Hey anons my best friend just fucked the girl that I've been in love with for years. I feel like I'm gonna throw up. Pretty sure I'm gonna kill myself by jumping of a bridge soon. I don't know why I'm telling you guys this but it feels better letting it out.
My god, do not cheapen suicide by killing yourself out of such puny reasons. That is so far away from an situation without a resolve, even getting terribly sad about it is useless.
Sleep over this shit and do not kill yourself over a cunt for fucks sake.
She the angel on the left guys. My heart hurts and stomach is killing me.
You got cucked like the rest of us, you have the ability to get a gf apparently so use those normie powers and meet more chicks to date/fuck. cut those two out of your life completely and try and leave them on your dust
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA She's a total Stacy. Either you're a normie or incredibly delusional if you're going to kill yourself over a girl with 10,000,000 clones that look exactly like her.
Yeah anon, i feel you. Same shit happened to me, but realize you have no one to blame except for yourself. i know it sucks but try considering improving yourself instead of killing yourself.
I'm probably gonna do it next week. not now he won't know it's because of him
This isn't her
By the way guys, I'm jumping off a bridge should leave a suicide note or not?
I think it might be better if people think I ran away.
If not I'll write on the note that I was too curious to see what death is like and that I didn't kill myself to be depressed.
By the way I never ever actually went out with the girl but we're both close friends and we've known each other for a while now.
Not trying to be mean but which bridge? The Golden Gate?
If you really want to go through with it leave a note. You have to give the people that care about you some closure at least.
Also jumping of a bridge seems a pretty shitty way to do it.
LMAO she's 100% Stacy. You said you wanted her for years didn't you? Why didn't you make a move? If you don't at least have the balls to get rejected, you don't have the right to feel victimized, it doesn't matter if the guy she fucked was a random Chad or your fucking Dad.
Enough with the suicide shit it's dumb. If he tried to pull that shit it would just make him look pathetic and it would turn out to be one of the most embarrassing memories of his life. Don't tell him to act out your nasty beta impulses.
You can guilt trip them with dignity, OP.
Dude, IKTF I was in a very similar situation since im a complete cuck and fell in love with a girl I wasnt even dating. It's stupid and sad but shit happens, she ends up fucking a bunch of other dudes including my "friends" and completely disregarding me as a friend, I felt abandoned. Anyway she just ended up being your typical Stacey as much as i didn't want to believe it at first, due to my own self delusions, but with time alone, introspection and shizz, I (somewhat) got over it and don't give a shit anymore, It takes time.
Maybe b8, maybe not, Don't end it over something like this, you're only giving them the satisfaction.
a bridge is a terrible way to go, all that time to rethink it before going splat on the hard-as-concrete water below
If you survive, you'll be even more of a burden since all your limbs will be broken
>tfw I don't know this feel
Maybe I'm a literal robot, even though I'm not a virgin. Seriously there are literally billions of women in the world, and sex is just putting your cock in a slippery warm hole, how can people get this upset about shit
MMMM fuck op, just imagine the guilt they'll feel. Leave a fake diary expressing why you did it, pointing it directly to your friend fucking your oneitis. Hide it somewhere easy to find. Make sure your suicide note says nothing about it, or your reasons. When they find it, imagine the suffering OP. They probably wont be able to be in the same room anymore. Do it OP, do it tonight. Call her first and make it seem like she can save you.
There's no guns in my country so it's the easiest way to do it. What's wrong with jumping off a bridge? Seems painless if it's heigh enough.
Honestly, I'll still probably do it. But thank you anyway.
Also to all the people that want me to make my friend feel bad, I like him too much to do that.
Welcome to adulthood. She probably fucked him because she knows you liked her and were on good terms with him. She probably thinks you still want her. Get another girl and try to stay as far away from that one as possible.
Ok, but chose carefully if you really really want it to work. I was asking that because I survived an attempt at the Jacques Cartier Bridge 2 years ago.
Wouldn't recommend it, but if you've already made your decision I just thought I'd give you a heads-up. Godspeed, lad.
I don't know about you, but if I was chad in this situation I'd be totally turned on by this. That this loser that loved this girl so much yet never had her, like I had her, on her knees sucking me off and bent over taking it rough. This girl who I treated like a slut, was loved so much by this beta friend of mine that he killed himself. Shit I would let this girl read the diary as she is blowing me than nut in her mouth with the force of a 10000 suns
well, im really disapointed in you op. i was hoping youd show a picture of some adorable, pure looking introverted waifu. a young and innocent girl that actually has some value. that would maybe be worth suicidingng over. but instead you show us this self absorbed, used-up looking whore stacy whose obviously ridden hundreds of dicks.
>killing yourself for a stupid ass bitch roastie
Please don't do that, If you kill yourself because of someone else, you are KING KEK.
You don't want to die as a cuck, there's a special place in hell for cucks.
>falling in love with girls before even fucking them
It's your fault brah.
Don't kill yourself though, just let that be a lesson that you should never get emotionally attached to anyone, it will only bite you in the ass.
>in love for years
>never made a move
you earned it champ, quit feeling sorry for yourself
>She's not like the other girls
>le selfie before we go to le clubbbb XD
>fucks some random dude then cuck you
Wew lad, she's literally like every other roastie in the whole world.
People are literally created to fuck. If you don't reproduce, you have failed at your only purpose, reproduction. The body knows that it must fuck to succeed, and therefore punishes us relentlessly when we fail. That turmoil we feel is an evolutionary advantage. It drives us to better ourselves and succeed.
Google a New Yorker article about people jumping off the Golden Gate bridge. You basically break your legs when you hit the water, the leg bones stab up into your stomach, and you slowly drown in agony. It's not like you hit the water and die instantly.
I would never choose that method.
Anyway, there was an interview with a survivor of the jump, who said that right after he jumped, when he was in the air, he was struck with the revelation that he could have changed any aspect of his life except the one choice he just made.
Anyway, go on a vacation or something and move on with your life.
PS: this girl is infinitely cuter than your boring stacy "love"
That happened to me too and now I'm 100% over the girl. It happened maybe 2 or 3 years ago?
Have some perspective dude, that's nothing to kill yourself over no matter how shitty it may feel. You'll get over it.
>never actually went out with the girl
Then you weren't in love.
No. If you didn't date her you weren't in love. You fucking chodes.
This guy gets it
I like fucking but I don't want no goddamn kids. Life is easy mode with no kids.
How would you be dead before you hit the water? Are you retarded in addition to being a pussy?
Any urban legend you've heard about having a heart attack (when you're 18) or suffocating (when people fall much further in thinner air before their parachutes deploy while skydiving) is just that-an urban legend.
No, you won't die until you hit the water. And then it won't be instant. It will hurt.
Same thing happened to me man. Best friend, perfect girl, wanted to kill him, wanted to kill myself, then I realized how not perfect this girl was, and I'm in love with someone who's worth my time now.
It's easy to get those blinders on when you start falling for somebody but remember that we're all temporary vessels of flesh and no ones that much more special than anyone else.
She wasn't "your" crush like one would describe "their" wife or "their" girlfriend, you fucking faggot.
She was a girl you wanted to fuck and you are beta enough to think you were in love with. You had no claim on her.
You should kill yourself, but not because of her. You should do it because of you.
No, he signaled to many women, she reciprocated, and they fucked. It was effortless because he took a slutty girl who already expressed interest.
Be glad you realized she was a slut before you could date her and get serious. She probably would've cheated and broken you.
Never worry about sluts. It sucks when you're mistaken about a girl, but don't kys over it.
Landed on my feet on a good angle which is probably what saved me. I did it during a summer day and there was some kind of cruise boat not so far and a lot of people were on it and saw me.
It hurts. A lot. I was just struggling to get air during the first few minutes and I did not have to swim back to the bank.
I was just very lucky because I was saved. I don't have suicidal thoughts anymore and life's better.
Nothing logical about it, females tend to go one of two routes. Cheat behind your back to not hurt you and end up making it way worse in the long run. Or open betrayal that they think will sting the most. Like I said before, welcome to adulthood there aint no real get back for that she fucked up her own reputation and it is going to follow her nothing worse you can do really. Getting on is all you can really do, think you can start calling yourself a man though if you move on past this and flourish because you have to realize you're in control of your own actions not what others do.
So she's pretty much a slag who will fuck anyone effortlessly? Maybe I could understand if you guys were dating for a long time and was considering engagement, but no, you're not even dating her. You're stuck in la-la land thinking of "what could be" but you didn't make any move on her - FOR YEARS.
Maybe you should kill yourself. But going off on how you're acting, you'll most likely pussy out before jumping.
You can't define love, so It's completely based on your personal definition in the specific circumstance.
I wouldn't say I was in love now looking back on it (even though I used the word in the reply) But I was in a position where I truly convinced myself was willing to die for her (I know). I would say now that it was in fact super infatuation, spread over a long period of time. AKA oneitis
OP you got cucked hard no doubt but consider how your situation is by no means unique, and how there are tons of men who have used such an event as an opportunity to improve themselves. By rewiring your perspective a bit (something which is 100% within your control) you can turn your feelings of cuck shame into fuel to burn in the engine of self improvement. Just because you got cucked doesn't mean you have to be a cuck.
You still weren't/aren't in love with her. You can't be in love with a person you aren't even in a relationship with. That's just you being an inexperienced faggot who thinks love is something you do to a woman to make her like you.
Love isn't real. Suicide is.
Same thing happened to me m8. Life sucks when you're ugly, roll with the punches and find other ways to be happy. You can't change the way she feels but you can change your happiness.