>>26094687 You do realize that women on dating sites get sometimes upwards of 20 messages a day, right? They don't even need to browse profiles, they can just look at their messages and know that all of the guys who have messaged them are into her and she can choose from among them. How can you call women shallow for choosing the best option available to them?
>>26094756 that is shallow they're extremely picky about who they chose and who they respond to they never put their neck on the line and send a message first I'm both mad at them for being extremely superficial and for society for basically spoiling them by giving them everything they'd ever want on a silver platter
I've met some cool chicks on OKC, but It always ends up with then making excuses when I want to make plans and eventually they stop replying to my texts and shit. That's why I gave up on online dating, some people are supposed to be alone and that's ok.
>>26095288 I'm just saying it's awful and unfair and I want out that I'm expected to keep putting myself on the line, keep entertaining completely boring people, and give them gifts, and pay for shit for them, all so I can stand out from the 100s of other people that are doing the same
there was a relevant post about this on /soc/, some girl came into a virgin thread and kept talking about her 400+ adds she gets from "fans" whenever she posts contact info on /soc/ and how guys need to just keep going, because it feeds the egos of girls like her
>Make profile, take some tests, send a couple messages and stop using it. >Log in a week later out of boredom, 5 different women I never even viewed have contacted ME! >MFW they are all enormous, 40-something, polyamorous wiccans.
Eh, it's okay. I met my ex gf there and she was a crazy bitch but I don't blame online dating for that.
I've still got one and have had it for about 2 months and have 30 likes and average like 15 visitors a day. I've had a few unsolicited messages before but they're usually from hamplanet single moms or obvious crazies.
The good ones are usually swept up pretty quick, which is pretty fucking disheartening. I've seen tons of profiles of girls that are cute and match over 90% with but they haven't been online in months, so I guess it's just a matter of time and a numbers game.
I don't know how to meet people outside of work so online dating is my best option I guess.
I am 24 now Just got out of a 4 year relationship Made an okcupid account because it had been so long I forgot how to flirt
>Met one girl and went on a date >Got catfished when she turned up to a fancy dinner wearing jorts and a pikachu backpack. She was also about 140 kilos at least when her picture showed her being about 60 kilos. >Ended up getting drink and calling her fat and ugly >Missed my train home so was stranded in the city I travelled to meet her at >Make her let me stay at her place with her parents >Get to her house and in her room she had about 10 bird cages full of birds >So drunk and full of rage about my whole situation I end up rage fucking her
Asian qt >Messaged a qt I saw not expecting much >added me on wechat >chatted for a good 2 weeks >Met up in the same city >Fugged her within an hour >Moved in with her that same week >Been dating for 1 and a half years and getting married soon >Bought house together >Her family is rich as fuck and pays for us to go back to China all the time Funny how life turns out
My current fiancee showed me her account when I met her through okcupid
She would easily get between 50-100 PER DAY. Most were attempts to sleep with her and some were just useless "hi's".
Also you would be VERY surprised how many legit creepy fuckers are on that site. She had people stalk her after a date for weeks, some would try and get into her apartment and get stopped by security and she still nearly 2 years on has some creepy Indian fuck calling her phone.
Got talked into date by some guy who seemed genuine and decent.
>Pulled up in a bmw >started talking total shit >tried to make her blow him during the ride >Shes just scared now waiting for the right time to get out of the car >Guy gets a call and it is played through car speakers >its his mom telling him to give her the BMW back and never to take her car again and to clean his room >When she got out of the car at the next lights he got out to try and convince her to get back in >he was apparently no taller then 5'4
I actually feel bad for the crazy shit girls go through with online dating. There are so many fucked up guys out there (just look at this board). When things go poorly for a guy in online dating that means girls just won't respond or go out with them. When things go poorly for girls they could get sexually assaulted or raped. Rather be ignored a million times than get raped once.
>>26096875 >they were useless "hi"s >literally every message I've recieved from a woman on either tinder or OKC has been "heyy" with exactly 2 y's it's like, they criticize us for putting no effort in, but then when they have to do anything, they are absolutely lazy and shitty
>>26094756 "the best option" is usually someone at least 3 points out of their league. a 7/10 won't go out with a 7/10 dude, hell a 5/10 girl wouldn't even go out with a 7/10 dude. that's why he's pissed; it isn't about "the best option", it's the idea that they believe they're better than their current rating.
>>26100356 >>26100405 this has to be a fucking joke idiots like this jupm right in and say legitimate creep things about getting in women's pants? they get responses and dates I try to treat people like normal fucking humans? no responses and get called a creep
fuck you dumb cunt and the rest of your stupid fucking gender
You have nothing to lose. Pretend you're in middle school and you're teasing that cute girl you like. She'll probably call you mean. From there you have a chance but it's still a girl so she's bad at conversation. I love the childish shit. Even if she doesn't play along she'll feel obliged to defend herself. Keep it silly though. I once said a girls favorite show sucked and gave a couple ridiculous examples showing I had seen it. It almost worked too well.
I don't know if it's a southern thing but childhood memories are fun. I'm into spankings and every girl here has funny sexy stories of the worst whooping they got, the most unjust, and the narrowly escaped one. From there you can drop being into spanking somehow. Something stupid like 'I ought to whip you'. I swear I'm not Chad but I've had sex before. One time for fun after I took of my belt I folded it over and pushed the halves together then pulled to make that popping sound. Her eyes got wide as saucers. I didn't set out to spank her but I just had to after that.
I had lunch with a qt ginger today, like inhumanly cute. Bright orange hair, 5'2, light enough I could Ohp her easy, and she told me about getting spanked. I usually fuck up at this part but at one point she grabs my arm to demonstrate something in her story. I don't speak pua but I take it as a sign she digs me. Anyway she had the cutest stories of getting beat. I tried to get her to come for drinks but she's underage. She's naive so that's even cuter. Who cares about drinking underage? Especially in college? Usually I'm pissed off because girls are too transparent in trying to get me to liquor them up.
I am going to get hurt by her though. I try to be alpha but I see myself falling into orbit and I don't want to ruin her. She's sweet, like actual wife material, so it's gonna sting like a bitch when she turns down my drinks then goes tailgating and fucks the whole football team.
I had a short gf through here. I actually did like her and four months of heaven followed...
Then she got pissed that I didn't say good morning to her enough.
At the end of last year, she wanted to get back together before she left the state...I was tempted to, but she lied. She said she didn't touch anyone else despite telling me she went to a lesbian orgy and got a girlfriend.
9/10 in both body and personality but her lying...no. Fuck that.
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