>have a coworker from Vietnam
>her husband's cousin wants to come to US
>I'm a mildly successful but 4/10 at best robot
>coworker wants to hook the two of us up
>she's my age (25), qt petite Azn, speaks english, can cook, clean, etc
>has a 5 year old daughter
>daughter is in legal custody of grandmother in Laos
despite the negatives, I'm still seriously considering it...
if you can accept she'd only marry you for citizenship and most likely would never love you, then go for it.
If she has no legal custody of the kid then go for it. She might only want you for a green card but if she is an insufferable bitch before marriage just pump and dump the bitch since she's pretty much at your mercy anyway
I suspect its largely a green card grab but I'm hoping she will fall for me since it will be a long process and I can work on impressing her. at least maybe I can get laid out of it? I just don't want to wind up one of those cucks that gets divorced and forced into alimony. she wouldn't be able to get that right?
tbqh I'd rather die alone than settle for sloppy seconds, but also a child?
she loved someone, they made a child, memories, do you think you can ever erase that? your wife's son will be a constant reminder of her previous life
obvious visa grab too
red sirens everywhere
If you're getting a wife that only wants you for a greencard you can do way better than that (Vietnamese Single Mom) even if you are an autistic neckbeard OP.
I speak from experience here..
I had a co worker in highschool who married someone like this. She convinced him to buy life insurance and one night tried to kill him for the money, but he somehow stopped her.
You shut your whore mouth! Brenda Song is a beautiful angel.
nigga you cray?
She's actually a hot Asian.
This. It'd be okay to do if you weren't putting yourself at risk financially, just a amicable business relationship. But she can take you to the cleaners with the divorce process, and frankly she'd be stupid not to. She knows what real poverty is like, and so she won't feel all that bad about fucking you out of half your income.
a fat demon you mean
uh sure thing champ.... by hot asian you mean average and chubby but it's ok I ftfy
kek having shit taste is ok anon just dont post it like it's something awesome
kek knowing you find this fat cow attractive and how r9k rolls you'll just say she's ugly no matter what I post..
nice try anon but you being turned on by fat cows is your demon to deal with not mine.
dont like it tough shit. im not the one posting ugly korean whores
Don't forget to tuck your tail in and before you run. Bitch ass nigga.
My asianfu is Misa Campo. I would rim her upon request.
This kind of thing only works if you're of the same ethnicity and if she's young. Also a plus if she's distantly related. Green card is certainly an objective for these kinds of relationships but girls like these will be more interested in a stable husband they can start a family with. Only downside is that her parents back home will expect her/you to send money from time to time
HOLY SHIT i didnt even read any of the responses in this thread besides the first 2 or 3 but i can tell you EVERYONE here is a retard
the ONLY, and i mean ONLY correct thing to do in this situation is to date her and never marry her
YES she is a single mom, but the child isnt even in this country so u dont have to deal with kid bullshit, and she's 25 which means she will probs look good
in her eyes you are a white guy with a penis large enough to satisfy her. she knows u are probs kinda lame but she probs doesnt mind dating a white beta bux, because its good money + not the worst sex
the correct decision here is to date her, maybe even have a relationship, but DO NOT marry her and DO NOT give her money. the more money you give her, the more respect she loses for you, and the more she "wins"
like date her for a couple months, and if things are starting to get rocky or she wants to marry
aka financially and legally cuck you and own u like a slaveyou, then just leave. make up some socially acceptable excuse to tell other ppl "hurrrrrrr im in love with another girl, hurrrrrrrrr i dont want to get married because were not compatible, whatever"
and just enjoy it. WHY would u unironically marry a roastie whore is beyond me. this girl knows no viet guy wants to marry her because she's old already and had a kid, so she's getting desperate
take what you can get from the relationship and leave. ITS ALWAYS ABOUT YOU, please never forget that
If she got divorced in fucking VIETNAM at the age of 25, you can bet your ass she'll be taking half your shit within five years.
I know you're lonely nigga, but it's probably a bad idea.
Nah it's true
Marriage and family related materials.
The girl is less satisfied and happy with the relationship.
>People who've had multiple sexual or romantic partners were less likely to report a happy marriage later on
My first link covers that, and also divorce risk, sure it's marriage and not bf/gf but it highlights the same lack of satisfaction from someone who's been around.
here's another article just covering the happiness aspect
How is that explainable?
Is it the same as how people who regularly see gore pictures get used to it? So to make that analogy back to marriage people "get used to" love and have a smaller sensitivity on love and companionship?
>"get used to" love and have a smaller sensitivity on love and companionship?
Or they get used to casual sex and can't settle with one person because they like trying different dicks and don't want to be stuck with just one.
Shouldn't men simply adapt and NOT marry those people? I don't buy you cannot spot a hedonistic bitch in the split second you see her for the first time. Certainly there are differences in speech and body language that reveal such people.
another thing i feel i need to say is her relationship with your wallet and job
the thing about this slut is that she's directly related to your work because she is a coworkers cousin
this is bad because if anything goes terribly wrong, your coworker will get wind of it and it will negatively affect you in the job, and if you really care for the job then it gets dangerous
she has power and leverage over you because you cant just dump her at a ramdom whim, and she will know that
for sure she will try everything to get the most money out of you. like you can best BELIEVE she will say stuff like "can you send money to my poor starving parents, family, and pet rhinoceros overseas in vietnam? thanks XD"
this money will most likely be spend on herself or she will directly give it to the guy who fathered her kid and left. she will literally financially cuck you by giving your money to the chad who fucked her well, abused her, seeded her when she was young and fertile and left
its a dangerous game because you have to try to manage giving her the least amount of money possible, and getting the most you can out of it tb h.
but if you are desperate and very lonely it might not be the worst decision to get with her. just be aware that its possible that the worst outcome will come of it, like her getting angry at you for leaving her and telling your boss you raped her and your out of a women and a job
these women are NOT stupid and most of them are actually rather predatory. its actually very likely she was actually a prostitute at one point. a lot of SEA girls who want to get married to foreiners are usually exprostitutes because no domestic man would marry them plus they have more power overseas and the men overseas are on average higher quality and richer
ugh, honestly op if you are desperate and really want to get with a girl who wants to get married you can just find one yourself who isnt related to your work
something about all of this just screams predator. what kind of a women wants to get with a random guy in the us who has a kid and is willing to abandon it?
even if you get with her she will have Z E R O feelings towards you and every step she will take will be to pretend to like you to squeeze every drop of cash and cuck you and leave you
its very commonly documented that SEA girls who just want to get married to rando's have been known to pretend. like pretend to care for Y E A R S and stab the dude in the back the hardest when he's most vulnerable
on the other hand if you are really desperate and lonely then maybe you could use her for a bit, but its still so dangerous
fucked if you do fucked if you dont, pick your poison op
>Shouldn't men simply adapt and NOT marry those people?
Risks are higher not absolute walls of 100% or 0%, but marriage and procreation rates have dropped so in essence that's already happening.
>I don't buy you cannot spot a hedonistic bitch in the split second you see her for the first time.
This is kind of silly since 1 partner increases divorce risk a lot and I doubt someone with 1 partner looks like some out of control hedonist, further there's no uniformity in opinion on it so I think most people would rather take the risk if they even knew it existed, I'm certain among the remaining marriages that didn't divorce there are some happy couples, and you can easily be blinded by love.
this is likely the truth and what will happen. this is why I am glad to ask my robot brethren because they speak the truth. I'll probably beat a few times to some chink porn and get this out of my system, then tell my co worker "thanks but no thanks" tomorrow. thanks for the help robots.
>and you can easily be blinded by love.
Well this is what I try to argue for. Having the nature of being more rational and self observing will help you reduce blindness from love. So teaching more thinking might result in more happy couples.
honestly op, if you are about to quit your job or really dont care for it and are looking for a real reason to quit it, and the girl doesnt ask for that much money, it might not be a bad idea to get with her
she will literally try her hardest to pretend to love you and especially if you are not giving her money she will be like a free pretend gf
in her mind she doesnt mind the risk of pretending to love you to try to get you to fall in love for the chance of hitting the jackpot that is a visa + marriage. its usually a better probability of odds for her.
so many prostitutes in sea when they get older actually stop trying to turn tricks and just date guys for free. why? because if the guy falls in love with them its so much more cash and sustainability. this is why people compare marriage to prostitution, because, especially in asian culture, marriage is ALWAYS a economical decision and never one based on love
the thing most prostitutes is that if they arent spending their cash on dope, their pimp or gucci bags, they almost always blow it out on gambling. most prostitutes love gambling and trying to get you to fall in love with them is quite the dangerous gamble that rewards exceptionally handsomely
it really depends on your job and how much you are willing to lose and how you feel about life, oniichan
just be aware that she might be a predator who's about as cold and calculated as a serial killer
but at the end of the day as long as you dont give her a lot of money and dont fall in love with you its all kosher. maybe try getting to know about her a bit more and then make your decision.
tb h i think your problem is being a asian guy in usa. in the us there is like a unlimited supply of niggers and chads who fuck all the women, and chinks like you get the bottom of the barrel scaps if they are LUCKY
you should consider moving elsewhere or SOMETHING. i dont think its worth it to work at a shit wageslave job that you hate and not be getting any girls
sry fixed the picture
>All I want is a slutty asian gf who is into racial humiliation play like this
>tfw you will never have a coy asian slut telling you that "ME LOVE YOU LONG TIME SOLDJAH BOY" "FIVE DOLLA SUCKY SUCKY"
>Asian girls tend to be faithful if you provide for them.
>actively abandons their race of men for another race
>wants nothing besides money
>in op's case has a child win a random dude and wants to abandon it as well to move to the us
>asians have been long documented to fuck dudes deeply in divorces and have been cheating for a long time
>unironically thinking u can trust women, especially asian girls
so basically that image is saying because you never tasted red velvet you can only say your favorite ice cream is vanilla.
That just sounds like a boring life desu. Kinda shows how monogamy is forced upon desu.