>>26009442 Had one. They're succubi and I want nothing to do with women. Saddened I'll never transcend into a wizard and meet Gandalf in the afterlife. What good are they? They suck up more money than a hooker. Get intentionally pregnant to draw more shekels out of you. And then you have to deal with some shitty kid until he grows up. Kid becomes an addict or mentally ill? Guess who has to flip the bill? You.
>>26009442 Because anon, i'm ugly and stupid and i'm balding, i live with my parent, i can't drive and suddenly i'm getting pimples all over again. It's impossible. I'm actually considering getting super fat and never showering just to see how much worse i can get, i mean if i'm going to be a piece of shit i might as well go all out. I'm destined to be GFless forever.
i'm afraid of both emotional intimacy and dependency, as well as of being a failure of a partner and am insecure about the possibility of the other person eventually growing tired of me or meeting someone else they like more. i also get irritable when i don't have a lot of alone time
I have nothing to offer in return and compared to the rest of men of my own age I lack on all fronts so even if I would get one she can instantly find someone better than me. Parasites prefer a healthy host instead of a sickly one.
Because I can`t make myself be the active part of social interactions.I want to be approached.And it`s so deeply ingrained into my psychology,that I can`t just stop doing it and not feel like I`m stripping a thick layer off the core of my being.I am aware of this charactersitic of mine and have accepted I will not get laid,ever.That`s why I replace social interaction with material gains and pursuit of higher knowledge of jurassic tetanuran theropods(which btw is my job,being a paleontology graduate).
>>26009575 What about your life, what about your happiness?
>>26009579 Why don't you ty to get a boyfriend then?
>>26009593 Haha ain't that the goddamn truth. Uh, I mean, why don't you try to become a healthy host so a parasite will select you and infect you and flood your body with feel good chemicals to numb you while it sucks your life force?
because I am wise to your ancent scam..you are just a paid agent of the succubic world order... Your goal is to draw out the last wizard reservoirs... and once our mana is drained, you can control us and add to your army of mindless gorillas.... However us wizards have waifus now... sucks for you
>>26009855 I can't care enough about my own happiness, I just want to watch the time pass by. I simply don't believe that everyone born on this planet is meant to be in a relationship, and so I'll cheer everyone else on and forfeit my participation. I just gave up
>>26009855 >Why don't you just pop a xanax and ask her out? Why do you care so much?
pills make me drowsy to the point that i can't interact with people well, and i cope well enough that i don't get prescribed them easily. i dunno why i care so much, honestly. i'm the type to worry about things
>>26009442 What does it mean to try? Why would I, no one loves me and I'm not going to trust someone who's love I have to earn Not that I would trust anyone, I'd need to be coddled because I have no reason to trust anyone unconditionally and I won't. Maybe on the outside but there will always be a part of me inside reserved to expect ultimate betrayal and unless she wants to go on the perilous journey to kill that part of me then it's doomed from the start Not that any woman would want to do that, I as a man have to fix myself for her and then fix her, right? Natural order and all that. Nah, I'm a monster that no one will save because I'm not worth it, I'll never be worth it.
>>26009442 >Why don't you even try to get a girlfriend? >Disgustingly obese >no personality, just absorb pieces of the people I talk to >no hobbies >no interests >scared of people >pathetic in every regard >broken
>>26009855 No where I'm qualified to work in my area is offering more than minimum wage part time. Literally cannot afford to move out of my parents' house. I leave for boot camp in April, so that's something.
>>26010317 If we spill our mana into a beta's asshole, we still lose it, succubus.
You think we don't have all the angles covered? Face it succubus, soon we will gather enough mana, and launch it into the faces of you succubi, making you worship the wizards. You will not drain all of it in time, it is too late.
>>26009553 This sort of feel resonated with me for a year.
I feel as though most relationships are temporary... I also feel greedy for wanting the relationship go my "way"; the person has the rights to do whatever they want... I feel like most people want things to be their "way' in terms of their country, nation, race, people, politics, and religion, and much more things.
I wish I could talk to someone that doesn't care about those things ^
>>26010317 You can only try one thing for so long before you give up. If something proves flawed multiple times, you just have to accept there's only one constant. If someone can only prove useful as a stepping stone or distraction, you have to accept that's all you can do. Better to just congratulate others at that point.
>>26010529 No, the feminine absorbs, the masculine generates. The only think you risk by fucking man is having too much energy which can be problematic if the energy can't properly circulate inside your body.
>>26010564 Keep trying anon. Try other ways as well.
>>26010584 Why do you think you're not good enough? Surely you're good enough for someone, the question is how can you meet this person/where does this person hides.
>>26010596 Well take your appoinments and get your lifting routine started.
>>26010638 I'd love to be your gf but I'm not a grill, dummy.
>>26010938 >I feel as though most relationships are temporary Why don't you understand that you don't have control on most things in your life? What if your place was set on fire when your out and you lost everything you own? Doesn't stops you from owning stuff.
>>26011098 I... I don't have anything useful to reply to that, anon. This world isn't fair and it sucks but I'm sure there are solutions. Maybe you just need to shift your point of view a little. Good luck?
>>26011145 I'm sorry anon. You can try to talk me into suicide if you're bored.
>>26011164 Try somewhere else? Try with a different kind of girl? T-try boys?
>>26012128 What are your stats in this domain? 5'4", 102lbs.
>>26012141 I'm sorry anon. But it's okay to start good things for the wrong reasons, or start them the wrong way, as long as you change for the better along the way. There are terrible relationships that start correctly according to your standards, and others that start for the most retarded, ridiculous, disgusting or materialistic reasons and end up being good, balanced, blissful ones.
Moral absolutism will get you nowhere in most cases, but sometimes straight to the dark side. Nowhere good anyway.
>>26013512 >We're living in the kali yuga, anon, of course it's difficult. i think giving up completely would be better. because if i try and fail i'll become discouraged. if i didn't even try then how would i know how little girls want to do with me?
I've weighed the pros and cons with the assumed chances of success and the probability that our interests could match even remotely which lead me to the result that it's not worth it. I value my own time more.
If a grill, however, wants to initiate something herself, I'll play along and see whats up. (This actually happened once but didn't lead anywhere due to various unmentioned reasons.)
for the last 6 months I've been trying to get a white chick but these bitches are stuck up and prude. seriously even the ugly ones think they're entitled to a 10/10 boyfriend. Like its no wonder most white guys gave up on white woman if this is how they act. Only reason I'm trying so hard is because I'm white and have never been with a white girl.
I have never in my life tried to approach a girl, and rejected anyone who was interested in me. I have always associated romance with fear and shame. When it comes to love, I am as knowledgeable on it as a toddler. I have no idea how relationships work, and if a gf would somehow fall into my lap I'd screw it up anyway.
On top of all this, I am extremely apathetic in general. This means that even if you showed me all the steps I need to take towards fixing myself and getting a gf, I would be too lazy to even try.
But how anon? I'm poor and socially awkward and average looking at best. How exactly would I go about getting a girlfriend? Give me some legit advice and I will go and try it. I'm in college and I don't know anyone here.
>>26013465 Tinder is a chadfucking app bro. Its for cunts to find a chad quickly and easily. That selection feature where you swipe? Thats just for women. All men always swipe left.
The pro-strat for men is to swipe left as fast as you can as often as you can. (twice a day if I remember right) Dont even look at the pictures. After literally hundreds if not thousands of girls you get a few left swipes, you can look at the matches and decide if they are gross or not. If you dont like them, just dont message them.
>>26009442 I want their money, I'm not attractive so I can't milk a women for her money. That's the only thing I want from women is their money. I have thoughts of breaking into some cunts apartment and just taking everything and selling it so I can get drunk and high.
>>26015367 Why don't you actively try to get a qt bf?
>>26015388 Why do you think I'm gone? Ur gonna b ok anon. What makes you think you can get dubs in my thread just like that tho?
>>26015546 >college I'm not knowledgeable in murrikan college life, anon, but if it's anything like in the movies, why don't you join clubs and associations and stuff, why don't you try to get involved with activities on campus? If you live on campus why don't you go out with your roommate(s)? Now is the time, anon. Whether you have to get shitfaced and summon a tinder/okcupid slut or you try to get friends and then a gf the normal way, do whatever you have to do, even if you have to use alcohol or anxiolytics.
>>26015757 I'm not in 'murrican college. I'm in europe. Not many clubs here besides the ones for very good students that go to competitions and smart shit like that, I get shit grades and barely avoid getting kicked out, no idea how I manage this as 700 people from my year got kicked already, only 250 left.
I try going out with roommates from time to time but the only place around here is a dance club. It's the worst place ever, I look like a sperg when I dance and that's the only thing you can do there as the music is so loud you can't talk. I also can't drink due to past health problems.
>>26015724 The only thing a girl or boyfriend can offer is companionship and sex, and I'm not that interested in either. If anything, a boyfriend or girlfriend would just a pain in the butt, because they'd want to do things with me and spend time with me and talk to me, it would be annoying.
>>26015804 Why don't you try activities if you have spare time? Like equestrianism (not sure if right translation), I practiced a lot for many years since I was like 8 years old and there are like 75+% of girls in this activity, and 10% gay dudes.
>>26015864 Ohh fuck. Why don't you enroll in erasmus or whatever program that ships you far away from your comfort zone? Why don't you use anxiolytics to alleviate sperginess? Why don't you just ask your roommates? Why is your uni located in the middle of nowhere?
>no idea how I manage this as 700 people from my year got kicked already, only 250 left. That's standard. You managed by not being complete shit, an immigrant going to uni just to get free government monies and then disappear, or being a wannabee warrior who thinks he can handle uni + 3jobs. Why don't you try to get better grades?
>>26015918 Why do you think people would feel bad when they see you? Why do you think they care?
>>26015937 Don't you want a regular oxytocin fix through hugging and kissing and cuddling? Don't you require said fix? Are you a reptile?
>>26015975 A girl at work tried to give me a hug on national hug day, and I declined. It's uncomfortable and unpleasant in every way, even though we get along well. Kissing sounds horrible. Cuddling can be done with a large stuffed animal. With a human, I can't imagine I would be comfortable at all. Being around others is unpleasant, so doing those kinds of things with them would surely be a bad experience.
>>26015975 I'm just ugly and have scars on my face because of my dad, looking at me would give people a bad feeling, it is a normal reaction, people like to see beautiful people and dislike seeing ugly ones. Also having no social skills would make the other person extremely uncomfortable in general, I'm not cute looking, so I'm not the cute shy guy
>>26015918 Hmmm I think that you are just imagining how they feel. This happened to me because I'm usually pretty silent, I say a joke here and there but usually when you're out with people they don't mind that you don't talk much, people generally understand that not everyone is talkative. And then after a while of going out and talking just little, people started calling me out with them and even stopped by my place as they were going out so I could hang with them. Sometimes, people are just nice and it's not often that people would actually be with you out of pitty so stop thinking that people feel bad when you are with them. As long as you are not mean to them, it's ok.
>>26016044 >And then after a while of going out and talking just little, people started calling me out with them and even stopped by my place as they were going out so I could hang with them. this part never happened for me
>>26016044 But anon, how do I even find people to go out with? I don't even have them and with all my negative traits it means that I'm a pretty lowtier friend in general, atleast 99% of people are better persons to go and hang out with, I am always serious and it is so hard for me to be "fun"
>>26015724 >Do you really think there's no one out there who can be your friend? Even if I would make a friend, it wouldn't be a friendship for a lifetime. From my experience people turn out to be assholes after some time and friendhips end instantly. As for women, I completely stopped even talking to them. They are all evil. I hate how emotionally unstable they are and how little they can care about people. Also, they lack personalities and they are not worth talking to in general. I probably look like an autist when I run away from them, but I couldn't care less.
>>26015975 >anxiolytics wow didn't know that exists. I'm only taking some calming pills that my friend recommended me and are available without prescription, they feel like very very weak weed but they help me sleep. I might visit the school shrink, she might give me some pills like that and something for concentration. I can't concentrate on studying no matter how much I try and that fucks my grades. After a year of this torture and hating myself for not studying enough, I'm starting to think that ADD is not just a meme diagnosis.
Also, I thought erasmus is only for people with good grades. I'm already abroad in this college but I might apply if they let idiots like me in. Thanks.
>>26016121 Yeah that's the biggest problem for most people, finding friends usually just happens. Join some activities, it can be anything that's done in groups, literally anything. Go help at a soup kitchen, find a group online that plays sport and ask to join them. Look up meetups of something you are interested in, I met a lot of cool people at cryptoanarchist meetup even tho I had no idea what that meant before I went there. I got invited to a dressup party just by being in a fb group for people from my country that are in this city(I live abroad) and I never even posted there. Just put yourself somewhere where you are forced to interact with people and say yes when they suggest some meetup/going to a bar/anything.
Fear of rejection/failure and fear of getting close to another person emotionally. It's why I've never tried in my existence. Those fears overshadow any supposed desires I have.
I assume if I let anyone close, they will either get repulsed or leave. I likely won't be able to support them in the way they need due to my reluctance to open up. Also the reason why I never feel very close to any of my friends/family.
>>26015724 >How can you be sure that you are able to give up completely? because there's no point in trying to jump over a 50 foot wall with just my 2 legs. i can't ever do it, i will just hurt myself so much that the pain is overwhelming. better to just sit and try to enjoy what little i have, which is a comfortable life of ease and minor luxuries
>>26015724 >Is the absence of a mate a problem for you or would you say it doesn't bother you at all? I go through times where I don't care. But yes, most of the times it eats at me. I wish I had a buddy in life, and when I'm playing with the children of my niece I wish I could be a father one day as well. But I just don't know how to get there.
>>26016357 But wouldn't they just be disgusted by me if I would appear at any meetings? I am also terrible at becoming a part of a group because I'm really quiet and don't have anything to say. Having some new member who just sits there and stares seems really weird. But still, I think I will go tomorrow afternoon to the uni and look over the group activities, maybe I find something and try it out.
>>26016453 She will never be yours, I even already preordered the limited waifu bot "Makoto edition", just give it up famalamadingo
>>26016021 Oooh you are a true schizoid who don't need no mate? W-why do you post on nogfcentral tho?
>>26016026 I'm sorry anon I'm a useless piece of shit I'm just writing what comes to my mind first. The thing is there's no easy gf that falls onto your lap chinese cartoon scenario for robots irl. So you have to be strategic in your research. Going to live in a 3rd world country is perfectly viable if what you want and need the most is a traditional virgin wife with who you can have many children. You have to change yourself or your situation.
>>26016043 Why do you assume your scars will automatically disqualify you? Why don't you try to ask someone you know and a stranger about this to have different opinions?
-stupid OP who's not God and not a magician so he can't bend the law of physics and open a wormhole between anon and his qt so they can meet each other even when there's 1000km between them.
>>26016242 I'm not telling you to become a junkie, but in certain situations meds can help. I know someone who became Chad in a few years because he would pop a xanax at key moments (presentation, incoming interaction with a qt, etc.) and he could deal with situations the few first times, and get experience (confidence=experience) then he ditched the pills. Meds are just tools. Just don't stay inside, don't give up, this is a critical time. Don't take the path of least resistance. Good luck, anon.
>>26016341 I'm sure you can find a conservative qt somewhere.
>>26016373 No one enjoys my threads, I make shitty threads. I don't even know why so many anons posted here. At least you can be sure that I read every single post and think about them for a few minutes each.
>>26016383 Would you be mad if I put lsd in your glass of apple juice without you knowing? Hypothetical situation. Maybe someone just needs to kick you out of your comfort zone. That's modern life, the illusion of security, stability, too much comfort... It kills us.
>>26016410 But I'm the biggest avatarfag anon. I just find avatarfagging a little less obnoxious than tripfagging for some reason.
>>26016749 I'm sorry anon. At least if you don't want one I guess that's one problem you don't have.
>>26016925 That's a very bold comparison, anon. But I guess that's one way of looking at it. The conflict between our expectations and reality can be tiring and stressful, maybe it's better to just let go and enjoy what we have.
>>26016938 The ways of getting there can differ according to your situation. You don't have the same options if you're rich NEET, poor NEET, wageslave, military... What's your situation, anon?
>>26017174 Living in a third world country i can tell you that >Is perfectly viable Only if you somehow manage to keep your salary from your home country, cost of living is cheaper but salaries are low. Why do you think so many, for example, indians jump at the chance to work over the phone for an american company?
>traditional virgin wife What?
>with who you can have many children. Very doable.
>>26017100 Well you ain't gonna just sit and stare. That's just you making shit up. You are going to do the activity. You ain't there to talk, you are there to do shit, conversations spark up by themselves when you do something with other people. You have to talk when you do a group activity, that's the "trick". Usually people even encourage you to talk. No fear m8, you will do just alright.
>>26017174 Not saying that the scars automatically disqualify me, but I'm undesirable in every way like I said before, so many negative traits which make people dislike you. And asking my parents or strangers for an opinion about my looks would be dumb, everyone tries to be polite, so I won't get a true opinion
>>26017217 >What's your situation, anon? I failed uni, NEETed for a couple of years, but now I'm trying uni again (thanks nanny state). If I finish my education I can at least look forward to financial security. Most of my problems are fixable, but I just can't find the motivation to do it. I'm not completely hopeless I guess, outside of romance that is.
>>26015724 >How can you be certain that your calculations are correct?
Because the range of things that interest me is pretty narrow and I've never ever met any girl irl who would take any interest in those things.(Video games for hobbies that is.) I measure that by how much they would contribute to the ongoing conversation of that particular subject. That essentially sets my initial chances of success so close to zero that the expectation value of the outcome is almost certainly "waste of my time."
>>26017174 >Fair enough. Would you say that making a tulpa is a sustainable strategy? I guess so. I don't care at all about relationships with other people, but it's sad that I can't tell people that I'm in a relationship with someone in my head. It's sad that I can't tell people who expect me to get a gf and start family about the person that I love.
>>26018137 How would you know if you are not into it if you don't let me feminize you and make you get rid of every trace of masculine behavior on you, to make you into my personal fucktoy and discard you when i find someone better? It might be your fetish... I will cook for you even.
>>26017203 Yet you are here with us, interacting. How can you be sure that this isn't a coping strategy?
>>26017247 I'm sure there are a lot of places where you could go. So you must like it here!
>>26017258 I used to be an erp retard but stopped. I mean, I'm still a retard obviously but I stopped erping.
>>26017260 >why do you think so many, for example, indians jump at the chance to work over the phone for an american company? Because humans always want more. Maybe Pajeet wants to buy 2 iPads instead of 1, maybe he wants a new car, maybe he wants to send his son to university, who knows, but humans always go for growth and expansion. Whether all this shit is necessary or not is a point of view. So yes, they want more money, obviously. I remember the story of that one indian guy who sold one of his kidneys to buy an iPad.
>What? Eh, there are a lot of 3rd world countries I guess it's not the same everywhere.
>>26017276 I am a tragedy, and I hate myself. W-wait scratch that, it's too edgy. I'm just a simpleton who likes happy endings.
>>26017480 At least you tried. Now try the other thing. Good luck anon.
>>26017481 Anon, there is no shortage of documentation about this.
>>26017482 That is unfortunate. Are you sure she doesn't care?
>>26017502 That's interesting. Well don't be too hard on yourself, you tried.
>>26017507 >but now I'm trying uni again There you go, this time make sure you succeed. Why did you fail? I don't like suggesting this but maybe you should check if you have ADD and get prescribed some pills (don't), at least try to identify why you can't bring yourself to give a fuck about uni. Do you like what you're studying?
>>26018311 That's not that bad. Same case here. The main problem I was getting at is the clique shit where the they obviously come from steam/another place and only talk amongst themselves. That doesn't have any reason to be here and all it does it shit up the board.
>>26018311 >Eh, there are a lot of 3rd world countries I guess it's not the same everywhere. If you want he "Europe-lite" experience of living in a 3rd world country you can try Brazil, Chile or Argentina. If you don't stray too far from the capitols then it is like Europe, except everyone is a manlet (Seriously, at 6" i am an absolute giant). In those countries the average age for women to lose their virginities is around 12-15 (Pay no mind to the "official" polls, whose are shit.), your dreams of getting a virgin are impossible. Rest of South America is shitty or under heavy economic reestructuring, i would not recommend moving in right now. If you are willing to move to a hard-mode place then Africa... Well, good luck finding something not raped. Can't comment on the Middle Eastern or Southeast Asia. A girl from there would be nice, thought. All cute and petite.
>Why don't you even try to get a girlfriend? It seems like a hassle because: 1. You have to find a girl who likes you enough to give you the chance to woo her enough to become your gf. After all that, you still have to see if she's worth the effort. That seems too tedious for a specious reward.
2. To get past the first step of finding a girl who likes you have to decode their passive, indirect and easily misconstrued signals.
3. She may not actually like me! She could be trying to take advantage of me for a host of reasons.
4. I got a gf, now what? The wooing doesn't stop! In fact girls expect even more of my time, money (in the form of gifts and outings) and emotional support than before.
5. The returns are negligible. I've known enough couples to know that girls don't exchange fairly or in kind. If I need emotional support I'm better off going to my friends because girls don't actually know how to deal with these things. At best girls cry and you end up having calm them down. At worst they ridicule you and heap more misery onto the situation.
6. Love is fleeting, girlfriendship even more so. Eventually she or I will become disinterested in the other or more interested in someone else, causing a painful breakup. If it is nearly guaranteed to end badly why start? Why should I waste my time? I am not someone who can live in the moment; having fun while it lasts is not possible. I like progression.
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