My mother ruined my life.
>slept in her bed until I was 10
>babied me my entire life.
>sheltered me from the real world
I'm 24 now, and have no real life skills. Hold me.
What I wouldn't give with some adult time with my mom circa 1998.
don't ruin threads with stupid shit
get rid of your mom.
move out. It's the only way to learn.
If she really cares about you (I doubt it desu) she should help you and support you with moving out in a reasonable time frame.
Move out within 2 weeks. Have another 2 weeks worth of money. Get a job. Afterwards.
Mothers should be taken out of the child's life once he can eat solid food. The majority of his time should be spent bonding with and learning from the father.
The mother should have no objection to this, as she is too busy taking care of another baby to care.
>tfw used to consider putting a plastic bag over her head or something till she passed out and then having my way with her
Google groups used to be full of some crazy shit way back in the day
I was to young to know it was all fake
Still considering it.
>mfw I'm a bastard and father lives in another state
>mfw dad thinks I'm a failure
That's something I stopped doing when I was younger. There's a difference between ambition, and facing a harsh reality.
That is sadly true in most cases.
The thing is women are mostly emotional and they think that any decision that feels right are right instead of thinking of it objectively.
My mom was really incompetent in many ways as a parent but in her mind, since she loves me, that excuses everything else and ensures that she was really doing her best.
My mom wiped my ass until I was 12.
Pic related is from a thread where I and some others discussed experiencing this.
I guess I never matured before that point. I used to shit with the bathroom door open, then again so did she, and when I was done shitting I yelled "Mom, I'm ready!" Not fucking kidding about that. The last straw was when I had some classmates over and we were playing Castlevania(?) on SNES and I had to go take a shit. I'm glad that they were downstairs and I was upstairs with mom, but jesus fuck it was embarrassing. She, however, saw nothing odd in it.
Didn't feel strange about it before that point though. One time when I was 8 I asked my babysitter to wipe my ass and she just looked at me with a perplexed face.
My great-grandmother would do this until I was like 8.
>Friends in school ask me to come out
>Mother says no because she doesn't want me 'on the streets' and all kinds of other excuses
>They just give up asking me
>Wonders why I dont have any friends later on in life
Holy fuck this thread
It's exactly what happened to me.
How do I break out of it robots?
When I was 14-15, my parents started to blame me for our shit relationship and communication, being "arrogant and a retard". I believed them, I thought the age of puberty had turned me into an arrogant prick. But it wasnt it. When I got 18 I understood the massive favouritism they had towards my sister. The special treatment she got was unbelievable. I realized it had not been my fault all these years, but they just pushed the guilt on me, a fuck up or something. looking back, I see had been the situation the hole time. But I wasnt a fuck up in my teenage years... I never got it why i was unwanted.
But I love my sister, she always has looked up to me. i despise my parents and am certain that they are the reason how I am today.
If were raised by an over-protective mother you are likely to:
>enjoy feeling, or be inable to be anything but helpless
>feel timid and meek around girls your age
>be addicted to masturbation
>be overly sensitive and self-pitying
>work a job you hate and "put up with" things you dislike not to risk anything or be rude
>dress and act in a quiet, cute and inoffensive manner
>passive and apathetic
>lack motivation and self-discipline
>be overly concious about how you look
>be overly defensive and incapable of participating in "male banter"
>identify older men (employers, deans, etc) as husbands, interpreting this as a paternal longing when it's jut latent homosexuality
>Never go out
>Anon, why don't you ever go out? Why do you sit in your room all day? Go out with your friends, be a normal teen! Don't sit in all day, let some sunshine in your room
>Get some sort of social life
>Leave the house to get away from everyone
>Anon, why are you never in these days? It's like you don't even live here anymore! You're never here to help out and I gotta do everything myself.
Well, it's absolutely accurate and describes me to a T, even the possibly latent queer stuff. Does anyone like us ever end up living a full and happy life despite our mother problems? Have you known one are would you say there are any famous manchildren other than maybe Michael Jackson? Alexander the Great maybe, I don't know.
I've been thinking about this recently. Since technology has become so widespread, society has changed as a whole. I think before, we'd go off to war, become an artist, or work some corporate desk job.
I don't think the world needs us right now.
Maybe they'll need us again at some point, or start to treat us better. I've joked with my friend about starting some sort of Nation of Islam for betas since he told me about a weird theory he has about spergs/social retards being genetic and having more neanderthal ancestry or something.
"You can't even get chicken tendies at mommy's house without the normies' permission! You can't even watch hentai at mommy's house without the normies' permission! You can't even get mountain dew at mommy's house without the normies' permission! When you break the seal on that mountain dew bottle, that's a government seal you're breaking."
My dad died when i was 3 so my mother brought me up up on her own. She drinks a bottle of wine a night and i cant help think there's a reason why i take so many drugs and am a falure with women.