Is this sinking too low to escape >tfw no gf?

Considering what?

>>26066934
hooking up with the single mom

What negatives?

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>>26066857
if you can accept she'd only marry you for citizenship and most likely would never love you, then go for it.

>>26066857
If she has no legal custody of the kid then go for it. She might only want you for a green card but if she is an insufferable bitch before marriage just pump and dump the bitch since she's pretty much at your mercy anyway

>>26066857
Don't, it won't end well.

>>26066981
>>26067030
I suspect its largely a green card grab but I'm hoping she will fall for me since it will be a long process and I can work on impressing her. at least maybe I can get laid out of it? I just don't want to wind up one of those cucks that gets divorced and forced into alimony. she wouldn't be able to get that right?

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>>26067092
tbqh I'd rather die alone than settle for sloppy seconds, but also a child?
she loved someone, they made a child, memories, do you think you can ever erase that? your wife's son will be a constant reminder of her previous life
obvious visa grab too
red sirens everywhere

If you're getting a wife that only wants you for a greencard you can do way better than that (Vietnamese Single Mom) even if you are an autistic neckbeard OP.

I speak from experience here..

Or fly to Vietnam and fuck as many 10/10s as you want for around $50 each.

>>26066857
Don't be mad when she divorces you as soon as she gets citizenship and sticks you with fat child support payments.

>>26067879
I feel like this image was supposed to be a joke but some people took it seriously.

>>26066857
is that fat cow in your pic supposed to be sexy or hot or something?

I had a co worker in highschool who married someone like this. She convinced him to buy life insurance and one night tried to kill him for the money, but he somehow stopped her.

>>26068236
You shut your whore mouth! Brenda Song is a beautiful angel.

>>26067964
>IT'S SO CHEAP FOR HOOKERS OVERSEAS MAN
Spoken like someone who hasn't been to Vietnam, Thailand, Bali, etc

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>>26068236
nigga you cray?
She's actually a hot Asian.

>>26068236
Yeah, 1/10 amirite? Fella like me only accepts the best

>>26066857
Fuck her, and let her get the citizenship that she wants.

Dont get attached, she has an objective and its not you.

Everybody wins.

>>26068419
How much do they normally run you?

>>26067999

This. It'd be okay to do if you weren't putting yourself at risk financially, just a amicable business relationship. But she can take you to the cleaners with the divorce process, and frankly she'd be stupid not to. She knows what real poverty is like, and so she won't feel all that bad about fucking you out of half your income.

>>26068050
I think you just summed up /r9k/ quite nicely.

well op if you don't mind being a cuck go for it

>>26068366
a fat demon you mean
>>26068437
uh sure thing champ.... by hot asian you mean average and chubby but it's ok I ftfy
>>26068448
kek having shit taste is ok anon just dont post it like it's something awesome

So...are you Chinese or Japanese?

kothblox

>>26068630
I am Laotion

>>26068630
>>26068690

It's like I'm really watching King of the Hill.

>>26068621
post an Asian girl that's much better looking. I'll wait.

>>26068720
kek knowing you find this fat cow attractive and how r9k rolls you'll just say she's ugly no matter what I post..

nice try anon but you being turned on by fat cows is your demon to deal with not mine.

dont like it tough shit. im not the one posting ugly korean whores

>>26068050
>>26068551
>degenerates
go back to where you came from

Pull a Woody Allen daWg

>>26068720
I'm a yellowfag that likes that actress you posted, but she isn't the best. Just browse asian threads on /s/.

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>>26068754
Don't forget to tuck your tail in and before you run. Bitch ass nigga.

>>26068822
My asianfu is Misa Campo. I would rim her upon request.

>>26066857
This kind of thing only works if you're of the same ethnicity and if she's young. Also a plus if she's distantly related. Green card is certainly an objective for these kinds of relationships but girls like these will be more interested in a stable husband they can start a family with. Only downside is that her parents back home will expect her/you to send money from time to time

HOLY SHIT i didnt even read any of the responses in this thread besides the first 2 or 3 but i can tell you EVERYONE here is a retard

the ONLY, and i mean ONLY correct thing to do in this situation is to date her and never marry her

YES she is a single mom, but the child isnt even in this country so u dont have to deal with kid bullshit, and she's 25 which means she will probs look good

in her eyes you are a white guy with a penis large enough to satisfy her. she knows u are probs kinda lame but she probs doesnt mind dating a white beta bux, because its good money + not the worst sex

the correct decision here is to date her, maybe even have a relationship, but DO NOT marry her and DO NOT give her money. the more money you give her, the more respect she loses for you, and the more she "wins"

like date her for a couple months, and if things are starting to get rocky or she wants to marry aka financially and legally cuck you and own u like a slave you, then just leave. make up some socially acceptable excuse to tell other ppl "hurrrrrrr im in love with another girl, hurrrrrrrrr i dont want to get married because were not compatible, whatever"

and just enjoy it. WHY would u unironically marry a roastie whore is beyond me. this girl knows no viet guy wants to marry her because she's old already and had a kid, so she's getting desperate

take what you can get from the relationship and leave. ITS ALWAYS ABOUT YOU, please never forget that

>>26068914
kek trying to shame me into posting. i'm immune to your feeble /b/tier attempts kid

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If she got divorced in fucking VIETNAM at the age of 25, you can bet your ass she'll be taking half your shit within five years.

I know you're lonely nigga, but it's probably a bad idea.

>>26069162
Why so scared anon? It's just a rating friend. Not like it's gonna hurt your ego or something.

>>26066857

Why would you come here for girl advice?

>>26069217
>scared
kek

you go fap to your chubby cow korean whore that'll never know you exist kid

And i'll sit back watching you flail around because you're not winning ;)

>>26069266
because /r9k/ would never lie to me

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>>26068050
>>26067879
Nah it's true

Marriage and family related materials.
Links
http://www.medicaldaily.com/ignorance-bliss-when-it-comes-marriage-fewer-partners-youve-had-more-likely-your-298752
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com.au/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2012/08/more-promiscuity-data.html

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2012/07/single_motherhood_worse_for_children_.html
psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/03/22/how-common-is-cheating-infidelity-really/
www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/unmarried-childbearing.htm
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/02/09/magazine/does-a-more-equal-marriage-mean-less-sex.html?_r=1


PDFS
http://nationalmarriageproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/NMP-BeforeIDoReport-Final.pdf
http://www.asanet.org/journals/ASR/Feb13ASRFeature.pdf
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_23/sr23_028.pdf
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf

>>26069425
Not sure if you even read the image, desu.

>>26069128
This is probs the best reply in the thread. Probs should listen to this guy, OP. Seriously.

>>26068690
What ocean?

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>>26067879
wrong picture my friend.

>>26069453
The girl is less satisfied and happy with the relationship.
http://www.medicaldaily.com/ignorance-bliss-when-it-comes-marriage-fewer-partners-youve-had-more-likely-your-298752
>People who've had multiple sexual or romantic partners were less likely to report a happy marriage later on
My first link covers that, and also divorce risk, sure it's marriage and not bf/gf but it highlights the same lack of satisfaction from someone who's been around.
here's another article just covering the happiness aspect
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/21/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440.html

>>26069580
How is that explainable?

Is it the same as how people who regularly see gore pictures get used to it? So to make that analogy back to marriage people "get used to" love and have a smaller sensitivity on love and companionship?

>>26069689
>"get used to" love and have a smaller sensitivity on love and companionship?
Or they get used to casual sex and can't settle with one person because they like trying different dicks and don't want to be stuck with just one.

>>26069567
This kills the femanon.
>tfw you know the actions of Stacy in mimicking Chad fuck up shit for 5/10 females in the end
it's called the Wall, y'all.

>>26069862
How? desubloxrox

>>26069783
Shouldn't men simply adapt and NOT marry those people? I don't buy you cannot spot a hedonistic bitch in the split second you see her for the first time. Certainly there are differences in speech and body language that reveal such people.

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another thing i feel i need to say is her relationship with your wallet and job

the thing about this slut is that she's directly related to your work because she is a coworkers cousin

this is bad because if anything goes terribly wrong, your coworker will get wind of it and it will negatively affect you in the job, and if you really care for the job then it gets dangerous

she has power and leverage over you because you cant just dump her at a ramdom whim, and she will know that

for sure she will try everything to get the most money out of you. like you can best BELIEVE she will say stuff like "can you send money to my poor starving parents, family, and pet rhinoceros overseas in vietnam? thanks XD"

this money will most likely be spend on herself or she will directly give it to the guy who fathered her kid and left. she will literally financially cuck you by giving your money to the chad who fucked her well, abused her, seeded her when she was young and fertile and left

its a dangerous game because you have to try to manage giving her the least amount of money possible, and getting the most you can out of it tb h.

but if you are desperate and very lonely it might not be the worst decision to get with her. just be aware that its possible that the worst outcome will come of it, like her getting angry at you for leaving her and telling your boss you raped her and your out of a women and a job

these women are NOT stupid and most of them are actually rather predatory. its actually very likely she was actually a prostitute at one point. a lot of SEA girls who want to get married to foreiners are usually exprostitutes because no domestic man would marry them plus they have more power overseas and the men overseas are on average higher quality and richer

pic related

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ugh, honestly op if you are desperate and really want to get with a girl who wants to get married you can just find one yourself who isnt related to your work

something about all of this just screams predator. what kind of a women wants to get with a random guy in the us who has a kid and is willing to abandon it?

even if you get with her she will have Z E R O feelings towards you and every step she will take will be to pretend to like you to squeeze every drop of cash and cuck you and leave you

its very commonly documented that SEA girls who just want to get married to rando's have been known to pretend. like pretend to care for Y E A R S and stab the dude in the back the hardest when he's most vulnerable

on the other hand if you are really desperate and lonely then maybe you could use her for a bit, but its still so dangerous

fucked if you do fucked if you dont, pick your poison op

>>26069995
>Shouldn't men simply adapt and NOT marry those people?
Risks are higher not absolute walls of 100% or 0%, but marriage and procreation rates have dropped so in essence that's already happening.
>I don't buy you cannot spot a hedonistic bitch in the split second you see her for the first time.
This is kind of silly since 1 partner increases divorce risk a lot and I doubt someone with 1 partner looks like some out of control hedonist, further there's no uniformity in opinion on it so I think most people would rather take the risk if they even knew it existed, I'm certain among the remaining marriages that didn't divorce there are some happy couples, and you can easily be blinded by love.

>>26070053
>>26070238
this is likely the truth and what will happen. this is why I am glad to ask my robot brethren because they speak the truth. I'll probably beat a few times to some chink porn and get this out of my system, then tell my co worker "thanks but no thanks" tomorrow. thanks for the help robots.

>>26070298
>and you can easily be blinded by love.
Well this is what I try to argue for. Having the nature of being more rational and self observing will help you reduce blindness from love. So teaching more thinking might result in more happy couples.

>>26068437
Asians can't be hot. They need 5 Years of surgery to achieve "cute"

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>>26070338
honestly op, if you are about to quit your job or really dont care for it and are looking for a real reason to quit it, and the girl doesnt ask for that much money, it might not be a bad idea to get with her

she will literally try her hardest to pretend to love you and especially if you are not giving her money she will be like a free pretend gf

in her mind she doesnt mind the risk of pretending to love you to try to get you to fall in love for the chance of hitting the jackpot that is a visa + marriage. its usually a better probability of odds for her.

so many prostitutes in sea when they get older actually stop trying to turn tricks and just date guys for free. why? because if the guy falls in love with them its so much more cash and sustainability. this is why people compare marriage to prostitution, because, especially in asian culture, marriage is ALWAYS a economical decision and never one based on love

the thing most prostitutes is that if they arent spending their cash on dope, their pimp or gucci bags, they almost always blow it out on gambling. most prostitutes love gambling and trying to get you to fall in love with them is quite the dangerous gamble that rewards exceptionally handsomely

it really depends on your job and how much you are willing to lose and how you feel about life, oniichan

just be aware that she might be a predator who's about as cold and calculated as a serial killer

but at the end of the day as long as you dont give her a lot of money and dont fall in love with you its all kosher. maybe try getting to know about her a bit more and then make your decision.

tb h i think your problem is being a asian guy in usa. in the us there is like a unlimited supply of niggers and chads who fuck all the women, and chinks like you get the bottom of the barrel scaps if they are LUCKY

you should consider moving elsewhere or SOMETHING. i dont think its worth it to work at a shit wageslave job that you hate and not be getting any girls

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>>26070810
sry fixed the picture

>>26070810
I'm a white guy though

>>26068690
>>26068708
>>26069558
He's Laotian. Ain't you, Mr. Kahn?

>>26068551
I think he summed up the entire internet actually.

>>26071863
or at least the chans

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>>26066857
>All I want is a slutty asian gf who is into racial humiliation play like this
>tfw you will never have a coy asian slut telling you that "ME LOVE YOU LONG TIME SOLDJAH BOY" "FIVE DOLLA SUCKY SUCKY"

>>26070053
this is solid advice, avoid her OP, avoid her like the plague

>>26066857
If you don't have to take care of the kid, why not? Just make sure the kid won't get in the way.

>>26068366
rule number 1: never buy life insurance. Shit, that's basically asking to be killed. Might as well bet money on your survival.

>>26069128
Meh. I think he could marry her. Asian girls tend to be faithful if you provide for them.

>>26073209
>Asian girls tend to be faithful if you provide for them.
>actively abandons their race of men for another race
>wants nothing besides money
>in op's case has a child win a random dude and wants to abandon it as well to move to the us
>asians have been long documented to fuck dudes deeply in divorces and have been cheating for a long time
>unironically thinking u can trust women, especially asian girls

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQfzwFloVqA

>>26073209
then why'd she get divorced to begin with?

>>26069425
so basically that image is saying because you never tasted red velvet you can only say your favorite ice cream is vanilla.

That just sounds like a boring life desu. Kinda shows how monogamy is forced upon desu.

>>26074031
You're pretty dense son, those people don't have a favorite flavor and no one is forcing anyone to do shit.

>>26073134
fuck, I have a 500k policy

>>26074430
teach her real good by putting no money in it