she can get your approval effortlessly, it'll create a "approval-inflation" where the value of you (and your approval) will reach a value of zero, and thus she moves on to someone whos approval actually is worth something to her.
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psychology is pseudoscience, why did you not study neurosciences? too difficult?
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>>26221325
>>26221367
If someone was bullied, physically and verbally abused, wouldn't that person be hurt...?

The obsessive thoughts you have about homicide and suicide is an attempt to expression the underlying pain. You need to get in contact with this pain and resolve it adequately, preferably with a professional therapist.

Regarding the incident with the therapist, she was a total cunt. Fuck that bitch, and fuck your parents for not being able to love you for who you are.

Remember; you never deserved nor ever will deserve the abuse that you endured.
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>>26221611
Thanks for the advice mate.
This is why I love this place, we can speak our minds without being labeled as freaks and nut cases by everyone.
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What could be the reason for me crying every day for more than a month?

I also crave affection and love, and feel empty and purposeless if no-one tells me they value me. When I wake up I always think 'what's the point in trying, I'm alone anyway'.

What scares me is that I don't feel content by myself, and need external validation. Which makes me always doubt the sincerity of my feelings towards others.
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>>26219323
Have you considered suicide? Are you the poor chick from /shg/ studying at uni?
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>>26219427
>what is it?
I like little girls.
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>>26219323
Do you think that those Chinese science cucks will really be able to reverse Autism in those monkeys?

I'm asking for your perspective from a psychological standpoint.

Is Gene therapy the ultimate cure for autists or aspies? Or are we going to keep using the lead pill as the final solution?
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>>26221749
Holy shit, are you me senpai?
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>>26221749
We all need love and affection, especially as children since we internalize it into self esteem. The reason why you are so needy is because your needs have gone unfulfilled, and you are sad and scared that your needs will continue to go unfulfilled... and that's probably why you cry.

I suggest you read up on co-dependency.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NYaOszny9kU&feature
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>>26221830
Well, if you also feel a burning desire to help others even by disregarding yourself, and feel as if you don't deserve to be happy while there are people who feel bad, then I might as well be.
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How bad is your depression if you've got pseudo dementia.
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>>26219323

What do you think of that autist who has an obsession with Harold shipman.
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>>26221940
Not him, but is it possible that this can be caused simply by lack of romantic love? I ask because I have a family that cares about me, so I can't really say I'm unloved, but I still feel empty.
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>>26222033
I have a loving family as well, but my romantic life has been one disaster after another, mostly by my own fault, so I believe yes.
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>>26221985
Nah, I'm more self-involved now. Maybe because I can barely meet my own needs, so putting energy into other people seems futile. Or maybe because I feel I can't help anyone when I'm the one that needs help. Or maybe I just became bitter. I dunno. Maybe you are the past me.
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I am literally obsessed with enormous natural tits. I can't go a day without jerking off. My motivation comes and goes without warning. What feels like my lifes calling doesn't even get me out of bed a couple of days later. I know full well the consequences of my actions yet continue to indulge them (spending hours on 4chan for example). I fantasise constantly and have done since childhood, I have such vivid and idealised visions of my fantasy life that day to day reality such a working a normal job seem impossible and make me suicidally depressed. I could go on...

Analyse that
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>>26222033
No, I don't think it can be caused solely by lack of romantic partnership.

You say that your family care about you, but do they truly love you for who you are? Do they care about your emotions..?
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Why have carved into my personality that craving compassion and feeling lonely equals weakness? It stops me from getting a gf because I feel so vulnerable.
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>>26222095
>one disaster after another
At least it sounds like you've been loved before.

I'm almost 30 and no one ever loved me. It really fucks me up when I think about it too much. I mean, it's so natural for everyone else. There must be something seriously wrong with me to basically be rejected by society like this.
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>>26222120
I think they do care, but my family is just 2 people and I'm clearly at the bottom off the social ladder.
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>>26222117
You probably had an un-nurturing mother. Now you indulge compulsively in autistic fantasy as a substitute for human relationship and as an attempt to shield yourself from reliving painful emotions that you endured as a child.
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>>26219323

I'm very attracted to overweight and obese women, could you explain this?

My mother isn't fat.
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>>26219323
I never go to the hospital for check ups. I'm very fat. One day I'm afraid I'll go to sleep and wake up and not be able to feel my legs or some other horrible thing because I didn't take better care of myself. I'm terrified of dying. What should I do?
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>>26222215
The fact that you are not treated as an equal might very well be the underlying issue.
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sometimes i want a girlfriend but most of the time just sex
im not interested in 99% of the women, but very much interested in their holes

whats up with that
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>>26222292

You a girl?

My post is here: >>26222252

Wanna fuk?
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>>26222298
That would make sense. But how do I solve this problem?
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>>26219323
Why i'm repulsed with any female which i meet in real life? I like women body but something clicks in me when i hear even one word from their mouth. It's like hearing something so cringeworthy that i cannot help myself but feel repulsed. In some instances i've never been able to be in love with them even when they show the signs of interest. I have extreme sexual aversion towards sexual act and sex organs, i cannot imagine myself doing sex because it's so degenerating.
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>>26222292
You catastrophic-ideations probably stem from shame, which is probably also the reason why you don't go to the hospital check-ups.

Shame might also be the reason you are overweight, you might console oneself by eating.

>>26220403
>>26220674
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>>26222243

My mom was a single mom. I was always the centre of her world. She's a negative pessimistic woman though. I don't understand it but I'm pretty sure she's responsible for pretty much all my issues

Women.
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>>26222312
In a way, it's not yours to solve... Your family got issues, and to be frank there is very little you can do about it unless they willingly want to resolve them.

Maybe you should talk with them about it, but chances are they flat out deny it or that you even get punished for it. If you are lucky they'll might even agree to go to family counseling.

You could also go to therapy alone, but chances are that the therapist would make things worse for you by claiming that the issues lies entirely within you.
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Okay guys, I'm going on lunch now.
I'll be back in an hour.
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What does it mean when I'm very into wearing girl clothes, sucking dicks and being cute, yet I'm not interested on "transitioning" or identifying as female?
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>>26222510
You crave attention and acknowledgement from others.
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everythings boring as fuck, no of my old hobbies are fun, i dont enjoy anything but 4chan. What's wrong with me OP?
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>>26222587
Lack of snowboards
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>>26219323
Sometimes (quite often after weed) when I'm trying to sleep I hear voices in my heads and I can't tell which ones are mine and which ones aren't if there is a difference. They all say different things usually telling me how to live my life or just criticising me. Ignoring them doesn't work. Also how do I become more sociable, I have a decent group of friends but I have trouble talking to strangers
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>>26222547
What can I do about it?
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Tell me about transference, i cant get over my therapist from years ago, i haven't seen her in years but i still think about her a lot. I fell for her the very second i saw her, the time i spent with her was wonderful. How do i get over her? Sometimes i do but then the feelings come back, not intense like they were but enough to make me feel sad.
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>>26222645
how 2 get more snowboards?
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>>26223080
I was in the same situation but i got over once she cut all contact with me. Basically you need to find one thing about her that makes her bitch and wont be thinking the same. I stalker her normiebook and saw that she was only pretending to understand me.
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>>26223117
Actually what I found on normiebook is that she is normal beyond comprehension, it did actually make me like her a whole lot less, I enjoyed imagining the kind of person she is, the mystery was a big element.
Seriously I had no idea that these people actually exist, how can someone and all their friends and family be so damn normal?
It didnt stop me liking her but it did make me like her less, but I still think about her a lot and miss her, but the thing is I am a really strange and sad induvidual, I could not be more different from her if i tried
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>>26219790
If they are a big guy for you or if they're CIA then usually they're gothams reckoning. Hops that helped 8========================D
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>>26223080
Transference is a subconscious process where you apply emotions and expectations from a past experience to a present experience.

For example, you where always yelled at when you asked for more food at the kitchen-table when you grew up. Now you are an adult and just bought a hamburger with fries. You ordered a big fries, but got a medium. You know that you should go up to the cashier and ask for a big fries, but you don't because you feel anxious.

>You are transferring your past emotions of asking for more food as a child to the present moment, resulting in abstain from asking for a big fucking fries.

When talking about transference regarding the therapist/client relationship, it's usually centered around the patients expectations and emotions surrounding a past caregiver that is transferred to the therapist. The patient simply see a parental figure within the therapist, a figure that is associated with fulfillment of needs and wants - usually the needs and wants that went unfulfilled during childhood.

The therapist/client transference phenomena is quite complex, and can contain sexual desire (Oedipus complex) and seeing the therapist as an omnipotent creature and such. Maybe you just felt a emotional bond with your therapist, a emotional bond that you miss. It's not the therapist herself that you miss, maybe it's just the bond?
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>>26220248
Its not like psychopathy is a binary thing, two people can be psychopaths but one cluld be more of a psychopath than the other thats why psychologists have created inventorys and tests to gauge where you land on the scale
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Why can I only get off to anime girls? I don't get hard from real girls anymore....
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>>26219323
Will you talk to me on skype? The waiting list for therapy in my country is 8 months long and I can't afford private.
Failing that, what could be causing my homicidal ideation and occasional (mild) psychosis?
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>>26223437
I did have strong romantic and sexual desire for her but I also idolised her as a mother figure, some part of me looked at her and saw my mom, even though I knew for certian that she wasnt, its like she was and I longed for her aproval and attention. I even confessed all of this to her, embarrassingly so, because I wanted her to understand how I felt. But its not oedipus complex because that has to be about wanting your actual mom, not a mother idolized figure right? Please tell me I dont have that
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>>26223452
you've ascended my friend
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>>26219323
Why do I not believe anything I say or think about? Is it because my parents beat me that I suffer depression and them cursing at me? Is psychology not just a meme because humans are judgemental and weak? A robot with all the info on mental illness would do better.
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>>26219323
He said no not kidding so it must be legit
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>>26219323
Yo I'm a psych major and after reading all this shit I'm seriously reconsidering changing career paths/ Some of you are fucked, evil up people. I'm honestly surprised more therapists arent shot/assaulted by their patients. not only are they dealing with dangerous people daily, but these people can easily find false ways to blame you for their failures and therefore have justification in their minds to attack.
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>>26219672
He's a fucking psychology major, you think he has anything actually intelligent to say? Its like people that talk to the dead, its more about being told what you want to hear.
>Your subconcious mind.......
>Wew thanks man no wonder I get off to that
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>>26224759
Most of the time to you'd just be dealing with normies being sad about relationships or death in families. Half the fucked people won't go to see a psych.
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>>26224965
he implied that he has a phd, I dont think he is a student
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>>26224759
Hey I didn't post in the thread since 200 replys and all but I won't get to see my psychologist in two weeks and I would like to know a professional opinion on antisocial personality disorded
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I had a sexual dream about my niece and when I woke up at the end of it I was actually cumming all over myself. What does it all mean, doc?
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if i marry and reproduce will the bad thoughts and grim reality i live in fade away?
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>>26224436
You do not have Oedipus complex.
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>>26219323
why do you make up all these elaborate lies in an effort to ruin peoples lives
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Every time I go to see a psychologist it never turns out well. They want to focus on issues I don't care about while not helping me on things that I do care about (last one wouldn't shut up about my weight, about my unemployment at the time, about the fact that I dislike my major) or they go behind my back (told my mom at 16 I was gay when I'm fucking not) when I just wanted help with my severe depression/anxiety/suicidal thoughts. Or I get someone who just stares at me the entire time and asks me questions that I can't answer/are too broad. I feel almost like I need to see someone who specializes in severely socially anxious patients to help me talk or make any sort of progress. I have seen 3 in the last year but quit all of them because they weren't helping me
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>>26219323
I was born an asocial passive automaton who
>would organize my toys instead of play with them
>spent nearly my entire life on a computer from age 6 on
>would do math problems for fun
>never respected anyone or had any idols
>no close emotional bonds with anyone, including loving family
>is highly egotistical, not very empathetic
>don't really have a desire to hurt anyone, don't think I'd be particularly against it If I needed to
>become angry and abusive any time someone tries to get close to me (mentally not physically)

I don't really care to change, I just want to know what you think is wrong with me, I can list more traits if you want them
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I have deja vu nearly every day and it makes me extremely paranoid. I also wish someone would push me in front the subway. What does this mean?
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>>26224436
oedipus is about wanting the same features as your mother in someone else. Not necessarily wanting your own mother.
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>>26219323
why would someone shoot a man before throwing him out of a plane?
(original comment for you)
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>>26219323
You probably won't answer but whatever.
>I manipulate people without even trying
>if I meet someone I try to get information out of them about how they like people to be and I make myself that way
>I think I love someone and then I get bored of them
>I have a low self esteem and still think I'm better than most people

Do I have a personality disorder? I've already been diagnosed with depression but I think it's because I victimized myself in front of my psychiatrist
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>>26219618
not OP
it's hip right now and submissive gay people think changing sex can solve any problem they might have with their self esteem or change the life situation they are in.

Really few of them actually felt like a girl untill they read about and saw pictures of some dudes having a semi successful transition and boasting about it online with heavily photoshoped pics.

Most of them just want to look pretty.
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>>26219427
>no. that is unprofessional and not helpful to them.

Wrong, it is very helpful, as it relieves them of the undeserved burden of feeling that they're personally responsible for their deficiencies.
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>>26219323
Any hypothesis on why I'm attracted to (2D) little girls?
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>>26226088
Do you like to exploit people?

Do you feel that you should be prioritized, even when someone else needs to be prioritized more?
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>>26219323
What is the most important aspect to look for when searching for a submissive girl, and i mean searching without her noticing. How do i have to act to make a submissive girl like me?
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>>26219323
You're late to the party, I made this thread 3 days ago.
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Tell me for reals
Is it okay to kill myself?
Im 31
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i am extremely withdrawl from the outside world. from the moment i wake up i'm brainstorming ideas and developing useless ideas that i often forget 5 minutes after. i dont like forming inter personal relationships. i dont like people at all. i just want to be alone. i try to avoid social contact as much as i can. sometimes in certain situations a fear will spawn in the back of my head, i cant really put it in words, but its like i'm extremely afraid of something for a short span of time - like 2 to 10 seconds. i'm extremely bad at communicating, i mispell words all the time, don't really know how to react to basic speech like "good morning!", eg, i will often respond with "yeah i'm fine and you?" with a spelling error, ie, saying "frine" instead of "fine". i just want to be by myself and possibly with my weaboo moe shit. i'm extremely energyless, i simply quit life because its easier than to go out and do whatever. i have so little energy that, if i were trapped to hell, and if there was a short ladder i could just take to get to heaven, i'd probaly just say to myself "nah" and try to get myself used to hell. i'm filthy, disgusting, ugly, unhealthy. i try to avoid thinking about things i should do ie try to get a girlfriend, have kids, minimally imrpove my life, etc. i'm happy with little.

what's the name of my disorder?
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>>26220524

You can:

a) Stop putting arbitrary standards on yourself and understand that maybe it's not possible to be a perfect little princess

b) literally sit down with a pen and paper, write your problems and then try to write solutions as if someone is pointing a gun at your head counting backwards from ten

Now that you have a solution, let nothing stop you from from reaching it
If it doesn't work, repeat.
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>>26219323
Patient with OCD here. I have some really, really dark thoughts. Thoughts that I don't want to accept, don't want to speak (because this will reaffirm them) and most of all am very, very afraid of being judged for, even if they are stupid, meaningless and not even what I believe. Still I'm always hesitent to answer when my psychologist asks.
If I was to tell you something absolutely disgusting, horrifying, while reassuring you that this is just a random thought that disturbs me, would you judge me?
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>>26219323
How can I get a medical confirmation on any psychological defects i.e. depression, bi polar disorder, schizophrenia without having it written down on a record that could be used against me getting a job or similiar important situations?
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So here's my situation:

>live with psychopathic roommate and two other cool guys
>want out because psychopath steals shit, trashes our apartment, and other psychopath shit (but I'm still more than capable of sticking out the rest of the lease if I have to)
>cool roommate's friend catches wind of this (we'll call him Jake)
>Jake lives in a de facto frathouse (a row of townhouses leased by a fraternity since they have no official house)
>Jake doesn't get along with one of his roommates and wants out too
>my roommate tells me about this, mentioning Jake is considering paying me a month's rent for my place (almost $500)
>that was last week
>see Jake two days ago
>he offers me $250 to move out (keep in mind our housing setups are identical)
>however, there is also a $300 lease transfer fee we each must pay to do the switch
>Jake didn't know about this
>he offers to cover that
>end the conversation there because I needed to go and say we'll discuss it later

How do I get the most out of this deal? I know some of the guys in his fraternity and I feel like I'd have more fun living there than I will with my current living situation, but I want to make some money from this. Do you have any tips in negotiating deals to help me get the most out of this? I can answer questions if you have any.
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>>26227890
Tell him you need to hire movers to move all your shit, tell him it's a huge inconvenience for you etc. and ask him if he'd be willing to cover it then cheaply move in and pocket his moneys.
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wasn't this posted like 2-3 days ago already

wow, copypastas are rampant these days.
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>>26227913
Unfortunately, we live very close to one another and it would be difficult to make this not look like a scam. Also, he'd probably just offer to help me move it himself (which would be nice).

I didn't think of this though. I'll definitely consider it and how I could make it work. Assuming I'm talking to OP, do you have any psychology tips to help me negotiate and get the most out of the deal?
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>>26227970
I'm not OP

Ask for more then you want and haggle your way down. You'll end up around what you originally wanted.

Again stress the inconvenience factor.
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asking for a friend

What's the best way to get rid of pedophile thoughts?
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>>26228045
You need an outlet, jerk off to 2d.
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Why am I so afraid to ask and say simple things? I tell myself "Ok let's say what's up to my buddy" in the hallway and as we're closing in, I eventually break under pressure and end up nearly giving myself a panic attack all over saying what's up. This happens with simple questions to like "what was the homework?" "can I see your notes?". I don't know why I put pressure on myself, that gradually gets worse, and ending up freaking myself out. I'm not afraid of people or anything.
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>>26219427
>no. that is unprofessional and not helpful to them. i work as hard as i can without doing that.
GEE I WONDER WHO COULD BE BEHIND THIS POST
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how do I get le hobbies and interests
I'm not even really interested in my uni subject, but it's the thing I'm most interested in out of everything else I guess
thanks
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>>26219323
I like to watch gay porn, I watch it really often. I've fucked a cute boy in the ass. However, I think I really want a gf. But I still fap to gayporn. What do you think about that?
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>>26229284
You're bi
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>>26219323
Why do i smirk more instead of smiling?
Why is my smile uneven and more pronounced in the right side?
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