Hey guys, I turned 26 today and have never been in a relationship, that's why I wanted to ask any of you guys if you could tell me what it's like and how it works, I know I'm reaching the point of no return so I just wanted to know so that I could maybe fantasize about it when I feel alone on a night like this where even my mother forgot my birthday
its like knowing a person will be there for you when you need but in exchange being there for them when they need. it'snice and you do all intimate things together and go out even though it doesnt get as exciting anymore after awhile. relationships getting boring, but the security mostly and intimacy is what makes you stay
I always cringe when I read stuff like this.
No idea why. You just sound like such a faggot maybe.
It's nice. Once you have had 1 good relationship you feel like you need to be in one even if it ends badly. That honeymoon phase is great. Being obsessed with something who feels the same way. Even when things taper off It's nice knowing that someone is there for you and supports you and has accepted your lifestyle at that point.
To me it's what I need now but for others they hate it so results may vary I suppose.
My father was the paragon of robothood, even back before r9k existed, and he managed to find a new relationship after 20 years of being single. Keep your chin up Anon, sometimes life throws us a bone.
Shes socially awkward, clumsy, a bit lazy and doesn't have a lot of friends. She doesn't spend a lot of time glued to her phone around me. She has crafty hobbies and plays video games mostly so when we are home thats what she likes to do. She does go through phases of taking selfies but hardly ever around me. If she is out shopping by herself she will take tons and if we spend time apart she will send selfies of what she is doing and nudes, but not anything I would consider excessive.
relationships aren't for everyone
I think so
Didn't say she sent them to me so I really don't know what shes doing. Doesn't concern me though. Past that paranoid about what others are doing stage in high school.
Assuming she's into the you she thinks you are, things will be fun for a few months. It gives some excitement to this pointless grind we call life. Over time, you eventually start opening up, and she'll become very critical of you and your imperfections. She won't say anything, but she'll be thinking it. She has hundreds of other options after all. Eventually, she'll dump you coldly and callously, and get with a new guy immediately if she already isn't with one when she leaves. She may or may not string you along and play with your emotions.
I just want a woman I can watch Netflix with and just be with them. No words necessary. Just watch a show and cuddle.
I won't find this woman at the bars. She will be at home alone doing it by herself or with her boyfriend.