>you finally are the person you always wanted to be >want

Because self improvement would require admitting that the world/jews aren't to blame for their shitty lives, and that is something a robot will never, ever do.

Shit man if you didn't realize this was a hopeless hugbox shitpit then you shouldn't be giving advice

>>26173448
I'm too far into the dark tunnel. Don't tell me there is a light at the end of it because you're a liar. I keep going further and it keeps getting darker. After a while you just stop beliving in lights at the end of the tunnel okay.

>>26173448
It's very simple. The average /r9k/ story goes like this:

>Young man's love life is shit.
>Young man searches for reasons why his love life is so shit.
>Young man comes to the conclusion that immutable factors like height or facial bone structure are entirely or almost entirely to blame.
>Young man resigns himself to his fate.

Then you come along and demonstrate that either A: that isn't the problem or B: it's not immutable.

At this point our young man has two options.

A: He can continue believing that he's fucked, this is comfortable, when there's nothing that can be done, he is without fault.
B: He can accept that he was mistake, which involves not only accepting that he's at fault but also means all the time he spent without hope is lost time he could have spent on self improvement, time he can never get back.

Imagine the pain of knowing you've lost maybe 5 or 10 years of your life to a lie, 5 or 10 years where you were younger than you are now, years you will never get back. Wouldn't it be easier to stay believing there's no hope, than to go through that pain?

>>26173603

>being hopelessly ugly is just, like, a state of mind, maaaaan

I'm not even against the idea of finding happiness and fulfillment regardless of your circumstances (I'm pretty damn happy myself), but this is pure bullshit.

>>26173500
>>26173516

Funny thing is I didn't actually improved anything by actions.

My mindset and mentality is what improved and it made my life different. It all happens in the thought process.

>>26173603

I "lost" like 6-7 years do to crippling anxiety and not being myself / feeling inferior. I'm still happy that I realised what I realised now.

>>26173640
>>being hopelessly ugly is just, like, a state of mind, maaaaan

I'm not saying that there aren't hopeless cases, there are definitely people who are near enough completely fucking screwed, but there are definitely plenty of people around here (I'd like to see a strawpoll on the matter) who are redeemable and yet insist that they're destined to spend their life alone. I say this as someone who for years considered themselves totally screwed and demonstrates many of the characteristics of a stereotypical unlovable autistic (literally) beta male.

Thats because just because it worked for you doesn't mean it works for everyone.

>>26173834

It's all about a mindset that YOU have to develope. I can just help to give some insight on the things that helped me.

And yes, it won't work for everyone.

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>just lift bro
>just be more motivated m8
>getting laid is so easy man just put yourself out there
You don't even know what my problems are. Fuck off with your high and mighty bullshit.

>>26173834
There's a slight difference between "That advice doesn't work for me in particular" and "FUCKING NORMOO GET OFF MY BOARD"

>>26173448
It's too familiar to crawl out of for a lot of them.

Even if it's a shithole, if it's all you've ever known the prospect of leaving seems terrifying sometimes.

>>26173448
Does your "self improvement" involve telling people who have made it clear that they don't like or want to be with 3D women how to get with 3D women? If so, yeah, you're a fucking idiot.

If you have advice that could actually improve the lives of people who aren't just failed extrovert thirsty faggots, I'd be glad to hear it. Help me get healthy and productive.

>>26173913

You never reach anything if you don't suffer. It's not a problem if you choose that way of life, but then don't fucking cry about it 24/7.

And if you cry about it then don't lie that "you don't really mind it". You know people shouldn't at least lie to themself.

>>26173916

Fuck women. They have nothing to do with it. Do you know when you can think and do shit with a women? When you already pulled out yourself from your personal mind of hell.

You can't do shit with women if you don't feel confident and in peace with yourself.

>>26173883
Yeah, ok.
>>26173887
I don't think you understand just how many normals we get here thinking they're going to save us from our robot ways by telling us to b ourselves and lift weights

>>26174094
You might be right, I don't come here super often, I try not to come here too much as I find too long spent in this place can harm my mental wellbeing.

>>26174094

>b yourself and lift weights

Funny thing is that you can't complain till you don't have a healthy diet / do some physical activity / and get enough sleep.

Those alone can fuck up brain functions pretty well.

>>26174133
And the even funnier thing is I have tried literally everything you normals spout off.

Very likely I'm in better shape than you are.

>>26174155
(Not the guy you're replying to)
I'd like to know, what are your specifics? (i.e. the reasons why you can't get laid, your hobbies, your physical state and diet, your employment, that stuff)

Amazing. Robots in this thread are replying to OP exactly like he said they would.

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>you just want to commiserate with like minded losers
>some faggot with a messiah complex barges in and starts forcing unsolicited advice at every possible opportunity he gets
>gets all assblasted when people don't treat him like the second coming of christ and suck his dick for giving out shitty generic advice that nobody asked for in the first place

Really?

>>26174008
>but then don't fucking cry about it 24/7.
and then what? keep all our woes bottled up to a boiling point that involves the death of about 10 college students and a glock 15?

>You can't do shit with women if you don't feel confident and in peace with yourself.
says the normie who has a gf


Man just fucking save yourself and leave this place. drink a bottle clorox while youre at it.

>>26174171
Because I'm anxious around people due to a few different factors such a shitty single mother upbringing and past abuse by normals.

I just have to "get out there," right. I've forced myself into more social situations than I'd ever be able to list. Some people just aren't meant to be around people.

>>26174232
>>You can't do shit with women if you don't feel confident and in peace with yourself.
>says the normie who has a gf

Thanks anon, I've just come to the realization that /r9k/'s problem is just "the chicken and the egg" rephrased as "the confidence and the gf"

>>26174224

Again this mindset. Why did you come to the thread if you are not interested in the slightest? What's the point?

>>26174232

>normie who has a gf

Dude, regardless of everybody thinking of me as a pussy magnet I'm a 25 year old KHHV.

>>26174285
>Why did you come to the thread
Because it was on the first page and you need to understand how much of a narcissistic moron you are.

Enough about me. Do you care to explain why you condescendingly spew advice at those who never ask for it?

>>26174278
Congrats, you've figured out why 75% of us are hopeless and bitter as fuck.

>>26174285

>Again this mindset. Why did you come to the thread if you are not interested in the slightest? What's the point?

On the off chance that you might say something different that light the bulbs in our basements of darkness. Well, look how shitty this thread and you are turning out to be.

>Dude, regardless of everybody thinking of me as a pussy magnet I'm a 25 year old KHHV.
And I'm the president of Russia. Shut up, normie. You really can't fool me with your empty words and lies.

>>26174276
While I suspect there's probably some solution, I think you're quite correct in that advice from /r9k/ is unlikely to contain it. (I have a similar issue, although probably less severe, anxiety in certain social situations that gets worse the more I put myself in those positions, not better... Turned out to be the result of an underlying self hatred that I'm hoping to fix by being less shit and getting psychotherapy)

>>26174326
OP is not here to be condescending, you moron. He's an ex-robot who understands your problems better than most. And yet you are angrily rejecting any possible help from him. It's almost like you want to remain angry bitter losers.

>>26174326

Again, the insult, trying to pull me down to your level etc.

I know how you think so well because I was exactly like that.
I have a ton of fucking flaw that I only realised after I already better myself. And when I say better myself I don't compare to you or others because that would be fucking retarded, I always compare to the past me.

You see this is the problem, you think that I think I'm better then you, when it's only that I realised what are the things about MYSELF that I have to change.

>Well, look how shitty this thread and you are turning out to be

Yet you still respond, yet you still insult. You could just turn your head and say "what a fucking idiot", ignore me and then you're done.
I could cry about whores posting retarded quotes on facebook, what would I achieve with that? Nothing.

>>26174354
>>Dude, regardless of everybody thinking of me as a pussy magnet I'm a 25 year old KHHV.
>And I'm the president of Russia. Shut up, normie. You really can't fool me with your empty words and lies.

Oh r9k... Where else in the world would a male claiming to be a virgin be accused of being a liar and non-virgin?

>>26174361
>Ex-robot
I love when a late bloomer normalfag that feels bad over not losing his virginity until 22 and being a NEET for a whole summer feels like he has the answers to all of my problems.

>>26174361

Some do want to remain like that because it's obviously more comforting then to go out and change things.

I don't mind that mentality, I do mind when they try to pull others with themself to feel better. Basically like fat women.

>people think I have a complex and think I belive I know everything

No, there are situations, family backgrounds and psychological issues on /r9k/ that would require serious help and won't get solved by mere words here. This thread is not for those people, it's pretty logical.

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There's gonna be 4 types of posters in this thread, I know because I see this at least once a day:
Trolls baiting by pretending to agree with a flame post, people who actually agree with OP but don't make gay ass threads, robots who disagree, but are justifiably cynical and pretentious meta-posters who can't into r9k.
Have fun.

>>26174361
He's a condescending narcissist through and through.
Look at the OP:
>I'm the person who I want to be
>I want to teach you guys
The second line is irritating as fuck because it not only implies that he's some gold standard for humanity that we all should aspire to, but seemingly decides for us that we have to change to follow his steps or else we're deemed failures by default.
>rejecting any possible help from him
I don't want help from anyone, least of all someone who is a self-centered retard who gets off on the validation others.

Fuck sake, just read this post (>>26174415). Nothing but condescension and sophistry.

>>26174415
>>Well, look how shitty this thread and you are turning out to be
For clarity's sake this was not me, but some other anon.

So let's point out why you're full of shit:
>trying to pull me down to your level etc.
Here you imply that my "level" is below yours (i.e. you're better than me)
Now, in the next breath you say
> this is the problem, you think that I think I'm better then you
Care to explain your way out of this contradiction?

Also you never answered my question. Why do you go around doling out unsolicited advice when it's quite clearly not welcome?

Please stop with the sophistry and empty platitudes and just answer my questions. They're very simple.

>>26173603
Following applies only on those who use pornography.

At least on r9k, young man's love life is shit because he did not learn to control his lust, and instead feeds the bottomless pit of lust with artificial stimulation.

The most common artificial sexual stimulation is pornography and masturbation. This with the novelty of porn is supernatural stimulus. They fool their brains into flooding them with dopamine.

Some idiots even edge for hours in pure hedonism, bathing their brains in dopamine, prompting the reward for the prolonged binging.

This all causes brain changes that occur in addictions to drugs. Simply put, neurons that fire together, wire together. And when the brain is flooded with chemicals, it gets used to it over time. And then previous dose of chemicals cannot produce as intense high as it used to.

What can such an addict do is to quit cold turkey, and just power through the inevitable failures, getting a lesson in humility every time he fails to be abstinent.

All humans want a connection, women desire intimacy, not to be used as a fuck toy. When one uses pornography, no matter how he kids himself how it does not change his perception of women, it does.

How is it possible to dehumanize the woman on the screen, and when she is being even abused (mainly when guys watch stuff like facialabuse), is it really possible to switch back and forth to see women around you as human, and women in porn as some prostitutes and subhumans? If it is possible, then it must cause a schism in the perception.

>>26174523

> but seemingly decides for us that we have to change to follow his steps or else we're deemed failures by default

Do you know what my biggest life lesson is? Realise how meaningless and small you are and stop giving a fuck about other peoples opinion, then live your life and enjoy what you enjoy. That's it.

>>26174523

I guess you have some inferiority complex if you put so much thoughts into this.

"My level" is that I'm feeling happy and ballanced in life regardless of not living it the way others tried to force it on me.
If you do what you feel like doing and feel good I'm more than happy.
Then this thread wasn't for you in the first place.

Also I still don't understand why do you waste effor for retards like me? If you know I'm wrong just ignore me, you know, like you suppose to in real life. If you bother with retards you will argue all day and it pulls you down.

>>26174454
Just face it, faggot. You want to hear yourself talk, and crave robot's attention and adoration.

>haha i was once like you guys.
No you fucking werent. Seriously. Die.

>>26174671

I'm not even that guy, you are just being paranoid now.

And whatever shit spewing I get in my face I won't ever leave this place, it helped me in a long, hard period of my life. I love the community.

Kill yourself faggiot

>>26174476
Not him but why do you feel the need to keep your life problems unsolved instead of doing what you actually can to remedy your situation?

/r9k/ in nutshell is learned helplessness.

When you feel like shit all the time, you just learn to take it and not let it impact you that much.

>>26174493
>it's obviously more comforting
Comfort is being stale and rotting.
Discomfort prompts you to grow.
If you are in your current state unhappy but comfortable, you will not become happy if you do not change anything.
Only change will somehow get you closer to your life being more bearable, and who knows some day even enjoyable.

The change can be of body or mind as well. Ideally both.

Some people fear change. Look at /pol/, they fear the change that is pushed on from the economic elite and would want to go back to old traditions. They do not realize they can steer the change against the will of the economic elites. In essence, /pol/ is old traditions, liberalism is change towards enslavement of common people, and communism is change towards liberation of common people. When it is put in very crude terms.

>>26174590

Jesus christ and intelligent cronstuctive post in the thread! How?

>>26174647
>Do you know what my biggest life lesson is?
Apparently it wasn't reading comprehension.

>if you put so much thoughts into this.
There was very little thought put into it. It's basic logic and reasoning.

>just ignore me
No, because you're clearly in the wrong place and need to be told to leave.
You want to give out your amazing advice? Awesome. Take it to the board literally titled "advice."
If you come in here and get all insulted when nobody wants to put up with your bullshit then that's on you. It's not everyone else's problem that you got all asshurt, and you certainly don't need to make your own thread about it.

You still didn't answer any of my questions, by the way.

>>26173656
>My mindset and mentality is what improved and it made my life different. It all happens in the thought process.

I have been telling people this for years and they all look at me like i'm some fucking retard, lmao.

don't bother trying to help people, they don't want to be helped. I learned that the hard way, they either cut ya off entirely or lash out at you.

>>26174734
anymore bullshit u feel like sharing, oh knowledgeable one?

We don't give a shit. If you improved it wasn't because of your hard work or self improvement. If you managed to make it, then you were never one of us. You had things that were due to luck that made you succeed. Your advice is useless to people who don't have these things.

>>26174802

You seem like an intelligent person, so you must realise that I won't leave because people say so. As I said I have been here for a really long time.

Also insult don't hurt in the slightest, I don't mind them at all.

List those questions and I answer them gladly.

>>26174943
>I have been here for a really long time.
This means literally nothing to me. It certainly doesn't absolve you of anything or qualify you to spew unsolicited advice.
>List those questions and I answer them gladly.
Use your brain to follow this reply thread and find them.

>>26174933
You chose to be a failure. You love being a failure. There is nothing to be done for you unless you want to change.

>>26175540
His post flew right over your head, retard. /You really do lack reading comprehension.

>>26175540
Care to, you know, disprove anything I've said? Insulting me does not disprove me.

>>26175581
You said that you will never be able to succeed at anything, that a robot is by definition someone who can never succeed. So tell us why it is impossible for you to "make it"? What prevents you?

>>26173603
The manlet meme is not actually a meme,girls discriminate against shorter than 6 feet males as much as /fit/ does.
When picking girls in tider they either asked me directly or said they were relieved I was tall in person.Eventually I put my height in my profile.

>>26175733
It's many things in general. I believe that your genes and family(wealth and status) determine pretty much all your life. Well they determine the threshold of what you can achieve. Also by genes I mean inteligence, looks, height, frame, facial bone structure, that kind of things. Obviously if you get born inferior then your threshold is low. You would have to work hard to get things that Chad got just by being born. These things are what stops robots from succeeding.

>>26173640
Yeah of course there are hopelessly ugly people, but I know all you faggots complaining do not look like Rocky Dennis.

And about the manlet thing, there are tons, and I mean tons, of short people with girlfriends, unless you're pushing like 5'3 or something ridiculous, you have nothing to complain about. Think about it, the average person isn't even 6', and you mean to tell me only people 6' and above have girlfriends? Don't be ridiculous.

>>26173583
Then turn around you mongrel

>>26175856
They have girlfriends, but their girlfriends hate them and secretly wish they had someone taller. And they will laugh at their "man" secretly with other women and they will change up given the chance.

>teaching people that don't ask for it

smarmy fuck

>>26175899
That's not true, retard. How would you know what girls like when you have never even kissed one?

>>26176012
Because, you retard. Unlike you might think I'm not a total asocial recluse. I have few friends, I sometimes go out with them and they have female friends. So sometimes I get to listen to what the female friends say when they get drunk. Sometimes not even when they get drunk. I've heard so many women confirm what I'm saying. Slim women, fat women, short women, tall women, young women, old women, single women, mothers with children. They all hate manlets.

>>26175899
>>26176075
Sure, all these women are literally seething with hatred, rage and disdain for their boyfriends because they aren't 6'1". Makes perfect sense.

>>26173448
Oh look, it's this meme advice again:
Just improve yourself
I know you have the opportunity to improve even if you say it's not true because I know you better than you know yourself

Let's see:
>be me
>be 19 KV
>be ugly as fuck, 4/10 face in my good days
>be a manlet
>be balding
>be socially awkward as fuck
>be fit, still doesn't change anything

What should I improve, faggot ? Should I get a better face, maybe I should just grow taller ? Nah, I should just grow some hair. Nah, you know what ? I should just start being charismatic instead of autistic.

Or maybe you're just a fucking retard that considers platitudes as being genuine advice.

>>26176095
Well I wouldn't put it like that. They might keep them around if they have no one better to replace them at the time. But when they leave them, they will laugh at them publically. And even when they're with them, they laugh at them. Just as they do if their boyfriend isn't very well endowed(which means not being at least inch over average).

because usually its a babby telling how he did 5 pushups and that totally fixed everything
oh btw my daddy supported me too
and im handsome behind the fat so haha just bee yourself etc

you just want to brag

>>26175779
So that's it. You simply don't want to work hard. You want everything handed to you.

>>26176199
I don't want to work hard while many people don't have to work hard for the same things. Call it what you want, I call that humiliation. And I sure as hell am not getting humiliated.

>>26176075
That's why my 5'9" gf left me, a 5'7" guy, for a 6'1" guy. You're right. She chose that guy over me because of height. Oh wait, no, you are wrong. It was the other way around. She dumped him because he was a loser and wanted me.

>>26176225
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anecdotal_evidence

>>26176221
In other words, you are content to be a loser. It's the life you chose.

>>26176233
And you think if I worked hard all my life and my only results were scraps of what luckier people get, I would not be a loser?

>>26176231
>bases his entire worldview on anecdotal evidence
>when shown wrong calls whatever he doesn't like anecdotal evidence

>>26176247
Not really. WHen I talked about these women IRL who confirm my views, I used that because it's easier to understand for you normie folks. There are many studies proving just how important is height. And these studies are done on a bigger sample than my few dozen women I've talked to IRL about height.

>>26176242
You would be less of a loser than you are now, no matter the results, if you did a bit of hard work.

>>26176265
How tall are you? Do you seriously believe if you were taller, you would not be a loser? This board is full of tall kissless virgins.

>>26176360
Well I don't think so. Let's say there is some way to measure the quality of a person. You get born 0.5 and through hard work you get to 3.0 when you die. Chad gets born 2.0 and thanks to good initial conditions and hard work, he gets to 150.0 when he's dying. Are you really telling me I'm not the loser in this scenario? There isn't much a difference if you die a 3.0 or a 0. You're still a loser because you got born a loser. In the first case, you're just a loser who worked hard and results of his work helped Chad and other normies.

>>26176394
If I was taller while growing up, then yes. I would be more confident, due to not getting bullied(the shortest boy in class is the first obvious target). I would not have problems opening up to people, I would not be distrusting of everyone. It would have been better.

>>26174326
it's all gonna be ok man

>>26174734
>If you are in your current state unhappy but comfortable, you will not become happy if you do not change anything.

that's a good one

I don't know what to do. I have no real interests or motivation to do anything so im just stuck here

>>26174590

this is the truest post on r9k

Don't encourage robots to act. It leads to suicides, murder suicides or their lives are just made worse with public embarrassment.

>>26173834
Shut up u loser, u re just lazy. I bet your just not positive enough. Its really all that matters: smile, be yourself and you're life will become better! Worked 4 me.

>>26174590
Joke's on you though, I can watch porn a few times a week and be perfectly fine

t. khv

>>26174590
True. Porn is bad for you.

Porn and fantasy also allow guys to enter a trance-like state, where their sexual shame is suppressed long enough for them to get off. The sexual shame is still there, and is probably the main reason why robots are so scared of approaching girls.

If you're addicted to porn and you do eventually manage to get with a girl, this sexual shame will proably manifest as some kind of sexual dysfunction, either the inability to get an erection or shooting too early.

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>>26174814
Its impossible for autists to change their mindset though. We are doomed

Get out normie

>>26176640
Leaving this place would be a good first step for everyone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hhx6IfKrvEQ

>>26176899
Have you actually been diagnosed with autism?

People who say porn is wrong are just trying to shame men. Because normally to get pleasure they would have to work hard, get a job, pretty much contribute to society before they're allowed to get sex(that is unless they're Chads). But with porn, they don't have to. And it pisses the normies off a lot.

>>26176399
If you only get to 3.0 it's because you didn't do shit.

Obama, as example, did luck out a bit in genetics - he's very intelligent and charismatic. But if he had just fucked around his entire life he would have remained a poor minority. He had to work hard to reach the top.

>>26176973
Yeah but thanks to lucking out his threshold was higher. Guy who was like obama in everything but was dumb and ugly(not charismatic) would have never been able to achieve nearly as much even if he worked hard.

>>26176927
Yes, does that matter?

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>>26176927
Its self-diagnosed tumblr autism.

Literally change 'normalfag' for 'neurotypical privilege' and whine about men instead of women, and most of the posts on this board could be from tumblr.

>>26176408
I was short growing up, got bullied, etc. Still short today. And I've got a successful life, good career, can get girls.

The difference between you and me? I decided to become something. You chose to be a loser.

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>>26176966
This. They also constantly bring up the "shame" factor. As if we are ashamed for fapping or something. It's just trying to shame us into working for our jew overlords.

Pic sorta related

>>26177010
There is no such thing as choice.

Stimuli in = actions out

All of our so called "choices" are products of all our experiences. You didn't choose to become something, the events in the universe chose.

That being said, I'm gonna try to lose some weight.

>>26177010
You just got luckier in other things then. In addition to being short, I'm ugly, have grey/balding hair even though I'm not even 25, have a small dick. Only thing I kinda lucked out was that I'm not dumb as a brick. That's about it.

If you succeeded it was due to heavily lucking out with other things.

>>26177010
>And I've got a successful life
Who are you kidding? There are no successful people on r9k, at least not for long.

>>26176225
>wanted my money*

>>26177068
There are plenty of normies on /r9k/, you know.

>>26177061
If you're intelligent, you should be able to get a good education and a good career.

>>26177184
Which doesn't mean shit if you're ugly manlet/dicklet. All it means you're gonna be beta provider and that's being wishful.

Just bully them OP

That's what I do

It's particularly satisfying when you tell them about your life and accomplishments and they REEEE and scream about how it's
Impossible and make excuses and stick their heads in the sand.

>>26177249
>it's a "my life is so good that i need to bully people for enjoyment" episode

must not be that good if you need to make literal retards angry in order to feel superior

>>26177279
Nah he's right, /fit/ here and I love coming here to talk shit to mongoloid autists. You losers deserve it.

>>26176966
>>26177034
Nobody gives a shit if you use porn. Just like nobody gives a shit if you stuff your face with cheetos and mountain dew and then starve to death in your wank-cave of a basement when mommy dies and can't support you anymore.

You put a lot of effort into your victim complex though, its quite impressive. If only you could channel that effort towards something useful.

>>26177292
did you ever ask yourself why you love talking shit to people?

my vote is on insecurity

don't worry anon, I'm insecure too. I'm pretty sure most people are.

>>26177308
>Just like nobody gives a shit if you stuff your face with cheetos and mountain dew and then starve to death in your wank-cave of a basement when mommy dies and can't support you anymore.
Except all the people who whine about NEETS and leeches and want them to be killed?

>>26177337
I've never heard anyone say that shit in real life. This is probably the only place you'll hear that, and people will post it just because it winds you up.

>>26177395
Really? I have never heard anyone say NEET in real life either, but people saying how welfare leeches should be die, be forced to join the army or work. That's very common.

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>>26173448
I'll probably be the only one to say this, but thanks for making this thread and trying. There's a lot of lurker-bots who are borderline when it comes to completely giving up and some of the stuff said for me personally the bit about manlets can help a person get that little push the need to go back out and try again.

>>26177176
Normies arent necessarily successful though. Surprising eh?

>>26177410
Those people are retards, and I generally don't hang out with retards. I surround myself with people that I like and who like me.

Also being neet is a circumstance, and circumstances can change. So if you're going to try to be a perpetual victim about something, try to pick something that you can't change, like black people do

>>26177292
>/fit/ here and I love coming here to talk shit to mongoloid autists
Nice to once again confirm fit as one of the most cancerous userbase on 4chan.

I suggest you kill yourself.

>>26177456
I don't think it's just retards, but whatever makes you feel better. Also

>implying I'm not a NEET due to circumstances I can't change

>>26173448
We like to show reddit fucks like you that you arent welcome here

>>26177467
>implying I'm not a NEET due to circumstances I can't change
Explain these circumstances anon. I am interested in knowing.

>>26177488
Well I'm not a NEET. I'm still a loser who is alone, but at the very least I have a chance at having a career. Which doesn't make feel any better really. I'm not a NEET. I'm inferior.

>>26174224
holy shit this. i wish self righteous faggots would leave

>>26173448
You're assuming, "If it worked for me it'll work for anyone!"

Regardless of if that's true or not, if someone's already in the hole, the change has to be made of their own accord, they have to want to help themselves. Seeing someone on their Mongolian cave painting forum acting like they understand the full breadth of their problems isn't going to help shit.

You said you're finally the person you wanted to be, did you start down that path because of a 2000 character Internet post?

>>26173448
>normie redditors with a savior complex think we want them here

>>26175565
not that guy but he's really just trying to push you to do shit. what i'm trying to say is that it's not bad to have people tell you you can't do something because the real reason they say "mean" stuff like >>26175540 is because they unconsciously want to help you.

i feel this way because my parents do the same thing. they have said really "mean" or should i say "truthful" (because you only experience that people are mean to you when you know they are right about it)

but when people are mean they are just reflecting and really just want to help

i know this may be a ridiculous way to look at things but i don't think it's a bad way of looking at things ya dig

hope your life works out great anon, and i hope there will be people that tell you you can't do something so you will find the energy to prove them wrong

>>26177211
That's wrong, retard. How could you not become successful if you are smart and work hard?

>>26177893
Depends on what you mean succesful. If you mean the typical slightly above average beta who studies hard, gets slithly above average job and spends his whole life beta providing for Chads used goods. Nah I don't consider that to be success.

>>26177893
Yeah if your definition of success is being a beta provider

>>26177871
kind of ment to say that to >>26174933

>>26173656
>My mindset and mentality is what improved and it made my life different. It all happens in the thought process.
Your mindset doesn't matter if your reality is shit

>>26176919
>stop going on 4chan
>spend more hours playing video games
>start to waste money buying more video games

>>26177871
>muh tough love
You only want an excuse to be an asshole

>>26173448
>want to teach /r9k/ some life lessons and what worked out for you
more like give generic, facebook meme tier advice. get off your high horse normies come here with their shit advice all the time you aren't special

Because this is our robot home. If any robots want to improve they can go do that and never come back. We don't need your self-righteous bullshit.

>>26177929
no man! i wasn't trying to be an asshole, neither are my parents i know they truly want the best for me they just have a hard time communicating it and so does >>26175540
as he was just reflecting

reflecting is a very real thing that doesnt just happen on 4chan

>>26177914
>>26177916
But if you have a good career going, why would you choose to be a beta?

>>26177981
If you're not good looking Chad who easily got women since he was 13, then you're gonna be a beta. And, well, I'm not a Chad.

>>26177981
>choose to be beta
betas are born not made

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Don't worry,OP

people don't change because their situation is confortable.
blaming the world and girls for your problems can be really addictive. it's soothing. you can do it over and over and you don't have to change ever. it's a trap.

i feel bad for robots. i used to do that. sometimes i slip back in that mindset.
but i realised it's all my responsability. my mood, what i want to do in the future, my dark thoughts, my despair. blaming others never solved anything.
but when you take it in your own hands. shits changes. you realise that you are in fact your own bully and your own salvation.

>>26177977
I tell myself that i decided to be shit everyday, i don't need anyone to tell me what i already know.

>>26178004
More like Alphas are born not made

>>26178029
>but when you take it in your own hands. shits changes. you realise that you are in fact your own bully and your own salvation.
So?

>>26173448
Because it doesn't work. At least for me. I tried it. For 3 years I did what people expected of me. And didn't it change anything because my entire mind works differently. I never had plans, I never really wanted to be anything. I never really wanted to have a partner. Only thing porn and movies ever did to me is making me want a partner. But I never wanted one.

And some Anon comes and tells me I can 'improve'. What you tell me is not improving, it is changing to someone I never was.

>>26178059

you want to feel bad.

and you want others to feel bad.

good for you. waste of a possibly very interesting and joyful life.

but whatever. i'll let you to it then. bye.

>>26178004
This is what robots actually believe. And of course it's wrong.

>>26178109

>I did what people expected of me

this is the best way to kill yourself.

imagine a rose trying to be become a tulip become people expects that the rose will become a tulip one day.

it's fucking dumb. forget other people for a minute and try to listen to who/what you are.

>>26178151
It's true. But regular men pretend it isn't because it makes them feel better. Makes them feel they have a chance.

>>26178128
>waste of a possibly very interesting and joyful life
I seriously doubt that my life could be considered interesting, i'm not a popular kid, nor am i a wealthy cunt, so my life is below avergare at most.
Interesting is just another buzzword used to validate normal people with normal social lives
Also fuck you i'm not dragging anyone down with me

>>26178151
>Being "alpha" isn't based around positive experiences and early life validation
Ok

>>26178059
look i know what you are feeling, never in my life did i want to kill myself except for last year, 2015 was the shittest year of my life, i just hope you can see the beauty in things, i truly hope so

>>26178197
People can go from beta to alpha.

>>26178177
And what if what you are is something the world doesn't want?

>>26178197

>my life is below avergare at most

if that's what you mish

>Interesting is just another buzzword used to validate normal people with normal social lives

nope some people trully live interesting lives. but you have to enjoy life to understand.

>i'm not dragging anyone down with me

yes you are. being negative affects everybody around you.
you reeks of negativity even in your posts. i'm not saying you should not be negative. just pointing out.

>>26178233

>And what if what you are is something the world doesn't want?

care to explain?

Tell me your story. Teach me your lessons

>>26173603
>wanting a love life

So your talking about faild normies?

>>26178233
This. All life taught me I'm not needed. Maybe I was neglected too much, maybe I was raised wrong but in the end I'm just bothering everyone.

>>26174361
>ex robot
You can't fix autism OP Was obviously a faild normie

>>26178304
Why not kill yourself if that's how you feel?

>>26178307
How many robots are actual autists? Very few.

>>26178233
You meet a bunch of misfits along with 8/10 girl who will accept your flaws and you'll have wonderful adventures, at least that's what Hollywood told us.

>>26178244
>nope some people trully live interesting lives. but you have to enjoy life to understand.
Yeah i know that Mike the documentary host, Julius the paratrooper, Tom the lion caretaker and Wong the bartender have interesting lives, but what about the others?

>>26178226
Please no r/TheRedPill success storie

>>26178304
At one point in your life you stopped being useful, at least that's what triggered my own freefall on a downward spiral

>>26178313
>ok guys you can improve
>fuck you, you autistic faggots kill yourselves
Every thread

>>26178265
THIS

OP, I WANT TO LEARN.

>>26178304
>>26178405


you try to value yourself through the eyes of others. you are in for a really long sad road.

>At one point in your life you stopped being useful

well. you could be usefull if you wanted it. if thats what bringing you joy; why not do it? get involved in something where you can feel useful? unless you want to feel useful to a particular group of person.


there's no improvement. stop trying to please others. if you are a rose, be a rose. stop trying to be something else than your own self. start where you are. if you are depressed. start depressed. this is you.

you don't get it. i'm losing my time

>>26178480
>you try to value yourself through the eyes of others. you are in for a really long sad road.
this is the only logical way though
not viewing yourself through the eyes of others is how that fat acceptance movement started

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>be black in a primarily white uni
>black girls are unicorns here, so I'm stuck with white and asian girls
>have a feeling they may not be attracted to me simply because of my race

What do? I effortlessly make friends with males and females alike, but i'm afraid that's as far as it goes.

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>>26173448
You don't understand the point of this place, but it's a lost cause now.

It's been colonized into a circlejerk and should just be renamed >>>/soc2/

If you don't see that 9 times out of 10 the cynics are right, and this place is for cynics, then you're the mistaken one.

Do you not notice every third thread of some guy who's contemplating blowing his brains out because some cunt ruined his life?

You're just encouraging people down that road, and it's a road that leads to destruction.

So, you're the deluded one, and commonly deluded. There's nothing interesting you have to say. You are a sheep being led to the slaughterhouse.

>>26174590
>>26176896
>this broscience bullshit

>>26177308
>being this assblasted
>saying people "don't care"
Whatever, man.

>>26178325
Sadly only about15-30 percent I'd say are true robots with ligit aspergers and autism

>>26179120
hipster glasses. get some.

This board is crabs in a bucket basically

>>26179641
You're wrong. You are assuming that the crab can get out. But for people here are true robots(fucked by things beyond their control, not just sleeper normies) we can't improve. Our improval would just bring us more humiliation for marginally better life.

>>26179641
You'd feel the same way if some CEO millionaire bullied his way into your social circle and started calling you and your peers a bunch of limpdick faggots.

We judge our worth relative to our peers, so people only feel content and at home among their equals.