>tfw you hear your parents talking about kicking you out

What did you hear them say

I know a different feel.

>tfw just barely have my shit together
>tfw just barely productive enough
>tfw just barely helpful enough

I feel like my parents want to kick me out, but I'm just barely keeping them from coming up with a good reason. I've moved out before, too. It probably won't be long.

Sit down and level with your parents. Tell them if they want you gone, just come right out and say it, and you see yourself out.

>>25958088
I can't even understand how parents do this. This doesn't happen in most cultures unless you've done something horrible and are disowned. I know people with great jobs and partners in their 30's that happily live at home. It's so fucking weird to leave and live isolated in borderline poverty when you can be at home with family that loves you

>>25958104
>What did you hear them say

Mostly them arguing with each other on who's fault it is that I'm a failure that I am too old to be living there still, and what to do with me

Is kicking out the 18 year old kid, still a thing in America?

>>25958295
>Is kicking out the 18 year old kid, still a thing in America?

Yes

>>25958088
I'm with you anon.

One of these days I'll leave """""my""""" house and try to live in some national park like a caveman.

>>25958295
its the meme but I have literally never heard of anyone doing it

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>mfw 28 years old and parents have told me they'd never kick me out no matter what and just want me to be happy and do well

>>25958088
> be 9
> hear parents talk abou putting you in a mental institution
> "he's not normal!" You hear your mom say.
That was true pain I wish on nobody to know.

>>25958290
are you a NEET?

asdasdasdasd

>>25958295
happened to me. im still fucked but im not dead yet at least, i can afford to shitpost on 4chan if nothing else

>>25958088
As long as u help out around the house and do yard work you'll be fine

>>25958215
I come from a culture similar to that. My parents wouldn't mind me staying, but it stops once it gets to the idea of having a live-in partner. My parents would barely even allow me to bring girlfriends over.

>tfw got a good job, just saving enough money so I can kick myself out.

>tfw gonna get a shoebox apartment in the middle of manhattan so I can bang all the girls I want

My situation is the opposite. I want to leave but my parents don't want me to.

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>>25958088
opposite feel
as long as I live under their roof they get my NEET bux so they don't want me to move out
I feel like I will never be able to become a normie living as a neet a 19 so I want to save up my neet money and try renting out but my parents won't help me move out at all and are actively trying to make me stay home

>>25958509
>are you a NEET?

Yes

but only for a year

>>25958215
>I know people with great jobs and partners in their 30's that happily live at home.

Do you honestly not see the difference between this and housing a fully grown parasitic leech of a manchild who is doing nothing with his life and contributing nothing to the household?

>>25958463
Intriguing. How were you like for them to say that?

>Tfw your mom makes indirect comments about how much she hates what her life has become

>>25958580
what the fuck are you doing here
get out
get ouuuuuuuut

>>25958088
Sort of except my parents don't do it behind my back they do it directly.
>We want you out of the house
T-Thanks mom and dad, it's not like being homeless in the middle of a Minnesotan winter is going to go well.

>>25959723
>it's not like being homeless in the middle of a Minnesotan winter is going to go well
Reminds me of overhearing two hitchhikers talking about what cities had programs to stop homelessness.
One of them said that his hometown had a great program, they had reduced the number of homeless by 60% in a year.

The other guy said his country (Finland) has a national program to limit the homeless, it is called -40 degree winters.

>>25958088
my parents did that so I called my psych and said I was going to kill myself

cops came and took me to the psych ward

after a week in the ward high as fuck i get out and they never mention kicking me out again

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You disgusting fatbodies need to get control of the narrative. Your parents are considering this option because you haven't given them any reason to believe you take their sacrificing for you seriously, since they're putting off their "empty nest" golden years because of YOU, and you're not giving them a timeline to resolve the issue. From their perspective you're sitting in your room doing fuck all while they're carrying 100% of the burden.

Tell your parents you want to have a meeting with them. When you meet with them, acknowledge that your current situation is a burden on them, and say that you've put together a plan. Then, give a target date to move out and how you'd accomplish it.

1) Moving out:

You've looked at Craigslist in a city or place you'd like to live - it costs $x per month to rent a room in a shared apartment (plus factor in $100 a month for utilities).

To afford the down payment to move in (typically 2 months up front), you'd need to save up a certain amount per month for however many months.

2) Getting a job:

You'll submit a certain number of resumes a day, and keep track of this via a spreadsheet that allows you to know when to follow up with each company etc. They can review the spreadsheet at any time to see your progress.

If you tell them something like this, they're likely to let you stay until you've achieve 1) and 2) because you've taken ownership of your life and are giving them a definite end date.

>>25958899
>>25958215
It can be either of these things.

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>>25958215
>I can't even understand how parents do this.

They are fucking normies. Nothing is ever their fault and they sincerely believe that kicking you out will help you. They are fucking delusional and cannot fathom how anyone would not be able to survive in the outside world. They don't even think about the possibility of you dying out there somewhere, alone, cold, in a trench. It's fucked up man.

>>25960053

100% complete bullshit.

They've helped you plenty and you threw it back in their face by refusing to develop properly. The only delusions here are are yours, you selfish, lazy, pampered little cunt.

There is no excuse (apart from critical illness) to be living at home as an adult for an extended period of time without clearly making an effort to get your shit together to be leaving.

No parent wants a shitty adult child stagnating in their house with no end in sight.

My dad said I could stay in his home as long as I wanted but I had to get a fulltime job and pay rent because he didn't want me to end up sleeping all day and playing games all night. I think that's fair.

>>25960213

I don't know how that anon was raised but have you seen some of the parents out there? I'm friends with older family members on facebook and I'm shocked to see how many still comment on stories saying "Somebody should backhand that child!" or "Obama can't take away MY spanking paddle!" or "Let's make wine glasses out of mason jars and candlesticks Debbie" It's sick. Most boomers were terrible parents and now their children are terrible parents.

>>25959826
Kek
If it was the spring fall or summer it wouldn't be a big deal, because then I can just travel to warmer regions. But right fucking now? Calm the fuck down, you're literally trying to kill me here.

>>25959898
>Just get a job bro!
>Just be yourself bro!
>XDXDXDXD
Jesus christ you normies literally do not understand a single thing about this. You think I'd be fucking living in my parents basement if I could get a fucking job? Smh desu senpai.

>>25960268

Stop trying to use the >le there are shitty parents maymay

Everyone thinks their parents suck, but only a few actually do. If you're shocked by comments then you're a fucking faggot and it's no wonder people like you don't have the fortitude to sort yourself as adults

>>25960213

>They've helped you plenty and you threw it back in their face by refusing to develop properly. The only delusions here are are yours, you selfish, lazy, pampered little cunt.
The have helped me? Am I refusing to develop properly? TOP KEK M8. JUST B URSELF-tier advice right there, you fucking normalfag. Yeah, I should just forget all those years of physical and mental abuse, man up, probably marry a single mother, right? Well, fuck you. I have tried to "be normal", I have tried to "fit in", but I can't. I fucking can't.

>There is no excuse (apart from critical illness) to be living at home as an adult for an extended period of time without clearly making an effort to get your shit together to be leaving.
Americuck-thinking right there. For young adults these days the choice is basically between living at home or living with normie roommates. College and uni is basically high school 2.0 and living with roommates extends that even longer. I can't fucking deal with those normies anymore.

>No parent wants a shitty adult child stagnating in their house with no end in sight.
Oh yeah? Maybe they shouldn't have a child in the first place.

If I ever get kicked out I will honestly just go in the deep woods to die.

>>25960329

My parents were great. I was raised by Christian parents alongside 7 home schooled siblings who speak respectfully and have never been hit by their parents in their life (outside of when they were toddlers, maybe). Spanking kids is extremely low class.

>tfw going to have to move back in with parents next year despite getting a paying job
fuck london rent

>>25960338
If my parents kick me out i will probably just be homeless for a while and steal or find food. I don't think i can force myself to work. I just can't adapt to working or being in a normie environment. My body and mind just can't deal with it. Basically what i'm saying is i'm a lazy pussy, but why am i like this and not other people?

If i had autism that would explain a lot

>>25960409
Once I'm kicked out I'm killing myself. It's either slowly die from being homeless and be in constant pain from infections and untreated wounds and shit until then; or save myself the further pain and eventual death and just do it right away. Literally zero difference between the two save for one would cause a lot more discomfort and one of them you'd be dying sooner then later.

>boomers literally ruin the world
>blame the kid that they're fucked in the head and can't be economically independent by the time they're 18

fucking boomers man. reeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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I always wondered why me?

Why is my brain this way and why do i have so much despair and so much thought of futility? I just don't see a point in working when i literally have no power to change the course of anything. Nothing to explore, nothing to discover, nothing i do will ever matter. What is the point of even trying? What are we born in this generation to do? Sit around, eat and shit until we die? What is there to do in this life? All my life has been is pain and sorrow. There is no reason for me not to kill myself

I literally have lost all hope. There is no point of forcing myself to do shit that i hate. I will literally never be happy and i know nothing i do will ever make me normal or functioning.

>>25960338
If you're being physically abused it should make you want to leave even more. Instead you sit around and do nothing, because you're lazy.

>>25960515
You poor thing, how ever will you survive. You think that way because you're a loser. Successful people don't this way because they're to busy making moves and enjoying whatever moments they can. They know the most valuable asset is time. Have fun trying telling yourself you're too different to fit in, when in reality you're just a negative depressing loser.

>>25960507
>Boomers refuse to leave jobs because muh retirement thanks to less then wonderful economy
>Leaves future generations out of jobs
>Blames them for not being able to get jobs
Y-You too boomers.
>>25960568
>What is emotional dependence

ITT NEETS BTFO by reality

>>25959898
>since they're putting off their "empty nest" golden years
why did they give birth to him at all? if they didn't then they would have 50 years of "empty nest" golden years. doesn't seem logical

>>25958088
every single day to my face.but fuck that. i've earned being a neet. i worked at a young age. borderline child labor violations type shit.every weekend and sometimes holidays and birthdays. 6am to 12 pm and then go back 5pm to 11pm. every single fucking weekend for 5 years. and they never paid me a dime except for the occasional 5 bucks. "it's for the experience" the said. well consider me fucking experienced. i'm on a 5 year break.

>>25960592
Successful people don't need to fit in, that's why they're successful. You're the clueless generalizing loser.

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>>25960592
>You think that way because you're a loser.
I am. I never said i wasn't
>Have fun trying telling yourself you're too different to fit in
I am not telling myself that. I know that i can't fit in and i don't want to fit in.

Why the fuck are you even on r9k you fucking wagekek normie? why don't you go be a faggot somewhere else

>>25960720
Because they wanted Chad as a son not a robot. ;_;

>>25960607
Lol at emotional dependence, you mean you can't live without your mommy washing your underwear and making you sandwhiches you spineless faggot

>>25960720
Just because somebody gives birth to you doesn't mean they're responsible for you your entire life. At some point you become a MAN.

Brb given the gift of life

Hurr durr I didn't ask for this I dont wanna work I wanna watch muh animu all day and fap to tranny porn.

>>25960748
Yeah because Zuckerberg was a total chad right? Lol at you loser

>>25960837
Man the fuck up stop being a bitch and take what you want.

>>25958215
No it's not. Must healthy males want to strike out on their own and be independent. I left home at 18 and have a great relationship with my parents.

>>25959898
This is too sane. Do you think anyone this rational and mature would be a NEET manboy to start with?

Agreed. Parent's are under no reasonable expectation to let you suspend your adolescence indefinitely.And enabling you to do so isn't good parenting.

>>25960409
Enjoy prison ass rape. Maybe it will give you a new perspective on what you can or can't do.

>>25960837
>muh safe space


damn you're pathetic

>three years ago
>Me and my mother had fight
>Wake up the next day to find all my stuff packed
>"You can't leave here anymore"
>Lived on a friend's couch for a couple of months before finding another place to live
>Haven't moved back, and probably never will. But it was for the best me and my parents and on really good terms now

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>>25961712
If he's homeless it would be pretty hard for them to do anything to him when he can literally up and leave for anywhere anytime he wants.

>>25961748
yeah, vagrants stealing food never wind up in jail.

OP's parents just want to make America great gain.

>>25961781
The point I was making is if you literally have only the clothes on your back you could easily steal shit and slink away in the shadows, because there wouldn't be anything to tie you down or identify you to others. You could literally steal some bread, and just keep running until you get tired, and I doubt cops would chase him from state to state for something like that.

>>25961826
What. Are you under the delusion that being homeless somehow renders you incapable of being caught shoplifting? Hell, some town round up vagrants just for loitering.

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>>25961736
>Lived on a friend's couch for a couple of months before finding another place to live

>Having friends

REEEEE!!! Fucking normies, leeeeeeeave!!!

My mom's a huge druggie, and they had a horrific argument when I was younger.
Mom: "If you leave, I'm not being stuck with HIM"
Dad: "So what? You want me to go out there and fuckin' kill him?"

To this day, I will not be happy until my parents are dead. All of my friends fucking hate my parents, my girlfriend especially.

>>25961855
You're assuming OP is going to be walking around looking like an OD'd Santa Clause. Most homeless people aren't going to be looking like that you know.

>>25959412
Iktf brobot.
>>Tfw mom constantly hunts for any gap in every conversation. For an excuse to literally say to me "there's nothing worse than having kids"

Die normie filth

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>>25960837
lil BIUTCH

>>25962213
You're the onw ehat should get killed, spineless piece of shit

>>25962212
Non homeless people get caught shoplifting too senpai.

>>25962518
They have homes to stay and get found at, cell phones that can get tracked, friends who'd know where they are most times of the day, etc. If you're homeless it's a lot harder because you're not a part of society anymore, you can easily drift in and out of places without creating a lot of effects.

>>25958124
I know this feel too. We're still better than NEET's.

>>25962563
They get caught in the act dipshit.

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>tfw mummy and daddy have accepted my NEEThood

Onwards and upwards!

>>25963088
I think you mean backwards and downwards.

>>25963130
Nope, the questions like getting a job and having a girlfriend stopped overnight. The atmosphere here is much more pleasant too.

>>25963151
Congrats you've reached the bottom and surrendered hope. You must be very proud.

>>25963151
You're parents have given up on you. You are a true loser now. Only thing left to do is hit 3 bills.

>>25963076
Well yeah no shit Dick Tracy if they just blatantly go up to some fucker and tell them "oh by the way I'm robbing you." You're supposed to be subtle about everything and not make a scene.

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>parents openly scream at me daily that they're going to kick me out unless i find a job
>explain to them a million times that im 20/400 vision in one and and 20/80 in the other, both while corrected with glasses
>im unable to even get a drivers license
>have severe social anxiety to the point where i break down and nearly cry every time i have to interact with someone not in my immediate family that i know already
>they made a huge deal out of taking me to get glasses (so i could fucking see) and also threw a fit when they had to drive me to renew my state ID
>they say they're going to drive me to work when/if i ever get a job but based on those past experiences i know they're going to bitch and moan about it every single day
>live in middle of nowhere so i can't just bike to work
>they make 0 attempt to help me sign up for disability from my blindness/social disorders
>know they're going to kick me out probably this summer
>tfw ill probably just kill myself

can anyone help me by explaining how to approach things when it comes to this?

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>>25958088
>>25958462
I know both these feels.

>Dad kicks me out while I'm trying to do things right
>Mom hears of it and takes me in
>Mom: "you'll always have a place to stay"
>Brother: "if things don't work out you're always welcome at my place"

felt bad then it felt good man

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>>25958088
>Be loser with no friends but kind of smart
>tricked them into being proud of me

>>25963219
Are you in the 3rd world or something. Stores in the US have cameras everywhere. People get caught shoplifting all of the time. Even the stealthiest ones get caught eventually.

>>25963267

Have you gone with an ophtalmologist to see if there is any chance for your sight?

>>25963267
Cut the shit. If I were your parents I'd kick you out too. You sound like a leech who is full of jive and excuses.

Ah, yes. Yes. Another fine example of the NEET lifestyle. How glorious. Someone screencap this for the next wagecuck thread.

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>>25963167
>>25963183
Nah I'm not going anywhere, I'm defective so the best place for me to live out my days is in the safety and comfort of the family home.

I already supplement my stay with state mandated autismbux.

>>25963267

>social disorder

Lol no such thing. Maybe be less of a pussy with your tumblrina-tier "waaaah my meme disorder is literally so debilitating you have no idea I'm literally shaking."

Faggot.

>>25960213
They brought me into this world. It's their fault I exist. Therefore, they are responsible to care for me my entire life.

>>25963385
You've lost at life. You're a fucking useless parasite. Enjoy your junk food and porn loser.

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>>25963354
>legally unable to see well enough to even get a drivers license
>live in the middle of nowhere on a farm with the nearest town 20 miles away

definitely full of excuses, asshole. thank god you'll never be a parent so no one has to deal with your ignorant shit.

>>25963338
yeah i have been.

>>25963412
i take anti-anxiety medicine and was medically diagnosed.
/b/ is that way.

>>25963412
But he nearly cries when he is arround people. kek. It must be super serious.

jk. If I had a deadbeat huckster son like that I'd kick him out the day he turned 18.

>>25963416

>my existence is a result of someone's fault
>not killing yourself to correct the problem.

Weak, vapor-thin rationalization for being stupid and lazy detected.

>>25963440
PLENTY of actual blind people work and live independently. Fuck off with your enabling bullshit.

>>25963426
I haven't lost anything, and in the grand scheme of things nothing really matters anyway.

Just enjoy what you can as I certainly do.

>>25963440

Oh wow so some folks who make money by selling medication told you you had it? I didn't realize. Sounds super legit.

>>25963440
Diagnosed. Kek. Anyone can be diagnosed with anything by those fraud fake doctors.

Your parents are doing the right thing. It's the only way you'll learn.

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>>25963475
and i'm sure every single one of them has a means of getting to where they work, you stupid fucking nigger.

>>25963496
based on your comment i'm actually sure you're part of the anti-vaccination movement or whatever so everything you say is literally null and void.

do the planet a favor and remove yourself from the genepool on the off chance you get a prostitute pregnant

>>25958088

How old are you, anon? Just want to know to see if you really should be independent by now

>>25963526
They offered to drive you. And I see real blind people on public transportation all of the time.

But you see well enough to shitpost don't you?

You're a lazy little bitch. And everyone with half a brain can easily see through your bullshit.

>>25963526

>Implying measles and social anxiety are the same
>implying physical diseases and mental ones are the same
>implying your bullshit meme disorder has a specific pathology that requires medication

Keep rationalizing, faggot.

>all these fucking losers who still live with their parents

I love this board, it really strikes my sense of Schadenfruede.

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>>25963577
>They offered to drive you
yeah, they did, but they also did the same when they took me to get my glasses -- something i need to actually move around and see, and yelled at me the entire day and on the way there. they literally won't do that every single day.

>see real blind people on public transportation all of the time
let me know of public transportation that comes out to rural ohio 20 miles away from a town of only 600 people and like 50 miles from a small sized city

>>25963577
>You're a lazy little bitch
? i WANT to work, i'd love to get a job and move out on my own but in my current situation i literally can't which is why i asked for people to help me with what to do in my situation, not claim every single thing i said is bullshit.

fuck off and die, you piece of shit.

>>25963526

>being sad because things aren't handed to me on a plate is the same as being blind

Jesus, how far down the rabbit hole are you?

>>25963647
Nigga, you were trying to claim social anxiety like it was an actual disease.

You're full of bullshit excuses, and everyone with a brain knows it. Including your own mother.

>>25963647

Get laser eye surgery or some shit. I'm sure your parents are willing to pay for it to get you out of the house if they're bitching that much.

>>25963647
>>25963526
>>25963440

Lol the shut-in with a meme disease uses anime reaction pictures. Lol this guy is a fucking caricature.

'medically diagnosed'


Bwahahahaha...

>>25963440

>social anxiety

Literally tumblr-tier Gender fluid tier meme illness that only exists because it gives loses an excuse to pity themselves, rather than y'know, trying to better their situations.

Fuck off you drama queen, you can cry on /r9k/ about how miserable your life is for 8 hours a day, but you can't get a job in McDonalds? Fucking loser.

>>25963647
I'm surprised that you're getting so much hate, you actually have reason to be NEET. But do take your parents up on their offer to drive you around, no matter how much they bitch about it. You can escape.

>>25963818
Reason? It's 2016. If you can use a computer you can work. B-but:

>muh social anxiety

>>25963818

No one who is capable of browsing the Internet for hours each day has a reason to be a 'NEET' you deluded parasite.

>>25963818
people like to cling to one or two things in a post and ignore the rest. i shouldn't have enabled them so it's my fault.

i'm going to have to take them up on that offer and just hope it isn't as bad as it has been when they say they'll drive me places.

>>25963818

>can shitpost on 4chan all day
>can't take a job stacking groceries

You people are fucking pathetic.

>>25962631
How does that make your shit situation better?

>>25962182
If this is true that's so horrible. Fuck them and don't talk to them.

>>25960515
Take out a few normies like that asshole in the thread if you ever think of killing yourself brother

>>25963884

There you go lad. You got this. Of course you're going to turn into a fucking normie and will need to get out of here, but still.

FACT: if OP were a woman he wouldn't get kicked out

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Fembot here.
I am 26 and still live at home, I am unemployed. My parents have told me they WILL kick me out if I don't go before I am 28 (14 months to go).

Its not fucking fair. All the stacey sluts can just get a hard working husband and live with him. I am 290lbs and have a moustache so what am I supposed to do?

I only got fired from my last job because I tried to get a boyfriend there, on my parents encouragement.

>Told them that one of my male co-workers was cute
>they said I need to get him so I can go and live with him
>felt pressured, even more so, to try and talk to him
>job is stacking shelves at a supermarket
>I approach him one day when he is stacking the baby products
>'d-don't stack those we'll only take them down again when shopping for our baby'
>he doesn't understand
>panic, ask him to get me pregnant and try to grab his crotch
>apologise, tell him it was just a game
>decide I have to do it once or twice a week to make it seem like I was joking
>walk over and grab his crotch every week for a few months
>eventually devolves into me getting fired for sexual harassment

>>25963088
My older brother is a NEET too, parents accepted his NEETdom long ago. He also gets autismbux with a side of angerbux
>his anger is so much out of control he literally tried to kill his professor in uni and spent a year in looney bin

man all these neets sure sound like they are living the high life! As a wageslave, I sure am jealous of you having all that free time to be yelled at by your parents!

Ahahahaha, this thread is a perfect counterpoint to all those wagecuck threads, hey neets it sure is nice having awesome parents that are proud of your success, maybe you should try working and see how nice it feels to make it on your own.

>>25963957
Thats actually kind of funny.

You realize if you took care of your appearance you could get a guy to knock you up no problem right?

>>25963957
>290lbs

Kill yourself.

>>25958215

Americans are fucking shit that's why. They are so fucking in to merchants game they don't even realize it. There is no fucking way a young person with an average job to get his own place in this day, don't even tell me about renting it's just fucking wasted money.

>>25963957
the only thing you had to do in life is NOT BE FAT
AND YOU FUCKING FAILED AT THAT

>literally make any little mistake and parents get on my case
>I had three water bottles in my room and my father told me I was hoarding and proceeded to give me a 30 minute talk on how I should be institutionalised because I "leave water bottles upstairs, I still play videogames at 20, I still haven't had a girlfriend, I forget to take out the trash, and I scratch my head a lot"
>those are literally the reasons
>he saw me playing video games yesterday and started yelling at me and calling me a manchild that's worse than a drug addict, even though I barely had half an hour of playing
>I'm transferring from a cc to a uni next semester, and he wants me to go to the closest one (also the shittiest) so I can live with him and mom
>tell him that I'm leaving the county and that I won't live with him
>he says: "typical, the moment the kids these days get the opportunity, they abandon their families"

Why are baby boomers so fucked up

>>25960213
>Tfw parents divorced and i lived with mom who didnt help me at all

>>25964062
I come from a lower middle class family in one of the most expensive parts of the US. I've been living independently since I was 18. It's not that hard.

>>25964077
Your father sounds perfectly reasonable tbqh.

>>25963526
shit anon, don't you realize you're being baited? S.M.H T.B.H FAMILIA

>ITT some poor NEET anons falling for pure bait and sperging out in replies to them

I am a rare case, my parents will move out of the house as soon as I get married, that or I get my grandmas flat(not the most luxurious but very nice still). In order to get married I need a gf first I guess.

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>>25964110

Living with 5 broke college roommates isn't "living independently".

>>25958215
>implying American parents love their children
Mine tried to kill me in my sleep, anon. Fled to homelessness before I was 16. I'll NEVER know what it's like to have older guardians who love me unconditionally. It's a strange feel, especially since I'm knee deep with normies at the Uni who have mommy and daddy there to pay their bills and wipe their noses when things are scary. Women refuse to go out on dates with me because when they hear about my family they automatically assume I'm the same way as them and too shattered to bother with.

The only comfort is I know how to survive most situations. I don't think I'll ever truly be in trouble to the point where I don't know if I'll survive. I've been through some serious bullshit because of it and feel I'm a stronger person than most of my peers.

>>25964240
Sure it is. It was fun as shit too. I own my own home now. But keep making excuses you subhuman piece of shit.

>tfw your parents are rich
>they give me $10k per month to live "independently"
>I can go to their house and live for a year and they won't be bothered
>mom is a housewife and dad used to be a petroleum engineer who invests in property
>I sit at my own house and code making only $3k per month kek
I literally couldn't have asked for anything else
still a virgin though

>>25964276

If you really owned a home you'd know the difference between playing house with a bunch of kids and living on your own independently.

>>25964351
What are you talking about? I know the difference between being 18 and 31.

>>25964276
Living with your friends when you're young are the best times of your life. I had roomates all throughout college and a few years afterwards. We were always semi-broke, but there was always enough money for beer or a bottle. Always girls around. Probably went out 5-6 nights a week. These idiots are throwing giving away the best years of their lives to pornography and laziness. They can convince themselves they have it good all they want to, but deep down they know it isn't true m

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>tfw rich dad tells me I can "take the time I need" to discover what I want to do with my life

>>25964547
rich parents are total bros anon

>>25964736
>>25964547
Fuck you faggots I was born into a poorfag family of 7.

>>25964494

Living with friends is fun but it still doesn't count as living independently, no more than living in a dorm room does.

>>25964814
Semantics. You're basically living under your own steam. And yeah fun as shit. Better than living alone at that age.

>>25964494
Dude, these fat retards don't have friends. Even their own mother's don't want them around.

>>25961618
Agree with this anon completely, can none of you realize this?

>>25964877

Having no rules =/= living under your own steam, supporting yourself, taking full responsibility for your life, making your own decisions. If everything is a vote and you're splitting the bills and chores, then absolutely nothing you're doing is independent. It's a group effort.

But you're right, we just don't have the same definition of independence.

>>25964778
We're six siblings too anon excluding me everyone is on the way to becoming as rich as dad
However, none of them have any relations with parents when they got good jobs or had set up good businesses after taking money from dad except me, so I guess I'll get all the inheritance kek

>>25964895

This thread has three tiers of people.

>manchildren living at home
>college students being "Adults" in shared housing
>real adults with real responsibility

yes, my parents want me out of the house

>>25964999
Again. You're splitting hairs. I don't really care if I had absolute and total independence when I was 18-23. I got my own place when I was 24. And I live in NYC. No shame in my game.

>>25965095

>I don't really care if I had absolute and total independence when I was 18-23

Thank you kind god for letting this poor anon understand.

>Graduated high school at 16
>Been working since I was 17
>Moved out of my parents place at 23
>Met my current gf at 26
>Got a place together
>She's sleeping off her birthday meal on the couch
>I'm gunna wake her up in two hours
>Gunna carry her to the bedroom
>Undress her and shackle her wrists to the head board
>Gunna Fuck her like she owes me money
>Blast my big (haven't fapped in 3 days) sticky load deep insider her tight pussy

i will never understand this feel because my parents WANT me to come back and live with them. my family is portuguese which are usually family oriented, not to mention my parents like to coddle their kids too much. i just got fired from a job and have to move from where i am now in the sf bay area to the central valley of california to live on one of their rental properties. luckily my parents are lightweight rich and will let me live in that house for super cheap, its definitely not an ideal situation but it is certainly better than living in their actual house.

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In my culture parents don't kick you out until you have finished your career, have a stable job and have enough money to actually look out for yourself. Oh and actually they don't kick you out, they ask politely, but in most cases you are the one who make the decision.
I'm 22 and I'm studying biotech, but this semester I'm going to work in a project with my uni, the government and a big hospital, so hopefully I can save enough to finally move out :)
Oh I forgot... the most common reason why parents kick you out, is because you are having a stupid baby

>>25965145

That sounds like the worst birthday present ever. Her birthday is the day you should give her a break from having sex with you.

>>25965145
Got my first job at 14. Have been working ever since. Feels good man.

>>25965028
and fourth type of people, me and that other anon whom have rich parents

>>25964277
must be nice, i doubt id even work if i was getting 10k a month. then again i feel pathetic at still having my parents pay for my cell phone and car insurance. i guess its all relative though. most of my friends dont receive as much help from their folks as i did, and they like to act like they are completely self-made and that im spoiled cause my parents bought me a new car and everything, but i think they are also somewhat jealous. and when i look at super rich people they are often completely taken care of by their parents, and why the fuck not? if their parents have millions of dollars of course they are going to have an easy life, their parents would be assholes if they didn't spoil them

Why don't your parents love you

>>25965028
i dont know where you live but its super common in major metropolitan areas to rent apts and houses with others well into adulthoood. its super expensive to live on your own. i have a roommate, i actually rather live alone but not enough to pay almost 50% more a month.

>>25965395

>well into adulthoood

I don't live in NYC but are there really that many people 30+ who are still unmarried and living with roommates? I'm not blaming young people for not having the money, I just don't think young people with roommates know what kind of responsibility comes with supporting yourself or your family independently.

>>25962182
>my friends
>my girlfriend

I'll just point to the post right above yours.
>>25962146

>>25964999
You do understand that 'independently' could also denote 'independently' of your family? Especially given the context. So that other anon isn't wrong.

Sorry, but English teacher here.

>>25965516
Brooklyn here. In their 20s it's supper common. In their 30s? Not so much.

>>25965516
it depends, i live in the sf bay area which is expensive. if you don't have a great job you will probably at least live in a 2 bedroom apt with another roommate.

>>25965573

If that's what anon meant then anon should have said so.

Before that there were multitudes of babby's first "I work at McDonalds and pay for my own school lunch now so you can't make me clean my room DAD" type posts.

>>25959898
I read this in Gunnery Sgt. Hartman's voice.

>>25965618
He said under his own steam. Idk, it's no big deal. I'm not sure I buy into the idea that people with roomates aren't independent adults though. It's an overly strict, almost pedantic, interpretation of the word. Extrapolated far enough; it wouldn't be hard to demonstrate that no one is truly independent.

>>25965722
Exactly. Oh you're wife works and contributes to the household? Sorry, you're not an independent adult.

>>25963555
>How old are you, anon? Just want to know to see if you really should be independent by now

22

>>25965868
That's about the age when it's time to move out tbqh.

>>25958215
Italian detected


But yeah america is fucked

>tfw my parents will never kick me out because they know I will commit suicide and even though I'm a failure, losing their son would be the most devestating thing that could happen to them
Once my parents and I had a psychologist meeting with an old jewish guy who ordered them to give me $3000 then cut all ties and never speak to me again. For a while they considered it, but then they realized I would end up dead.

>>25965935
Italy is the land of the manboy. 50% of them live with their parents into their 30s. It's becoming a real problem. S.m.h.t.b.h

>>25965893

but I can't even afford rent

>>25965960
You sound awful. You're poor parents. Old Jew was spot on.

>>25965967
>famiglia

I don't understand how they can have sex while their parents are in the house

>>25965971
Get a job and start working WITH your parents to make the transition. They'll respect that.

>>25965999
Yeah it's bizarre. Sounds awful.

>>25960720

Because they expected about two decades of child raising, then you'd move out and they'd get to enjoy their retirement. They didn't expect your selfish fat ass hanging around their house for another 10 years.

>>25958088
just move out you lazy NEET piece of shit

>>25963440
Then move to a city and stop being a child. I don't have a driver's license and I have my own place in NYC. Feels good man.

PS: "anxiety" is for women, you weak piece of shit. In any other period of history you'd be left to die if you couldn't contribute to the people around you.

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>dad talking with uncle in the next room
>uncle mentions that my cousin is nearly 25 now and should be moving out into his own place
>dad starts to talk real quiet
>"Anon is the same, I think we're going to have to talk about him leaving soon."
>only 20
>mfw

i wouldn't even mind moving out because i'd probably become roommates with one of my friends but i'm broke as shit.

>>25966133
>just move out you lazy NEET piece of shit

Why do you have to be so mean?

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I'm a full time bartender at a casino in my city.

Work 40+ hours a week.

Make $27.50 an hour.

Only moved out of home once.

Have had three gfs.

Still live at home with boomer parents

Refuse to help them in any way.

Go to muay Thai training everyday for the past 2 years forcing mummy to drive me.

Had the police called on my 3 times so far for violent outbursts against both parents.

Last police visit I was arrested and taken to the watch house for breaking daddy's head open with my fist.

Was held for 4 hours and served with domestic violence papers.

Spend 3 nights on the streets and call mummy to let me back in.

Now live with my parents and doing court-ordered anger management.

I have no intentions of changing.

I want to hear what you normieshits have to say about me.

>>25966349
sounds like a true story

>>25965987
I know, I'm very manipulative and I hate myself for it. I genuinely wish I could live a normal life but my mental illnesses prevent me from doing so.

>>25966543
Call bullshit if you want but I know the events of my life the past 3+ years occurred and there's no going back.

>>25966543
Yeah super on the level.

>>25966570
Oh boo hoo. You're not sorry. You're just a manipulative piece of shit who won't accept personal accountability.

>>25967008
Exactly. That dude is a little hustler and sees weakness in his parents and exploits it (muh mental illness, threats of suicide). Old Jew saw right through his bullshit and gave the correct advice.