>>26171185 >get job >move out >work out enough not to be morbidly obese or a skelly >get social hobbies or join clubs for your own shit solitary hobbies >meet friends while doing social hobbies >maybe meet girls while doing social hobbies >meet girls through friends >go to places with friends where you can meet girls
Its this a radical concept called "having a life". If you have one of these then you will encounter women and those women will want to be a part of your life because your life is not shit.
If you just want to approach girls randomly, learn pua and go to bars or talk to girls in bookshops or coffee shops, or in the street.
Try speed dating, its a better use of your time than online dating.
>>26171780 >doing what feminists want you to do >caring about what others think of you >feeling as though you don't deserve to have your needs met
>>26172160 Anyone who can easily follow the steps you've listed probably already has. It's not a question of knowing how to succeed at "having a life" or getting over mental barriers it's a question of ability, which literally no robot has.
no one builds relationships out of clubs though, I've never seen anyone go home with anyone at a club. Like most is they hook up, lights turn on, maybe follow eachother on instragram, and its goodbye from there.
>>26172316 Yeah, have about 5 lays so far from barnes and nobles, walmart and target. Been wanting to practice street approaching but I've found striking up an innocuous conversation to be the best bet to actually getting anywhere
>>26172312 >Don't shit where you eat Stop using dumb, canned metaphors. I shit where I eat all the time - at home, because I have a bathroom and a kitchen. If you equate finding a partner with shitting, you have bigger problems than where you're choosing to do it.
>>26172634 I strike up a situational convo. I know it sounds dumb but it's as simple as laundry detergent (if we're in that aisle).
It's not quite as simple as 'be yourself'. I know I'm considered to be pretty good looking. But that's something you can kind of work on too, so that women are more receptive even talking about boring stuff.
>>26172388 >Anyone who can easily follow the steps you've listed probably already has.
Sorry I don't have any tips for people who believe that everything should require no effort, that you should never have to feel uncomfortable,grow as a person, learn new skills, or do anything difficult.
So just stay here and shitpost all day about how its everyone else's fault that you're unhappy with your life.
>it's a question of ability, which literally no robot has.
Theres a thing called "learning new skills" this is the process by which people gain new abilities. I was a complete social retard until my mid-20s when I decided to actively learn social skills from books.
So whining about not having the capability to do anything only applies if you legitimately have autism or some other kind of severe retardation. If you diagnosed yourself with autism or some other bullshit in order to hand-wave away all of your problems so that they're out of your control, then perhaps you can meet a girlfriend through tumblr, because that's where you belong.
>>26172685 >I know it sounds dumb but it's as simple as laundry detergent (if we're in that aisle). Sounds awkward.
Why not just be honest and say you wanted to talk to her because you thought she was <insert flattering adjective here>. Doing that creates a bigger impression, demonstrates confidence, and prevents you from wasting time on girls who aren't interested since you made your intentions explicitly clear from the start.
>>26172790 I read Day Bang from roosh and got it from there. Initially I was going direct but those girls usually flaked on me. I've gotten pretty good at transitioning boring conversations into interesting ones. Are you speaking from experience about the direct approach? I know some guys can pull it off but I never had much luck.
There aren't any, because talking to strangers is fucking weird. If I were chatted up in public by some random girl, best case scenario is I'd be bored, alone, and in a good mood, and they would be super attractive and interesting, and it would still be weird, and super fucking unlikely to result in an exchange of contact information. Approaching people you don't know with anything other than a pertinent warning or tip is rude and off-putting, unless they're some super extrovert you wouldn't be able to relate to anyway. Any girl you'd like would hate you for doing that.
Online dating really is your best bet. Unfortunately the women there are terrible, but if you're attractive then it's really easy to get them in bed. So there's that.
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