How old are you?
What's your reason for not losing your virginity?
I don't know, I've had girls show interest in me in the past but now I don't think I'll ever get another opportunity like that as I go outside of my house once a week at best
I'm going to die alone, it's not fair
I feel like a faggot saying that but it isn't
A combination of girls not wanting me as I am and me not wanting them bad enough to try and attract them. Also I'm shy so my contact with them extremely limited. I've tried to change things around, but sex is never the primary goal. I view it more as an obstacle when it comes to romantic relationships. Pretty sure I'm defective.
i sit at home all day, dont really have to go somewhere neither
all my friends where school releated so i dont know anyone besides those
khv also obviously, and becoming neet
could lose some pounds but dont have the motivation to do it
Just never had the chance really, I'm sure I will next semester at Cal Poly
just talk to them and try a couple times, people like myself have autistic panic attacks when approached by grills but if you try again it should work.
>various bodily abnormalities
>on fin because hair was receding
>ED from fin
>few acceptable gays where I live
I really have no hope.
45. i've always been super autist and shy. in high school i would ace all my classes and play vidya games. never joined any clubs or made friends. heard in college it gets better. studied engineering, so i spent all my time studying, in the little free time i had i would play vidya and jack off. i went to one party and everyone ignored me and kept drinking and no one would talk to me, so i never went to another college party. tried to approach a girl i had a crush on since orientation in my last year of college, she blew me off, i cried all day and played vidya and ate pizza. now i have a stable income, still play vidya, still a fat virgin. it doesn't get better. but im pretty cozy, so whatever.
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I'm not sure, I'll do pretty much anything to avoid interacting with people in any way and somedays I think I really hate people, then I get lonely and stop hating a few of them.
Maybe they just scare me.
I usually just go to the park or a nearby public garden estate place, sometimes I will walk downtown but I choose rainy days when it's less busy.
Darn I have that outfit and carry candy..XD
But I'd feel like a creep if I just walked up and spoke to someone, assuming I'd though of something to say..
28 year old never had a gf kv here.
No social circle
Didn't put myself out there/stayed inside all the time
Somewhat socially retarded
I'm not fat, but being skinny is almost as bad.
I'm starting to look older now too. I really hope there is someone out there for me.
I'm trying to be more outgoing and do stuff, but I can't seem to get things going fast enough. I haven't had any career success either.
I feel like people can smell the failure on me.
Don't know if there's any reason really, I don't even consider it a bad thing. I'm mostly a shut in, unless I'm at work. The few girls that have shown interest in me, were as follows: A single mom, a drunk and an inked out whore who fucked any guy that gave her attention. I'd rather fuck nothing, than fuck the options that were given to me.
I hope so.
Some advice for you younger 20 somethings:
-Get out there and take some classes at community college if you are NEET
-Join some clubs
-Take some art classes.
Seriously wish I did those things when I was younger. You may not find a GF, but at least you will be working on your social skills.
>21, 22 this year
Horrible social anxiety, bullied as a kid, gender dysphoria, difficulty relating and emphasizing with other people, no motivation, just a genuine dislike of most people, body looks awful covered in scars, and I could go on.
Highschool and primary school fucked me as a person. Completely shattered my confidence as I was bullied almost daily. All that bullshit about be yourself is crap. I'm a little better now that I'm surrounded by people that like me at work, slightly more open, but still terrified at the idea of intimacy and just being general clueless when it comes to women and intimacy.
I thought I was going somewhere with a girl but
happens to get a bf over the weekend. i dont know what is worse. the fact that i thought i was getting all the right signals or how she preferred someone else over me. idk fuck this
im 18, im a KV b/c m religious and waiting until marriage. hard part would be to find a girl with similar morals that im actually attracted too (and im already pretty picky), so my chances are slim to none. at least i can release all my pent up frustration and depression in lifting though.
[spoilers] doesnt help this l8 at night tho [/spoilers]
didn't have sexual selective urges until the end of HS
though even before that, I found the idea of coitus disgusting and off putting.
My only form of intimate contact was enabling my fetish, which was for the birds objectively.
28 year old KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin) here.
Even after losing weight, learning to dress and groom well, and learning to be interested in talking about normie topics, females don't even like to talk to or be around me. I think they just know someone's a robot on the inside, like there's just something off in our overall manner that just can't be fixed.
Horrible social skills
Can only attract fat chicks
Granted I'm overweight myself, I'm not obese but I need to lose quite a bit of weight.
21 year old virgin. I'm good looking but I was very unhappy for a long time. I've stopped feeling anything and I think I'm ready to pretend to socialize. I'm considering paying for a hooker just to get it over with and maybe learn some things, it is basically a more honest form of dating anyways. I feel like if I told a girl I was a virgin she'd either just be turned off or would assume that I'm a liar and shut me out.
I only leave the house for food once a month
I rarely come into contact with people in general never mind a girl my age who isn't in a relationship
The only kiss I've ever had I got from truth or dare.
I've gotten hugs, but not romantic hug of passion. Just friendship hugs.
Never held hands
Never had sex.