Is everyone evil deep down?
I was in a skype group just now with a guy I befriended last week on this board. Now everyone is bullying him in the chat over silly things. He doesnt have friends irl because he lives in the middle of nowhere, so he basically relies on me and that group.
How can I help him out?
That always happens with groups no matter how robot they would say they are. Only a very very small few can abstain from joining in on this social hierarchy setting group mentality and social behavior norm.
>Is everyone evil deep down?
if by evil you mean being self serving cunts then yes
people will act nice to you if its convenient for them but as soon as they've finished using you, or you become unable to help them they will toss you to the wayside like garbage, literally every human is like this.
It is natural amongst tribal groups to throw a dividing line between the alpha-males, the beta-males, and the omega-males. Everyone will be striving for the alpha-male position. Before the games have begun, everyone is on equal footing. They are just meeting one another, so there has been no hierarchy established. The only way to grab the alpha spot is to push everyone else down. It starts with one person, the one who is clearly the weakest. In this case, it is your recent friend. Let's face it, he is probably a freak. He's probably begging for everyone to tease him. It's not his fault he has no friends, but it is his fault that he shared that information to the group. If he didn't tell way too much about his life of loserdom, they wouldn't be teasing him right now.
You know who's next in the picking line? The cowardly empathetics. If you defend him, it will be clear that you are weak. Do you want to be teased like him? The answer's no, so I would refrain from showing any kind of sympathy towards the treatment he's receiving. He's been waving his plump ass out in the open, begging to be ridden by the alpha-males like the little pig-slut he is.
So what you want to do is just stay silent. Your bleeding heart ideals make it impossible for you to ever be an alpha-male, but maybe you could still make it as a beta-male. Don't ever share information with the group about yourself that tarnishes your reputation. Learn from this omega-male's mistake.
I hope you heed my advice, OP. I really mean the best for you. I'm sorry that the truth hurts sometimes. As for whether everyone's evil deep down... not as individuals they aren't, but when they are placed in a group they will behave on their instincts like mere animals. Maybe the passive beta-male position is the wisest choice, if you aren't falling for their tribal mentality. Try to stay out of the way, let the alpha-males assume their dominance. They will pull you down if they perceive you as a threat.
jesus christ why would anyone even want to live having this shit
But anon, the guy being bullied has had a gf before, has a mathematics degree and looks liek Chad. The yurofags bully him for things like not knowing certain trivia
I do stick up for him and he stands up for himself too, but we're outnumbered and cant make a dent it seems.
>/r9k/ skype group
OP just grab your friend and get out of there. Skype groups are full of rabid assholes and I dont care what board they're based off of.
Just save yourself the headache right now and leave. Take it from a guy who went back and forth between communities for two years before finding out that they were all snakes
so tell the dude you'll still be homeys even if he doesn't want to hang out in the chat group. talk to him 1on1 or find a new group. and if you still want to hang out in that other group you can do that too.
you're all internet friends, internet friends are easy to replace.
so you think his group of friends is like the monkeys in your example?
with the only reference, they are little losers who bully the new one and you conclusion is its natural behaviour?
why should op play the pussy and not defend the guy if wants to?
because it wouldnt be alpha and he dont get vaginas to fuck, or they make fun about him?
your advice is to play the cuck and thats how you act in real life probably.
and please write text like a normal person, i hate when dumb people try to act smart because they write hueg walls of text.
When a group doesn't have anything ot talk about they will target someone to make fun of them.
That way they can do something together. It also forges camaraderie when you gang up on someone
evil is an ethical abstraction
there is only behavior that is dictated mechanistically, we assign labels to these in order to more efficiently run a society.
by our society standards, not everyone is intrinsically evil, but they are all intrinsically egotistical, which is some form is moderated by empathy (different people have different amounts of empathy), but when the egotistical reward is greater than the drive for emotional pleasure through empathy than a person will always act in terms of what suits them best.
This sort of social structure emerges from individuals wanting to be higher in the social structure, it is not a desire to keep that one individual down, but to elevate one's self.
if you do not elevate yourself through similar mechanisms, than you will become a target as well
it's your choice, you can perhaps give him some form of belonging, but you might be ostracized as well
what do you value more, your empathy, or social success within this group