>>26158552 I mean she doesnt make a disgust face when I look at her, and my autism only allows me to lock eye contact for 2 or max 3 seconds, I never really said a word to her though, kinda never had the chance
>>26158705 >You probably are getting mired by women all day I got mired one day by this woman, and then another 2 weeks later. I'm not sure 100% whether the way they looked at me was miring or not though, I fucking wish I knew.
This shit is driving me crazy. JUST TELL ME IF YOU WANT MY DICK.
Closest I've ever come was when I was in Austin TX and some girl with her group of friends stopped her car next to me and said her friend thought I was hot. I look to the front passenger seat where she's indicating and it's some faggot. I just sort of smiled and power walked away.
I still dunno if they were making fun of me or if her gay friend really did think I was handsome.
>>26158635 He literally just told you >just talk to her breh
Fuck that guy. But yea, he's right. Firstly, if you don't have the social wherewithal, or just can't tell, if she is "not disgusted" or "interested," you need to socialize more. Get practice with males and older women (idk- find a way to interact with older women somehow. Try smalltalk with a cashier or a haircutter or something). If she's making eyes, you should be able to tell. That's your cue to approach.
It's gonna take about a minute, tops. You walk over, and just make idol chit chat about whatever. It doesn't really matter what you talk about. You just need to demonstrate
>Confidence and dominance over others Women are attracted to "strong, fearless" men. It is more important than looks to them. >Social viability Women are attracted to men who are perceived as popular and valuable to society. They're herd animals. They will start puking if you come over and they get the vibe that you can't socialize. To them, it's kind of like being approached by a retard >Emotional stability Most women are uncomfortable with "dangerous, edgy" guys. Some go for that, if they fit into the abovementioned categories, but the majority would prefer a more casual kind of guy. This is where the "sense of humor" thing comes in.
And it might be hard, but you should approach girls while giving them the benefit of the doubt. Don't be, NEVER be clinging, but you want to just assume that they're not manipulative, calculating sluts. Be positive and upbeat, but without seeming weak.
>>26158807 >This shit is driving me crazy. Why? Because two women MIGHT have "wanted your dick"? If you can't emotionally handle even that, I think you have bigger problems than just unrequited sexual wants.
>JUST TELL ME IF YOU WANT MY DICK. Not how it works. If they give you eyes, they're saying "I'm interested." That's all they know how to do. It sucks, but you have to then stick your neck out, risk an embarrassing situation while having a smile on your face, and try to figure out what they're really looking for without talking about it. Then, if you think you have the same goals, you make the push for further interaction / ask for her number / offer to do something sometime.
Gotta be secure enough with yourself to be told no. If she goes cold, abort mission and clear out, and it's all over. No skin off your teeth. Society expects us to approach women, so do it.
>>26159056 >>Confidence and dominance over others >>Social viability >>Emotional stability I jave neither, like absolutely none, the only times I feel good about myself or "above others" it's when they're ugly autists going to the dentist with their moms, and that's low enough for me. I dont know if I could fake it though. Anyway thanks for the reply mane
>>26159143 Holy shit bro. A couple years ago my dog nipped the hell (didn't break the skin, but probably left a mean bruise) out of this little boy who ran up to his face. Got him right in the belly. I was waiting outside his house while his parents checked him out, and his ~9 y.o. qtpie sister wanders outside and gave me this cheeky, wolfish smile while making dead eye contact. Holy shit man, I was fidgeting and sweating like a pig.
>>26159240 Generating your self confidence on the basis of bullying or looking down on the weak is the lowest form of confidence, which is why it's the most common. But that will work with, idk, one in two women. Women have an extremely fine tuned sixth sense for detecting social or personal weakness in men, but at the same time they usually have next to no ability to distinguish one kind of confidence from the next.
But for your own personal sake, you should aspire to have a confidence that is better than being a shitty bully.
>>26158957 There is a great deal of speculation in your position sir. Were it not for the fact that there is a digital separation between the both of us, I would grab you by the scruff of your dress shirt and show you the consequences of not holding your perfidious tongue.
but serrislee bro, I got this 1 bitch ima talk to tomorro, she's been wet for me for like a week, Ima crack her open like a nut and give her hidden honey the ol lickeroo. i shit u not m8, ima be balls deep in her by the end of this week.
>>26159482 >how can I tell if she's giving me "the eyes" or is just weirded out by me looking at her?
Jesus christ, man.This is a basic ability to understand facial expressions and body language. If you need to be literally trained to distinguish "fear and discomfort or disgust" from "interest or attraction"...
In general, you don't look at them first. That's "creepy" or "staring" or whatever. They look at you first, and it'll just be a glance, maybe they even hoped that you wouldn't catch them looking. But you catch that, you look back, and make a half second of eye contact. In that half second, you assess them: what does their face and demeanor look like?
If they appear embarrassed, they might be interested in you, but are self conscious about being caught looking. This is a green light for you to take over the interaction.
If they look away immediately and look like they're grossed out, this is a red light. This should be especially easy to distinguish. If they're not interested in you, it will show. They will tend to reflexively give off strong signals that they don't want you coming near them.
If they hold eye contact for a second or more, smile, smile bashfully, bat their eyelashes, glance down then return eye contact: all clear green light signs. Time for the show to begin. Grab your cane and tophat, she wants you to tapdance for her so she can inspect you.
Look at the OP gif. That is a very exaggerated example of a woman being attracted. If it's a green light, you'll see stuff like that, but more subtly.
>>26159879 Ah I see, I've been a shut-in most of my life so my experience of social situations and girls in particular are very limited. I'm only now trying to break out of my shell and catch up on all the social knowledge I should have by my age.
Really appreciate you taking the time to tell me how I can tell the difference in that much detail, it helps a huge amount since it's the kind of algorithm I was hoping to learn.
I'm going to be putting it into practice tomorrow with this girl who I don't even know (I see her at the subway) but I've been crushing on for a while now. Wish me luck!
>>26160122 That's the stuff you learn through observation/trial and error/talking with your friends. If it was taught in school you'd have a bunch of kids running around like they were aliens trying to pretend they were human.
>>26160122 Public school at this point in time is primarily there to force children to adopt an authority-oriented outlook on life. It's a state sponsored, state enforced babysistter. It's not there to help you become a capable and enabled person.
No, there's no course in basic bodylanguage. Just start paying more attention to people you encounter. Maybe start watching more 3dpd movies and take notice.
>>26160205 >f it was taught in school you'd have a bunch of kids running around like they were aliens trying to pretend they were human.
This is exactly what we have already. We make and communicate in this sign language without even knowing it.
That's already exactly what we already have. If these gestures were openly documented as recognized gestures with defined meanings (reference Japanese or Chinese culture, or the middle finger, or a salute), you might not have so many people who are just completely in the dark about this stuff.
I think maybe once or twice in my life. One black girl and one Arab girl. I'm a barista and they kept looking at me, even after they got their drinks. I'm really autismo, so I just went into the back and scrubbed dishes until they left
>>26157136 How to tell if someone is mirin or just staring me down? I get stared at all the time if I'm walking in the street, but it's just as much from guys as girls I also feel that they seem angry at me sometimes, like my presence is offensive, but other times they'll smile and appear friendly
last time I went to the a con. I am muscular and dressed up as dante from dmc 3. Had a couple of girls look at me and bite their lips. One just came up to me and said "you are so fucking sexy." couple others hit on me.
I kept catching a girl looking at me a couple of days ago then she was laughing a lot at some story I was telling while everyone else was just listening. I'm literally retarded when it comes to picking up on signals though so I couldn't tell if she was interested or not.
>>26157342 He follows up by trying to stalk her home, creeping her the fuck out.
Movie's Shame btw, it's about sex addiction (which I'm still not convinced is actually a real thing). Went into it anticipating a REEEEEEEE-fest over some self-pitying normie but it's a real testament to Fassbender's acting chops that I left feeling genuinely moved for the first time in ages.
>>26157136 > Sister gets me this workout tank as a joke > I wear it to the gym for shits and giggles > Low-key want to bait le Red Pill guys at the gym > Guys completely disregard the shirt, I don't even get the side-eye from anyone > Get mired slightly more by girls > All of them are fat girls with dyed hair and fugly glasses > TFW only get mired by New Years resolution tumblrinas
>>26158552 What are these strong signals exactly? I've caught some girls looking at me, but no lip-bite, smiles or or hair fixing. Just plain stares at me, but they kept looking despite I caught them looking.
I think there's of couple girls at work but I'm really bad at telling if someone likes me or finds me attractive. I did find out on a night out from one girl that she'd fancy me if I was more outgoing (I'm really quiet and just tend to keep to myself and do my work and go home
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