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If you like a girl, why not just tell her?
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If you like a girl, why not just tell her?
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She'll probably laugh at me and tell people I asked her out.
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>>26172330
I'm white so she would just say I'm harassing her

>tfw living life on hard mode
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>it will make her day
yeah no doubt
this helps me how??????
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>>26172330
Because I'm not attractive enough for her approval
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>Tell qt friend I like her multiple times
>Hasn't said no but also hasn't said yes
>Hasn't said anything really, kinda just dances around it or changes the subject or stops talking all together.

How do girls just do that? Block our reality like that. I'm actually pretty jealous.

Damn close to dropping this bitch entirely.

Reminds of when this girl I liked came over and we spooned for like 4 hours and watched Adventure Time which I fucking hate and I told her I liked her and she kinda just fuckin shrugged it off, so I told her ass to leave.
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She'll string me along for a good laugh
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>>26172421
Link to thread?
Super original comment doe
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>>26172421
to be fair that person is probably like 16
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Does anyone have that picture of the social media post (don't remember if it's twitter or normiebook or whatever) where a girl says something like
>If you like a girl tell her so that she can make fun of you with her friends.

That's why.
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>>26172433
They're not blocking out reality. It is in fact you who is blocking out reality by not realizing that's the universal sign for fuck off creep.
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>>26172330
because she doesn't care she has a nigger boyfriend.
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>>26172505
oh I did fuck off.

and I feel a lot better for not being stuck on shit and focusing on my own shit.
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>hey girl I like you
>oh thanks Anon, but I just don't see you that way. Let's just be friends, kay? :^)

And then I feel like shit for the next month.
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>>26172477
What the literal fuck doez that have to do with anything? Most women don't even grow out of their childish mentality. Even my sister thinks like this.
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>>26172470
reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1q4f5j/do_compliments_from_non_attractive_men_mean_as/
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Here's what would actually happen:

>H-hey femanon, you're looking pretty hot, wanna go on a date?
>AHHAHAHAHAHAHHA ANON JUST ASKED ME OUT
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>>26172421
>Those were just my peers. Don't get me started on adults
Annnnnd disregarded.
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>>26172421
God fucking damn it I hate women

How are they allowed to do this?
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Nobody wants an ugly/fat person to talk to them, regardless of the message.
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>>26172575
Just to make it clear, you're actually getting upset over the opinion of a high school girl.
I'm aware of where we are, but you gotta loosen up a bit. Her opinion means jack shit.
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>>26172330
>proof that normies have no grasp of subtly
I knew this bomb-ass girl that I went to HS with, she's edging on tumblr-type, but I believe she's too cynical to be an SJW. She's smart and a 6,5/10, probably be a 8.5 if she got rid of her acne. I'm pretty sure she pines for me but from my previous experiences with girls they don't take me asking them out well.
I'm a ~5/10 but would probably be a 7-8/10 if I wasn't a skeleton. I got a good facial structure with no acne, what do?
>inb4 "pics"
Can't man, too self concious to post pics of myself and I'm afraid she browses this board to.
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>>26172593
>tfw not ugly or fat but still can't get a gf
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>>26172601
Post pic then delete
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>>26172575
Thirsty beta cucks.
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>>26172601
*know

Fampai
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>>26172624
Short?

oc comment don't steal
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>>26172330

This sounds like someone who's never had to deal with rejection in their life. Must be nice always getting what you want.
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>>26172638
Nope.
I'm rich and in relatively good shape, too.
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>>26172330
reminder that if you aren't 6'0 with an 8/10 face, you get automatically classed into the nice guy/creep group and thereby must wait until past the wall before having a chance
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>If you like a girl, tell her!
>I promise it will make her day.

I hope you know this only applies to Chad.
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>>26172628
No man I can't, I couldn't violate her trust like that. I couldn't post one of me either cause I'm too self-concious. I have anxietard issues, man.
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>>26172672
>Chad on the left probably encourages the dude on the right to go talk to girls at the bar becuase "they were totally checking you out bro".
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>>26172674
Post a pic of you any
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>>26172741
>>26172674
....anyway* I gotta go to bed soon too so make it quick, I promise I'll be nice
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>>26172551
Jesus
I'm not even ugly and that thread is painful to read
Sorry uglybots
I still think you're all a million times better than any whore
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>>26172651
You're deluded or literally just a massive coward cuck. If girls don't give you the time of day, you're actually ugly as fuck. If they do, but you just can't seal the deal, then you're just a pathetic loser who isn't trying.

Or autism and you literally cannot understand social cues so you're fucking annoying as shit.
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>>26172794
Not autistic, but social interaction is fucking difficult. I don't have any friends either.
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>>26172537
this. I told a girl i liked her and asked her out. The next day her friend said "omg, did you really ask out X" and mocked me.
Seriously, fuck women,
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>>26172810
I bet you're an annoying fucker. I know a guy like you. He's just incapable of not being fucking infuriating to hang out with, so he has no friends, other than his literally retarded, 1/10 girlfriend.

Don't have any solutions either. Sorry dude.
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>>26172810
>>26172922
I can give him a better solution
But only if he posts a pic of himself
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>>26172922
>I bet you're an annoying fucker.
Far from it.
The problem is that I have zero idea what to say to other people in a social context. It's all a mystery.

But hey, at least I have hookers.
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>>26172433
>How do girls just do that? Block our reality like that. I'm actually pretty jealous.
Because girls are avoidant and work on subtle nonverbal communication. She doesn't like you in that way but she doesn't want to tell you for fear of hurting your feelings, you having a bitchy response or whatever and she's hoping you'll just take the hint and stop chasing after her because she's already put you into the friend category and doesn't want to take your relationship to the level. It's easy to blame women for this but you need to learn the way they work so you can avoid making the same mistakes in the future (being friends with someone you're interested in sexually, not making a move on her in person, confessing your feelings, etc).
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>>26172970
>The problem is that I have zero idea what to say to other people in a social context.

That makes you fucking annoying. If you say nothing, it's annoying. If you don't know what to say and try to say something, it's annoying too.

People would hang out with you if you weren't annoying.
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>>26172330
I think I'd get arrested.
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>>26172330
Because coming from an average-looking guy like me, it comes off as either desperate or off-putting. Even the "omg goalssssss" ones like complimenting a girl's smile (holy fuck were her teeth white) got me a girlcringe.

I'm not even interested in getting a thank you, or anything like that. I just like making other people feel better, but I feel like even trying to do that makes them somehow feel worse.
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>>26173057
Well how do I fix this?
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>>26173124
I told you I don't have any answers man. I'm truly sorry.
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>>26172330

>im a normiecuck, the post

LEAVE
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>>26172970
>The problem is that I have zero idea what to say to other people in a social context. It's all a mystery.
When in doubt get them talking about themselves and learn to fake genuine interest (though actually being interested in the people you talk to really helps) . People love to talk about themselves and it's proven that it helps people feel closer to you. Also when people are talking, they will reveal details about their lives, interests, motivations. Those are possible conversation threads that you can seize on to keep the conversation. Say interesting things, keep your talking to 3 sentences or less before you prompt for the other person to talk (though most people will rudely cut in - manners are a thing of the past). Anyways these are all general tips. If you do some digging on Google there are more much comprehensive guides on how to hold a conversation, but really nothing beats the experience of talking to a lot of people. You'll get the feel for the kind of things people want to talk about, don't, what keeps convos going, what kills convos, etc.
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So for you people there is no difference between 2/10 complimenting you and 8/10 complimenting you, since it doesn't matter who the compliments come from?
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