How do you enjoy being alone?
I've been alone for almost my whole life since i'm an autist.
Please someone explain, I can't change so I just want to be content with how my life is.
>he thinks /r9k/ isn't satire
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So none of you are actually alone? Are you all just joking?
I don't talk to anybody, and don't have any friends since I dropped out of high school and never contacted my old ones again.
My parents broke up, and I have no idea what they're doing now since i've moved out.
I'm just lonely in general. No gf, no friends, no family.
Throw yourself into hobbies. Vidya and anime seem to be the most common around here, but whatever works.
Unfortunately some people are just social and need other people It's not necessarily something you can break.
drink, weed, spamming omegle and other chat boards...
you need something to distract from the sober thoughts
or you could do what the normies tell you to do and work on yourself. gym, going to clubs etc.
its up to your preference really xD
People are different, my man. Some need to constantly be with others because they either get bored alone or just downright hate themselves. Not all people can be rational and that's ok, they just can't argue with their animalistic desires.
Perhaps you'd like to give suicide a shot.
Feel like walking around the apartment naked on a hot summer day? Feel like talking to yourself, singing a song, farting or playing some anime scenes while pretending the protagonist or the villain? Well you can do it more freely without anybody around.
Being alone is maximum comfy.
Get some hobbies, join clubs for them, get a decent job that you don't have to slave away at to support them. I personally recommend metal detecting. You get to spend plenty of time by yourself outdoors and its always like Christmas morning every time you get a ping.
>spamming omegle and other chat boards.
how do you do this?
what do you talk about?
I literally can't fathom starting and holding a conversation with strangers on the internet.
The only reason I post here is because I can count on other people to pick up the slack.
>sign up for foreign penpal
>get bored and quit after a few short messages
>look at omegle homepage
>leave because I can't think of anything I want to talk to random strangers about
>create an account on a forum related to my interests
>never post because I can find everything I need by lurking and have nothing valuable to contribute.
>hate being alone
>Just want to be alone when around other people
Such is life
If you don't you are one weak minded individual. Stop depending on and caring about other people so much. Set some goals for yourself. Surely even you have some passions right? You posted a nice drawing. Go out and start learning to draw yourself. Put your entire being into it. Day after day work on improving yourself. Spend all your money on your studies. Eventually you'll start thinking that every other person is just trying to get into your way so you shut them out. The key is devoting yourself entirely to your studies or learning a skill or whatever. If that's too hard (it shouldn't be loser) just find entertaining hobbies to kill time. Movies, video games, music and there is so much more. I often take breaks with those things and I can say that my life really is pretty nice despite not having a single friend. It's almost hard for me to even understand why you still crave social contact when you have access to all these things.
I always feel like I'd be better off alone when I have friends online 'friends' , but the second I've got no one, I feel like I need someone. I'll have autism fits where I want to delete everyone and just go back to being entirely alone, but when I do that, I just add everyone back and come up with an excuse after a couple of days.
I don't even really talk to them, but more talk at them and then spaghetti a three word reply when they try talk to me.
Religion can be kind of cool as long as you stay away from the kind that makes you interact with others. I made up my own religion and it's kinda nice, become a Christian if that's too much.
Learn to appreciate literature with good characters or long running TV shows where the characters have an important backstory, history.
The better the characters are and the more time you spend with them the more they will feel like real friends.
that pic makes me sad.... idk what is up with me. i want to hate women because i know for sure they would throw me to the curb at any moments notice and most wont even bat an eyelash at me but at the same time i get a heavy feeling in my chest when i see one of them cry. fuck man...
I lived with an autist back in university, i wasnt as anti social as he was, parties, bad frienda and all that, but the only reason i never invited him anywhere is the way he talks.
I don't know whats wrong with autists in general, but they usually speak so fucking fast that their voices shake, very obvious crap in social meetings.
What do you do that's "weird"? I'm an artist but I have a reasonable amount of good friends. Granted, about a fifth of them are either other autists or memesters.
You have to like yourself first, I think. It seems like an important step to be able to enjoy all the time you spend with yourself and yourself only.
I think the only way to really make it work is to become a self-centered asshole. Like me!!!