>tfw she'll never be my mom >tfw she'll never teach my the word of god and the degeneracy of hollywood >tfw she'll never lovingly stroke my hair and softly whisper reassuring things in my ear as I slowly fall asleep in her arms during a snowstorm in British Columbia
idk i find some older women with authority attractive, or a woman who likes to take care of people. i really want to bang my manager,she's sexy as fuck and the authority she has over us makes it better
>>26123362 >>26123317 Mmm alright. well it's expected anyways. Maybe you could try to satisfy your needs with normal girls by being subtle to advancing over time. if they really like you then there won't be any problems.
That's right, I've been lurking for a while and most of you really don't have problems that I don't see regular people dealing with.
Women in our society generally have Daddy issues.
Most of you know how neglectful and loveless families are in our society because most of you probably grew up in a loveless family.
So the natural response for girls who had neglectful or even abusive fathers is that they begin to have a resentment for men in general. Why is this? Because where does a girl get her VERY FIRST ideas about how Men behave? From her Father of course, and if her Father was abusive, controlling and manipulative then she will be more willing to take shit from a boyfriend who is abusive, controlling and manipulative. That's why you see girls who go for douchebags and assholes and that's why we later see guys on facebook, or on /r9k/ asking why girls go for "bad boys" and shit like that.
Also, girls have different reactions depending on their situation.
>Girl has abusive father >Hates men as a result >Represses her bad feelings about men >Becomes lesbian
This happens all the time, I'm not saying this is the case with all gays or all lesbians but this is certainly something that happens.
Men want a Woman who is nurturing and caring and motherly, while Women want a Man who is Fatherly, who will take care of her.
Basically both Men and Women want the same thing from each other so desperately but aren't willing to compromise at all.
tldr: Don't stop having feelings, but work on yourself, love yourself, and don't be a bitch.
I lost it once and thought I was prophesied to kill my dad and fuck my mother so she would give birth to the Antichrist and give rise to sin and death so Christ would come sooner. A bunch of other nonsense too. I told my mom all this and she said I was just getting rid of society's programming. kek. I struggle more with wanting to kill my dad than fucking my mom desu.
It's hard for me too anon, it really is hard but you can get there. The loneliness is a part of it, I know that.
and it's rough out there, I go on a lot of dates but its not that common that I meet a girl I really have any interest in.
But the point there is, a guy who wants to be controlled by a girl for temporary validation will do whatever she says so they wouldn't be alone for a few more days. But you can't really be happy that way, even if it's part of your sexual fantasies or your fetish, thats not reality and in the end will just cause you even more pain.
It's important to have self respect and integrity.
You must get to the point where you respect yourself enough not to be willing to let people run your life.
Just unfulfilled, you must gain confidence for yourself.
You have to realize that your past isn't your fault, even if you did some bad shit in your life you have to learn to forgive yourself and realize that most of the bad things you ever did was because of the deep rooted crazy shit that fucked with your head from childhood.
Then realize that you can move past it, you ARE worth it, because you most certainly are. You are worth being loved and worth being cared for.
Then you can Love yourself, and once you can do that you can Love others, and suddenly you will find that you don't need a "Mommy gf" you might be more inclined and even more sympathetic of women.
>>26123723 I think it's just that it sounds like a better idea in my head, I don't want her to take absolute control of my life, I just want a gf that loves me in the way a mother does, it's kinda hard to explain, and my fantasies always get in the way of reality, I just wish one day I manage to find a way to be happy
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