>>25955389 Because I spent them lifting and running, and now while they're all off getting useless majors to help them along on their careers as cashiers, I am going into special operations in a few months. >Inb4 "Yur bein used by the jooz!!!" I jump out of planes and throw grenades at work. I dont give a damn who im being used by.
Because I've always thought of myself as a kind of defective person, and so the idea that someone else might want to be physically intimate with me really unsettling. None of my sexual fantasies involve me.
>>25955700 definition of strawman: "a sham argument set up to be defeated" Note argument, not position. And again, as I said before, I was simply referring to those who do not belong in university, attending and treating it like high school, but you did not address that. Whatever.
>>25955708 You only need to find something you like and pursue it. Dont let life lead you through the cave blindly, fight to make light and find your own way. I was given a shit had in the beginning, but I found something I could do, and I bit on and never let go, like a rabid dog clinging onto a homicidal mailman. You must do the same. Answer this:
1.What do you enjoy doing? 2.What do you do? 3.What are you good at?
The closer those three are to each other, the closer you are to winning.
well i fap like 2-3 times a day every day so that's the same as having sex, if not better because afterall, who knows your own body better than yourself? nobody that's who.
also, parties aren't appealing to me, loud shitty pop music, drunken fucktards everywhere that you just want to punch or kick to death, why bother? i'd rather stay in and do the things i enjoy like playing video games or browsing the internet for funny memes.
all of the people that i know that did this either ended up 1. with child 2. with disease 3. as a felon 4. working at a dead-end job with no hope in sight 5. they're now an alcoholic or addicted to drugs
so basically they partied for a few years so they could spend 10-15 trying to pull themselves out of a deep, deep hole.
i used to hate having a girlfriend through my senior year, but it was nice emotional experience when i got to my freshman year of college and the real fun started.
don't fall for that high school myth kiddies. do well in school and spend your 20s partying. you have more money, more freedom, and if you studied hard in school and went to a good college/got a good job, you'll have far more ability to pull ass.
I did all of this, and I still felt nothing. A few standout moments, but mostly "meh." It gets sad when your friends start getting tired of it, and the number of people showing up to get wasted with you starts to dwindle. My friends and I used to throw some ragers. Now, it's the three of us smoking/drinking. Essentially three robots existing together.
I also have problems with physical contact. In all honesty with how I am, I don't I could even maintain an erection due to sheer anxiety if I could manage to get into that situation in the first place.
Trying to claim that everyone (an imaginary enemy) who did 'x' is now undecided and aimless, etc, IS a fucking straw man. You are setting up a false scenario and knocking it down with your sanctimonious nonsense about being superior to your imaginary enemies.
Just because you want it to be a statement that's goes unchallenged doesn't make it any less of an argument, you goalpost shifting cunt
>>25955389 Lived like 2 hours from my schools. All the way from elementary to high school. All the kids lived near the school and hung out in their neighborhoods. I had no one. I'm socially retarded and ugly. Very, very ugly. I spent high school watching wayy too much TV and movies. Watched like 10k episodes in 4 years. I'm pathetic, ik
I did waste my youth, but it was by not learning enough skills, not reading enough books and just generally not training myself to actually focus and get things done. Now I'm near hopeless, but I'm still trying to beat it.
>>25955389 Because I had endless videogames/movies. Ever since I was 11 I could get myself anything I wanted (see above) thus never felt like I needed to communicate or whatever. But once in a while I'd go out like maybe twice a month. Living the dream anon. Living the dream.
>>25959909 Shit really fucks a kid up. It was a "zoning" program to blend kids from upper and lower economic classes. But it sucked, cus I couldn't connect with these kids. Yeah, we'd play outside and learn the alphabet. But as we grew, their problems were stuff like "where do we go on vacation", " which sports team to we pick" But at home, I was facing questions like "are we gonna be able to eat this month?", " will we have water?", "is it safe to play outside?". I slept over and hung out with a few, but it was such a hassle coordinating rides and shit. I lost all my " blackness " and have no friends now.
Because both are empty pursuits that bring only momentary happiness and stinging regret and/or longing for the past when being a drunken whoremonger sated the roaring emptiness inside. I'm not a sociopath so I can't justify pissing away my time with random whores and there's nobody in my life worth partying with since getting drunk with shallow, strange morons is plain unappealing.
>>25955389 >why did you waste your youth by not partying and getting laid every weekend?
I actually did (didn't get laid every weekend though but something like three times a year for three years, which is not bad considering the autistic 5/10 I am)
Guess what, you get bored of throwing tons of cash for alcohol and weed, and fucking drunk 4/10 girls isn't as cool as it looks after some time. Either you manage to fuck the 10/10 ultra-hot Staceys (and I never could, not Chad enough for that) or you'll realize this shit is BORING after two years or so.
tl;dr It's ok to party hard n shit while you're in your teenage years but it's not as fun and exciting on the long run as those teen movies sell it and people who still do this shit during their mid/late 20s are nothing but children.
>>25958537 >I did all of this, and I still felt nothing. It gets sad when your friends start getting tired of it, and the number of people showing up to get wasted with you starts to dwindle
Holy fuck are you me ? >Tfw every party would turn into a small Project X back in the days >Tfw nowadays everybody settles down with a boring autistic girl/boring beta guy and there's nobody left to have fun with >Yet these fuckers still complain about life not being that much fun anymore and keep talking about the "good ol times" but they won't do anything to change that
>>25959965 Sounds shitty. I live in a shitty area where all the schools had something like a 20% pass rate. Parents wanted me to go to decent school so ended up going to one in next county which was totally different to where I live. Spend first few years getting the piss taken out of my accent plus everyone sticks to the same friendship groups from primary. All my friends from primary become chavs or I lose contact. Rare occasions I do talk to anyone or get invited anywhere it's last minute and I'm stuck an hour and a half away. Stays this way for 8 years. Luckily made one close friend about 5 years ago and spent about 2 years practically living at her house. A lot more distant from her now though, she started dating and is consumed by that. Still go to a school there. Fucking sucks. Oh everyone was way richer in that area too. They had fucking ski trips with school and shit like that. The worst is you end up in the middle because the people in your area think you're a posh cunt but the people in the richer place think you're a peasant
It's my 18th today and my friends are wanting me to go out with them to club but I just don't want to. I can't imagine fitting into a party or being normal and I'd only make myself and them miserable by sitting in a corner.
Because i've never even been invited to any sort of parties, the only time I had a chance was when a friend who was cyborg-ish but accepted managed to get invited and told me to tag along, and I did. Next thing I knew, people were asking why the fuck I was there and the normie host told me to leave because I wasn't invited, then said my friend wasn't allowed to go to parties anymore as long as he hangs with me, so he ditched me. After that, I had no interest anymore.
I did. But that was the mid 2000s. Im now coming up 30 and the drugs and drink ruined me and now im a failure of a human working nightshift at maccas and in a failing relationship with a cunt woman. >tfw wish i stayed home paying vidya
>>25955389 Been treated pretty badly throughout my childhood by both parents and peers, and I regret trying to impress others when I was younger. Now I just workout, go to work, and study in hopes of being prepared at whatever life throws at me. Wish I could have spent my youth trying to better myself instead of being "that kid."
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