>be attractive >have a chance with girls >date super qt >there are hundreds of guys aggressively trying to fuck her and get her to dump you >don't be okay with this >she pulls the "it's 2016" card >"they're just my friends, I can talk to whomever I want" >she's either really stupid or she's lying to you >dump her for whichever reason >rinse and repeat
>>25970941 My parents told me that accutane will make me kill muself because of some scary article on the internet that's totally backed by science. They never let me get it and now that I'm 18 I need to save up and get a prescription in secret (they said if they catch me then I'll be thrown out).
>almost 26 >tell my family i wanna go somewhere with them [it is some place me bro and his tumblr gf are gunna get married at] >get dressed >mom opens my door and tells me i cannot go because of my hair and beard >says then help me shave me beard >she yells at me that there is no time and leaves >gets back in lounge pants
i guess i will have no time to go to their wedding next year and close me apartment door. ;]
>be me >be Orthodox >khv with autism and social anxiety >religion (correctly) doesn't allow fornication >every woman in this country is a slut >as a result want to be celibate for life >celibacy is a sin (unless you are a monk) because the Lord said to go forth and multiply >monks sleep like 4 hours a day and spend 8 hours a day chanting >no internet for monks either >regular priests have to either marry or also be a monk >tfw stuck committing sin and being unable to do anything about it Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.
>Chad comes on r9k >"These guys are sad sometimes just like me!" >"Look guys, being a Chad isn't all great. Sometimes my dick gets sore from fucking so many women. Sometimes I'm too tired from sexual romps to study for my exams!. It's not all great!" >He clicks [Post] with confidence, thinking we can rest our heads knowing the life of a Chad is wrought with pain and suffering
>>25971112 If you think that is sad, how about hear about some of our lives:
>wake up at 9 am >go to class for two hours >eat >shitpost for two hours >go to class again for three hours >shitpost for a few hours >eat again >shitpost and play CKII until about 2 am >shower >go to bed >repeat every day, except for weekends, which are just shitposting and CKII from 11 am to 3 am.
And my life isn't even one of the shitty ones on here.
>>25971228 sounds like you're doing okay in school and you'll probably have a career and have a real chance at having a family. You could the rest of your 20s and 30s just single and going out, flaunting your status and slutting it up and then settle down way later in life. That doesn't sound that bad to me. What you should have is hope, because you're going somewhere.
No, there isn't. You live a better, happier life than most people here. There's no need to feel sorry for it. You don't have to level with us by exposing your minuscule issues. Basic emotional and sexual connections are alien to us.
>people always see what they don't have and think it's much better,
Yeah, I'm sure all those millionaires are really envious of someone's trailer house. Please fuck off and never return.
>these guys are being ironic >there are actually people out there who genuinely act like this
Just imagine >have a son >so many dreams and hopes >sicke, he's a fucking loser who still lives at home at 20 something >you put up with it because you genuinelly think he's still good >he's an ungrateful little shit
>25 kissless virgin >mom: You're the most handsome out of all your cousins >I'm literally the shortest out of all of them while most of my female cousins are taller than me >have a 4" dick that can barely stay hard >50 lbs overweight >dumb as fuck >non-existent social skills >literally wear the same 6 articles of clothing throughout the year >no muscles, posture is all fucked up from sitting on my ass 24/7 Poor mom, she's literally deluded herself into thinking here loser son is the most handsome to bury the fact that I'm a colossal fuck up.
Yeah, my mom doesn't ever say this or ever bring up the whole dating/ sex thing. she knows I'm uncomfortable with it all because i got diddled and had a person force themselves on me when I was 14. At least my siblings gave her the grandchildren she wants.
>>25969629 >me - 26 khv, quite normie hobbies - games, music, movies, motorcycles, no interest in anime or any particular autistic obsession
>19 cyborg brother who is fully in to romantic anime (he hoards gigs of it) and shags his anime girl pillow (not sure how that thing is called) >he leaves the house only because of school
>brother's friend is trying to persuade him to go with him to the school prom >he's literally dragging my brother away from his computer >he's angry because he has to leave his virtual waifu land
>fast forward few hours
>brother calls home, says he's going to sleep there >he's drunk as fuck, for the first time ever >explains some girl he met there rented a hotel room for them >mom wishes him luck and tells him about to not forget on protection
>she gives me that reconciled look >i just want to cry now
the greatest thing about my relationship with my mom is she never asks me about my personal relationships. She's just like me- distant, cold and loving. I know she cares a lot about me but she doesn't want to involve herself in my personal life so she never prods me about it.
>>25971602 You know how doctors sometimes perscribe pills to people with "backpains"? Those people sometimes end up addicted to said pills.
My parents are retards who think that those pills are on par, or hell, worse than opiates. They read some article that some kid jumped in front of a train and he happened to be taking accutane. They also think it will fuck up my liver.
Not to mention, their acne advice is total shit. >just wash your face lol I do, it's not that fucking simple.
But yeah, if I start taking that medicine, they feel like they would be supporting a junkie.
>>25971402 >Take no responsibility for how you've raised your children >... Well it kinda ends there. Everything you do after that is like poking your ass and then poking your nose right after. Disgusting and sad.
>>25971738 My acne isn't bad enough to take accutane, it's mostly just small pimples now but I still get enough of them to fuck my shit up. At least they don't leave scars. I've thought about taking accutane but the side effects sound worse or at least on par with the acne so why bother trading one problem for another.
>>25971837 Did he call you pumpkin? Or was it a she? Did she call you pumpkin? Did she have a big old people zit on her nose? One of those that just keep growing and never go away? Did she whisper into your ear "shh, nobody's around now." Did she?
>>25972140 Why would my peers avoid me? If anything I avoid them. I really only get along with people who have an autistic obsession with history, which is maybe like 1% of the population, so why go through the effort of making a large circle of friends if 99/100 times it will fail miserably? And a gf would be an even bigger problem due to the already laid-out reasons.
>sister says you could be a real ladies man >tells you to lose weight and slightly muscle up a bit and exercise.
She says this because I have moderately broad shoulders and I'm 5'11. I actually feel some real shame when I call myself ugly because I feel like I'm calling my dad and grandfather ugly considering I look very similar to them.
>>25972230 >arbitrary They aren't. >complains he can't do them I'm complaining that I'm the only one in this country that follows them, and therefore am virtually at a loss to find companionship because people don't >your own moral code i.e. much more arbitrary rules based on muh feelings >than follow a religion Enjoy your hellfire and cheating wife, you cuckhold.
>>25972165 Oh, spare me. I rather wear a funny hat than talk to a presumptuous bigot who must preemptively insult people before a discussion has even begun.
>>25972218 If your autistic obsession with history is what keeps you from relating to other people then that's the problem, not other people. Instead you shield this addiction by declaring your peers sour grapes. And it makes you terribly dull. Obviously no one wants to hang out with someone as boring as you. How about broadening your interests?
>tried cutting my own hair today >it was past my shoulders, cut it almost all off >mom found me and got mad >sent me with dad to haircut place >middle aged lady "fixing" my hair says I have beautiful eyes and that I should wear my hair swept back because I have a nice face >she dodges the question and stops talking after I ask if she would let me marry her daughter
>>25972401 >calling me the bigot who preemptively insults people >insulted my religious beliefs before I had said anything
>broadening your interests What is this normie meme? You're either interested in something or not. If you aren't, then you're just not interested in it, and I have no plans to pretend to enjoy things I hate (e.g. partying, sports, etc.) to get friends I don't even like.
Also >acting like I go around insulting people What part of not having spoken to a peer in 6 months have you not gotten?
>>25971738 Accutane was a life saver for me and I recommend you get a script asap. I didn't start it until 23 and I have so much scarring because of my severe cystic acne. I won't deny that it has bad side effects though, but they're worth it considering how bad acne destroys your self esteem.
>>25972661 Lmao baka. No you don't. Take her out to fun things like bowling or something. I've never gone to a club with a girl I was interested in, let alone a gf.
Also as much as you morons want to believe, there are relatively nice girls. That are loyal and aren't obsessed with "chads" and other retarded redpill bullshit. I mean, there probably are girls like redpill describes, but I don't know any.
>>25972713 Well I'm not full robot like most people here, but I'm not quite at normie level social skills. I feel like I could be if I wasn't ugly because it seems that people judge me a bit unfairly based on my ugliness. What do you think?
>>25972848 Everyone has secrets. A lot of these "nice girls" would probably dump you if they found you posting on /r9k/. These girls probably aren't open about this stuff to you, but that doesn't mean they're not thinking it.
>>25972933 Dumping someone because they post on a forum essentially dedicated to hating women seems kinda reasonable. Assuming you didn't explain it to them. You don't even refute what I said. I said they were nice and wouldn't cheat on you or chase "Chads". I never said they wouldn't dump you for weird reasons.
Whatever though, think what you want. I'll be with my gf :^)
>>25972872 you would find it difficult to accept people when they treat you fairly or even favourably.
you might carry with you for a long time an expectation that people will be hostile, passive-aggressive, untrustworthy, etc. when often they are not. even processing this fact in real-time will not change they way you interpret things.
>>25973409 >you would find it difficult to accept people when they treat you fairly or even favourably. I've been ugly my whole life, enought to know that people tend to only care about non-ugly people, and are generallh selfish. I've already kind of accepted this, and I honestly just want to become attractive to get more money and benefit myself, but yeah being able to fuck girls on the side would be nice.
>>25973553 Assuming you're not baiting, how realistic is it that I can become a model if my face isn't that great? I'm going to go to the gym and get shredded, I was thinking I could model underwear or diet programs or some shit and they could crop out my face.
By the way, I'm 6'1" and i have blond hair and blue eyes, but my acne is fucking me up and my jawline is shit.
>>25973669 >tfw also 6'1" with blue eyes but dirty blonde hair and acne I swear there's a connection between height and acne. How old are you though? I'm 22 and still fucking get it, none of my friends do either. Even the ones that used to don't get it anymore.
>>25973825 I lost my virginity and 20 but I haven't had sex since. Also the strong jawline thing is just a meme, you don't have to have that to get laid.
>>25973844 I'm taller than all my friends and none of them get it. The only ones that used to were also at least 6 feet tall. It definitely is genetic though even though neither of my parents ever got it.
>>25973904 I feel like a manly jawline definitely helps. I would have grown a beard to hide it but A) I went to a Catholic school that had a shitty anti-beard rule and B) my beard looks like I glued blond pubes to my face.
>>25971028 Been there and done that, any attractive girl is bound to have orbiters and she absolutely will love the attention she gets from them even while dating you. They pretend like they are just friends and that it's no big deal but inside they know if the shoe was on the other foot they would be pissed and they just do it for the ego boost. 99% of women I have met cannot be trusted, I keep hearingthis bullshit about how not all girls are the same. Well where are the ones with morals that won't go behind your back for attention?
>>25972823 I was unlucky and I experienced some long term side effects such as weak joints and I get these ingrown hair/cyst type things on my legs. I'm just thankful that they aren't on my face, but they're incredibly uncomfortable and sensitive to any type of pressure. Right now I have one that's about an inch above my dick, buried under my pubes. After a few weeks they ooze a mixture of blood and pus, it's quite disgusting. As for during my regimen, I experienced dry lips and skin, increased susceptibility to sunburn, as well as decreased energy and motivation. Those side effects were gone shortly after I stopped taking it. But chances are you won't have any long term side effects; I've known several people who've taken accutane and haven't gotten the long term side effects that I endure. Regardless, I still strongly suggest that you get on accutane before your face gets even worse. My skin got incredibly bad at 21 so I have a lot of regrets of not getting on accutane at 14, when I first started getting break outs.
Wow these threads would be sad if they weren't so funny. Guys its not hard to make friends, all you have to do is be confident and act like the person you really are deep down inside. People are attracted to others who act like genuine people, and who don't try and pretend to be a "Chad" or "Stacy," the only person who can change your situation is you!
You know, I know how it feels to be an outcast, I had maybe five close buds in HS who I'd see most weekends, and probably talked to only 11ish girls all throughout. Didn't have my first kiss till 18 or a serious GF till 20, now I'm a few years older and am in an ltr and couldn't be happier! It took a lot of effort to dig myself out but again, if you're willing to change yourself it's easy! Just be confident and be happy and you will be!
>20 in a month >still live with parents >go to community college >still have my student driver license so mommy had to come with me everywhere >school, home, repeat >no friends >everyone from high school posting about how much fun they're having and how independent they are >can go weeks without talking to anyone I'm not related to >5'0 108lb womanlet I-It'll get better if I can somehow transfer to a real college right?
>>25977793 First year of college I ended up in the same local college as like 90% of all the shithead kids from high school that I wasn't friends with in the first place, I dropped out, worked full time for a year, and then went to another college 20 miles away.
I was shy and nervous at first but within a couple of semester I had more friends than i could manage. A change of scene is sometimes all you really need.
Mother said i could be a model and that i'm good looking a few times. But I just can't take it seriously. She got pissed once when I kinda told her it doesn't mean very much since she is my mother. Oh well. 3 years till magic powers.
>>25978236 You might be onto something. When I asked my mom to put me on acne medication, she was all like "you look fine!" Meanwhile I have an oily as fuck face with tons of breakouts that sting like a bitch. Anyone else who looked at me fucking knew what a loser I was.
>>25978556 Yah I think for 2 reasons. First the shallow reason which is it hurts their ego. Since we are a direct reflection of them, they need us to validate theirselves.
The 2nd reason is strong love. Mothers usually love so deeply they literally cant see how fucked up we are. It's not that they are lying to us, its they really can't see it. I think they are programmed that way.
My mom has been worried about me lately. She calls and messages a lot cause she knows i'm pretty lonely and depressed.
She gives the standard just put yourself out there shit. She doesnt understand how easy it is for women vs. men.
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