>super like qt girl on tinder in November
>match but I never message her cause I stand no chance in the sea of Chads
>unmatched me a few days later
>come across the same girl again but she super liked me
>match and she messages me first
>tells me she deleted her account the first time and just remade it
>was hoping she'd come across me again
>have the longest conversation I've ever had on this app
>she's looking for a relationship
>we share the same ideals, morals, general life goals, and interests
>wants to go out on a date next week
I'm sleeping right? There's no other explanation for this. Life is supposed to be shit. I've LITERALLY just started talking to her yesterday and we're already going to meet. What's the catch? There's always a catch.
This is what I fear the most. But outside of actually going on the date how would I confirm?
I feel like snapchat is the only way to prove it but then I sound like I'm just trying to get nudes or something. All I want is a qt gf.
The same exact fucking shit happened to me and I'm now seeing the girl regularly. It's actually fucking awesome. The whole time the girl and I have been saying what you are verbatim to one another ("What's the catch?") .
Go for it man. My faith has been restored, I hope yours is too.
just do it, when you don't ask for nudes she'll know that's not what you're looking for
because she's probably a fatty or a catfish, or is going to abandon him after a few days of talking
we're always united by the robot, it will never let us leave
Her old profile used to have an instagram. It was private but I remember seeing it had like 700 followers with only her following like 150 people
That's always a sure sign of a Stacy to me. She just doesn't seem to talk like one. She wants to be in a relationship, is looking to get married at ilke 25 and have a kid around 28-29. Ideally that's the same ages I kinda wanna do stuff.
hmm, you must be above average looking to have caught her attention then. in which case, what are you doing here, buddy?
yeah sounds pretty stacy to me, and surprisingly there are a few that speak like normal people instead of mindless, trend following sheep.
nonetheless, you should still watch out.
She looks like she was brought up on a standardized defecation alley.
On tinder I get more than enough matches so its not like I'm desperate - that being said I was in a similar situation to OP
>talked to this chick for a week that was identical in interests and beliefs to me
>eventually one night we're chatting and she says "I think I'm gonna delete tinder now",
>asked her if she wanted to hang out or add me on facebook but she ignored it
>messaged me "okay I'm leaving now don't forget you're really cool, this is hurting me more than its hurting you"
>her account disappears
>feel really hollow inside about tinder as a whole ever since, can't be bothered getting dates with other girls
I'm on here because I've been here since the board's inception and I'm not much for variety. /v/ sucks, /tv/ is ok in small doses, /fit/ is funny but I don't exercise, not really a fan of other boards. /r9k/ is at least ever-evolving. Plus I've always been lonely despite having a nice face. I stay home online and never talk to anyone outside of Tinder. My FB account was made specifically for Tinder and has no friends on it. Hell I wouldn't even know what the app was if not for /r9k/.
>standardized defecation alley
seems more spic than designated to me
I'm happy for you anon, hope it works out. If it does, you should make another thread letting us know how it's progressing, to inspire us to not be robots, or maybe slit our wrists, or something.
Quick question: how often do you get a match with qt girls on Tinder? I've been on it for 6 weeks in a large metropolitan area and I have yet to get a match that wasn't a mis-swipe.
Out of 435 matches over a year of tinder I'd say about 50 are waifu tier, 50 another 50 are qt, and the rest are just average. I don't swipe on anyone I don't find attractive on at least some level, even personalitywise I may swipe if their bio makes me giggle.
Honestly you have to move around. Whenever I leave my city, even 2 hours away, I get like 15-30 matches within the first day of swiping and then it kinda fizzles out to 2-3 a day. I think there's like an algorithm or something that encourages travel.
>looking for a relationship on Tinder
>implying she didnt get pumped and dumped because she thought the guy she laid was commited to her
Yeah, men will justify anything an attractive woman does.
No cause I'm not white and don't want to be made fun of.
The Briana girl I matched with is very clearly some sort of latina so I'm not racemixing since I'm spanish
I'm not mexican.
She's not a single Mom so I don't care. I don't believe in "used goods".
No I just have no other options. I don't have any friends nor do I know how to make them, I never see my coworkers outside of work since I work at a call center and no one talks to anyone else and I'm just by myself with my dog every day afterward.
Maybe a gf won't solve my problems. But it's a venue I want to try.
I'd like anything good in my life at this point.
I'm not too sure what they're about. Is it just like looking at security cameras?
>jesus OP just do it this isnt a hard decision
OP knows that as well, he is just here to brag.