Would you perform oral sex on a woman after she gave you a blowjob? Or if she just asked you too?
Any Chads here that have done it before? What's it like.
Always wanted to try it but then again i'm an aspie so i don't have any social skills to actually get in bed with another woman
How you do it. I'd say average is about 5 minutes. Fastest I've done is about a minute and a half.
I've heard stories of guys being down there for around an hour because they don't know what they're doing. Poor boys.
>Would you perform oral sex on a woman
Yes. I don't know what happened, but a switch went off in me a year ago. My entire life I was disgusted by the thought of it, now suddenly I want to shove my face between the legs of ever pretty woman I see.
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE GET OUT FUCKING NORMIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I have done it frequently, out of courtesy, I was 17. When I first did it I would have been 15-16, I forget, I found it to be like licking raw chicken. I had zero interest in it and was heavily pressured into it.
Nowadays, I find it good in the way that it gives you control over the woman at hand (or mouth, rather), and that if you're good enough, you can use it to win favour.
It's kind of like a fun game. It takes some dexterity of the tongue, and some stamina, to a degree. I've found wounds under my tongue as a result on occasions.
I can give advice if anyone would like, but I'm hardly a connoisseur.
I spent 2 years with a girl who never wanted me to go down on her. Now I'm afraid of looking like a plonker when I'm doing it.
Is the basic gist of it is to spell the alphabet with your tongue on her clit?
Basically, yes. If she's spent that long avoiding cunnilingus she's got to be easy.
The best trik is to start very slow and deliberate. Lick about the outer region, her inner thighs and that part between her vagina and he thigh. Run your tongue over the bulk of things too. Do it slow enough that you have a chance to evaluate where her clit is. It may vary. between women.
The thing they generally like is if you show comfort being down there.Run you nose over their bits, despite your sense of smell. Shit sometimes reeks. If it doesn't, make the most.
Be sure to use broad and narrow strokes with your tongue. Vaginas are pretty random between girl to girl. Some are more easily accessible in some regards.
I wish I knew your girlfriends vagina better, but it's fairly likely that it's different to any I've experienced, few as they may be. Just be versatile in your tongue strokes, and be brave. Try things and take in her reactions. It may be worth telling her that you want to try a few things and to give you a sign when it's good or when it's not; she won't think any less of you, especially if you establish the experiment-factor confidently. Communication is important all the time. I know we all want to be macho and self-sufficient, but ignore that for a moment and prioritise her because she'll be grateful.
Girls are easy to read if you can stop worrying about your own insecurities, especially in bed. Just start slow, and ramp up as you grow in comfort. Learn all you can as you go, and once you find yourself with the upper-hand, you can make her yours. Feel free to tease her, slow things down, control the tempo. That's the only fun it it really. Eating out a girl is kind of shit if you make a chore of it. Consider it a job with reasonable pay, and be methodical. If you inherently enjoy it, congrats - you're winning.
Yeh. My girl was sore from the day before but still horny all the same so we swapped Oral Sex. She was a virgin when I met her so she's not the best at blowjobs so I kinda have to guide her through it but I came all the same.
I ate her out like a champ though. Love the feeling of controlling her via my tongue. Power play aspect there is amazing.
I should've stated that I was with her hence why I said I'm afraid of practicing it on someone else. She would've made great practice but whenever I tried to put my head down there, she always pulled me back up and said no.
Why after she gave you a blowjob? The premise is worded very weirdly. Yes I eat my gfs box, she loves it and I love making her shake uncontrollably when she orgasms and I keep going.
Also vagina smells nice most of the time, gives you that primal satisfaction.
If my dick ain't getting wet I ain't licking shit. Otherwise, it can be enjoyable to provide pleasure, and women sure are grateful if you can make them orgasm like that, I do it sometimes in between fucking when my dick needs to recharge.
I can get my gf to cum pretty fast. Like ~5 minutes if I put all the effort in but she doesn't want to cum that fast anyway I just edge her a bunch of times.
1 or 2 fingers in, doing an in and out 'come hither' motion with your fingertips rubbing the 'roof' of her vag. If she has a G spot that's where it will be. While you do that flick her clit with your tongue in various ways. Ez gg she'll cum. You're welcome robot.
would you eat your own cum out of a girls ass or pussy?
what if she asked you not to?
Might be the only one here, but I find eating out a girl to be incredibly arousing. Assuming they're clean "down there" or whatever - the smell is good, the taste is good and the sounds she makes are realllllllllly good.
Good way to wake up the little buddy after busting your nut, and then she is like a slip n' slide for round two.
I love doing this but I always come wayyy too fast. Like when she makes any sounds you can feel the vibrations through her tits onto your stomach.
I'm mining diamonds right now just thinking about it.
Yeah it's pretty great, almost exactly what I imagined it to be. Only time it's kinda gross is when they don't shower for a day, otherwise it's just a pussy smell. If you don't like the way pussy smells that's your loss I guess. Nothing down there has ever been gross for me, got my red wings and everything. Plus, it makes them craaaaaaaazy wet, so it's a win win.
Yes, but I would do it just without being asked.
You have this whole weird conception of sex as some kind of strange negotiation where we're like "Now that you have given me a blowjob, I shall return the favor! Nyeheheheh!". You probably think it works like this because you're a virgin.
In reality you just mostly play with the other person's body in no prescribed or spoken order, unless there is something you really really want, even then, it's usually better to just feel it out physically and see if there are objections.