It's very unlikely since I've given up on dating entirely. If you aren't Chad there is still hope for you, but you have to put in a ton of fucking effort, which I'm not willing to do just for women. Not worth the trouble. Wizardry here I come.
Yeah, unfortunately my years of moping have probably been here for no reason. I've already got it in my head how I'll be thinking that everything turned out alright in the end, and that I really just needed to grow up more before I was ready.
I'm almost 30 and can say with near certainty that I will never have a gf. I'm brown, only attracted to white and asian girls, and am an extremely critical asshole. I've only recently finished my AS and have been without a job for almost 9 years. I don't like to talk about hobbies and interests because frankly I find other people's opinions hollow and empty. I'd much read a book on film analysis than talk with one of my friends about the latest Star Wars/capeshit, even though I enjoy them.
>>25998779 Congratulations Wagecuck, hopefully you will meet people and make interests that fulfill you. >>25998810 >>25998881 Don't live in despair, even if you're depressed there are antidepressants, it doesn't make sense not to medicate if your disorder is affecting your life this severely. Putting in work doesn't guarantee success but it's an opportunity to improve the world around you. It's about meeting people and living life to the fullest.
>>25999022 Then make an effort to meet people. Join a club or something, you'll never get anywhere if you don't take that first step to forming friendships. It's a risk worth taking anon, you can save yourself.
>>25995137 Who cares about gf? When you weight cons and pros it's bad investition in the long run. Pump & dump is current motion but if you're not Chad the you have no chance. I'll kill myself after parents death and i'll descend into blissful void.
>>25999074 I have graduated from college already, it's not like I have never left the house. I don't have the capacity to form meaningful connections with other people and my weird personality puts girls off.
At this point I have 0 self esteem, sure there are meetups and whatnot, but the idea of attending one of these things when you feel like a disposable alien is very unsettling.
>>25999096 The world around you is your life. Cocoon mode robots think that if they just improve themselves that they'll be happy, but the key to happiness is forming support groups and making friends. I think one of the most important things is learning to make casual friendships that aren't 24/7 talking and banter, you need to have people you only see at work, school, etc. >>25999131 I know it's unsettling, if you're looking for relationships you have to take risks and put yourself out there. It's not always easy. You can always get inebriated at a bar and try to talk to people there.
>>25995137 I don't know, just speaking logistically it's quite unlikely seeing as I almost never interact with women anymore other than cashiers I don't really have a problem with the loneliness, sure I'd love to have a gf to spend time with and do cute shit together but I can easily live without that My real problem is pride, my few friends and family probably laugh about me already for being such a loser in their eyes Ideally I'll just leave them all behind and live alone, but sorting that out is difficult
>>25999226 >I know it's unsettling, if you're looking for relationships you have to take risks and put yourself out there. It's not always easy. You can always get inebriated at a bar and try to talk to people there. I don't think you quite get the mindset, you are telling me to snap out of it
If it was that easy I wouldn't be in this situation to begin with
>>25999249 Eh, I'm 6'2 with a decent face and I'm 17 pounds away from a BMI of 23. I'm incredibly awkward with new people but I'm sure I'll get better. If I've never had a girlfriend at 21 I'll be pretty depressed.
>>25999251 I'm not telling you to snap out of it. I've been in your situation, nothing improves immediately. But just try, that's all I'm asking of you. Anon there is so much to life, and every minute you spend saying that you can't do it, you're wasting more opportunities. Believe in yourself anon, and just fight.
>>25998666 Lemme break it down for you. interviews don't go well for robots but lets assume we could get a job. >minimum wage >can't afford to live alone off that (at least where I'm from) >small chance you'll ever get promoted from that job The only difference is you will add work to your already miserable life.
Story time Throughout school I was nerd who never had any interest from girls. I had a friend. A girl. I loved her but we were best friends. Final year of school I told her, she flat out rejected me. She didn't find me attractive, I was friendzoned. Even posted about it here once years back.
On that night I stood in front of the mirror and said I'd get hot. Go to the gym, learn /fa/ learn how to fuck a girl.
I continued to be the best friend, gave her advice a shoulder to cry on. Continued being flirty as we always had.
It took a few years, we left school went to separate parts of the country. We still met up every 6 months or so to cuddle and watch a movie. Even stayed round hers and slept in the same bed once.
Last month she invited me to stay with her a few days, show me the city. She had just broken up with her boyfriend before. It was coming up to my anniversary with my current girlfriend.
A few days before she told me she was seeing her ex, but they were still not back together. But being exclusive.
I arrived, we went to dinner, it was nice. I missed seeing her, having her focus on only me. I'd forget about her sometimes, but when I'm with her I'm 14 again. We went back to her's and drank while watching TV.
After awhile we went to town, bar crawled. As we got drunk we started talking about other things. She wanted to know about my various more exotic encounters and life style.
We stayed out til 1am and were fucked on whsiky and cocktails. We got a taxi back, got ready for bed, got more whisky and drank while watching TV. Eventually I started to fall asleep. She got up to turn everything off and when she got back I was half asleep and grabbed her towards me.
She slightly protested and I said "its your fault for being so comfy". She relented and she cuddles tightly. I was still half asleep, I shifted position as if she were my girlfriend so my dick was pressing up between her legs, with her legs around me. 1/2)
>>25995137 Slim chances 23, kv, history of multiple suicides in family (thank you sis for having me watch you shoot yourself) and friends Just out of therapy for depression dysthymia and anxiety, however with little effect. Tbh im fucked
>>25998666 I'm a robot and I have put in work. I started dressing better, I started eating better, I got a well-paying job - the simple fact is that being ugly, awkward, and boring guarantees that no girl will ever be interested in me, and no amount of self improvement can change those. They're just inherent parts of who I am.
No, the way I developed growing up, I might as well have been raised by wolves. Thinking of how I act in social situations and by myself I don't think anyone can tolerate me. I think if I was out of my body and forced to be around myself I couldn't do it.
>>25999555 I was basically on top of the girl I had always loved.
I remember my heart thumping in my chest, I had realised what I had done and thought she'd throw me off.
She put her hand on my and said " I can feel your heart" I later realised that was the best thing that could of happened, she loves heart beats. She once commented how she felt a connection when she felt someone's heart beating.
I don't know who started it. But suddenly we were grinding. Small at first, but as my cock grew (I'm quite large) it got more intense. She muttered a something about my girlfriend but I shushed her. I kissed her neck and she squeezed my muscles, she always loved muscles. I whispered into her ear "do you want me to fuck you?"
She breathed back a yes forcing her tounge in my mouth
Suddenly I was pulling her bottoms off and my face was hurried between her legs and she was moaning.
I can't take any more so I loose my clothes. She giggled and said "I've never seen you naked before"
She grabbed my cock and jammed it into her. Quite a feat as she's short and I'm over 8". I had never had a girl take me so well. I gasped a holy shit. We kissed deep over and over. And we thrust our hips together.
And just as quick as it started.
I shakes her head and said she can't do this.
I pull out and stroke her hair. And ask what's wrong. "I can't do this to him" and she runs naked out the room.
After a few seconds I put back some bottoms on and grab her clothes and follow her. She in the other room in the bed crying. I sit next to her and she grabs me and and cries.
The only girl I've loved is crying because she had sex with me. She says she wants to sleep alone so I go back to her room while she stays there. I don't sleep well.
The next morning she doesn't get up until 12, which is completely unlike her.
She seems fine, and we agree not to tell anyone. We make a few jokes about it throughout the day.
>>25999808 25, already tried it once before but didn't do it, that should tell you all As for getting a gf, I had one good run, resulting in a mental breakdown after a week and her fucking the next guy within 2 days... I'm not even interested in girls anymore, feels like it's just not worth the trouble. Anhero is not an option, I don't want to put others through this mess again
If someone could spend enough time around me yes. I'm quite well adjusted really but I just have no confidence and for the life of me have never been able to build any or trick myself into projecting it. I've had such a shitty time growing up and its taken a lot of effort to try and remold myself
My posture and demeanour just oozes awkwardness still. I'm 26 and am still working on keeping my gaze level when walking down the road. Rarely get harassed these days so something must have improved
I have hope, I'm only just building my career right now after battling depression for years, things are looking up though I'm feeling worn out
>>25995137 I was contemplating this recently, and I realised I have a decent shot at getting with a girl. Saying this I don't ever see myself with eventually having a gf progressing onto a wife etc. I'm generally too self centered, aswell as I have pretty fucking bad social anxiety and I've recently developed a stutter, which is brought out at the worst of times. Ontop of this my standards are way too high which relates to the self centered mindset.
tldr; too wrapped up in my own mind for anyone else
>>25995137 No. Just no. None of the typical /r9k/ excuses apply to me (ugly, manlet, dicklet, fat and so on), but still, NO. I'm completely disconnected from people my age and it only gets worse every year. I'm even starting to get some sort of feeling of satisfaction and pride from this. I'm too fucking far gone, that's it.
>>26002217 I am the same way, but to a lesser extent. For example, if someone died and their family member asked if I thought they were in a better place, I would say yes, but afterward feel like shit for misrepresenting myself.
>>26003136 It's not confidence, though. I'm just being realistic. If I was ugly as fuck or dumb as a brick I'd have less hope, but the only thing wrong with me is my mind. I'm sure someone out there wont care about that.
i consider myself like a 7.5/10 and i've pulled in ~50 tinder likes in about a month or so and i'm a very fun and lively person when i'm drunk with people. still no gf. i thought she would come last semester but she didn't. how do i gf.
>>26003320 What are your tinder profile pics? I'm assuming they aren't all selfies based on the number of matches, which implies you are socially active go out with friends on a regular basis. So why are you here to begin with?
First, I was 14 and I told myself I'd get a gf by 16. 16 became 18. 18 became before graduating high school. Then before I leave for college. Then by Christmas break. Then by end of freshman year. Then before 20. Then before 21. Maybe this will finally be the year? I doubt it though.
>>26003267 I'm 19, I'll be 20 in a couple of months. I hung out with a girl I made out with a couple of times around three years ago, we went to the park. I think that counts as a date. I've kissed several girls, only one being sober tho. I'll start going to university in March, last year I NEET'd. I'm 5'7'' and average? I exercise a lot but I'm not muscular, I'm slightly more athletic than the average person I guess but I don't stand out. Hope this helps.
Maybe. I'm working on this 6/10 Chinese girl at work. Not the best looking thing but I'm gonna go for it. She's never in the office so its hard to connect. Gonna ask for her phone number once my internship is up.
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