Can someone type out word-for-word how to ask a girl out over the facebook?
I just added a qt that studies in my same department, but what to say... Is it advised to make small talk first?
Plz help, never done this before.
I was thinking like...
Start with small talk related to subject, then when conversation runs dry go like
>So anyway, would you like to get some coffee after class this week?
That's pretty normie right and it doesn't sound like friendzone type shit I hope.
Have you talked to this girl before? If not, I'd suggest that you go simple and straight-forward.
Something like "Hey, I've seen you a few times at *department* and were wondering if you'd like to grab coffee/tea/whatever on x/x?"
Make sure that it's a set date, she might want to turn you down but not hurt your feelings which will just be a waste of your time.
Just said hello politely, she talked to someone I know and I just stood there listening.
>Something like "Hey, I've seen you a few times at *department* and were wondering if you'd like to grab coffee/tea/whatever on x/x?"
Ok sounds simple enough. I've literally lost sleep for 2 nights thinking about it and it's such a normal question to ask someone...
I doubt roasties ever go through this agony of asking someone out.
It's a lot easier than you think. I used to have a bit of social anxiety and you realize in hindsight that nobody other than you remembers those "life-scarring" moments you experience and that it's nothing to think about.
Go for it!
Yeah absolutely, I've been trying to slowly get over that kind of anxiety.
HOW? I'd have to arrange a meet to talk in person, but I can only ask her out in person? Some catch-22 bullshit here.
Do I ask for a phone number over facebook, call and ask her out using my voice?
What the heck why is it so complicated.
If you haven't really talked before, you'll most likely be a blank slate to her. This might be a good idea if you're going to ask her out over facebook, but it will be a very hit/miss situation since she doesn't have that much to go on.
If you want to ask her out in person, I think you have to socialize a little bit first. Just don't let it go on for too long, make your intentions clear.
How do you even reach that point then. I'll just stalk her hope I run into her again eventually.
Are you kidding, this place is full of normies now, everyone has a gf and got laid by now. Just a matter of time got the autist meme dies out.
Find a common ground and work from there. Maybe something related to both of your studies? Try to build on from there with questions that will let her talk about herself.
Rinse and repeat.
>How do you even reach that point then. I'll just stalk her hope I run into her again eventually.
How do you even know this girl in the first place - only through facebook? Like, what?