why did you waste your youth by not partying and getting

i'd rather smoke weed and play vidyo games by myself

because im not a supermodel

Because people didn't like me and I was not invited to party or get laid.

>>25955389
I partied every weekend but never got laid.

I should have went the way of this anon
>>25955414

because after constant rejection I realized people did not enjoy my company.

I could've, but I never went through with it

i lived in a small town where most girls are unattractive and don't put out. parties are shit too

I made up for it in early adulthood by traveling abroad and fucking a ton.

>>25955389
I did. But it gets old. You get sick of blowing cash and waking up feeling like shit every morning.

Plus I picked up a pretty bad cocaine habit at one point.

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>>25955389
Because I spent them lifting and running, and now while they're all off getting useless majors to help them along on their careers as cashiers, I am going into special operations in a few months.
>Inb4 "Yur bein used by the jooz!!!"
I jump out of planes and throw grenades at work. I dont give a damn who im being used by.

I didn't know how to make friends or seduce women.

I took a lot of drugs between 15-17 with friends but never got laid
was pretty fun though. I just remember the feeling of complete freedom

>>25955513

>le everyone who isn't me is doing it wrong maymay

Typical omega strawman.

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>>25955513
mhmm, you do realize you're on /r9k/ right?

>>25955566
I wish I could say the same senpai.

>>25955513
ofc you dont you mindless drone lmao

Because I've always thought of myself as a kind of defective person, and so the idea that someone else might want to be physically intimate with me really unsettling. None of my sexual fantasies involve me.

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>>25955592
Everybody who was out partying did it wrong, they took nothing seriously, and now they approach university undecided, with no passions or interests, hoping to breeze through.

If you have a passion for something you are good at, go to university for it.

And its only a strawman if you are arguing with somebody. I was making a statement, and arguing with nobody.


A strawman would be somebody saying "I like bears", and then me proceeding to hit the fact that they are defending the mauling of Siberian children for 30 minutes. That is a strawman.

>>25955660

No, a strawman is making claims like everyone did it wrong and has no idea what to do. You're inventing a false position and trying to act superior to it.

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>>25955389
I find absolutely no pleasure in being around other people

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>>25955660
congrats, most people here are shit and stopped trying when they realized there trying to beat the house with a shit hand

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>>25955700
definition of strawman:
"a sham argument set up to be defeated"
Note argument, not position.
And again, as I said before, I was simply referring to those who do not belong in university, attending and treating it like high school, but you did not address that. Whatever.

>>25955708
You only need to find something you like and pursue it. Dont let life lead you through the cave blindly, fight to make light and find your own way. I was given a shit had in the beginning, but I found something I could do, and I bit on and never let go, like a rabid dog clinging onto a homicidal mailman. You must do the same. Answer this:

1.What do you enjoy doing?
2.What do you do?
3.What are you good at?

The closer those three are to each other, the closer you are to winning.

>>25955389
Because I grew up in a stable household, and my parents didn't encourage such degenerate behavior.

No one wants to have sex with a 5'4 turbo manlet.

well i fap like 2-3 times a day every day so that's the same as having sex, if not better because afterall, who knows your own body better than yourself? nobody that's who.

also, parties aren't appealing to me, loud shitty pop music, drunken fucktards everywhere that you just want to punch or kick to death, why bother? i'd rather stay in and do the things i enjoy like playing video games or browsing the internet for funny memes.

i think i win

Because I have acne on my face and morphea on my stomach and leg

>>25955389
I pretty much did.
Got a qt gf when i was like 15 or 16 and fucked all the time. Had a few good friends who would get me invited to parties even though I was anti-social.

Miss those days senpai, you guys really really missed out if you didn't get to fuck a teenager (truth).

because i hate social interaction. i'm really not interested in humans.

>>25955389

all of the people that i know that did this either ended up
1. with child
2. with disease
3. as a felon
4. working at a dead-end job with no hope in sight
5. they're now an alcoholic or addicted to drugs

so basically they partied for a few years so they could spend 10-15 trying to pull themselves out of a deep, deep hole.

i used to hate having a girlfriend through my senior year, but it was nice emotional experience when i got to my freshman year of college and the real fun started.

don't fall for that high school myth kiddies. do well in school and spend your 20s partying. you have more money, more freedom, and if you studied hard in school and went to a good college/got a good job, you'll have far more ability to pull ass.

>>25956000
so what? almost every other teenager (that i know of) got laid frequently, only the ones who had gf's for over a year and the most alpha dude i know was fucking literal bimbos

its just a cultural thing, in my country woman don't get things rolling until 20

>>25955831
>find something you enjoy
>cant do it
>find something you can do
>good at....?

ill be real i can tie a knot with a belt and ill do it at my own convenience

>>25956069
didn't get laid*

>>25955389
Because I come from a poorfag family on a council estate and always had torn, unwashed clothes, so no one wanted to hang out with me.

>>25956069
>so what
Not trying to make a point, just sharing my experience my familiar. I know it is common.

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>>25955513
>be mindless idiot whos the literal WHO of expandables

>>i dont give a damn who im being used by
of course you don't retard, thats the point

>sister is a degenerate whore
>I'm a degenerate loser
thanks mom and dad

Fat with a small dick and no game who doesn't want to have sex with other fatties

>>25955389

I can't roll high enough to get past the charisma checks.

Because I was too busy with school and hobbies.

Later on though I did some amazing and depraved shit even normies would be impressed by.

>>25955389
in waste my youth in RO and WOW
i wish im just studying

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>>25955389
I really don't understand why people would like partying.

Because I was autistic and ugly

The responses on this thread really makes me believe that /r9k/ today is filled with people who failed becoming chads,tyrone and staceys.

>>25955389
Because I have an ugly face and women are repulsed by me as a result.

>>25955389
I don't want to. I want a calm, peaceful life and a nice relationship.

>>25955389

I did all of this, and I still felt nothing. A few standout moments, but mostly "meh." It gets sad when your friends start getting tired of it, and the number of people showing up to get wasted with you starts to dwindle. My friends and I used to throw some ragers. Now, it's the three of us smoking/drinking. Essentially three robots existing together.

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>>25958506
Yes, I am getting that impression as well.

On a scale of one-to-ten of being a normie, enjoying parties is easily at 7.

>tfw I'm too mentally ill for the new /r9k/ and too healthy for Wizchan

I was a bullied kid. Plus manlet and ugly.

>>25955389
i was socially alienated due to my undiagnosed ADHD-PI and unusual behavior

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>>25958558
>tfw I'm too mentally ill for the new /r9k/ and too healthy for Wizchan
what has this place become?

Because of reasons you don't understand.

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>>25958584
It has become a bunch of normies pretending to be us as a part of a cruel mockery of us.

>>25958573
>I was a bullied kid
This.

I also have problems with physical contact. In all honesty with how I am, I don't I could even maintain an erection due to sheer anxiety if I could manage to get into that situation in the first place.

I honestly hate myself.

>>25955389
There is more to life than partying and getting laid.

No, seriously, there is.

>>25956067
this guy got it. Study hard, earn a lot of dosh, get your own place, have fun. Livin' the dream.

>>25955831

Trying to claim that everyone (an imaginary enemy) who did 'x' is now undecided and aimless, etc, IS a fucking straw man. You are setting up a false scenario and knocking it down with your sanctimonious nonsense about being superior to your imaginary enemies.

Just because you want it to be a statement that's goes unchallenged doesn't make it any less of an argument, you goalpost shifting cunt

>>25955389
I'm not a total man-whoring fuck-boi.

>>25959248

And you're very obviously incredibly bitter about this

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never really had friends so it was impossible

Was a christcuck beta back in my teenage years.

Should have stayed a normalfag atheist/agnostic and worked out.

>>25955389
Lived like 2 hours from my schools.
All the way from elementary to high school.
All the kids lived near the school and hung out in their neighborhoods.
I had no one.
I'm socially retarded and ugly.
Very, very ugly.
I spent high school watching wayy too much TV and movies.
Watched like 10k episodes in 4 years.
I'm pathetic, ik

I just didn't. Next question, please?

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>>25955389
I'm mad I didn't spend my youth gitting gud at something.

Why is youth such an evil trick? You really do feel immortal and like you've got all the time in the world.

I did waste my youth, but it was by not learning enough skills, not reading enough books and just generally not training myself to actually focus and get things done. Now I'm near hopeless, but I'm still trying to beat it.

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>>25955389
Because I had endless videogames/movies.
Ever since I was 11 I could get myself anything I wanted (see above) thus never felt like I needed to communicate or whatever. But once in a while I'd go out like maybe twice a month.
Living the dream anon. Living the dream.

>>25959720
Same. Have live hour and a half away from school/whatever for 8 years now. Before that did ok socially I think. Too late now

>>25955513
>I dont give a damn who im being used by

Just like the pathetic drone you are. Yep.

>>25959909
Shit really fucks a kid up.
It was a "zoning" program to blend kids from upper and lower economic classes.
But it sucked, cus I couldn't connect with these kids.
Yeah, we'd play outside and learn the alphabet. But as we grew, their problems were stuff like "where do we go on vacation", " which sports team to we pick"
But at home, I was facing questions like "are we gonna be able to eat this month?", " will we have water?", "is it safe to play outside?".
I slept over and hung out with a few, but it was such a hassle coordinating rides and shit.
I lost all my " blackness " and have no friends now.

What was your situation like?

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Because both are empty pursuits that bring only momentary happiness and stinging regret and/or longing for the past when being a drunken whoremonger sated the roaring emptiness inside.
I'm not a sociopath so I can't justify pissing away my time with random whores and there's nobody in my life worth partying with since getting drunk with shallow, strange morons is plain unappealing.

>>25955513
Top goyim
Please die

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>>25959980
In the end he's literally a footsoldier for shit you can barely comprehend in any way past shitty /pol/ memes and you're a shitposter on /r9k/.
Who's the more worthwhile person?

>>25960000
>Who's the more worthwhile person?
Neither, really.

Worse, I partied and still didn't get laid a single time.

>>25955389
>why did you waste your youth by not partying and getting laid every weekend?

I actually did (didn't get laid every weekend though but something like three times a year for three years, which is not bad considering the autistic 5/10 I am)

Guess what, you get bored of throwing tons of cash for alcohol and weed, and fucking drunk 4/10 girls isn't as cool as it looks after some time. Either you manage to fuck the 10/10 ultra-hot Staceys (and I never could, not Chad enough for that) or you'll realize this shit is BORING after two years or so.

tl;dr It's ok to party hard n shit while you're in your teenage years but it's not as fun and exciting on the long run as those teen movies sell it and people who still do this shit during their mid/late 20s are nothing but children.

>>25959979
this, plus i dont enjoy company of other people and drunk can i get alone, and i dont even want every weekend get drunk.
if i got laid every weekend i had wasted my youth.

>>25959979
Can't tell if you're trying to fool someone or if this just makes you feel better.

>>25958537
>I did all of this, and I still felt nothing. It gets sad when your friends start getting tired of it, and the number of people showing up to get wasted with you starts to dwindle

Holy fuck are you me ?
>Tfw every party would turn into a small Project X back in the days
>Tfw nowadays everybody settles down with a boring autistic girl/boring beta guy and there's nobody left to have fun with
>Yet these fuckers still complain about life not being that much fun anymore and keep talking about the "good ol times" but they won't do anything to change that

>>25959979
the underlying mental issue that causes your social anxiety is not what reality is

i tried, but since i couldnt get laid (thats the whole point of it in my opinion) i spend my money fucking escorts now.

>>25955702
not smug

>>25959965
Sounds shitty.
I live in a shitty area where all the schools had something like a 20% pass rate. Parents wanted me to go to decent school so ended up going to one in next county which was totally different to where I live. Spend first few years getting the piss taken out of my accent plus everyone sticks to the same friendship groups from primary.
All my friends from primary become chavs or I lose contact.
Rare occasions I do talk to anyone or get invited anywhere it's last minute and I'm stuck an hour and a half away.
Stays this way for 8 years. Luckily made one close friend about 5 years ago and spent about 2 years practically living at her house. A lot more distant from her now though, she started dating and is consumed by that.
Still go to a school there.
Fucking sucks.
Oh everyone was way richer in that area too. They had fucking ski trips with school and shit like that.
The worst is you end up in the middle because the people in your area think you're a posh cunt but the people in the richer place think you're a peasant

>>25955389

Saw this movie 5 days ago, was utter shit.

Banggang, "a modern love story" about teenagers fucking around and ending up getting abortions & siphilys.

im doing it right now faggot, i just come here to laugh at you fucking losers every couple of days

>>25955389
Partying and getting laid had no appeal to me back then and it never will.
I'm glad I stayed out of that mess.

>>25955389
I wanted to be a good boy

It's my 18th today and my friends are wanting me to go out with them to club but I just don't want to. I can't imagine fitting into a party or being normal and I'd only make myself and them miserable by sitting in a corner.

Because literally everybody in my social circle was insanely shelterd and isolated.

Not complaining we are all having a great run.

>>25962446
For what purpose?
>>25961099
Prove it fag.

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>>25962618
Happy birthday, youre a man now!

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Because i've never even been invited to any sort of parties, the only time I had a chance was when a friend who was cyborg-ish but accepted managed to get invited and told me to tag along, and I did.
Next thing I knew, people were asking why the fuck I was there and the normie host told me to leave because I wasn't invited, then said my friend wasn't allowed to go to parties anymore as long as he hangs with me, so he ditched me. After that, I had no interest anymore.

I did. But that was the mid 2000s.
Im now coming up 30 and the drugs and drink ruined me and now im a failure of a human working nightshift at maccas and in a failing relationship with a cunt woman.
>tfw wish i stayed home paying vidya

i was busy getting high and taking painkillers
(and working on my home server :) )

I wasn't invited.

>>25955389
Because heindsite faggot

>>25955513
Good goyim. defend your master

Too busy going steady with a girl who tried to run my life and then ended up dumping me for Chad.

Fuck you, young me. Fuck you.

>>25955424
>but never got laid.
This. I got fed up in the end and stopped trying after several years of everyone else getting laid except me.

>>25955389
>Why did you waste your youth by not wasting your youth?

If you're ugly partying is all you're gonna do. Getting laid is for Chads and women. And if I'm just partying, I might as well get drunk cheaper on my own.

>>25955389
that looks like it smells bad

>>25955389
pic reeks of degenaeracy. I am pure of heart and soul, free from the bounds of carnal desire.

I legitimately thought that partying was something only hooligans did and the normal 95% of the population stayed at home with their parents. Or so they told me.

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>got invited to a party this evening
>probably not gonna go

I don't know that many people, I wasn't even invited at first I would just come along since I don't really know the host.

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>>25962892
That sounds fucking horrible.

>>25955389
Been treated pretty badly throughout my childhood by both parents and peers, and I regret trying to impress others when I was younger. Now I just workout, go to work, and study in hopes of being prepared at whatever life throws at me. Wish I could have spent my youth trying to better myself instead of being "that kid."

but im still in my youth and I'm a friendless depressed loser who spends all his time watching films