My ideal partner is basically an attractive female version of me.
Is this narcissism?
>My ideal partner is basically an attractive female version of me.
Same, but I'd be alright with her being less attractive than I am, too. I want it more than anything.
>Is this narcissism?
I wish I was like this I think. I hate myself, and my crush is outgoing, talented, and funny while I am neither. Our interests don't align, so it makes it hard.
If there was a female version of me, I probably wouldn't want to be around her I'm sorry to say.
Short story, yes.
I'm a hard ass, so I'll probably hate me, and end up cheating with some one nicer who doesn't hit me, buys me things, takrs me out and cuddles.
Once I met a girl that was my female version. We kissed once and then she never answered my texts. Cried a few times and then I realized that if I were a girl, I would not date a guy like me. So I started trying to improve myself.
>tfw my oneitis is actually a Tumblrette
well shit, you might be on to something
>not wanting to be an attractive female version of yourself in a loving and committed relationship with the male version of yourself
up your game
>tfw I found the qt female version of me
>tfw she's not interested in me at all
>met a female version of me, anime nerd, shy with no friends. sarcastic
>had my first kiss with her
>she saw he first dick, and I saw my first vagina
>gave first orals
>liked her but wasn't in love
It's not that great.
I'm willing to settle for the female version of me, her looks do not matter.
Of course love-hating myself reflects differently on women but oh well...at least in a relationship I wouldn't hate that I do not have any human contact, she is enough.
>tfw share similar world views and have the same humor
>not attracted to her at all
Piercings ruin literally everything.
I've gone on dates with about 10 girls, the longest relationship lasted about 2 months. None of them stuck. My friends say I'm just looking for the female version of me, so don't feel bad. You're not alone
Naw, but is is pathetic.
Just kidding. But not really.
Are there really no traits you don't have that you find attractive? I mean it's good to have similar values and interests, but personally I like people that complement me rather than mirror me.
I think it's really cute when couples are mistaken for siblings.
No not really, everybodys partner is a better version of themselves but we forgive and understand flaws due to the sex drive if it was narccism you would just be gay and fuck guys that remind you of a better version of yourself or younger, etc
I've already been there, OP
It's really good but remember she'll have your defects as well. I'm a manipulative backstabbing piece of shit and by the end it was just a long chain of [I know you're fucking me over but I'll pretend I don't know while I fuck you over even worse]
It was an assload of lies but at least we were clear enough that we were strictly fuckbuddies and nothing more.
>tfw we both got nervous and talked in the strangest ways to avoid saying "I love you" or any indication of actual appreciation and concern