Not at all, you're just harming yourself with all your negative speech. Everything that comes out of your mouth is just intended to hurt others. But as a result you have to live with the shame of your actions. You're just not a nice person.
btfo from the start
Nicely done anon
>wasting a holy feast day on whores
>There are plenty of ways to have fun
Your mom shows me some every night
I can't hear youuuuuuuuuuuu
Thinking about asking out this
chubbychick that works at my dorm but really don't want to get shit on by friends for it. She's really sweet and we've had a couple nice conversations, and for a second I did think she liked me a little, but it's also part of her job to be nice to us so I don't want to assume anything. If I could just stop caring what people would think/say about me I feel like I would be a lot happier and I know it's the rational thing to do but I just never do it.
At least you got those quints though.
>tfw beautiful amazing gf already
Our first date was this weekend let me greentext it
>go visit friend over last weekend for a 'first date'
>lives 4-5 hours away
>we've known each other for a long time, spilt our hearts out already to each other over phone calls and texts
>finally see her last weekend
>very nervous and quiet around each other
>eventually after few drinks we're cuddling in bar, hold hands the way back to hers
>get in bed, put on film
>after film we get ridiculously horny and fuck 5 times that night
>she's on the pill so it's my first time bareback holy god
>lose count of how many times I rubbed her to orgasm, she wouldn't stop leaking everytime and the bedsheet becomes nasty and reeks of cum
>can see/feel/hear my cum leaking out of her while we spoon, just like in my porn
>our 'first date' consisted of sex, pizza and films
>we didn't even watch films, we just fucked and didn't pay attention to any plot
>her friend jokingly says we had enough sex to repopulate Earth
>we had sex 9 times in less than 48 hours, not including all the oral we did
>all the plans we had like exploring and going for a walk went out of the window
>eventually time comes to leave
>we walk from hers to train station, don't even utter a word to each other
>sat in cafe at trainstation having lunch and coffee
>still barely spoken to each other, just gazing at each other, she's holding my hand to her cheek and kissing it
>both just break down in tears in each other's arms eventually, people all around us thinking wtf
>she says to me it feels like we've been together for a very long time
>leaving her is probably the saddest, most difficult thing I've done in a long time, haven't cried in a long time either
>will only be able to see each other once a month
>it's day 3 without her and already agony
>we skyped earlier and we just gazed at each other without saying much before finally talking
We're clearly mad for each other.
Pic related some of you might recognise this.
>Our first date was this weekend let me greentext it
No, I just don't want to ruin OP's beautiful Valentines Day thread.
Ok I don't really even care honestly
I already have a romantic date planned with my Raifu
The only thing you are destroying is yourself
Anyone ever pull any Valentines Day mischief? like those Japanese guys who booked out every second seat in a theater.
It's not even like she's that chubby, it's just that I'm skellington mode so it gets to be more noticeable. And fuck man, one of my friends gets roasted regularly behind his back in our friend group for dating a girl that kind of has a man face, so I can imagine what they would say about me if I date this girl.
I thought I was done with feeling things for women at this point because I haven't for so long but for whatever reason I think about this girl so often. I know I have a tendency to get a little obsessive and end up admiring from afar but she's graduating this semester so I don't really have too long to make my mind up.
Also she may have a bf according to a friend who knows her through work, but she's never mentioned him in the slightest.
Getting jealous and lashing out at others isn't going to win you any dates for valentines day you know.
When exactly did I get btfo? All I'm seeing is a bunch of gremlins getting angry. In a V-day thread of all places, tsk tsk
Its the day of love, take a break from constantly being disgusted for a change.
>Its the day of love
It's the holy feast day of the martyr of St. Valentine
>And Christmas is to celebrate Jesus' birthday
It's to celebrate the coming of our Lord and savior
It's not the day he was born
>If I could just stop caring what people would think/say about me
What works for me is thinking of what I would do in their shoes.
If I were to see some guy with a woman who's chubby or otherwise not stunningly attractive looking and they seem happy, my default thought is that I'm happy they found happiness together. If one or both of them were also my friends on top of that, I'd even more so be genuinely happy for them.
Even if she would be considered ugly or hideous by conventional means, I wouldn't be one to judge the woman nor relationship on that.
Thus, I don't care much - if at all - if other people would go and judge or ridicule me or my hypothetical future gf based on such things. If they find looks (based on their personal preferences) that important and can't overlook it, it's honestly their loss.
A specific group of friends of mine also have their opinions of other members of that group as well as some of the people's relationships. I'm sure they have some points about me they don't like. It seems far from sufficient to break off a friendship though, and the good things outweigh the bad things by far.
Try not to worry too much about what others may or may not think. You being with someone doesn't hurt anyone, so I'd say go for it.
>Its the day of love
It's the day of increased gross income on everything slightly romantic-based, is what it is.
I prefer doing romantic stuff on pretty much any other day than Valentine's Day. At least then it's based on at the very least one of the party's desires to do romantic things rather than because society dictates that specific day is meant for romance and love.
I avoided doing anything particularly romantic that day with my ex as well, luckily she had a similar opinion of that commercial-oriented day.
>tfw a girl confessed to me during one of our conversations
>suddenly she stops talking to me
Every fucking time.
>no valentines day celebrated in my county
>only time of the year I feel alienated from /r9k/
manlet possibly related
No problem, Anon. It may take constant and consciously remembering yourself about it at first as you're currently still used to worrying about what others may or may not think.
It'll take some time and - especially at first - a decent amount of effort to really get it into your system, but over time and with practice it should eventually become second nature and replace your current worrying. If not completely overwriting it, at least by far be the dominant presence/thought.
Good luck, Anon.
Be glad its a sunday. Normies at my UNI ARE ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING! I hate seeing them with their "fuck trophy" on Valentines day. Thank Kek for at least making this day on a sunday. I don't even have to bother seeing those bastards.
This. Honestly, Valentines day is nothing more than a marketing holiday designed to sell normie couples expensive shit they will never bother to use like shitty chocolate and overly massive stuff shits that some bitch is eventually going to carry around campus. And then later sell on ebay seeing as its no worth to Stacy.
Valentines is always the day I remember how retarded I am. Throughout the school years many girls blatantly tried to flirt with me but I was too stupid to pick up the signals.
>girl forces me to a bathroom
>says "what now"
>grabs my grotch
>just stand there
>she looks disappointed and leaves
>mfw I just stand there for a moment and take a piss
Anon pls, it was hard enough to even write about it.
Planning to go back to where my ex and I had our first date, where I'll sit alone for a couple hours reading the only thing she wrote me that I didn't find the night I burned everything. It's like a little window into a world I can never return to or repair. I'm not sure what I'll do after that.