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I tried to hold her hand.
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I tried to hold her hand.

She moved away from me and looked at me like I was a strange pervert trying to murder and rape her lifeless corpse.
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God I hate stuff like this

>be junior in highschool
>surprisingly a girl starts flirting with me so we start flirting back and forth until we both admit that we find each other attractive
>the next day I sit next to her in class
>during a video I reach over and try to hold her hand
>she pulls away from me so I pass her a note asking if I'm bugging her
>she says no and that shes just thinking about something
>later that day she texts me saying I made her feel uncomfortable and she doesn't want me touching her like that again
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>>26105836
>>26105439
Absolutely pathetic what is wrong with you two?
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This is why I never initiate anything.
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>>26105836

>in class

That's a completely inappropriate time. She was right to be creeped out.
You should have known better.
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I remember that from the boston bombings that fucker.
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>>26105929
Okay so its creepy when I do it but when Chad does it its fine?
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>>26106013
if chads doing it shes probably his gf you spoon
if the girl isnt ur gf its w e i r d
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>>26106045
>we start flirting back and forth until we both admit that we find each other attractive

She would text me about how she would want to cuddle with me all the time
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>>26106013
Yes. Haven't you learned anything?
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>>26106080

That is in private.

>>26106013

Chad doesn't do PDA. That's what a creep does.
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>>26106134
It's not like I was trying to rape her all I wanted to do was hold her hand
People hold hands in public all the time
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>>26106191

Not in school, and especially not in school.
People in highschool that do are being creepy, they just are too immature to fully grasp the concept.
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>>26106191
Maybe she wasn't interested in romance and just wanted the D
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>>26106243
Did you even go to highschool? Plenty of people held hands and did couple-y things
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>>26106361
not in class you autismal fuck
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>>26105439
LOL

I guess that guy isn't going to "RUCK ON"

LOL fucking normie scum.
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>>26106416
There was a guy in that same class who would sit with his arm around his girlfriends waist the entire time
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>>26106361

I've never seen it in class. In the halls: kinda creepy. Outside the school: fine. In class: that's a no go. Class is not your local cinema. You are there strictly to learn.
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>>26106485

That's his girlfriend, so there's more of a tolerance. It's still sketchy, nonetheless.
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>>26106361
That only goes for the ones with high social status, they can get away with anything.
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>>26106580
We were right next to each other in a dark class room watching some stupid video nobody would have noticed
I asked her if I was bothering her and she said no
I've also established that we had romantic interest in each other I fail to see what I did wrong other than just being an unattractive male

>>26106607
I'm starting to realize this more and more
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>>26106661

You tried to bust a move on a girl during class.
I seriously don't see what you're not understanding here.
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>>26106721
I don't see how my actions were wrong
I tried to hold her hand noticed she wasn't really interested asked her if there was anything wrong and apologized

Maybe I'd understand if you had a better argument than >b-but muh creep
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>>26106815
not the same anon, but:
if you can't understand why what you did was socially unacceptable there's no fucking way anyone will be able to explain it to you.

Like go to a doctor and get checked for aspergers or some shit I'm being goddamn serious here.

or not, yeah whatever keep rolling with the "woe is me i am unattractive :(((" shit.
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>>26106815

Here's what's wrong:
You're in class. You are expected to pay attention, and leave your romantic affairs at home. You and your peers are forced to be there. It looks better if you've been dating the girl for a bit, and everyone knows you're a couple. But you were trying to bust your first move on her in a class room. You are suppose to keep your hands to yourself in school. It's a mild version of when a student thinks it's okay to jack off in the back of a dark classroom.

>apologized

This is where you really fucked up.

Most of these skills come natural to normies. But it seems less than intuitive for you.
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>>26106938
Again come up with a better argument than >muh creep
From my perspective I was respectful towards her by not pursuing her further

>>26106980
>holding hands is equal to jacking off
God what kind of puritan society do you come from?
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>>26107033

>holding hands is equal to jacking off

Literally never said that. I know it's hard to both read and comprehend, but at least try.
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>>26107065
>Its a mild version of when a student thinks its okay to jack off in the back of a dark classroom
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>>26105439

>when your arteries get tangled in the spokes of your wheelchair
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>>26107033
>i was respectful by not pursuing her further
it doesn't fucking matter what you did after the fact. It remains said that you already tried to initiate physical contact with her in a classroom setting. You already fucked up by attempting to do that.
No one is supposed to be doing that, because it is inappropriate, and she understands that. You don't understand basic social norms for whatever reason. You come to class to learn, not to physically violate some lady.

>buh-, chad does it

No one likes when chad does it either. Except maybe if it's his gf. You obviously were not close enough to this person to be able to pull that off, and were not socially aware enough to realize that.

Also,
>she says no and that shes just thinking about something
she was lying out of politeness. You actually made her really uncomfortable. She didn't change her mind and later decide it was uncomfortable. She just wanted to tell you over text later so you couldn't sperg out in the general vicinity of her.
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>>26107256
You're talking like I was shoving my fingers up her skirt
All I did was sort of tap her leg and held my hand open when she didn't respond I withdrew my hand and passed her the note
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>>26107372
Oh man, that's not how it's done.
The girl is the one who's supposed to give the invite to hold hands.
Not by tapping, but by moving it very close to yours.
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>>26107470
But I thought men were supposed to be the assertive ones by always making the first move and paying for everything and following all then tenants of chivalry?
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>>26107545
>always making the first move
Yes, but only when given the signal. Unfortunately it's often very hard to see.
And once again, only the ones with high social status can get away with ignoring this and making moves without any signal.
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>>26107668
So again what I did wrong was not being a Chad?
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>>26107718
No, you didn't follow the appropriate manners for people who aren't Chad.
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>>26107751
Exactly
If I was a Chad I wouldn't of had to worry about that and I probably wouldn't be having this argument right now
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>>26106013

yes, exactly this

The line between 'creepy' and 'cute/hot/adorable/sweet' is whether or not the girl is attracted to you

Awhhh he sent flowers to my work!'
-Awwwh chads so sweet
as opposed to
-What a fucking CREEP!

Awhhh He held the door open for me!!
-Awh chad is such a gentleman!
as opposed to
-I CAN OPEN DOORS ON MY OWN THANKS ASSHOLE

Asking her to dinner
-Awwwhh chad is so sweet!
as oppoesd to
-LEAVE ME ALONE WEIRDO!

Doing whatever you want during sex
-wow chad you're so aggressive, that's so hot
as opposed to
-fuck you! rape rape rape >>26106134
and ps chad does do PDA, if its a woman of value
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>>26107790
Yep.
You just gotta roll with that and do like everyone else.
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>>26107822
Fucking this.

>Be me in class
>Stacy's pants have went down a bit and her thong is clearly showing
>Chad shouts loudly so everyone can hear
>"OI STACY, NICE THONG!"
>She blushes and pulls her pants up
>See her later in the hallway
>Her thong is showing again
>Think that I should be nice and notify her of it
>"Excuse me Stacy, but it seems that your pants are falling down again"
>Expect gratitude
>tfw "WHY ARE YOU LOOKING YOU FUCKING CREEP GET AWAY FROM ME"
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>>26107822
You are deluded as fuck
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>>26108005
This
>School uniform is a legging short
>Stacy has a chalk stain on her ass
>"hey there is some chalk in your butt"
>she looks at me with disgust and walks away
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>>26108229
We'll you told her she had chalk in her butt, I'd look at you weird too m8
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>>26108315
I wasn't lying tho
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>>26108229
Could have been more smooth m8.
But yeah, she would probably have giggled and thanked Chad.
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>>26107095

You serious?
There's no point explaining anything to you, because you can't comprehend even the simplest notions.
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>>26105439
>Back in high school
>Sitting next to a girl
>I'm friendly with her
>Hyperactive, I always have to be doing something
>Swing on my chair
>Simultaneously talking to her
>Slip and grab her arm
>She looks as if I just tried to rape her
>She never forgets about it

:(
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>>26108506
>"How dare he grab my arm instead of falling off the chair and break his neck"
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>>26108571
Pretty much.
You can't apologise these days though, not when it's a female.
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>>26106013

How long did it take you to realize this, ffs?
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