How do you become indifferent about it? I want to be able to ignore my desire for companionship since it only makes me feel worse but don't know how to go about it. I've tried 2D but can't force myself to love something that I know isn't real
>>25960537 Yeah. I've never had a particularly strong sex-drive, and masturbation is more than adequate when I want to get off. I'm just sad about a lack of companionship. I honestly believe I'd be fine with just a good friendship. Unfortunately, I have no relationships of any kind.
Right. You have figured me out. Yes, I am a woman who is jealous of the girl who has posted. Jesus christ, robots are stupid. These same people are surprised that they have no friends and that women don't like them. You should know exactly why you're alone.
>>25960675 >It's instinct. Not the anon you're replying to, but the one he replied to. I'm pretty sure that the problem with loneliness is the lack of intimacy, whatever it is. Hugs are probably enough to survive in this regard since they get you your oxytocin fix. Your mind gets that your people care about you and you belong to a group.
>There is no culture about it. Sooner or later you will feel like a failure for not doing what you were created to do. Re-read what you just wrote. "feeling like a failure" and "not doing what you were created for" are cultural concepts. The mammal doesn't give a fuck about that. I feel bad because I don't get to hold someone close because it fucks up my brain chemistry over time until I become crazy and let myself die. Whether you stick your pee pee in someone's vag, butthole, mouth, or you just hold them in your arms probably makes no difference in this regard.
>>25960675 I was implying that western life is cold and impersonal and bad at satisfying the need for companionship. If you lived in a normal culture you'd see most of your family every day and if you took the bus somewhere strangers would sit next to you and talk. In western culture people are divided into small apartments with max four people each.
Do you even see what you're doing? You're white knighting a chick that you don't even know and that would laugh in your face if you asked her out. That's how much of a fucking beta you are. Your "dream girl" is more likely to end up with me than your stupid ass.
>>25960537 I was a virgin until 22. I won't lie, it botherd my deeply. The one thing I regret in life is not starting having sex earlier. It's all so easy and in retropsect I could have had sex with at least a dozen of girls before I actually finally lost my v-card. I hate my old spergy self.
>>25960537 20 and a virgin. I just bought a piece of property to live off the grid, so it's highly unlikely that it's going to change any time soon. I used to masturbate a lot, specifically to get the sexual desire out so I didn't end up fucking a hooker or something, but I've been getting really spiritual lately and it's helping me give up a lot of my animalistic tendencies. I'm down to masturbating about once a week, hopefully I'll cut it down even more sooner than later. I want to go completely celibate like a monk eventually. Sexual urges just feels like baggage weighing me down with no real benefits.
It's hilarious that you have to make shit up because you couldn't insult me otherwise. Do you really think that you could get a girlfriend when this is how you treat not just women, but people in general?
When this argument is over, you'll still be stupid and alone. Better just cut your losses now instead of embarrassing yourself further.
24 and I'm not bothered about it. It seems like quite a primitive thing to want on its own to me. I'd start thinking about it if I got into a relationship but without that it feels pretty trivial when I've got other things I should be doing
>>25960820 The first time itself wasn't that great because of anxiety + condom. To be honest, I had a "What this is it? This is what everybody loses their shit about?" kind of moment.
But it was a huge weight off of my shoulder. Also the girl and I continued to have sex for around 3 months, and sex quickly became better. It takes some time until you can really relax and start to enjoy it (at least it did for me). Also, it gets better as you get to know your partner.
Not my fault I'm the kind of guy who would throw a brick at your head for slapping my girls ass at a club, while you on the other hand (If you were a man) would just stand there and ask the guy if he enjoyed and if he wanted to do it again since you're a low-test cuck.
You're calling me low-test when you use the line >a perfect slim girl who is literal perfection. Do you even know how stupid you sound? Also, where the fuck would you get a brick inside a club. Have you ever BEEN to a club?
>>25961016 I'm replying to tell him he's a fucking moron because he is. You think retards should just be ignored? No. They need to be put in their place so they post less.
>>25960537 >and I feel fine. He says, as he makes a thread to reassure himself that he's fine and posts one of the thousands of pornographic pictures on his hdd, symptoms his a porn addiction and general obsession with sex.
Any time a girl says >"Well I'm not a shut-in loser who will never get a girlfriend, so HA!" She immediately lost. Pack your bags, laugh, and leave. Let her flail her arms at you, trying to shout away all her insecurities.
>>25961135 You DO know that they know that, and at least they have the mindset of "I'll work my way there"
That will involve some letting go of negative traits, but lol, you on the other hand, want him to think you're "alright". You want his approval, and can't deal with being in the same competition as OP's image.
This is why men are better than you specifically- we're able to deal with our own range of expectations without demanding so much out of everyone else.
>>25961165 >You DO know that they know that, and at least they have the mindset of "I'll work my way there" >they have the mindset of "I'll work my way there"
Really, you're saying that robots have this mindset? Because they don't. Their mindset is more like "life sucks, i dont want to do anything except shitpost on r9k, tfw no gf". People like you don't try to improve AT ALL.
Also, you're still pretending like I'm a woman. It's kind of sad that you can't tell the difference between a man and a woman from text alone. A woman would probably have given up by now because she'd rather get attention from her beta orbiters than some random moron in an r9k thread.
>>25961037 Yes, I feel way more relaxed around beautiful girls and flirting and everything feels much more natural to me now. But I guess that is to be expected, isn't it? I mean experience is the best teacher (or how the saying goes.)
The longing for pussy doesn't get any less. But at least it doens't make me feel depressed anymore but gives me a reason to act daring and flirty.
>>25961196 Sure, some guys might not be trying to improve, some still have hope, and some are already on their path to success.
But we can all admire perfection. Just because someone is ugly, they can't admire the idea behind success? This is a "man, if I won the lottery..." sort of situation.
You are SOOOOO obviously a girl. Guys understand the nature of OP's post- unless you're some kind of nu-male pathetic white knight, you are obviously a girl who is jealous that she can't compete with these standards.
Guys on here have dealt with the guy equivalent of "haha, wow, look at this manly perfection. This is pretty much the average, and if you can't compete well too bad you don't deserve to live." All of us had our fair share of raging, but now we've moved onto the acceptance stage where that shit doesn't bother us anymore.
Unlike you, lol So you must be new, a reeeeeaaally pathetic nu-male, or a dumb roastie. Literally no other options.
eh, the only circumstance I can recall and am aware of I could have lost the V card was with some girl that very obviously got around in frickin middle school no less, and two years after she showed interest she was walking around high school pregnant
she later harassed me in college after I came out of a lecture with a satisfied look on my face (I guess?) and whined about her boyfriend (while she was clearly pregnant a second time) having a broken down truck and other nonsense that really caught me off guard, would be surprised if my face conveyed anything other than "what the hell"
people can lmao all they want at my vcard but my life didn't get fucked for it
>>25961273 You are actually pathetic now. I don't even want to bait you any further, because it seems like you ACTUALLY think you have a point. Why hasn't it become clear to you how fucking pathetic you are? Are you THAT full of narcissism?
>>25961283 Why would I need to compete with a woman? How do you people even function in society? Oh wait, you can't and that's the problem.
Now that I think about it, you aren't white knights. Because you're attacking me (when you think I'm female) and defending a picture. So... you're just robots, I guess. Very stupid robots.
>>25961303 I do have a point. My point is that you are an idiot. This entire argument started when I said the girl looked like a hooker, which was just my observation. Then a bunch of shit eaters flooded me with
>UR JUST A JEALOUS ROASTIE >:(
So yeah, I do have a point. The point is that you're all idiots defending a fucking picture.
>>25961312 The hooker comment is the equivalent to some guy going like
"Pff, I bet [pic related] is just some dumb asshole who will just pump n' dump and abuse women. They won't actually care, like I do. I bet all he does is play sports and has no real depth, at all. I can't believe women would find this kind of guy attractive, I mean it really speaks to how pathetic they are."
That is you. That is how a defensive pathetic idiot sounds like.
>>25961386 Do you know what hypocrisy is? Probably not or you wouldn't be such a fucking hypocrite. You've made many assumptions of me in this thread. That I'm fat, that I'm female. Yet when I make one of you, you're quick to point out that I'm "projecting". Once again, you're an idiot.
>>25961379 Yeah but we're baiting those "robots" who are more likely just failed normies at that stage. Real robots simply KNOW they are nowhere on anyone's radar. Real robots KNOW how pathetic and useless they are. They can still dream about getting perfection, and may even take the steps/ end up frustrated.
You on the other hand are still at stage 1. Get over yourself.
On my 27th birthday I hit my peak of hating myself for being a virgin and managed to completely end my relationship with my family
>Go to parents house for a weekend to celebrate >Nice as I don't have an apartment, just rent a small room in some guys house >Desperate to have sex this day >Decide to try everything to make my sister have sex with me >Hint at her throughout the day that I want to have sex with her >She is only 17 but I hope she understands >Wink at her >When I open her card laugh and say 'I was hoping some dirty panties would fall out' >family calls me disgusting, I apologise >late in the day, time for cake >decide to try once more >when I blow out the candles, 'accidentally' make my wish out loud >Say 'I wish a hot 17 year old with blonde hair would make love to me tonight' >open my eyes and wink at sister >family becomes enraged >they throw me out of the house >I haven't seen them since
I was a virgin until 21. Then i started banging hookers and a bit later got a gf.
I think my long isolation from women turned off my sex drive because hookers are only exiting when i'm banging one for the first time and i have almost no interest in my gf, we have sex maybe once every 2-3 months. I wake up every morning with a raging boner and enjoy fapping.. feels strange man.
The fact that non-virgins are here just helps to show that having sex doesn't change a thing. Personally, I'd consider somebody a robot if they've only ever had sex with hookers. If the only way you can get sex is by paying then you're definitely not a normie.
29 here. It bothers me a tiny bit that I'll be gangdragged to the ol' Wizardry School soon, becoming a meme and whatnot, but I don't like interacting with people anyway. Would be nice if I came up with a way to fuck one of my hot cousins in around 330 days though.
23 years old and I feel like if I cared about sex or girls it'd just be another bullshit aspect of life to put up with. >having to care about how you look >having to care about how you dress >having to care about acting smooth >having to care about having status symbol posessions >having to care about a bunch of other shit >having to put up with women in general on a regular basis
Meanwhile I just care about shit that I genuinely care about. It's fucking great. Just jerk off every now and then and you're free.
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