I don't get why it's a commonly accepted truth that guys are attracted to girl's look over their personality, as evidenced by this video http://teenvoice.co/attraction/what-attracts-boys-to-girls-attraction-basics-3/ Yet people keep perpetrating the lie that girls care more about personality than looks, while that's bullshit. They want to think that, but the reality is that if I came and talked to a random girl she'd most likely turn me down, but if a Brad Pitt looking guy said exactly the same shit she'd be all over him.
>>26124356 Read the fucking post you retard. I linked another video.
You think it's your personality that attracts people, but it's easy for you to say as a good looking person (why are you here anyways), if you tried living as an ugly person for like, two days, you'd realize how meaningless it all is.
Sure there are some ugly dudes respected by people and liked by girls and that's to be respected because they achieved something really hard to achieve. Something only a few are capable of.
>>26124464 >that's all it took Thing is, it took a retarded amount of it. It's like you could say, yeah just be good at tennis you'll be like Djokovic someday, but it's not like that. Even if I trained my whole life, not being naturally good at tennis I probably wouldn't have made it even as a pro.
Now, being ugly and attractive is like being a pro tennis player with a prosthetic arm. Props on the huge effort bro but you have to be gifted for that.
Btw I'm not bitter, you're just a retard. No hard feelings.
The question is whether or not you're seeking validation from others. Or whether or not you want to be happy with yourself.
You can't fake confidence, so to you it seems like a retarded amount.
But to be confident you have to believe in yourself. To believe in yourself you have to Love yourself and Love who you are, and that's hard if you've grown up with people telling you that you're worthless all the time.
You actually can do it, it's not as impossible as you think, but you can't do it for hot girls, you can't do it so people will admire you, you have to do it for yourself. Did you ever see the first Rocky movie? He realized he couldn't beat Apollo Creed, so he decided he was going to just last the entire fight without getting knocked out, that was his whole goal.
>>26124619 I've been confident all my life. I don't think I'll stay a virgin my whole life, but not being physically attractive has meant I've spent almost 20 years without getting laid even though I've tried and have a normal personality. I've even done extensive research on seduction. I've kissed some girls and been liked by some others, which is something equally ugly but not as assertive guys have never experienced. Unfortunately, my personality is just average so it has never lead to anything.
But I'm not a self loathing faggot, I love my life. It's just that, from an objective point of view, physical attraction for women or men is fundamental. It's easier to get a 7/10 gf by being an insecure 8/10 than a confident 6/10, as much as the media tries to tell you otherwise.
>>26124274 I don't think anybody really cares about personality honestly.
It's a simple distinction. Women care about status more than they care about looks, and men care more about looks than they care about status.
Ask any man if he wants a woman who makes a lot of money. Anybody will tell you he doesn't give a shit what she does or how much money she earns. Ask women the same question. It's very important to them.
>>26124751 I think of myself as average because I'm comparing myself to the equally ugly or uglier men than achieve success. Good looking people might not notice but to be successful with girls as an ugly guy you have to be extremely charismatic and confident. Way beyond normal standards. A 3/10 guy who bangs hot chicks is going to be way more interesting than your average 10/10 Chad. Not everyone is creative or intelligent enough to make up for those lacking attractiveness points with their minds, only a few are and they're used as example by normies who think it's really all about "being yourself" (it's not).
>comparing myself to the equally ugly or uglier men >comparing myself >comparing
Stop doing this.
Stop looking outside of yourself for what is acceptable. You are not loving yourself if you do this, and you aren't going to have the confidence you could if you compare yourself to others all the time.
Remember boys, you are an object, and you are not a valuable or prestigious one. Just spare meat lying around, on its own - oh, but remember, women will only want you if you have lots of friends and a girlfriend! You don't have any of those? Oh, that's okay, you just need to build fucking character. Just keep building character until you are fucking dead. Just bang your fists against a wall until you are dead. Nobody cares anyway. Grow up autist, you're not mature! Or kill yourself.
>>26124925 Why are you so retarded? Holy shit. It's like talking with a girl. You're giving me advice that I didn't ask and I don't need anyways. You can't even keep an argument. Not to mention it's completely unrelated, and it's wrong anyways.
Like, if you wanna lose weight to "be healthy" and enjoy eating a lot and hate doing exercise, you're most likely gonna fail. But if you wanna lose weight to get your dick wet, which is an actual purpose, you might get fit pretty fast if you're motivated.
>It's completely unrelated. >Talking about whether or not it's a good idea to compare yourself to others. >Present example of the difference between a man seeking validation and doing something for his own health. Yes, you lose weight if you choose to be healthy, not because others think you should be.
>Getting your dick wet is more important than being healthy
>>26124038 Now I finally understand why I suddenly got so popular in my last year of High School...
Inb4 reee gtfo normie, it was only my last year of high school when I was the densest motherfucker on Earth who didn't notice he was being hit on. Now I'm a fat, gay, NEET, hikikomori with depression and social anxiety. Feeling better yet ?
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