>Mom depends on me like I'm her fucking husband
>gets angry when I don't want anything to do with her anymore
Fuck this bitch and everything about her. Why does she think I'm supposed to step up when she's too fat and depressed to go get another man. Have any of you dealt with anything like this?
>not adopting a less fortunate child
>not getting a pet
No, people who have children are, 9 times out of 10, selfish failures. Good thing NEETdom bites them in the ass.
>Yes good goyim. Leave your family, it means nothing.
Are you retarded? Overbearing single mothers are a consequence of left-wing Jewish social influence.
A few decades ago, men were encouraged to take risks and leave their families as soon as possible.
Adopting a less fortunate child is worse.
Any couple that can pass the criteria for adoption is probably genetically fit enough to pass on their own genes, instead of adopting the mistake of some trailer trash bitch or Chinese/Eastern European whore.
Yeah, but you're buying a child out of it's culture against its will. It's exactly the same logic that was used to justify slavery. Only white people are naive enough to defend stuff like this (I'm white).
Poor people need to learn not to spit out kids they can't afford. Even in the third world, people don't actually starve to death that often. White people have given them medicine and increased food production techniques, which has created an overpopulation that actually hurts shithole countries more.
I want to grow up but I can't seem to cut off the metaphorical umbilical cord I'm still attached to. My mother fucks my mind and emotions over with all this guilt tripping and games. I just want to be stronger and get away from her.
I feel like a fucking child in a man's body.
>if you adopt the child at a young age, however, it's culture will just be whatever one you raise it in
Not if it doesn't look like its adoptive parents.
And a lot of kids who get put up for adoption have inherited genetic stupidity and psychological problems.
That's true. I've known some psychologically fucked up adopted kids, no doubt meth/alcohol/crack babies.
I've also met some really cool and intelligent people who became successful, but wouldn't have had that chance if they hadn't been adopted.
I feel like it's a two way street. She treats me a certain way and I get angry(not the best at controlling my emotions). She can spin that for days while I get madder and madder until it comes to a head and it gets bad. I don't even feel like myself half the time, just an angry puppet my mother uses. Like I'm supposed to be her fucking emotional sponge and if I act out of line I get the fists(not literally).
It's a fucked up relationship and I already go to therapy for it but I think she needs it to. Any thoughts helpful person? I'm looking for a job right now and I plan on saving up money to move out. I'm willing to deal with the bs but I have a hunch she'll call the cops to find me if I leave and don't pick up the phone.